Anyone happy they had their ovaries removed (RRSO)?

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Dottybird
Dottybird Member Posts: 31
edited November 2021 in High Risk for Breast Cancer

I am BRCA 2+, had the double mastectomy, chemo, am on tamox, and have been doing the CA-125 and ultrasounds to monitor my ovaries. The tamox is causing a thickened lining and doctor wants me to change to AIs and REALLY REALLY wants me to get my ovaries removed.

I have not heard any good things about it, especially under 45, so I thought I would ask.

Thanks and good luck on your journey!

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  • kathabus
    kathabus Member Posts: 205
    edited March 2021

    Hi-- I am probably a minority, but I got my ovaries removed and I would do it again. I sit here 8 months later and I feel great.

    This is definitely not everyone's experience. I had a hard time finding positive outcomes. I was terrified. I cried a lot. I thought my life was going to fall apart. Are things a little drier? Uh, yeah. But that's been it. In fact, I feel more even keeled. I sleep well. Are things going to be awful in 5 years? Maybe. I have no idea. But no one escapes menopause and I try to take it day by day.

    I have exercised 30 min everyday since September and that has been a great thing for me....and I wonder if that helps with everything.

    With an estrogen fed cancer, I think I mentally just wanted my estrogen making machines out. Especially being premenopausal. That's the way I looked at it. I also had a hysterectomy with it. It's been a new chapter, and I had good results with it!

    My MO wanted me to start with the shots before the oopherectomy. I didn't go that route, but that may be a good way to test the waters before you do the surgery....

  • Dottybird
    Dottybird Member Posts: 31
    edited March 2021

    Thank you for your response Kathabus and glad to hear things are going well for you! I think we tend to post about the bad stuff so I was hoping someone, somewhere in the galaxy 🙂, had a positive experience.

  • SimoneRC
    SimoneRC Member Posts: 419
    edited March 2021

    Hi Dottybird!

    I have a pathogenic mutation of my ATM gene. I was diagnosed with breast cancer at age 51. Before that, I had been on birth control, and then hormone replacement until my diagnosis. So, I never “experienced” menopause. After diagnosis, I stopped hormone replacement and began Aromatase Inhibitors, Arimidex.

    After just over a year on AI’s, I had total hysterectomy and BSO (uterus, cervix, ovaries, tubes). I am older than you, but I did not experience menopause, due to HRT, until my diagnosis at age 51. With the AI’s I had joint pain which is much relieved by taking Teva generic, or better yet Brand name Arimidex. I get some warm flashes. I initially had a harder time sleeping but that has gone away. I never gained weight. I exercise frequently and eat a healthy diet. I am in good shape and fit. I do have a bit of brain fog. Used to be superwoman and a fabulous multitasker. Now I have to be super organized and methodical. Since my hysterectomy and BSO, things have not changed much from being on AI’s. I often wonder if any aches, pains, fatigue are age related, just my body (had some arthritis and injuries prior), post Covid, AI’s, loss of ovaries... That said, I do everything I want to do. A personal lubricant will be your friend. But intimacy with my husband is still great.

    I agree with Kathabus. I feel pretty darn good and am happy to be rid of ovaries lingering estrogen and also happy to have less body parts cancer can target. My sister’s “prophylactic” surgery found uterinecancer. We share the same mutation. I feel the surgery was a good trade!

    I hope you come to a decision for yourself that you feel good about! Keep us posted.

  • 2019whatayear
    2019whatayear Member Posts: 767
    edited March 2021

    Im on the same page as Kathabus. I'm glad I had my ovaries and tubes out (BRCA2) I have been lucky in that b/4 when I had working ovaries I had lots of bloating and headaches and mood swings. I didn't realize they were so hormone related until I lost the estrogen. So everyone is different. I was 49. has BSO surgery right after radiation. was in chemoapause after 2nd A/C treatment. I exercise daily to help avoid any AI stiffness and do not miss estrogen at all (except for sex, def. need lots more lube)

  • Peppin
    Peppin Member Posts: 29
    edited March 2021

    I had breast cancer in my early 40s and removed my ovaries a few years after, some 5 years ago or so. I feel fine. Dry down there - yes. But other than that I feel absolutely fine. I don't miss my periods either. :) Well actually the chemo had already effected those. I had been terrified that I would suffer mental fog, but I am as sharp as ever and physically fit till now. I had a relative who had survived breast and died of ovarian. Was not going to sit and wait and let it happen to me. Off they went! Haven't looked back.

  • LaurainNY
    LaurainNY Member Posts: 4
    edited April 2021

    I am 55, had ovaries removed at around 42 years, shortly after testing showed BRCA2 gene. I was not planning any more child bearing but was very nervous about it all, felt like it was the beginning of "old age." I expected it would reduce the risk of breast cancer, but I was diagnosed with BC three years later, but at least have peace of mind of a low risk of ovarian cancer.

    The downsides are the loss of libido and serious dryness that greatly interferes with intimacy. That has been the most major change. But other than that, there have been no side effects in the past 13 or so years. I feel as energetic as I did 13 years ago, exercise regularly. It's hard to know if life changes are attributed to lack of estrogen or just to age - like a little loss of skin elasticity, being forgetful sometimes, a little weight gain.

