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  • IntoLight
    IntoLight Member Posts: 1,701
    edited August 2020

    Nancy, I totally understand your reluctance to sell your beautiful cards. It is the reason I crochet only for family or gifts. I have had several people who want to buy my amigurumi dolls but I refuse to start that. For one thing, they would not be willing to pay me enough for the ten plus hours it takes to make one not counting the materials and time to purchase and sort and store all the materials. And I refuse to add anything stressful to my life if I can avoid it. I am glad you are walking--I need to do more of that. But I did do dishes tonight since my daughter is in the midst of studying for finals. This is difficult for me as bending over to do dishes causes a lot of back pain. She would have done them tomorrow after her two finals but I don't like dishes to remain in the sink overnight. My thing...

    Ade, I will add a rain prayer for you. The fires are just now starting up in California and I know Texas is in a bad way this year. We have to use more water to keep things more sanitary to avoid the Covid, but they are beginning to talk about limiting water usage because of drought. I don't know how we can do both! My dishwasher is on sanitizer cycle as I write this.

    Tomorrow is another day to thank God for the toilet paper!

    Chris



  • HersheyKiss
    HersheyKiss Member Posts: 550
    edited August 2020

    I've made necklaces, earrings and bracelets for myself and friends over the years. Now that I'm at home more, I don't wear much jewelry and have entertained the thought of selling on Etsy. Everything's already made, so there isn't any time involved to create the pieces. Then again, it's stressful just thinking about establishing an LLC, registering with the State, creating a website, etc. I have enough on my plate, including still not hearing anything official from my HR Department. Ugh.

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited August 2020

    Chris, I bet your dolls are beautiful. I know you are dealing with a lot more than you share here but know that you are in our prayers continually as you go through this tough time. My walking has been good but I have had some terrible insomnia lately and I am trying to figure if my walking in the evening is part of that problem. Nothing is easy is it? Has your granddaughter's e learning started yet? Praying for you in that as well.

    Hershey, I hear you on all of those points regarding selling. We have quite a group of talented people here making jewelry, selling jewelry and making dolls. Maybe we should pool our resources and have our on community shop!!!! Just kidding. Continued prayers for a positive review from your HR and hopefully soon.

    Remember that some of the things we deal with are the invisible enemy at work. Yesterday was one of those days for me. A big thing and then a couple of little annoyances that caused me quite a bit of clean up. I knew right away that this was the enemy trying to steal my joy and celebration from the photo on TV thing. Sometimes it takes me a while to realize just what is happening but the Lord let me "see" yesterday early on what was happening. Just an FYI. When you make your own coffee if you forget to put that piece in that holds the coffee and filter you are in for a royal mess!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Our church held a revival weekend last week during a pandemic and it sounded like quite a few people came to the Lord for the first time. I was watching online but many raised their hands according to the guest preacher. He spoke on sheep and the qualities of sheep. He did not come right out and say they are dumb but I have heard other preachers say that. They are very vulnerable and can easily get lost from the herd. I guess "we" are the sheep and it doesn't take too much imagination to realize that was the perfect analogy. Of course Jesus is the Shepherd. He diligently looks after His sheep. We know the voice of Jesus and know when we are lost and have strayed. Very much like the innocent sheep we can get lost without intentionally wandering off the path. We have the assurance that Jesus will leave the herd to find us and save us from ourselves and bring us back to the fold. There is great comfort in that. We don't have to wander in darkness groping our way through life. We have a Savior that is leading us to our eventual home where there will be no more cancer and suffering but only peace and joy in perfect bodies. I don't know about you but that sounds pretty nice compared with this crazy mixed up world we are living in now.

    Have a good day dear sisters.

    Foots, we would love to hear from you.

    Love,

    Nancy



    John 10:10-11New International Version

    10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

    11 "I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.

