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Happy Birthday Nancy!
I haven't been on in several days but as soon as I started reading, I realized it was your birthday today! I hope you've had a nice day and have been able to do something special that you enjoy. Ill do a" two hip replacement" Happy Dance in your honor!
Your photos are such a blessing and mood lifter for us all. The Hummingbird Moth interested me; when I was visiting my son and babysitting a couple of months ago, Cal and I saw one of them on the side of their garage, but I didn't know what it was. So unusual looking...
My son in laws birthday is today also...my son's is at the end of August...both are 38. Oh to be 38 again, but then again, some of the greatest trials in my life came in my 40's so I'm glad I have already passed it all.
Praying for all of you ladies and your loved ones. We are doing ok, dealing with the usual age related ailments...arthritis, high blood pressure, etc. My last checkup went well, although it was pretty short and physically distant. Preparing for the tropical storm/hurricane headed our way. It looks like this one will be coming right over us, but hoping for the best...some rain and wind but nothing devastating this time. Our biggest concern is loss of power; we lost power due to an accident last Friday for 6 hours when it was 96 degrees. Maybe that was our power outage of the summer, and this storm will be gone soon.
Blessings to you all...praying for days of feeling better, spouses doing well, families and friends healthy and happy, and a respite from this virus stuff.
Love you all...Ellen
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Thank you Ellen. I actually was too tired to do much today. My treat was eating unhealthy food and wiping out beaucoup miles I had already walked the last few weeks!!!!! Oh well. I might do something special tomorrow which looks like a better day weather wise.
I sure hope you don't lose power from this hurricane coming at you. How many disasters can happen at one time????? That hummingbird moth flits around like a hummingbird and their wings flap very quickly as well. They are not something you see everyday for sure. I used to see them at almost dark in my flowers but the ones I have been fortunate enough to photograph have been taken during the day and not at my house.
I had to go out and check on my flowers tonight. It is right down chilly outside. After all the heat and humidity we have had in July I didn't think I would be using those words until fall.
Praying for protection for you and your family as you wait out the storm.
I'd like to see that Happy Dance .
Take care and thank you for your good wishes.
Love,
Nancy
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY NANCY!! 🎂🎉🎊🎁
I hope you had a wonderful day and found something fun and interesting to do. I'm happy to hear both you and Cammie are feeling better. Your pictures are beautiful, you are so blessed to have such a wonderful talent and can express it so well. I pray the year ahead is a good one with no troubles and good health.
To everyone, I'm reading and praying for all your needs. I will write more later. May God bless you all.
Love and prayers,
Faith (in the future).
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Thank you Faith. I have to admit that I ate one of those emojis tonight. LOL Not saying which one!!! I am postponing my fun stuff till possibly tomorrow. The weather was gloomy today and I was just too tired from not sleeping well for two nights in a row. I got the results of the photo contest for July today and my pics which are some of the above did not make the cut. Oh well. I tried. I always feel in good company because there were many wonderful photos not picked either. You all lift my spirits with your nice comments. I pray for you regularly and I hope you are doing better. Cammie and I are doing pretty well. I weighed her today for the first time as she has lost a pound which is significant for a 10 lb cat. I will repeat in a couple of months and hope she does better.
Love,
Nancy
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My son in New York lives in the path where the hurricane went but he said they and his animals are all fine. His house is fine although his beautiful treed backyard looks terrible. Just thankful he is safe. He texted me from Home Depot where he found some internet and electricity since he is without both.
Good news for me, dentist said teeth and gums look great! Pain was probably from a loose filling so he removed and replaced it all without novocaine. He said he has several cancer patients who feel rogue teeth pain, but he is always happy to look. I was in and out and home in 45 minutes. So relieved! Thanks for your prayers! I was really nervous.
Hope the rest of you on the East coast are fine.
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Chris, celebrating your in and out quickly dentist visit. I hope the procedure will alleviate any pain you were having. Grateful your son is okay in NY after this bad storm.
I have been out with my camera the last couple of days and celebrating the cooler and less humid days which won't last for long. I visited a new place and it had a sunflower field which I was looking for one in my general area. I had to travel a bit but not too bad. Staying away from groups of children with no masks was my greatest concern. Here is one of my photos from today.
Love,
Nancy
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Beautiful as always Nancy. Thank you for your kind words.
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Stunning photo, Nancy, and Happy Belated Birthday! I'm glad that you've been out and about and enjoying some cooler weather. Sunflowers are such a pick-me-up, yes?
