Bi rads 4 after 6 months, extremely worried

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Hirri
Hirri Member Posts: 16
edited October 2021 in Not Diagnosed But Worried

Hello, I am new here due to recent referral to oncologist after an ultrasound. I am 37 years old, 7 months ago had my ultrasound after a very long time and they found multiple cysts on my right breast, got Bi-rads 3 and was asked to come in after 6-12 months. After 6 months I came again and now they found some tiny cysts on other breast too, same multiple cysts on right breast but also a small not homogenous lump size of 0.6/0.8 cm with microcalcinations. next to all the cysts. My lymph node was also swollen (1.6 / 1 cm) but I just had flu shot to that arm 3 days ago and at first I thought it was because of that (I also had a bit of reaction to the flu shot a day before like slight flu like symptoms - sore throat and general muscle pain). I told radiologist that she seemed concerned and asked if I was sure it was the same arm, which I was. But anyway she gave me bi rads 4 and referral to oncologist. She saw that I got scared and said not to worry because if it was really bad she would have given different conclusion (I assume bi rads 5), but that did not make me feel better. For two days now I have been so worrying because I only have oncologist appointment in a week.

What do you think? Maybe she was extra cautious because of that swollen lymph node? But it could also be NOT from flu shot, does it mean that I might have cancer that is spread? Is it possible if 6 months ago I only had cysts? Maybe she missed it back then.. the size 0.6/0.8 cm seems quite small, but those microcalcinations :( I also thought they cannot be seen on ultrasound so if they are maybe it means they are really clustered? Please share your thoughts, I am so worried, I have never had any health scare before and am losing sleep due to this. Cannot eat, cannot work.. so frustrated. Thanks!!

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  • AMG2
    AMG2 Member Posts: 130
    edited October 2021

    First, hugs. What you are going through right now is one of the worst possible, most anxiety producing things to have to go through. You have my, and certainly everyone here's deep empathy.

    Mine was birads 5 from the get go. If it had been 4, I would have been just as worried, and possibly paradoxically have felt even more anxiety because with a 5, I was told basically what I was dealing with. There were still lots of unknowns, but one specific known. With a 4, it's highly suspicious and still everything is unknown. I personally find that even worse.

    It may well be the lymph node that is worrying your radiologist, and it may well just be the flu shot that it is reacting to. It does seem your radiologist is also being responsible in referring you to an oncologist and not making you wait another few months to see what is up with this lump and node.

    I wish I could say something to allay your fears. Nothing anyone could have said to me would have made me less fearful and anxious, though, except this: what you are looking at is small, and smaller usually is better.

    The only thing that helped my anxiety was getting a biopsy, meeting with a surgeon (I really hope you don't have to ever do this), meeting with an oncologists, reading everything I could (sometimes this made things worse, but mostly it made things clearer and better and more hopeful), and what I'm doing now: following a plan set up with my oncologist and surgeon, one that is backed up with lots of data as having been successful for thousands and thousands of women with my particular type of confirmed breast cancer.

    My advice: meet with that oncologist as soon as you can, and if he or she agrees with the radiologist, get the thing biopsied so you know what you're dealing with. If it were me, if I didn't know one way or another, I would just know there was a suspicious thing in my body, and that would give me more anxiety than not knowing.

    Hang in there, and come talk to us any time you need no matter the outcome, and no matter if you're still waiting to even know if something is wrong or not. We have all been there, and we all remember intimately how awful that feels.

    Editing to add: try to eat (yes, I know how hard that is). Your body needs sustenance, as do your mind and spirit. Keep in your mind, whatever it is is very small still, and even if it is cancer, is in all likelihood something that can be dealt with successfully over the long term.

  • Hirri
    Hirri Member Posts: 16
    edited October 2021

    Thank you so much for the post! it made me cry, of course it's not a bad thing :) I understand that it's the waiting that is making me so anxious but I am not so sure if I would be relieved to know the bad diagnosis as I am also afraid of treatment especially chemotherapy and ultimately dying in the end. I was afraid of dying even before all this, but now it just seems so real :( I was putting off the idea of dying recently because I thought I was still so young and I was enjoying my life so much but now I cannot do that anymore. I just hope that like you say if it was not there 6 months ago and it is still very small, it will not be advanced and that lymph node is just a coincidence from the flu shot.

