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Jean, that is great news. Praise God for the blessing.
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Chris, thank you for your prayers for my Mom and for me. I am praying that Bria will get back on CA time very soon. I imagine the excitement of kindergarten online will be off the charts initially. Praying for you as you need clarity of mind as you help her and stamina trying to keep up with her energy. Praying for your Pet scan on Wed too.
Jean, so great that Valentina is going to get free kindergarten at the same district your daughter is teaching. God is good.
Have a great day dear sisters. Today I am basically going on fumes but I am pushing on as grocery shopping, some laundry and a trip to Home Depot is on my things to do today.
Love,
Nancy
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Isaiah 40:28-31New International Version
28 Do you not know?
Have you not heard?
The Lord is the everlasting God,
the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary,
and his understanding no one can fathom.
29 He gives strength to the weary
and increases the power of the weak.
30 Even youths grow tired and weary,
and young men stumble and fall;
31 but those who hope in the Lord
will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint. -
Nancy, that is one of our "go to" verses isn't it. I was so tired when I woke up this morning that this one came to my mind too...and I made it through the day. Sometimes we go "from strength to strength" as the scripture says. You're a brave woman to wrestle a sprinkler in the dark! I pray your mom's test will go perfectly and that she will be calm and cooperative. May the Lord heal her knee is super fast time too.
Jean - so happy for your good news! The Lord does work things out in amazing ways! And we all need these times of encouragement seeing Him come through too.
Chris, praying for your scan Wednesday, that the Lord will grant you His peace and good results. Thank you for your prayers for us (even Maggie!) too! And you will do just fine with all the "technology stuff".
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Lord bless and keep you always,
Ade
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Dear sisters,
I am thanking the Lord today. My Mom was able to get through her MRI. They let my sister be in the room with her. She did move her legs but the tech told my sister that they got the images they needed anyway. My sister texted today saying that it is only a stress fracture and she is supposed to see the specialist in three weeks to see how it is healing. I cannot tell you how relieved and thankful I am. Thank you so much for your prayers for her and my sister and I. Then the icing on the cake was my sunset with the hot air balloon pic made the newspaper today. And................it is raining today and we are getting much needed rain. I am so grateful for answered prayers.
Chris, praying for you for your scan tomorrow. How are you both doing with the e learning so far?
Love,
Nancy
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Nancy, God is raining down blessings upon you today. Praise His name! Thankful for all the answers to prayers.
I am finding Bria's e-kindergarten more challenging than I expected. Some of it is frustrating, but it will pass, and she is so advanced it doesn't really matter. So much time is spent on learning how to mute, etc. I know routines are important, I taught elementary school for awhile, but trying to manage behavior from afar all the while parents are watching must be so difficult. It is a lot of watching youtube-type videos from slides. Even reading a book to the class is tough as it is so small. I am waiting for the day she can safely go to school face-to-face. She needs it.
Yes, I am trying not to worry about my scan tomorrow. I am feeling pain in my liver praying it is the tumors dying. We shall see...
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Hi,
My name is Marit and I'm 53. I have 5 kids, and a pretty darn good but not soulmate husband. We've been together for 28 years and get along great so I'm not complaining, but I see all the perky posts and I just thought I would put that out there in case someone felt like they couldn't relate.
I don't work right now and I've had health problems for years. I have one grandchild. My two oldest children just moved to states across the country with their spouses - and took my grandson away. That happened a week after my mastectomy after 6 months of living in our home. He is 16 months old and other than God, he is my joy.
Gardening and being outdoors lift my spirits as does music and art. I practice "mindfulness" and deal with all of our family issues with the strength and tools I find in mindfulness. My prayers are more focused. I can ponder what God teaches me better than I ever could before. I get less caught up in the details. I can't recommend it enough. There are many apps and I started with 10 percent and then switched to Breethe. It took a few weeks to feel like I knew what I was doing and it wasn't so awkward, but now I do it every day and recommend it to everyone.
I have had a tough year with more than just my health and my kids moving. And I developed pretty severe anxiety. I don't recommend it. My family has had many struggles including two who are pulling away from God - which makes me more sad than the cancer- but I know we each have our separate path and He will lead us along.