Chris, in-and-out dentistry is the best. I am happy that the remedy was a quick and simple one.
I spoke with my supervisors today about my medical waiver to continue working remotely. They said that they will support my application. Now we wait for HR to contact them for final approval. This process has been a long one. Thank you, everyone, for your prayers.
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Hershey, so happy to hear your application will be supported. I know this is a relief for you. Here's hoping HR responds quickly.
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Chris - SO glad your dentist visit went much better than expected! One of my fillings came out after 60+ years (can you imagine that!) and I had it replaced with the clear filling, non-metal one. All was well until THAT one came out. It was within a year so I went back for her to 're-replace' it which was free. I don't know if she was ticked because it was a freebee or just having a bad day - but she was EXTREMELY rough! I couldn't beieve the difference in her! In the process she hit the tooth in front of the molar really hard with the instrument accidentally (and I saw the look on the technician's face when she did it). She must have cracked it because it now is extremely sensitive to cold and wasn't before. But now I am afraid to return to her and I KNOW she would not believe me anyway. My old dentist retired so I think she is the only one left in town. The next town to have a dentist is over an hour away. I think I will wait til we move back to Ohio for this. Anyway I am VERY happy for YOU!
Nancy your pix are simply amazing! Glad for your cooler weather and that you could get out. You must have a real sense of accomplishment when you can capture those sights for all time, to God's glory! Is Cammie doing better yet, not losing anymore weight? How is your GI tract doing?
Well we have yet another week of temps very close to 100 degrees. We are in a pretty bad drought and REALLY need rain. Our friends are afraid their well may run dry, but we paid for a deep "second water" one so we're ok. I think the report said a 2% chance of rain here. You folks up north who have too much - send it down here!
Ellen - so good to hear from you! Write more when you have the time and energy.
Hershey, did they make you come in to work? Hope it got waived.
How are you doing, Faith?
Blessings to one and all with love,
Ade
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I just lost a very long post by hitting the wrong key on my computer. SCREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Chris, thank you. I hope you are finding that the procedure alleviated your teeth pain and praying that Xeloda is doing it's intended work and you are tolerating it well.
Hershey, I am SO happy to hear that your supervisors approved your application. Now praying that HR will simply sign off on it. I am assuming you are working in person. I know how awful that must feel and praying the positive decision will happen asap. Thank you for the birthday wishes and your nice comment. I have been treating this week as a vacation. I haven't had a real one in 40+ years. I actually sent the sunflower pic to the Chicago NBC weatherman who shows two pics on the nightly news during his segment. I am keeping my fingers crossed. This is something I have only done once in many years past.
Ade, sorry to hear your fiasco at the dentist office. No one wants to be in the chair when the dentist is having a bad day!!!! We need rain here too but according to the Chicago weather it is rain forecast for every day next week. Hopefully you will get some your way as well. One of my friends suggested some outdoor dining for my birthday. The place we will go to looks a bit scary to me as the tables look close together to me. We'll see. We are waiting for a good weather day next week but that doesn't look too promising.
Thanks for your nice comments. Yes, when I can capture a photo that I have had in my mind's eye before hand it is a wonderful feeling. I did have this sunflower pic in my mind and did a search of sunflower fields near me. I found this one not all that far out of town but when I called asking about the $50 fee for photographers I did not get the reception I had expected. I was pretty sure it was for professionals doing photo shoots. I tried to explain to her I am not a professional and she said if you have a professional looking camera (which I do ) she said I have to draw the line somewhere. So I went feeling like cold water had been thrown on my little adventure but when I got there no questions asked. There were at least 3 photo shoots going on so obviously this sunflower field was quite the place to go for photo shoots. One lady had her dog all dressed up so I am guessing the little guy was going to be in one of the photos. I am scared to death of bees and I was in a field of bees. That part was not so fun but I was on cloud nine driving home because I knew the trip paid off for me and no I didn't have to pay the $50 fee but only $5.
Cammie and I are doing fine. I have weighed her only once and will weigh again in a couple of months. What I failed to ask was how much she weighed at the vet so I will have to call. She normally is 10lb and she weighed 9.2 lbs the other day. So that might be gaining but not sure yet.
I better sign off before I hit another wrong key. Have a wonderful weekend dear sisters.
