Hats & other head coverings for professional workplace settings?

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AnnSOptera
AnnSOptera Member Posts: 34

I'm 8 days into my 1st of my 4 TC cycles and expecting my hair to start falling out next week. I work in higher education as a grad school professor and administrator so I'm giving thought to what kinds of hats and headgear I might want to use for the workplace (which is mostly on zoom right now, but there are some in-person meetings and I expect those to increase as the summer goes on) for the summer and fall. Most of the women I know from professional connections who went through chemo used wigs for professional settings such as classrooms, courtrooms, presentations, etc., but I am not interested in using a wig.

I'm curious as to what others here have used for hats or other head coverings (other than wigs) for these kinds of professional workplaces. I'm thinking I should use something pretty minimalistic, avoiding anything with a brim (such as a ball cap) but perhaps something that's a step up from a beanie. So many scarves seem kind of "busy." I'm sure I'm overthinking this in my pre-shedding angst! :-)

Any advice or inspiration from those of you who have been through this would be greatly appreciated. Many thanks!

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  • moth
    moth Member Posts: 4,800
    edited May 2021

    I went bald. Is that an option for you?

    I wore wigs in a clinical setting because I didn't want pts asking me about my health & distracting me from their care but in non clinical setting, bald. Otherwise I'd suggest looking at wrapunzel. They have some low key scarves & techniques for using a plain pashmina to wrap. It's always going to look different than your previous look so people might blurt stuff out anyway. FWIW, my technique for that has been to take anything anyone says as a compliment. "omg what have you done with your hair? Are you sick? Did you do it for charity? Oh that's an interesting scarf? Is that a new look? Have you converted?" ''Oh thank you for the compliment!" smile, change subject.

  • AnnSOptera
    AnnSOptera Member Posts: 34
    edited May 2021

    Thanks so much, Moth. Your reply is really helpful. Bald is absolutely an option I'm considering in the mix, and it's what I expect to do outside of work. Like you, I'm reluctant to do be bald at work to avoid potential concern and distraction for my students. My situation is a bit complicated by the fact that I'm cold capping, but I still expect to lose most of my hair due to the TC regimen (the cold cap can at least help with regrowth esp after Taxotere), so depending on when/if I end up doing a buzz cut or shave, I'll likely have some sort of transition phase of patchy bald spots or extreme thinning while I figure out what to do with what's left on my head. Bald would/will be simpler and look better than that for sure. The uncertainty of how all of this is going to pan out is weighing on me. I'll check out Wrapunzel. Thanks for the tip and food for thought.

  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 4,924
    edited May 2021

    I had one cap that did not look at all like a chemo cap. It was like a 1920s style hat, not skin-tight. It was dark brown, low-key shiny corduroy texture, with a rosette and subtle pearl trim. I wore it with a dress to an event and got compliments on my hat, and I don't think those people suspected my reason for wearing it was anything but fashion.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2021

    My go to outside of wigs was and is classic cotton bandannas. They’re available in all colors with the classic paisley print and I also found some very interesting mandala patterns on black cotton on Amazon. Cotton is nice because it’s cool in the heat and doesn’t slip as much.

    Realizing that bandannas may not be what you need for professional attire, I’d also suggest looking at Etsy for hats. Plenty of unique items there!

    Good luck with your treatment

  • Mikeysmom925
    Mikeysmom925 Member Posts: 26
    edited June 2021

    AnnSOptera,

    I am about to have my 5th treatment of T/C and I am cold capping also. I still have an almost full head of hair, albeit much thinner, broken, gray, and with a few small but easily hidden bald spots. I scoured Etsy and found a seller named Ecoshag who has beautiful and soft head wraps... they are like a soft hug for your head... they are mostly solid colors and she has a beautiful range of colors to choose from. I have short hair so it was hard for me to figure out how to style them but with a little work, I was able to learn to wrap them in a way that looks professional and stylish... I teach high school so I, too, was nervous about how my students would react to a bald head... and I also needed to figure out a way to cover up my hair on days it was unwashed and unsightly (pretty much every day since I started shedding). These scarves have been the answer. I spent hundreds of dollars on scarves and caps and these are the only ones I actually wear. Plus they stay put which is huge because no one needs the added stress of their scarf/head wrap/hat falling off midday.

    Please let me know if there is anything else I could possibly help with.

    Wishing you the best of luck, great strength,and an easy journey ...

    Dawn

  • AnnSOptera
    AnnSOptera Member Posts: 34
    edited June 2021

    HI Mikeysmom925 - Thanks so much for sharing your experience and for that wonderful tip about Ecoshag. Their wraps look great! I'm really very much in the same spot as you, although I'm only 2 rounds in on TC (my second one was last week). I still have a decent amount of hair overall, but it is super thinned out and frizzy, and I've lost a lot on top and the back and sides. The bald spots are mostly concealed by my fluffy hair, and I've been wearing soft headbands which also help to cover up those spots and to manage the crazy hair a bit. But given that I still have so many weeks to go with treatment, I assume I'll lose quite a bit more (I'm not sure if there is will a "big shed" associates with each treatment cycle or if the shedding will just continue right through). So I will need something to cover either a bald or buzzed head or whatever sad-looking hair manages to hang on!

    Many thanks again for your help and the encouragement. I hope your next TC goes well for you.

  • DogMomRunner
    DogMomRunner Member Posts: 616
    edited June 2021

    I work in a skilled nursing facility. Going bald wasn't much of an option because I really didn't want what I was going through to be an issue for the residents. I agonized over getting a wig. There were absolutely none that looked remotely like my natural hair. I bought one though and wore it once. It gave me a headache. I switched to slouchy hats and wore them to work. I wore bandannas if I went outside otherwise.

    The wig is in the closet and I need to take it to Goodwill or donate it

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