Is anyone else an atheist with BC besides me?

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  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited September 2021

    Big Catholic wedding tomorrow. Niece is getting married. The joining of a Polish and Italian family says it all.

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited September 2021

    PS. I'm more of agnostic. Hedging my bets I guess

  • moth
    moth Member Posts: 4,800
    edited September 2021

    KIDI919 - oh man, Catholic church weddings are killer on the knees. Up and down and up and down and kneel and stand and sit and kneel.... At least the time passes quickly because there's always some calisthenics to do . (disclosure I'm one of the Polish vaguely raised Catholic people. I had the communion dress! oh man, I loved the dress. And I loved the nun who taught us that year. She was such a lovely young nun. but by a couple years later I was like "wow, this is some bs" & quit & didn't do confirmation, much to my godfather's endless consternation).

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited September 2021

    Moth: LOL I sure will be getting my knee bends in today! We had all the of the above. our family had/has 4 girls and one brother. We did it all. My father use to take us and then sleep in the car while we were in church. There was a small store next to the church where you could get penny candy. Sometimes we could sneak by Dad and use a tiny bit of of our offering on a 1cent piece of candy. The owner always asked if we were spending our offering on candy. It was a damn penny! There's that guilt thing again! My mother never took us to mass or went herself ( altho she made us go) it was probably her break from 5 children. My SIL had 9 in her family, another Italian fam but Irish on her mom's side. I was taught by nuns and at 64 have never recovered. Weirdly one of the nicer nuns is a patient of mine, she said when you joined you had to choose teaching or nursing.

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited September 2021

    My best friend is a former nun. She describes the convent as pretty brutal and was abused there. She was a teacher and loved teaching the 'slow' kids. She had them reading Shakespeare. I think she still believes in God but wants nothing to do with the Catholic Church.

  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited September 2021

    [This is all pre-Covid] My son joined an Episcopal church about five years ago. It's a lovely, very inclusive place where he feels welcome. Hubby and I have gone to a few events and services there to support him, and I must say, I felt more welcome there than I ever did at Hubby's catholic church when we lived in his old neighborhood. I was surprised to run into my old boss from years ago there. I remembered he and his wife (who I later worked with at another job - this big city is VERY small-town!) were Presbyterian at the time, so I asked about the switch. He explained that their daughter, now out of town in graduate school, was a member, so they switched for her. He was telling me some of the good things about this church, but then he said "I'll tell ya, learning the choreography was a bitch!" That's the best description of the kneeling denominations I'd ever heard!

  • magiclight
    magiclight Member Posts: 8,690
    edited September 2021
  • Trishyla
    Trishyla Member Posts: 1,005
    edited September 2021

    Hee hee. Love that little tidbit, magiclight.
  • magiclight
    magiclight Member Posts: 8,690
    edited September 2021
  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited September 2021

    Pictured at equinox. What a wonderful combination of nature and brains.

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  • Trishyla
    Trishyla Member Posts: 1,005
    edited September 2021

    Beautiful. Thanks, Alice. I needed those to get my blood pressure out of the stratosphere.

    I have to rant. I just got a call from a Seventh Day Adventist. Urgggghhhh. This is the second one in less than two weeks. I don't think it's random. How the hell did they get my number?

    I unleashed on the caller. Told her I hated ALL mother effing religions, and they were the cause of so many of the problems in our world. Told her to take my name of her effing list and to never call me again.

    I reiterate. Urgggghhhh.

    Thanks. I feel better now. Have a nice day.😁

    Trish


  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited September 2021

    I don't think I've ever gotten a call from them. Around here it's the JW and LDS.

  • saltmarsh
    saltmarsh Member Posts: 227
    edited September 2021

    Wait, the Adventists are trying to get us by PHONE now? Weird. My friend's uncle is an Adventist televangelist, so I get that they are okay with sort-of-unconventional, but still.

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited September 2021

    See if your phone carrier has a call blocking app. ATT does, it’s free, and pretty effective.

  • Trishyla
    Trishyla Member Posts: 1,005
    edited September 2021

    I do that already with spam, Spookiesmom, but these are from personal cell phones, so no way of knowing in advance. At this point, I'm kind of okay with swearing them off my phone. You annoy me and invade my privacy, I'll tell you exactly how I feel about religion. I'm totally done with being nice to people who try to push their nutty views on others.

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited September 2021

    The call blocker I have from ATT, if you aren’t in my phone book, it won’t ring, and get blocked. I have a snarky message for voicemail, and that probably helps too

  • Trishyla
    Trishyla Member Posts: 1,005
    edited September 2021

    I wish I could, Spookiesmom, but I use my phone for my jewelry business. I get quite a few calls from potential customers. So I have to answer, no matter what.

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited September 2021

    Magiclight and AliceB: Fun postings. Thanks. My middle girl turned 35 today . I will have to remind her it's the fall equinox.

  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited September 2021

    The Adventists are proselytizing now? Don't we have enough plagues already?

  • magiclight
    magiclight Member Posts: 8,690
    edited September 2021

    Alice. Right - enough already!

  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited September 2021

    Whoopsie. Wrong god.

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  • magiclight
    magiclight Member Posts: 8,690
    edited September 2021
  • wrenn
    wrenn Member Posts: 2,707
    edited September 2021
  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited September 2021

    Good for the team. We'll see how badly he wants to play.

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited September 2021

    Did any of you know about or ever hear of Gwen Shamblin? HBOMax has a series coming out about her soon. I always find the stories of cult leaders interesting, okay maybe even fascinating. She, her husband and several other people died in a small plane crash this summer; that's when I learned about her. HBO began filming the docuseries before she was killed; after her death, they went back in and covered the tragic event as well. I will be watching when I get HBOMax! Here's their summary about it:

    "The Way Down: God, Greed and the Cult of Gwen Shamblin", a new five-part series, follows Shamblin Lara's rise to fame as an influential religious leader who convinced her followers that God had given her "the key to permanent weight control," which she reveals is "a matter of the heart."

    "After rising to fame with her Weigh Down Workshop, a Christian-based diet program that preached slenderness as next to godliness, Gwen Shamblin Lara founded the Tennessee-based church. Despite a carefully curated image, Lara and the church soon fielded accusations of emotional, psychological, and physical abuse, and exploitation for their alleged cult-like practices. Encompassing years of investigation and extensive interviews with former members and others personally impacted, The Way Down explores the legacy of Remnant's infamous leader — whose life came to a shocking end after a plane crash in May 2021."


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  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited September 2021

    "Despite a carefully curated image, Lara and the church soon fielded accusations of emotional, psychological, and physical abuse, and exploitation for their alleged cult-like practices."

    "Despite" my ass. It's exactly what church leaders do.

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited September 2021
  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited September 2021

    Thanks for the chuckle Wrenn. Oh the Twilight Zone!!!

    Hmmmm -maybe we should all carry an air horn in our vehicles for this eventuality.

  • Trishyla
    Trishyla Member Posts: 1,005
    edited September 2021

    Or maybe an old horn like the one in my great grandfather's ancient Chevy truck that went "aaaoooga". It would scare the crap out of us great grandkids riding in the back of the truck. I think he knew it and did it on purpose. He had a wicked sense of humor. Probably what helped him live to 102.

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