Two biopsies and frustrated

I’m 63 and had my annual tomosynthesis screening mammogram on 8/27. Previously had stereotactic biopsy on left breast in 1999 - results were benign. Mother and maternal aunt both had BC.

Received a callback due to a spiculated mass in right breast (<1cm) and had a diagnostic mammogram and ultrasound on 9/25. BIRADS 4 and recommended a biopsy. Radiologist said it is high likelihood of cancer, but not life threatening.

Had the US guided core needle biopsy (different radiologist) on 9/30. Unfortunately, the 4 specimens were too sparse and the few ductules present were compressed and compromised. The pathology report indicated only fatty tissue and recommended a stereotactic biopsy which was done on 10/7. During the VAD stereo biopsy (yet another radiologist) the marker from the first biopsy was accidentally removed. They took 6 samples. Pathology report said high risk benign lesion with minute focus of ADH and atypical vascular proliferation associated with hemorrhage. High risk results are concordant with imaging. Recommend surgical consult. Also noted biopsy marker is 2cm medial to the spiculated finding on CC view. RF tag should be placed accordingly. What does this mean?

All imaging and biopsies were done at the same highly regarded breast center.

I have an appointment with breast surgeon in 3 days, but am frustrated at the inconclusiveness of the biopsies and wonder if this is even a serious or concerning issue? Perhaps I should just wait for my annual screening next year and see if there are any changes?

Thanks in advance for your thoughts.