Breast dimpling and family history BC - Scared
Hi guys,
I just wanted to get some input from you guys regarding my situation.
A couple of weeks ago, I noticed some dimpling in my breasts. It is more pronounced on my right breast, especially when I have my arms above my head, or when I press my arms against my hips. The dimple is on the outer side, a little higher than where the bra underwire would go. I am also seeing some dimpling in around the same area on my left breast.
I went to my gyno and she felt around...she said she couldn't feel any lumps but she gave me a referral for a mammogram. I went and had it done, and now I'm going crazy waiting for the results. What doesn't help is that I have read online about situations in which the cancer was not seen on a mammogram, and the person dismissed their dimpling as nothing, when in fact, they did have cancer.
My mother is currently dealing with breast cancer, she was diagnosed at 55 years old, and it was already pretty advanced. It has been devastating, and it just hate the fact that she's dealing with all of this.
I'm only 35, but of course I knew that I had to start being more aware and practice my self-exams just in case. Then I ended up getting COVID back in March of 2020 and it was pretty bad. It affected every inch of my body, and honestly I still don't feel normal. I have been going to doctors appointments on the regular now, for all kinds of different things. My mental health has been affected and my health anxiety is through the roof now. This whole thing has me so anxious that I literally cannot function.
I'm not sure if this matters but I have lost a significant amount of weight since last year...more than 70 pounds. Half of it while I was really sick with COVID and half of it while dieting afterwards. I don't know if weight changes would cause this though...I don't think I had this dimpling before.
Has anyone here dealt with anything like this? I'm feeling so alone right now, and I don't want to burden my mother even more...I have nobody to talk to about this.
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amarilys,
Waiting is the worst, no doubt about it. Although it is not easy, remember that worrying won’t change anything. If you spend enough time reading on line you will read every type of possible “outcome” to tests and imaging. Some of those things will be common and some very rare but please don’t equate yourself with the experiences of others as room for individual variations is quite large! Yes, it is true that mammos don’t pick up everything. It is not a perfect diagnostic tool. Have you had genetic testing done? Surprisingly, the vast majority of bc diagnoses are not genetically related.
I know I can’t say much to alleviate your anxiety. Since almost everyone on this forum has bc we have all been in your shoes at some point we feel you. Distract yourself in any way you can and take care.
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If it looks the same on both sides, that sounds like it's just the way your breasts look when you are in those positions. As exbrnxgrl said, most cancers aren't genetically related, so try to remember that your mother's breasts are not your breasts. Seventy pounds is a lot of weight, but you're right, Covid and its aftermath, and then dieting, are both reasons why you weigh less now.Try to be supportive of your mother without jumping to unfounded conclusions about your own health. She needs you to focus on her right now, and you don't want to put her in the position of having to worry about your health again after you already had Covid, do you?
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I have no dealt with what you're describing. I've seen others post over the months who have - with various outcomes. I just want to send support! Hope you don't have to wait too long for results though I hear your anxiety either way..... Please let us know when you hear...
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I am in no way trying to scare you. And it sounds like it’s on both sides so that is a good sign.
My story is this. I noticed just lumpy bumpy breast tissue similar to fibrocystic breast changes. I went to get a mammogram and it was normal.
Had a little mor dimpling on right breast and it began to look smaller than the other. Pushed for a biopsy and it was Lobular cancer in the breast (which so happens to be the one that will not show on imaging)
If you have any doubt push for a biopsy. Mine grew for over a year because my mammogram missed it and I thought I was okay.
Again chances are yours is nothing. But you would rather know. I have regrets of not pushing harder. And my breast dr could not feel a lump either or even see anything on an ultrasound.
Praying and believing it’s nothing for you.
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Amarylias85;
Thank you for coming here. As you clearly stated, you are here so that you do not cause stress for your mother who is dealing with breast cancer.
You just went through Covid and you too are profoundly affected by your mother’s dx. So sorry you have had so much to face.
No one should tell you not to worry in order to protect others. You are here for exactly that reason. To protect your loved ones. We will support you and totally understand your fears. Breast cancer scares all women of all ages and no one here should decide whether or not you have the right to worry. You are worried and even though you have no concrete reason to worry yet, this needs to be a safe place to express anything you need to do that you can protect your mother.
You are a wonderful daughter. Thanks for trusting us to support you.
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Was your mother's diagnosis ILC (lobular) or IDC (ductal)? Was she pre- or postmenopausal?