  • AMG2
    AMG2 Member Posts: 130
    edited October 2021

    It really does put our own possible mortality right in our faces, and that is such a bad feeling.

    I hope this is the case for you: I got my biopsy, and 3 weeks later got an MRI to try to assess the rest of the breast and the other breast in more detail. At that point, 5 weeks later, the biopsy had apparently caused a lymph node to react. That lymph node had not shown as reactive on either of the ultrasounds I'd had. Of course my mind went immediately to the darkest place: it's hyperagressive and I shouldn't have waited so long to get surgery scheduled (six weeks post biopsy). It wasn't hyperaggressive and had not, in fact, spread to nodes! My sentinel node was totally clean upon removal and dissection. Yours really may well just be the flu shot. I wish you could meet with an oncologists tomorrow, and am sorry you have to wait.

    Chemo: I would say don't go there yet, but your mind is already there, so I'm going to tell you 1) I hope you never have to have it, and 2) I'm about to do week 9 of 12 weeks of taxol on Wed. The idea of chemo scared the hell out of me, but it turns out not to be so bad as I'd feared. I'm still most days able to work, shop, cook, clean, and actually have fun occasionally. No, it's not great. Yes I have really bad days. Yes, I hate it, but it really, most days, was worse in my head than in actuality, and from what I've read, it will likely save my life. And I still have my head hair thanks to cold capping, which if you have to have chemo, and that particular aspect feels unmanageable, there are ways of dealing with it.

  • Hirri
    Hirri Member Posts: 16
    edited October 2021

    Oh wow you had such a long time span to be worried before you actually started the treatment and I was thinking a week of wait is long!

    And thanks for sharing about chemo. I am actually mostly and almost only am scared of nausea and vomiting. But I hope that these days they can prescribe good antiemetic for that. From your signature I see that you had a small lump too and it's only stage 1A so I am quite shocked to learn that even in such cases chemo is required :(

  • Jlt814
    Jlt814 Member Posts: 23
    edited October 2021

    Hi Hirri,


    I'm sorry you find yourself here. I'm in a similar place, in that I was a BIRADS 3 in April and was then moved to BIRADS 4 at my 6 mo follow up a few weeks ago. My biopsy is Tuesday and I'm a nervous wreck. My situation is a little different in that My mammo and ultrasound were clear, however, I've had a few mildly thickened lymph nodes that have not changed or returned to normal size in 8 months. The "good" news is they haven't changed, but the bad news is that they're still there and have not returned to normal size, hence the biopsy.

    This is a scary time and in the three week wait for my appointment I've been all over the place from thinking its nothing to thinking I have an occult breast cancer or lymphoma. I just want to know at this point. :(


  • Hirri
    Hirri Member Posts: 16
    edited October 2021

    So sorry to hear that you are in the same situation, I really feel for you. Good luck on Tuesday and if you don't mind please share how it went. I am so scared to get biopsy too and I think I will have to.

  • Sunshine99
    Sunshine99 Member Posts: 1,680
    edited October 2021

    Hi hirri, I'm sorry for your scare. I wanted to share my experience, even though it was 13 years ago.

    First, I went to a "chemo class" where I basically met with a chemo nurse who told me how everything worked and gave me some printouts of possible side effects and how to best manage them. After that, she took me up to the "chemo suite" for a tour. I was prepared for the worst, but what I actually saw was nothing like my fears. People were sitting in recliner-like chairs, mostly reading, sleeping, chatting with other people, etc.

    No one was crying, moaning in pain and NO ONE was throwing up. I can't express what a comfort that was. When I actually had my chemo infusions, they pumped me full of an anti nausea drug called Aloxi. I have no idea if they still use it, but I never once threw up during my four months of chemo.. The worst I ever felt was around days 2 to 4 after my infusions. It was more of a general yucky feeling. Then I started perking up again. I went to the gym regularly during my treatment. Understand that this was all pre COVID, but my point is that chemo isn't like the "bad old days" when you were puking for weeks.

    I do hope you don't need chemo, but if you do, you'll find a wonderful group here to support and encourage you.

    All the best to you!