  • Ade
    Ade Member Posts: 740
    edited August 2020

    Chris thank you for rain prayers. As we walked today we noticed that the rocky dirt road we travel is powder now, not even packed dirt. And the poor prickly pear cacti are thin and emaciated, not plump. The choya cacti are drooping and dieing. You know, for cacti to die of drought - you need WATER and FAST! I don't know how the poor animals can make it. We water the birds, but can't help all the rest of them. Again our big concern is wildfires. They swept through these parts and Fort Davis big time just before we moved here and scorched the land and many houses burned down. We built a stucco house with tin roof and kept the growth back from it for that very reason, but others could be in peril with another fire.

    Hershey I am sorry you still don't have word about your exemption. I pray that comes soon in your favor.

    Nancy, WOW! TWO miles! But you are probably on sidewalks not rocky dirt hilly roads. On ours I have to "switch into power gear" on a good part of it that is rough and uphill. But to walk on the paved road out front you always have to watch for traffic and it is so nice and quiet on the "around the block" route. I feel better walking too, though, as is probably with you, it is hard to make yourself do it (and I jump out of bed before sun up WITHOUT MY COFFEE and hit the road! We see lots of wildlife and the deer let you walk almost up to them before they flee. Once we saw a PORCUPINE in a bushy tree right by our house! We had no idea there were any here. There are birds that cheer us on. They land on the next power pole, sing, and as we get there they go to the next one - pretty cool!

    I love the verses on sheep. The thought of Jesus holding the lambs in His arms and watching over them (us) is so encouraging in this time of history isn't it.

    On selling online...I have been doing it on eBay for over 20 years and still love it. I started out selling household things to get rid of them and the things left over from my gift shop. I discovered the joy of creating jewelry and did that for quite a while until China came into the market and undersold us with their cheap things and they got favored status with shipping that we don't have so they crowded us American sellers out of the market. I still have a lot of jewelry for sale but sadly am not making it anymore. When we move I will sell out my millions of beads and findings probably. I do pretty well with my Christian bookmarks, devotionals, journals, jewelry, stickers, note cards and gifts now (Christian things aren't a big market for China so not as much competition there). I have had customers who are wonderful Christian ladies for years and we have become friends through this. I pray to be a good witness to anyone I sell to. I wouldn't even have to leave my house to ship if we had mail service like we did in Ohio. I drive into town 6 days a week to ship. I am looking forward to simply putting shipments into my own mailbox like I once did. I print my shipping labels online right from the eBay site and get a discount for using it. I bought a postal scales from the post office for under $30 and it weighs down to the ounce. So you just type in the measurements of your package and weight and eBay calculates the shipping amount for each mode of shipping for you. It is easy! You do have to take your photos and write a description for your listing but that gets easy with practice too. You also need to register with PayPal but they take any credit and debit cards FOR you which is great so you don't have the hassle of credit cards. I have had no problems with PayPal. Anyway I just wanted to share my own experience with you who have considered selling. I chose eBay over Etsy because they reach so many more people. One of my friends switched to Etsy but didn't do as well and came back to eBay. PLEASE - I AM NOT SOLICITING SALES! I am ONLY sharing the link to my store so you can just see what I do. www.Alpine-Ade-Designs.com

    https://www.ebay.com/str/alpineadedesigns/Christian-Faith-Items/_i.html?_storecat=10391222018

    Blessings,

    Ade

  • HersheyKiss
    HersheyKiss Member Posts: 550
    edited August 2020

    Ade, are you the artist who is credited on your eBay site with creating the jewelry designs? I really like the copper glass leaf earrings!

  • IntoLight
    IntoLight Member Posts: 1,701
    edited August 2020

    Thanks Nancy. Bria's schooling doesn't start until Aug 31. The date is good as she and her mom get the week off to fly to NY and visit my son before school starts again for the both of them.

    Ade, sounds like you are a selling pro! I just don't have the energy. And you are right...we had cholla cacti on our property in the desert. I hated it as the prickles were awful if you got even close, but we knew we were in water trouble when they looked bad.