Love
Nancy
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Habakkuk 3:17-19King James Version
17 Although the fig tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the vines; the labour of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat; the flock shall be cut off from the fold, and there shall be no herd in the stalls:
18 Yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation.
19 The Lord God is my strength, and he will make my feet like hinds' feet, and he will make me to walk upon mine high places. To the chief singer on my stringed instruments.
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Ade, I had a very mean childhood dentist (my mom didn't believe me) which instilled great fear in me for any dentist, so I totally understand. The dentist I have here in SD is great and seems to care greatly for my comfort. I cannot open my mouth wide so he uses child-sized implements. He is my age and very personable so I am very thankful, but it has taken years and many prayers to find him.
Nancy, that is one of my favorite scriptures since my dx. "Yet I will praise Him..." still rings true for me. I used to sing it in church but I cannot find a link to post it here so I don't think that version was very popular and it is probably at least 50 years ago. I hope you can find a good, safe place to eat. Other than breakfast out when my sisters were here, I haven't be out to eat since March. I have cancelled my trip to AZ to visit my Auntie because of the rise in Covid there and my current side effects make a long drive impossible. So who knows when I will be able to go as I will be a bit tied down with my granddaughter's schooling for awhile. Covid has affected us all in many, horrible ways "yet I will praise Him."
Take care all. Chris
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Ade and Chris, I grew up in a small town that only had a few dentists. Our first family dentist was kind and compassionate but retired when I was in elementary school. Our second family dentist was a dud. His fillings leaked and had to be replaced with expensive restorations. Those restorations eventually failed as well. My family was stuck with high dental bills and many painful procedures. As a result, no one in my family likes trips to the dentist.
Nancy, I have gone onsite to work. There have been only four other people working in my area of the building. Some folks have left the company through early retirements, but so far, no one to my knowledge has been furloughed or laid off.
Prayers for everyone for a relaxing and peace-filled weekend.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7hujNAmtA0c
Chris this link above might be your song. It is a powerful but not sure of the exact on you were looking for.
Hershey, praying you can stay safe and that your waiver will be approved.
Have a wonderful weekend dear sisters.
Love,
Nancy
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Proverbs 3:5-6 King James Version
5 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
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Thanks Ade for the beautiful banner. That is one of my favorite verses and the Tiger Swallowtail is one of my favorite butterflies.
Have a great weekend dear sisters.
Love,
Nancy
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Have a good day dear sisters. There are severe storms coming and I have to rush to the grocery store and I don't have much time before it hits here.
Love,
Nancy
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Beautiful banner and powerful scripture,Nancy! I hope you got home before the storms. We had ominous clouds but not a drop of MUCH needed rain. Perhaps tomorrow.
Sweet dreams, ladies,
Ade
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Thanks Ade. Yes, I made it home in time but our tornado sirens went off a little later and Cammie and I spent some time in my interior bathroom. She was NOT a happy camper. After seeing the news we got off very well compared to some of the other suburbs. The high winds did a lot of damage with downed trees on cars and houses.
I have my birthday lunch tomorrow and I am a bit nervous about that. We will be outside but they have a lot of people crammed into a very small space from what I can see.
Have a good night dear sisters.
Love,
Nancy
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GOD KEEPS HIS PROMISES ~ TRUST IN HIM.
Love,
Ade
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Beautiful Ade. What a blessing to get a photo of a double rainbow. So neat.
I had a neat surprise tonight. My sunflower photo that I posted here last week was on the nightly news from NBC 5 Chicago this evening. On a whim I submitted it to Brant Miller's (meteorologist) email address and I said some complimentary things to him regarding the chemistry with his co anchors. I said I feel like I am watching family every night. He emailed me back right away and said you made our day. Then a blurb about your photo might appear on the new cast, website. etc. That part was like a form letter saying they have rights to your photo etc. I waited on Thursday, Friday and Monday and had pretty much given up seeing it. Then today I had my birthday celebration with my friend and was gone a good part of the afternoon. I had things to do when getting home and this evening I just happened to be making photo cards from that sunflower picture. It was getting late and it was around 9:15 and I checked my email. Brant Miller had emailed me around 4:30 today saying your photo will be on the 10 pm newscast. I was shocked and thrilled. I wrote him back saying I just happen to be making photo cards from that very photo and almost missed your email. I sent that some time after 9:15. So during his weather photo segment he shows my picture and said Nancy makes photo cards from her pictures and maybe you will see them on the rack some day. So that was quite a surprise so it was a good day of celebrations.
