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My lift and reduction was surprising. He (this is the way I understand it) cut the skin around the nipple, then rotated the breast tissue with nipple a quarter turn, and trimmed the fat away to make it look natural, and reattached the nipple to the skin which covers the breast. Then sewed up the incision under the breast. The reduction is essential to the surgery, unfortunately. I asked, and he said that, in theory, I could still nurse a baby on that breast. I was 69 at the time, and, irrational as it may be, this was important to me.
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Thank you MCBaker! It does seem to be that they can't do a lift without reduction. Since I am a pretty big woman, my breasts balanced my body at least. I didn't have gigantic breasts 44C but they matched my body pretty well I had friends that were big too and they had implants and their breasts are just too small they think and they don't balance their bodies. So I would rather have just an implant and then my regular breast and use a prothesis in my implant side when I go out so it looks more symmetric. We will see after my exchange how different the two breasts will be.
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I can answer about exchange only. It depends on the amount of correction your PS is going to make and your general health. From my experience (bilateral exchange with some additional work) the first 2 days are not for working.
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I suspect the reason they are conservative with size on big women is that they are betting that they will lose weight, then their breasts would be the right size. I am not big, bit I am losing weight for other health reasons, and righty the imposter is bigger than true-blue lefty. If there ends up being an obvious difference, I think I might get an exchange for a smaller size. My goal is 150-- I am 5-7.
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I just got back from my doctor appointment to clear me for the exchange surgery. My doctor wasn't available so I saw her NP. All she kept talking about was bariatic surgery and I should get tested for sleep apnea. Neither which I complained about. She talked about everything that I just finished chemo. My heart rate was high and she didn't even know that could be caused by dehydration and diarrhea that I had this past week. I just finished chemo 1/8. 10 days.
So now I have to get cleared by a cardiologist before they will clear me. UGH I am so upset. I just want this expander out. Since it is 700 ccs of saline now it is pretty hard and uncomfortable. I hadn't had any trouble with mastectomy and expander surgery in September. My surgeons said I did terrific. I had appendix and gall bladder surgeries a few years back and no problems. Anyone have this problem with getting cleared for surgery?
Do you think the cardiologist will clear me? My heart rate was 104 talking to her with a mask on and I was upset. I told her that it is usually high for awhile after chemo since I get dehydrated and it goes back down before my next treatment. I am done with treatment now but it has been 10 days and I'm still dehydrated.
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I had to see the cardiologist who said my EKG was fine and just to be on the safe side he sent me for a stress test. He said my heart is fine. So now my exchange surgery is back on for Monday February 1.
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JulieSim,
Sorry I know your post is almost a month old but it seems there are less sub-pectorals around these parts these days!
I can do planks and other chest exercises just fine. It took a little while for it all to feel normal, but I am very active and honestly don’t even notice my implants are there anymore (I did notice more when I had my 410s just because of their fitness and more apparent “edge” for me). I can see a bit of distortion time to time doing chest exercises or working my chestbut that’s less apparent after my first round of fat grafting as if softened and fattened up over areas where distortion was, and I am going for another.
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Hi! I will be having my exchange surgery next month and will also get fat grafting at the same time. My PS will take fat from the love handle area of my stomach. What compression do you recommend I get? I know they will send me home with something from the hospital but the PS said I could get something else for after the first week. Also, can I wear the same front zip up sports bras I wore after my mastectomy or do you recommend getting something different?
Thanks!
Tracey -
My PS required no compression after day 3, but I felt better with some bike shorts or compression leggings. She said most of her patients did the same.
You will probably come home with a surgical bra, which will feel good for several days. Your PS should guide you on what to wear next.
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tracey - I have had fat grafting a number of times and I recommend a garment that is similar to a bodysuit, that does not compress the chest - which is not good for the newly grafted fat - and has a snap at the crotch. I will provide a link so you can see what I am talking about, but these are readily available from a number of sources. You may require another graft from another area in the future and it is good to have something that covers the entire mid-section so you can use it the next time if needed. My harvest sites were hips, lower back just inside the hips, and lower and upper abdomen. The snap crotch recommendation is because it hurts to roll the tight garment over the harvest site, much easier to be able to unsnap to go to the bathroom. I also have this type of garment with longer legs, like shorts, but I would have to be a circus contortionist to use the snap closure, lol! My PS never used my thighs as a harvest site, but that type of shorts type garments make sense if that is a choice.
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My exchange surgery and fat grafting (love handle area only) will be on March 26. My girlfriends want to plan a girls' weekend to celebrate me being done with this journey and my birthday. They are looking at a date 3 weeks after my surgery. Will I feel good enough then to want to get away for the weekend?
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I would suggest to ask your PS. They know your health conditions and your type of surgery.