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Bumping this thread so Amarylis will see it.
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Thank you so much everyone for your support and kind words. Reading your responses have helped me immensely.
I still have not gotten the mammogram results. The hospital that I go to has an internet portal, and I can actually see the mammogram images...but there is no report written yet.
I have been trying to keep busy and not let the anxiety get the best of me, but it's really really hard. Yesterday I pretty much woke up crying and the entire day seemed like just a blur.
I still haven't talked to my mom about it, and I don't think I ever will. I'm trying to sound and look like I'm okay whenever I see her. I just want her to be as happy as she can possibly be given her situation.
I sent my doctor a message through the hospital portal, hopefully she can see it soon and maybe she will call me as soon as she gets the results.
My health anxiety is really through the roof. I will definitely keep you guys updated no matter what happens. Thank you again
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Hi, I hope you are doing well and your results come back clear. I, too am experiencing this symptom but just in one breast. And I too have health anxiety, so I can relate.
But from what I understand, having this change in both your breasts is reassuring. And I also have read that gaining/losing a lot of weight can affect the Coopers ligament. And a damaged coopers ligament can cause dimpling and dents.
You're doing everything you can, talking to your doctor, being vigilant, and going to the tests. Rest assured, you're doing everything you can to ensure the best outcome possible, regardless of what it is that's causing your symptoms.
Sending love and luck your way
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Hi guys,
So sorry it took me so long to update, I was waiting until I got the results of an ultrasound that I also had done. Thank you so much for your kind words regarding my situation and my mom's situation. I am so grateful that I was able to read your wonderful messages and for this forum in general.
Both my mammogram and my ultrasound results came back clear. The only thing that was seen in the ultrasound were a couple of cysts which the doctor said were normal. She would like to repeat everything in about a year. I am very relived, but of course, sometimes my anxiety still gets the best of me, and I start thinking: "Maybe I should get an MRI just to be sure" or "I have read posts about women with the same issue, and the cancer was missed on both the mammogram and ultrasound". Health anxiety is the worst, and sometimes is hard to think logically.
I am glad that I found this forum and I was able to share it with my mom for support. I am planning on having her move in with me so that I can take care of her and continue to focus on her as much as possible. After my results came back clear, I shared my experience with her. Of course, she didn't like that I kept this from her, but she understood why I did it. My focus right now is just to make sure that she is okay at all times.
I will continue to be part of this forum, if you guys will have me, for her.
Thank you again for all your kind words.
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Amarylis, since you have health anxiety, maybe it is not a good idea to hang around this forum? I mean, it might do you more harm than good.
Was your mother's diagnosis ILC (lobular) or IDC (ductal)? Was she pre- or postmenopausal?
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I'm glad you received good news!
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I'm 23 I turn 24 in 3 weeks and I've been dealing with the same thing since 2021 so I first spotted a indent underneath and kind of on the side of my left breast in may of 2021 I got an breast exam everything looked good. Then weeks late I noticed a dimple above my left breast nipple I went again and got an breast exam doctor couldnt feel a lump said tissue feels normal sent me on my way. Then i decided to examine both breast and to my surprise I found a large indented line on my right breast that when I lift my hands over my head it flattens the side of my breast but no lumps just sharp pains in random placates of both breast. Me being a hypochondriac I went back shown a gynmy breast and she sent me for an ultrasound. Wanted a mammogram but since I'm so young they insisted a ultrasound would be best so I went and got breast scanned came back all clear normal breast tissue fast word a yr later same dents same sharp pains so I went and got seen by a breast specialist he wasn't so concerned and said because my breast are sagging and very heavy that my coppers ligament are cause the definite indents all over my breast. I wanted more answers being the health hypochondriac I am and got another ultrasound and came back clear again. I'm still worried and don't know what to do.
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essencedp ultrasounds are better than mammograms for young (often dense) breasts so I would trust the specialists you have seen. This site does not have enough traffic these days for you to come across someone with a similar issue so I don't think you will get answers about your continued concerns. This thread hasn't had any activity for over a year.
You could talk to your family physician about how much you worry to see if they can help with the anxiety. There is no one here officially qualified to give psychological help so I think the physicians in your life is the best option.
Wishing you well.
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thanks for the well wishes and the response. I just been having pain in both breast and dumpling in both breast but no lumps. And I have had 2 clear ultrasounds thus far im just worried because I’ve heard of lobular “c” being basically hidden in ultrasounds.
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