    Here are some pics of my latest dolls. My granddaughter is into My Little Pony but these are very difficult. I had to put them on hold to order the floss to embroider their special symbols on their thighs--too much work for a toy! The Star Wars are the newest ones I am making for my grandsons, and of course Snoopy for the baby. I keep busy!

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  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited August 2020

    Wow. Ade. You have a lot of varied things for sale. I looked at almost every page. Many neat things. I especially love the jewelry and abalone in particular. You must be busy going to the PO six days a week so kudos to a successful business.

    You mentioned I probably walk on sidewalks. Actually a good part of my walk is in an unincorporated area near me so they have no sidewalks. When I am walking in that area there is very little cars and I don't see many people from the houses which I always find curious. Some of these are the McMansions. I find it very a safe feeling in this pandemic. I am not walking on dirt as you are which would be difficult. When I see people walking with their earbuds in I wouldn't want to do that because I like to hear the sounds of nature like you enjoying your birds singing. At this time of year it is hearing the locusts.

    Chris, your dolls are adorable. My Dad loved Snoopy so we would get him all sorts of Snoopy themed things. He would love your cute doll. I can see how you could spend many hours on each one of your beautiful creations. I am glad you have more time before you start school with your granddaughter. Having that week when they will be gone will give you a breather as well.

    I do have a prayer request which I forgot to mention earlier. I am having an MRI of the brain on Monday afternoon to check on the brain tumor. I would appreciate prayers for calm during the scan. I have had to fight claustrophobia in the past but have managed to have the scans without sedation on quite a few of them the last few years. I have had trouble with the IV's as well so I would appreciate your prayers for that and of course for no growth in the tumor. Thank you.

    Have a good weekend everyone.

    Love,

    Nancy

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited August 2020

    Nancy,

    Prayers for calm with no IV problem and okay MRI results.

    IntoLight,

    Lovely dolls!

    Ade,

    I'll check out the link to your store during the weekend.

    HersheyKiss,

    You also make jewelry.

    Daughter makes lovely bracelets for me.

    I only take so-so pics. ;o))

    In my prayers one and all.

  • HersheyKiss
    HersheyKiss Member Posts: 550
    edited August 2020

    Chris, your dolls are beautiful. Sphero and Snoopy are adorable!

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited August 2020

    Thank you Teka. Trying not to think about it. How nice to have a daughter that can make you bracelets. Maybe I can teach Cammie how to do that.

    Love,

    Nancy


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  • Ade
    Ade Member Posts: 740
    edited August 2020

    Hershey I make most of my jewelry (but not the abalone bracelets & earrings). If the copper glass ones you are referring to are the ones I think - I did make those.

    Chris your knitted dolls are SO cute - and I bet so much time is into each one. (Seling isn't for everyone - it was just something I could do from home.)

    Nancy I pray your IV and scan go PERFECTLY and you have God's peace, and the results are GOOD GOOD GOOD! Be sure to let us know how it went and your results please.

    Our son is coming for supper so I need to scram. Pray for the safety of our Border Agents too please. That's a whole different front line and he is out there in the field alone at night with poor communication devices, covering MANY miles. Thanks!

    Hugs and prayers,

    Ade

  • Faith-840
    Faith-840 Member Posts: 995
    edited August 2020

    Hello dear friends, sorry I've been MIA again but I've been reading and praying for all of you. I've been going through a tough time with lots of anxiety and sciatica pain and some health issues for my DH. I finally talked to my PCP and he has given me some medication and also recommended a therapist to talk to. I had my first session this past week but as some of you know, nothing happens very fast when your mind is involved. As much as I pray, it seems it's all in God's time and I just have to trust that all will be well.

    Nancy, congratulations on your beautiful sunflower picture making the news. That must have been a real surprise and thrill. I'm sorry I missed seeing it. I'm so glad and envious that you are walking so much. I know how healthy that has to be for you. I'm only walking about 20 minutes on a treadmill right now with this leg pain. I am praying that your MRI is easy and has all good news for you.