Have a good night dear sisters.
Love
Nancy
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What a delightful story, Nancy! I'm so happy for you. You are such a talented photographer, and the greater Chicago viewing area got to enjoy your artistry last night. That's exciting and fantastic news all rolled into one. Congratulations!!
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Thank you Hershey. I have to say it was pretty exciting. Thank you. My only regret is that I did not find this passion until I was a senior. I am now 69 and that number alone still seems surreal. In my mind I am still in my 30's.........now if my body will act like it is in it's 30's I will be in great shape. LOL
Any word from HR? Still praying you will get your release to work at home.
Love,
Nancy
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Nancy, yes that is a great story. I am so glad you are being recognized for your gift. Praying you and Cammie are doing well.
I am having a good day--can't always say that! I have tortilla soup cooking in the crockpot and my granddaughter is practicing writing her ABCs while I am crocheting. That is my simple life right now.
Love and prayers,
Chris
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Chris, thank you. I am glad you are having a good day. I pray for many more of those for you. Has school started for your granddaughter? I know you mentioned you would be her facilitator. Praying that you will have the strength and stamina for that responsibility.
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Chris I am so thankful to the Lord for granting you a GOOD day! It's funny but most of us are amazed if we wake up feeling NORMAL once in a while. I am almost giddy when I have one of those and think, "What can I do today that I can't otherwise - to make the most of this blessing?" Your soup sounds yummy even if it is 100 degrees here! I make that for company sometimes and they seem to love it. I offer corn chips, sour cream, and shredded Mexican cheese to top it. May God bless your heart for being your grandbaby's teacher and helping her mom in this way. I spent most of my early years with my beloved grandma since my mom worked full time and I loved my grandma dearly all of her life. May that be the case with your relationship too.
Nancy - what a wonderful birthday celebration day surprise!!! That must have been a thrill! (We KNEW it was a great shot when we saw it, didn't we, ladies!) A long time ago we took a photo of our then two Airedales frolicking in a deep snow drift against our house and the local news highlighted that. We were thrilled to have two "celebs" under our roof. Also one of Emily's pix made NATIONAL news!!! I was heading down the sidewalk to our garage where she had her photography studio and happened to look up and see a funnel cloud. I ran in and called her out to see it and of course she snapped it. It was just a baby funnel way up high but the close up she got made it look like more. Anyway it made the national news but they said it was taken by "a photographer from South Charleston Ohio". Not much credit there but it was quite exciting for us anyway. Glad you are ok from those terrible storms and sorry Miss Cammie was out of sorts about it...your trying to save her LIFE and all! Maggie is TERRIFIED of the very few storms we get. She wants on my LAP! We have been having some dark clouds, lightning and thunder (even the rainbow) but NO RAIN. It is SO dry that we all fear a repeat of the awful devastating drought fires of 2011. Please pray for some rain and no fires for us when you think about it. Our friends are afraid their well will run dry. (About your b-day, I am also a 30s-something trapped inside somewhere in an old 69 year old body.) I KNOW where from you come!
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Blessings on your evening, Sisters,
Ade
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Nancy,
Yes, make photo cards from your lovely pics!
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Thank you Ade. Yes, it was a thrill. You have had that thrill as well with your two dogs. Your daughter making the national news is really something. Too bad she didn't get the proper credit for it.
With those bad storms that came through I don't think we got a whole lot of rain from it. Some company contracted by the city had to tear up some of my front yard and parkway and seeded with probably inferior seed. Those places look like they could go up in flames with a flick of a cigarette they look so awful. I will pray for rain. Our rainfall has gone from way too much to now not enough. If we could find a happy medium it would be great.
I have finally started to feel good from walking. I have been walking every other night for 2 plus miles and that seems to be the sweet spot for me. The problem is the days are getting shorter so I am going to have to make some changes soon as I don't want to be walking in the dark.
Cammie is doing better but tonight she really didn't want to play much at all. That has been something we have been doing again to keep her stimulated and happy.
Teka, thank you. I have been making greeting cards for quite some time now but I don't sell them. It seems like I always have some occasion to make them and now I have been looking into a backup printer knowing if my photo printer stopped working I would really be at a loss. I have toyed with the idea of selling on Etsy but with me traveling downstate so much it is just not very practical. I don't want anything to take the fun out of my photography. If it starts to feel like a job or too much pressure then that is what I want to avoid.
Have a good night dear sisters.
Love,
Nancy
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