    Carol

  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited October 2021

    I'm sorry you're going through the "wait for what's next" phase. But what puzzles me is your radiologist referring you to an oncologist at a Birads 4. It's usually mammo -> ultrasound -> biopsy -> breast surgeon -> surgery -> oncologist -> chemo and/or radiation. IF the biopsy shows certain types or sizes of cancer, you'd see the oncologist for neo-adjuvant chemo. If the radiologist had been even somewhat sure of cancerous nodes, you'd be at Birads 5, not 4. I hope this all turns out to be just puffy nodes from the injection and your reaction to it.

  • BustedNotBroken
    BustedNotBroken Member Posts: 1
    edited October 2021

    I am newly diagnosed and had 2 enlarged lymph nodes show up in all of my imaging. I prepared for the worst and had my lumpectomy and sentinel node dissection last week. My breast surgeon took three enlarged nodes out and all three came back negative for cancer. The waiting was so hard, and it took tons of effort to remain hopeful until we got the final pathology, so I understand how nerve wracking it can be. My lesson learned is that enlarged nodes does not always equal cancer. Hugs and hope as you wait

  • AMG2
    AMG2 Member Posts: 130
    edited October 2021

    Hi Hirri,

    On the nausea, other than the first week and a couple of weeks in between, the nausea has been pretty tolerable. Today is actually one of the few days I've felt like I should probably take something for it, and I have indeed been prescribed 3 different antinausea meds, so am well equipped to handle it, and I think this is pretty standard.

    On having a small, very early stage tumor but needing chemo, it's the kind of cancer I have: her2+ breast cancers are notoriously aggressive and can start misbehaving very early, and while my lymph nodes are clean, final biopsy done upon tumor removal showed evidence of lymphovascular infiltration (it was already misbehaving), and I don't think LVI is taken into account when staging even though it is, from what I've read on Her2+ breast cancers, an independent indicator of risk of recurrence. Without chemo and herceptin, even at my stage, there is a good chance it returns. With chemo and herceptin, 95% chance it does not within 5 to 7 years. Herceptin (monoclonal antibody that blocks the Human Epidermal growth factor Receptor) is the main thing that has taken this particular form of breast cancer from very bad news no matter the stage to highly treatable when caught pretty early. I'm very glad not to have gotten this in the early 90s.

  • AMG2
    AMG2 Member Posts: 130
    edited October 2021

    Jlt814, hugs and best of luck to you, too. I really hope it turns out to be just some reactive lymph nodes. I'm so sorry for the fear and waiting you're dealing with, too.

  • Hirri
    Hirri Member Posts: 16
    edited October 2021

    Thanks everyone so much!

    AliceBastab, I think radiologist sends me to oncologist to see the results because she was not sure. She wrote in her conclusion: see oncologist or mammologist. She was just a regular ultrasound worker who works on full body ultrasounds. Maybe I should not even call her radiologist, I am not sure. This was just a regular check up as I am very serious about those, but I am only 37 so it's what they do here in my country. But when she saw that i panicked, she also said "dont jump to the worst scenarios just yet, if it was that bad my conclusion would be different from this". I now keep playing this in my head but I dont remember everything she said. I wish I asked her more..which of the symptoms seemed the worst - is it the small lump or microcalcinations or is it lymph node. But from what i read now microcalcinations always means bad just early stage...:(

  • Hirri
    Hirri Member Posts: 16
    edited October 2021

    Update from me. I went today to see a mammologist because the first diagnosis was from ultrasound worker who is not focused on breasts. So now I got a very long and detailed ultrasound but the outcome was the same. Instead no more swollen lymph nodes - so at least that was from flu shot and doctor said it's very often especially after covid shot but also after flu. but the tumor is still there, she now sends me to MRI which I can do only from day 6 of my cycle meaning only in 3 weeks :(( I have been waiting for 3 days only and I already lost a few pounds because it's so hard to eat. I was thinking to start taking some meds to cope or maybe start drinking alcohol (I dont drink almost at all for 3 years), but perhaps I'd better save this after I know the diagnosis and if it's bad. This doctor told me a couple of times words that go: I do not see anything to indicate that this is malignant but it's a new and solid and unknown structure tumor. She also said that microcalcinations were not of concern, she did not even mention them in the report. Something about them showing big on ultrasound which means benign or something. So to summarize I have multiple cysts and close to them one weird heterogenous small tumor without clear borders, without visible blood flow size 5.8 / 5.2 mm. Next to all these there are two more solid lumps with not sure what it means but it states hyperechogenic inserts (or intervals) 7mm/13mm and 4mm/9.7mm.

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