I know God has a sense of humor and that He is so tender with me. I'm so grateful to know that Jesus suffered every ache, pain, sin and challenge I will ever suffer long before I do so He can comfort me with a complete understanding of who I am in the moment. It's the anchor that makes the cancer just a thing. He's not giving up on me now. The cost He paid was too great. His primary purpose is to now bring us to Him. He broke the bands of death for all and now He wants to save us from sin. SO grateful for that testimony and foundation in my life.
I don't ask why me. I just say, okay, what now? Works for me.
Recovering from my TE and not eagerly awaiting my first fill. But it is what it is and I'll make the best of it.
Thanks for stopping by.
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Chris, I am praying for good news on your scan, and God's blessing as you teach the little one.
Nancy, TWO good "newses"! Congrats on another photo publication and PRAISE THE LORD for your sister getting to be with your mom and her scan being over, and good news! Prayers answered! If you have some extra rain, do send it our way!
Merit, WELCOME! Thank you for sharing your story with us. It sounds like you have a strong faith and good outlook on things. I hope you can facetime with your little guy frequently as we do our Ohio grands and great grands...it helps! We will all add you to our prayers for sure. Please feel free to share here anytime...and pray for us as well. These sisters don't ever judge, they simply lift one another's burdens to the Lord in love. We surely need each other...especially now!
Having company for dinner tonight. We get together with our neighbors every Wednesday night for dinner and fellowship (eat here, then eat out, then there, then eat out) and on Sundays ride together to a Bible study on prophecy and come back here for tea and I make a little dessert. Since we aren't doing much else anymore (watching church Sundays online) we look forward to meeting with this couple. The Lord is so good to let us still have in person fellowship.
Blessings on your day, dear sisters!
Ade
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Marit, welcome to this site although I am sorry you have to be here. I will add you to my prayer list that God will provide strength and peace while you navigate through this journey with additional family cares. I agree with you that my relationship with God has strengthened in ways I would never have imagined before mbc.
Ade, you are fortunate to have great friends so close. God is good!
I appreciate all your prayers as I await my scan appointment. I have peace that God will be with me. Here is just a little picture of last night's sunset taken by a neighbor reminding me of the beauty of God's creation even in the midst of our concerns. This was taken down the street from us. Chris
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Thank you Ade for your prayers and your congrats. Your friends and fellowship sound wonderful. I am so glad you can still do those things in this pandemic. That is such a blessing.
I am so grateful for my Mom's news. She does have another challenge. My sister could not find one of my Mom's hearing aides yesterday. She looked every where and couldn't find it. She can hear nothing with only one. The nurse told my sister that she found both of my Mom's hearing aids in the garbage container one day. So...............................here we go down this path. I will be back down after next week.
Chris, praying for you today for peace and good results. I know this must be a very hard one since it is your first after being on your new treatment. I hope they don't leave you hanging for a long time before you hear anything. Such a gorgeous picture and knowing that is right there where you live. What a blessing.
My heart is very heavy today. An elderly friend that I have become friends with from all my trips with my camera to the butterfly house called today. She was a volunteer there and they put a commemorative plaque on a bench with her name on it for all the many hours of volunteer work she has done. I was right in the middle of something and couldn't answer right away. When I heard her message she said my husband died on Friday night. She will be 92. I just got off the phone with her. You would never know that she just lost her husband of many, many years. She is the tower of strength and an amazing women. Her name is Lois and I would appreciate your prayers for her that she be surrounded by loved ones and friends during this difficult time. She is a people person for sure and I know this is going to be very difficult for her. We had to hang up quickly as a family member was on the other line so I didn't get to ask her many things but I will be in touch I am sure.
Have a good day dear sisters.
Love,
Nancy
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Hi all, just a quick note to say my PET/CT (taken Wednesday) looks good. The wording is... 'No definite foci of skeletal or hepatic metastatic disease are noted on the current study." Super happy that Xeloda (me new med) is working so quickly. I am in the middle of my third cycle. Sigh... Haven't spoken with my onc yet, but she always lets me know ASAP the results. I don't have portal access to PETs until we speak.
Thank you for your prayers and support!
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Hello ladies, it's been awhile since I've been here. Was initially diagnosed in October 2015 with bc and had a lumpectomy, brachytherapy and chemo. I finished chemo in April 2016 and my husband, who had been diagnosed with terminal cancer 6 weeks before me, passed away in July 2016.