  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited April 2021

    I did it around 54. I immediately had tsunami hot flashes. That was seven years ago. Still have them. I had a scary family history, ALH/ADH. Invasive was found in the preventive mx despite blue ribbon screening. I would not do the ooph again. My gynonc said the chances of ovarian cancer if one is Brca neg islike 2%. I was just so afraid back then. This mama needs her estrogen.

  • Harley07
    Harley07 Member Posts: 164
    edited April 2021

    When I was diagnosed with IDC last November, Genetic testing indicated a RAD51D mutation which increases my risk of ovarian cancer by 10-12% and is believed to be associated with increased breast cancer risk. I was kind of surprised, but given that my mom, her sister and their aunt all had BC, maybe I shouldn't have been. It seems much less is known about the RAD51D mutation than BRCA 1/2. The genetic counselor urged me to consider a prophylactic BSO. The NCCN guidelines suggest considering this at ~45-50 yrs of age. As I'm 63, I'm wondering if it's too late to consider - perhaps at my age, the actual risk reduction is low. Or perhaps a 10-12% risk isn't serious enough to warrant a major surgery.

    My DH Is opposed to a BSO because he knows I don't like doctors and am dissatisfied with how some aspects of my BC were handled. He believes additional surgery will lead to additional problems as I developed lymphedema after my lumpectomy and radiation and still have an unresolved seroma in my armpit on the cancer side. I hadn't given my ovaries much thought until recently when I completed surgery and radiation and started on anastrozole. Now I'm trying to decide if this warrants a consultation with a gynecologic oncologist or if at my age it really is not necessary. I'm a bit more freaked out by the ovarian cancer right now as a dear friend passed away from OC yesterday and we are heartbroken.

    Any thoughts, insights, links to info is appreciated.

  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited April 2021

    Harley - I would think at 63 the ooph would not be that impacting. Also there is some research out there regarding removing just the Fallopian tubes since it is thought most OC starts there. I think that is generally a recommendation for premenopausal woman as a stop gap before ooph. Surgery wise the ooph was nothing. I did it outpatient and I was back to my normal life the next day. Easy peasey. Might be worth it for peace of mind.

    A few years after the ooph I had post meno bleeding from tamoxifen use so I had a complete hyster. Now I don’t even see a gyn anymore. I also have my PCP follow me for the BC stuff, so now I only see one doctor once a year.

  • Harley07
    Harley07 Member Posts: 164
    edited April 2021

    @farmerlucy - thanks for the info on the ooph. It’s good to know it was an’ easy’ surgery. The purpose ofthe ooph is to reduce my risk of ovarian cancer for which I am high risk, more so than a BC recurrence

  • El_Tigre
    El_Tigre Member Posts: 520
    edited November 2021

    Hi

    I was wondering what recovery time would be for an Oomp? I have one scheduled very soon and was trying to get a better picture of the discomfort afterwards. I know everyone is different but this will be my first laproscopic surgery.

    thank you :)

  • CBK
    CBK Member Posts: 611
    edited November 2021

    My surgery was a piece of cake. I was out shopping the next day. I don’t recall that I even took any pain medication. Wishing you the same!

  • El_Tigre
    El_Tigre Member Posts: 520
    edited November 2021

    Thank you CBK!

  • LaughingGull
    LaughingGull Member Posts: 560
    edited November 2021

    i was also out shopping the next day which in retrospect was a bit much and after a couple of hours I felt dizzy. I would say if you get it done at the end of the week and you rest during the weekend, you will be normal the week after. But of course that depends on you and your circumstances eg how well you tolerate anesth

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2021

    The most uncomfortable bit is the pressure from the gas they use to inflate your stomach. It takes a few days for that to work its way out. I was out and walking the next day and was feeling pretty good by day 4. I can't imagine shopping the next day!

  • Cowboy-Up
    Cowboy-Up Member Posts: 211
    edited November 2021

    I just had my surgery on Thursday. Day 3, the only real issue is the air in my abdomen and that isn’t too bad. I had issues with Tamoxifen damaging my liver and had issues with high blood pressure from chemical menopause so I opted to have my ovaries removed.

  • CBK
    CBK Member Posts: 611
    edited November 2021

    El Tigre.

    The procedure is nothing but the after effects were profound for me losing all that estrogen. Do not fear the procedure if you have an experienced surgeon in this arena!

  • El_Tigre
    El_Tigre Member Posts: 520
    edited November 2021

    LaughingGull - Yes I get that dizzy feeling and woozy sensation after a procedure. I am still bouncing back from a previous surgery (Oct 30) so I planned it for next Monday (a work week, yes there might be some plotting there ;) ) I will definitely rest for the first 3-4 days. I hope to be mostly mobile and feeling better by the weekend.

    SondraF - This will be my first gas in belly surgery. I was wondering how uncomfortable the result would be and where the heck the gas finally goes. I assume walking and being mobile helps the gas be absorbed or works it's way out.

    Cowboy-Up - I am sorry to hear about the liver damage and high blood pressure. I am glad you had your ovaries out to save further damage on your liver. I hope your gas discomfort fades quickly!

    CBK - I feel I do have an experienced doc but this will be the first procedure with her. I feel comfortable in the hospital I am having it done at as well. I remember the lupron shots for ovary suppression (2015-2020). The lack of estrogen was very painful. I am not looking forward to that but my body got used to it before and hopefully again. Acupuncture worked for me in the past but I'll be trying other methods first. Bring on the tart cherry juice!

    Tigre

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