    Ade, I loved your double rainbow picture but I'm sure it's probably partly the result of no rain and much dust in the air and I'm praying you get that much needed rain. But, it's all part of God's beauty and his plan, isn't it? I took a brief look at your website, goodness, I had no idea what a beautiful wide variety of items you sell. That has to keep you really busy. I keep praying that James feels better and that you find the right place to buy in Ohio.

    Chris, yes, it is so good to wake up and feel like it's almost a normal good day. I keep praying your new treatment is doing it's job and not causing you too many SE's. That tortilla soup sounds wonderful, I'll have to try it one day. Lately, I haven't felt much like cooking, doing just the bare minimum of old standbys and nothing new. I love your darling crochet animals, especially Snoopy. Back in the dark ages more than 50 years ago, I would make them for friends having new babies. I'd forgotten about that. I hope teaching your DGD isn't too stressful for you and only helps to distract you from what you are dealing with.

    Hershey, I keep praying that you get what you need from the HR at your. company. I'm sure you need and deserve it.

    I'm having blood tests and meeting my MO this week so I would appreciate a few prayers that all continues to be stable and my anxiety stays under control.

    Sending love and prayers to all of you,

    Faith (in the future).

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited August 2020

    Thank you Ade and Faith and all who have prayed for me. I walked almost 3 miles tonight and hopefully I will be so tired that I can sleep. I have had terrible insomnia lately and I can't figure out what is going on. I think I am most concerned about my claustrophobia with the MRI since I haven't had one of these scans for a while.

    Ade, I know having a son be on the border patrol must be scary. Praying for him for protection. Also praying for rain for the parts of the country that so desperately need it. Praying for you and James always.

    Faith, I have continued to pray for you and I am glad that you have talked to your PCP and put some things into motion that will hopefully be a great help to you. I spent 6 or 7 months with a social worker last year and it was very helpful. I am glad that you have someone now that you can talk to and I pray that it will be a game changer for you getting you on a good path. Praying for your blood tests and your MO apt and that all things will be a good news. Thank you regarding my sunflower pic.

    Have a good week dear sisters.

    Love,

    Nancy

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited August 2020
  • Ade
    Ade Member Posts: 740
    edited August 2020

    What a beautiful banner, Nancy! Wow you have become quite the walker - and it does help me sleep too. James has very bad insomnia. I don't know if it is his depression (he's on the computer with the VA psych weekly visit right now) or because his blood pressure is up, or something else. I am praying for peace for your scan coming up and GOOD results!

    Faith I am so sorry you're having such a rough time physically and mentally - I can empathize! I pray you and your DH are feeling God's healing hand very soon and for His peace for your anxiety.

    I fell down our steps the other morning. Nothing like awakening to the sound of a large dog about to throw up and trying to get them OUT the door before they do! I landed hard on cement which lightly sprained my ankle and the arthritic lumbar and cervical spine bone spur weren't too happy about it either. That's getting better but the abdominal pain is back again - so with all that we didn't walk this morning. We take Sunday off anyway. Could always be worse I know.

    Please pray for our daughter-in-law, Pam and her 3 sisters and their families. Her dad won't make it through the day. He knows Jesus so it will be a Homecoming, but it is hard on the ones left behind.

    Love & prayers for you all,

    Ade

  • IntoLight
    IntoLight Member Posts: 1,701
    edited August 2020

    Nancy, beautiful banner. I love those colors. I walked Saturday but paid for it all day with pain and extra fatigue. I know I need to walk more but I suffer when I do so it is a vicious cycle for me. I can manage grocery shopping but have to rest when I get home. So happy you can make it three miles! Wow!

    Ade, Praying for your DDIL and family. It is always difficult to lose a loved one. So sorry you fell down the stairs but thankful you weren't hurt worse. You are James are in my daily prayers.

    Faith, praying your tests are good and your meeting with your MO goes well and that God sends peace in the midst of your storm.