Here I am with a recurring breast cancer in the same breast. Had my mammo, sono, biopsy and then a MRI last Saturday. The MRI showed 2 surprises, one more nodule in the nipple area of the same left breast and a suspicious mammary lymph node under my sternum. I'm fighting with the insurance company right now, they denied my petscan yesterday. Surgery for bilateral mastectomy is scheduled for 9/25 but the petscan when it finally happens may change up my treatment plan. I'm certain chemo is in my future but pathology and the petscan will make that definitive.
Going through this as a widow and no distractions of trying to care of my husband is a whole new ball game. The waiting is so difficult.
I go to a mega church here in the Dallas area and our music minister wrote and posted this song. I hope it speaks to you as it does me. Right to the gut! Hugs to you all.
https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=3133681220081617
Gail
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Chris, this one is for you. So happy with this news.
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Hi Gail,
Let me first say I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. Now you are dealing with recurrence and fighting with the insurance company. Needless to say you have a ton on your plate right now. I listened to that song. It was so poignant and beautiful. This is not forever, You are, is such a powerful lyric and truth. That song really sums it all up. We are not promised a pain and suffering free life but we have Jesus to go through it with us. He WILL heal us whether it be now or later. However going through this without your husband I am sure is very difficult. Do you have family or friends or both who can come along side you in this difficult time. I am glad you reached out. I am glad your church is reaching out to you now too. You have a talented music minister and one who has reached out to you. That is a wonderful thing. This little online community on this thread is a great group of believers and prayer warriors. Please keep us informed as to how you are doing and certainly feel free to ask for prayers leading up to your surgery on the 25th. I will pray that your insurance will pay for your Pet scan and let you know asap so you have one less thing to be concerned with as if you didn't already have enough already! Hang in there. You will get through this.
Love,
Nancy
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Gail, thank you for that song. I love the line "one way or another giants will fall." We can say this with great assurance because of who God is. I am sorry you have to go through this without the support of your husband and I will be praying God moves the giants of insurance and puts peace and blessing in its place. Chris
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What a friend we have in Jesus. When you think of it that is pretty amazing.
Have a safe holiday weekend.
Love,
Nancy
John 15:13-15New International Version
13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command. 15 I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.
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I'd like to share two sunsets taken from the same location but the first one was from last Sunday night. I won honorable mention and was listed second to the winner which was a very cool shot of a praying mantis. The second one I took tonight. Even though it is the same location there is a completely different feel to this one.
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Congratulations, Nancy! Those are beautiful images. The colors put me in the mood for fall, my favorite season.
I still have no official word from HR about my waiver to work from home. BUT, one of my supervisors announced in a staff meeting that three people had been approved. He proceeded to name each person and said, "they are approved due to medical reasons." I mentioned this statement to my doctor who nearly blew a gasket. She sputtered, "that is a HIPPA violation." Anyway, we three are working remotely. Thank you everyone for your prayers!
Wishing one and all a safe and relaxing Labor Day.
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Thank you Hershey. I am SOOOOOOOO glad that you have been approved for working remotely. Have you already started doing that? Not great on the HIPPA violation though. I can't believe that fall is here already. I love summer but this summer has been so unbearably hot and humid (for me) I am welcoming the cooler temps of fall. Yes, the colors of fall are gorgeous so hopefully those of us who have the four seasons will be able to enjoy that and I imagine I will have many photo ops with that too.
I will be visiting my Mom soon. I have to have blood work done for my alt doctor which means I have to go to a lab that processes Covid 19 tests. I am more than concerned but I won't go into the whole fiasco on that issue. Let's say I am between a rock and a hard place. I have a thyroid ultrasound at 8 at night of all times in a few days and then a dentist apt. Then I will plan my visit with my Mom. My sister has been allowed to assist with my Mom's showers and hopefully they will let me do the same to help alleviate this for my sister.
Have a nice holiday today everyone.
Love,
Nancy
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Jeremiah 31:25New International Version
25 I will refresh the weary and satisfy the faint."
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Thought I would share the message from "Our Daily Bread" today by Susie Larson:
Daily Blessing
How do you create an atmosphere for growth and healing? You remember that God is on the throne. You make God's peace a high priority in your life. You learn to celebrate even the smallest of victories and enjoy even the smallest of blessings. You sing, dance, belly laugh, and worship with your whole heart. You immerse yourself in God's Word. You refuse fear and choose faith instead. You love in a way that changes you. This weekend, may you have the presence of mind to cherish every second with the ones you love. May you make time for fun, for rest, and for reflection. May you plan time in your schedule not to have plans, and see what happens. May you come to know--on a whole new level--that much more rests on God shoulders than on yours. And may you learn to enjoy the journey because His yoke is easy and His burden is light. Jesus loves you with an everlasting love. Enjoy your weekend.