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Hi all, I'm looking for some experience from members that have had reconstruction with unilateral mastectomy. I just had my exchange one week ago, 2/16/2021 with a lift and small implant placed in my remaining breast. Right now my lift/implant side is so much larger than my exchange side. I know some of this is just swollen tissue. I'm really, really hoping that the two sides will match in 3 months or so. I so don't want a revision surgery! I'm sure you can all relate.
Anyways, I would love to hear of positive experiences of asymmetrical breasts at one week actually evening out after a couple of months. Or, if nothing else, please tell me to step away from the mirror. Thanks!
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I had bilateral so can't advise about a uni. But I can advise you to step away from the mirror. Swelling and interior healing can take up to 3 months. Looks like your surgery was only one week ago. It's best not to even peek.
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Yes, thank you, MinusTwo! noted. I just had to have someone else tell me
I'm stepping away from the mirror and Dr. Google. thank you for responding.
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scs - looks like you will skip chemo or rads.. Best of luck. Do let us know.
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I have my exchange surgery on Tuesday and am wondering about recovery time. PS said I'll only need 3 days worth of pain medication. Just wondering about others experiences. I'm looking forward to getting the expander out.
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Nsbrown - compared to the mastectomy, exchange was a breeze. And oh yes - getting rid of that darn expander made the world wonderful. I was off pain meds by day 3 and drove my son to the airport.
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Hi! I just wanted to circle back and give a three week update, particularly for anyone that might be where I was mentally a couple of weeks ago. I had reached out when I was one week post-reconstruction surgery and was not happy with my results and, frankly, questioning my decisions for the reconstruction. I felt like I had made a terrible mistake.
What a difference two weeks make. I am much more at ease with my new breasts and can actually say that I like the way they look and they already feel like mine (like they are a part of my body). Two weeks ago I was feeling very disconnected from my breasts and that was rough!
MinusTwo - thank you for responding and confirming that I needed to step away from the mirror and take some time.
And to anyone who may be feeling discouraged/sad/depressed after exchange surgery, please give it some time. My experience is that it truly does get better. Hang in there.
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scs - GREAT news. And especially thanks for coming back to report. So many people just fade away and you never know the outcome. Thanks again.
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I’m over a week out from exchange surgery (SMX). I’m so glad I checked on others experience so I knew what to expect. I had one night where I took pain medication and have since been taking Tylenol for any discomfort. I was able to drive 3 days later with no issue. Although I still have some limited arm movement and PS said not to bend over, I’m able to do some light laundry and cooking (with help). I’ve been out walking now that the weather in our area is nice. I see PS next Monday. So far, my breasts loo pretty even in a bra, but expect once swelling goes down I’ll need a small prosthetic.
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I’ve been following y’all and I am soglad for your results thus far! Sounds like “Don’t look” is the way to go! If I show my age, “Don’t look, Ethyl!” Is in order....anyone get that?
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Yup Lucy
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I have a call into my PS, but thought I’d ask here. I’m about 3 weeks out from exchange surgery. I noticed I have some indentations and a couple of small bumps on my implant. No infection or warm feeling. Is this normal for implant after mastectomy?
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You are going to get fills on the implant, more water put in, right? The indentations are because it is not filled to capacity. I had some bumps around the outer edge of the implant, maybe attachment points.
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Hi McBaker - I'm not getting any fills into the implant. I did speak to my PS nurse. She said with mastectomy, there's little tissue remaining. It's not uncommon to get indents and bumps. Implant is soft.Plus I'm still healing from the surgery.
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You look AMAZING!
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I'm 8 weeks post double mastectomy and reconstruction and quite keen to get the tissue expander/implant swap done ASAP. A fantastic job opportunity has just come up interstate and there's not even any real point in me applying because I'll need to get this darn surgery done. I'm so frustrated by that.
Initially the doctor said six months before I could have the swap - so assuming he meant from the date of the mastectomy, that's another 4 months to wait. Has anyone had the swap done in less than 6 months time?
I'm scheduled to see the surgeons for a review this coming Friday where we talk about plans going forward. I've just seen the nurses for the last several appointments, and on the most recent one I asked if we could leave the next saline injection for now because I felt I was the right size. So I'm nervous about the uncertainty of what the plastic surgeons might say, and whether I'll have to have the final saline implant which means being in pain and uncomfortable for several days afterwards. Hopefully I don't have to do that again. If anything I'd like to be smaller in size than I am currently, and as I understand it when they swap the implants in that's what usually happens. Anyway, mostly just venting here because I've got no one to talk to about all this and it's a relief that we have the internet. -
When I had the exchange, he replaced the implant, made an incision under the left breast, and around the nipple, twisted the breast tissue of that one about a quarter turn, stitched up the two incisions, took some fat off my hips, softened it up, and injected it into those hollows, particularly where the breast tissue had extended towards under my right arm. Then called it done. The details of the lift procedure are extra information, but lefty never gave me or my babies any problems. Righty was a problem even when I was an adolescent.
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Oxbury - nope, sorry. 7 months for me.
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