    I know God holds us all in His hands, and sometimes that takes the form of hugs from friends. Thank you for being my friend. I hug you back. Chris




  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited August 2020

    Hi dear sisters. I wanted to thank you all for your prayers for my MRI of the brain today. I was told to hydrate all morning which I did in spades! I got a very nice young man as the tech and I asked that he put a cloth over my eyes from the beginning. The first part of the scan was 20min and I was doing really well. I was calm and tried to mentally picture me out with my camera in that sunflower field going over every single detail. That worked very well. Then they pulled me out to put in the contrast. That was a bigger issue. It seems that my challenging veins before radiation are really teetering on impossible after radiation and complicated by the fact that they can only use one arm. After a few tries the guy said he was going to give me an IV first. He did have to call another person in to do the job. My hand worked and I was praying hard that it would. The second part of the MRI went very well and even though this whole process to way longer than it should have it is over and I am back home. Thank you for your prayers. i won't see my neurologist until next Monday so I may not have results until then.

    Ade, I am sorry to hear about your falling on concrete. Praying your ankle will be okay soon. Praying for your abdominal pain. Are you still suspecting gallbladder? I will pray for Pam and I am sorry to hear about her Dad but glad to know He will be seeing Jesus soon.

    Chris, it took me quite a while before I got to the point where I could walk and not feel worse. I was probably overdoing it at first and would wake up the next day feeling really exhausted and not good. I backed off and decided to try walking every other day and that has worked well so far and I feel good. However I ran this by my sister the other day who is the queen of walking. She faithfully gets her "steps" in every single day. Recently she passed the 700 day mark of walking consecutive days I believe. I asked her if my insomnia could be because I am walking late in the evening and she said definitely. That was my way of not dying in the heat and humidity by walking in the afternoon. Fall is around the corner and then with cooler temps I should be able to walk in the afternoon. I am not comfortable swimming at this new Y yet and my not be for a very long time. Hopefully you can find a way to walk without it causing you more suffering.

    I am glad you liked the banner. I loved those colors as well. Lord, help us to be light in this crazy world. That can take many different forms. Today as the tech was taking me back to the MRI machine he said so you're having an MRI of the brain. I said yes, to be sure I still have one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Have a good night dear sisters. Thank you again for your prayers. I think this was the calmest I have been inside that machine. Thank you Lord, for answered prayers.

    Love,

    Nancy

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited August 2020
  • Ade
    Ade Member Posts: 740
    edited August 2020

    Nancy, another good banner for today! Praise the Lord for getting you through another scan! Now we pray for the GOOD news and perfect peace until then.

    In a bit we pick up our 3 grandaughters here for a pizza and movie night at our house while their parents get a much needed date night. They are such fun and we are looking forward to the time with them. (Now to get the three to agree on the SAME movie!) :oD

    Praying God's blessings upon you all,

    Ade

  • Faith-840
    Faith-840 Member Posts: 995
    edited August 2020

    Thank you all for your prayers, my blood work was good. Everything was stable so that’s good news. My anxiety has been bad the last couple of days but I guess that’s because of my blood test and MO visit. However, even after we were back home, I still felt anxious. I just thought it would go away after seeing the Dr. and it didn’t. I’m talking to the therapist on Thursday, hope she can help me.

    Nancy, your banner is beautiful, I also love those colors.. I’m so glad you were able to get through the MRI okay and I pray you have good results and get them soon so that you don’t have to worry.

    Ade, I’m so sorry to hear you fell, I hope you are recovering quickly from any injuries. They sound painful. I will keep your DDIL and family in prayer. It is always so hard to lose a loved one. Enjoy those granddaughters. It sounds like so much fun to have them around. We used to babysit our granddaughters a lot when they were young and we really miss that. Now they are grown and we can’t even give them a hug on the very rare occasion we see them because of this awful virus.

    Chris, thanks for your sweet thoughts and prayers. I’m so sorry that walking gives such pain and exhaustion. Do you think that if you do a little each day, you could build your stamina? I pray that as your treatment continues, it will knock back the cancer and the pain will lessen.