Colossians 3:15 (NLT) ~ And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful.
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Gail, what a wonderful song, which will minister to so many here. Thank you for sharing it. We pray the Lord gives you peace to just take one day at a time and know God's strength, leading, comfort and provision in this hard time. I am so thankful you have Him to lean on. Can't imagine going through these trials without Him, can you? You are in our prayers.
Chris, what great news! That must be such a relief to hear your new meds are working (through God's mighty hand). Your views there are amazing - what a sunset!
Hershey, so you WILL get to work from home now? I surely pray that is the case.
Nancy, I love your pics and banners and words of miistry to all. You are such a blessing. I pray your tests come with good results, that your mom's hearing aids are found and a way to keep them safe when not in, and that the Lord will bless your visit with your mom (so thankful you get to see her now!).
We spent 2 days in Midland for doctor visits for James. Our son had so many hotel points that he let us stay at a Hilton overnight free rather than have so many hours of car travel in one day. The VA is fitting James with new hearing aids since sadly, his hearing has diminished even more, so we are thankful for that provision. We get them in 3 weeks. We are FINALLY getting some rain and even COOL weather, at least for a few days. How thankful we are for that blessing!
Lord bless and keep you all,
Ade
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Ade, yes! I am working from home for the foreseeable future. I am so thankful. My company's office is located in a community with increasing numbers of COVID cases. One business less than a mile away from my office has been declared an outbreak center, so everyone there is quarantined for two weeks. I'm very, very grateful to be at home.
Wishing you all a safe and relaxing weekend.
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Nancy,
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Hi dear sisters,
I need to make this short and will write later. It has been a busy time of procedures and appointments. My Mom had to be taken by ambulance again to the hospital and she fell again on Thursday on her same side with her knee that has a hairline fracture. Her leg swelled all up. I think she is okay but the ER told her that the last time she fell recently when she wasn't okay. I am getting things in place to leave on Monday to go down.
Teka, thank you for the 9-11 banner. I usually post one and I just had too much going on. Thank you for reaching out today with that very nice banner.
Chris, thank you for that devotional. I really needed that then and now.
Ade, I was glad to hear from you. I hope the apts went well.
Hershey, glad you are NOW working from home after this long wait period.
Of all times, Cammie has gone to her litter box multiple times in a short period of time. This is not a good sign and certainly a bad time to be taking her downstate with me.
Have a good week dear sisters.
Love,
Nancy
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Nancy, I am sorry that when it rains, it pours. I pray this new pile of concerns won't overwhelm you and that you can commit your cares to the One Who cares for you. I pray your mother's knee (leg) will be ok and heal quickly and that they will safeguard her against future falls (whether walker, call button or whatever!), that the Lord will heal Cammie quickly without a vet visit, that He will BLESS your upcoming trip and grant you the peace and all freedom from anxiety that you really need right now. May He quiet your fears and grant you a big measure of faith.
Sending hugs,
Ade
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Thank you Ade. On a positive note Cammie seems to be okay for now. I use pheromone plug ins to relax her and when one of them runs out she is the one that tips me off as she gets very unsettled. That happened today and after I put in a new plug in she calmed down. However tonight she is not downstairs with me but is sleeping upstairs so I guess we'll see.
My Mom uses a walker and has one of those life alert pendants. She has not used her pendant the two times she has fallen. Her mind is compromised at this point I am praying for wisdom in how to move forward. I really want her to be able to stay in this facility but it is not a memory care facility and from day 1 they told us that as long as she is not a danger to anyone or herself she could stay there till the end of her life. That was a different director who had to resign due to her own health problems. There is a new nurse there as well so a whole different administration.
Did you come away with any solutions for James at your doctor visits. How did Maggie do being boarded? I am glad you got to stay at a Hilton free of charge. That is a blessing for sure.
I will try to stay in touch as much as I can while downstate. I am leaving on Monday and will be returning the following Tuesday of the next week.
Have a good coming week everyone.
Love,
Nancy
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Nancy, sending prayers for a safe trip and that you and your sister will be able to figure out the best course of action for your mom. Also praying Cammie will comply and be good for you.
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