    It’s been a stressful couple of days and I’m really tired so will close here. Love and prayers for all of you.

    Faith

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited August 2020

    Faith,

    I love to watch the......Calm TV Commercials, 'Do Nothing for 30 Seconds'. :o)


  • Faith-840
    Faith-840 Member Posts: 995
    edited August 2020

    Teka, I love those commercials too. I actually have the Calm app and use it for meditation and I also love their sleep stories. I listened to one last night to help me get back to sleep. I rarely hear the end of the stories. I highly recommend that app for insomnia. It’s not inexpensive but I think it’s worth it. There’s also a free version but it only has a few things on it. It’s a good preview of things available.

    Faith

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited August 2020

    Faith,

    Thank You for the information! ;o)

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited August 2020

    Faith,

    Thank You for the information! ;o)

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited August 2020

    Faith, that is great news on your blood work. I know this has probably been done but has your thyroid levels been checked. I have been on thyroid meds for many years and I know both having too much and not enough can make you feel just horrible emotionally. I am not sure if that is a normal part of blood work or they just include it all the time for me since I have thyroid issues. I am glad you find the app soothing enough to go to sleep. Glad you liked that banner.

    Teka, I enjoy that 30 seconds of calm on TV as well. Actually going out with my camera in nature works wonders for me. In fact I will be doing that today hopefully.

    Ade, I hope you are recovering from your fall. I bet you had a good time with pizza and movie night with your three granddaughters.

    I haven't heard anything from my MRI and may not until I see my doctor on Monday.

    I got a text today from my sister. My Mom apparently fell out of bed. They let the dr. know and will have to see if he wants to see her. I know my sister could use prayer. She is stressed to the max right now. I hope to visit my Mom in a couple of weeks. I have quite a few apts to work around.

    Have a good day dear sisters.

    Love,

    Nancy

  • zjrosenthal
    zjrosenthal Member Posts: 2,026
    edited August 2020

    Good evening dear sisters. I don't post often but I do read and pray for all of you. I have a thyroid sonogram the other day and everything came back just fine. The nodule has not grown.Love, Jean

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited August 2020

    Jean, that is good news. I will be seeing my doctor soon for that very condition.

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  • Ade
    Ade Member Posts: 740
    edited August 2020

    Jean & Faith , I thank the Lord for your good test results. That means SO much to us! People with "normal" health haven't a clue how much worse it is for US waiting to hear the results, do they?

    Faith, I wonder if your mental state has something to do with your meds. I was a mental MESS until my onc let me go off of them. I know not everybody CAN or SHOULD do that...but that was my case anyway. I am still praying for the Lord to grant you His peace in your anxiety. (I do know what that is like.)

    Nancy I am so sorry to hear your mom fell out of bed! They need to put the rails up at night because a fall for these folks can be so serious. My mom did that too because no one would come when she had to use the bathroom - that's just sad isn't it. I pray your mom is ok and that your sister feels the Lord's strength and peace. It may seem like all you can do from afar is pray - but that's where the power of God comes in to meet our needs and is SO important. I think we underestimate the power of our prayers. There is a reason Paul said to pray without ceasing.

    The Lord bless and keep you all,

    Ade

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited August 2020

    So true Ade. My Mom has a swollen knee so my sister is taking her for xrays tomorrow. According to my Mom she tripped on her feet and didn't fall out of bed. My sister said my Mom actually laughed about it so I was glad to she laughed. I am so thankful that this facility is letting my sister come into my Mom's apt. My Mom is not able to keep up her apt with the cleaning lady coming only once a week so my sister is able to pick up when they let her in. I am very grateful for that.

  • zjrosenthal
    zjrosenthal Member Posts: 2,026
    edited August 2020

    please pray for my husband's mother Muriel. She hasn't been eating well, has dementia and is down to 86 pounds. We cannot visit her in the nursing home due to covid. Jean Rosenthal

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