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  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited June 2020

    Dorothy, congrats on getting home and surgery being such an improvement! As to the drains, tie two oven mitts together with 4-6' of string or ribbons (through the mitts' hanging loops) and drape them around your neck & shoulders. Put a drain in each mitt, to keep them from pulling. In the shower, use two washcloth mitts tied with a length of grosgrain ribbon. Did you ever get your belongings back?

    Last night, went to Moody's Pub--which has not one but three outdoor beer gardens, and at 8pm was about 2/3 full. They ran out of beef burgers (only veggie was left), so we ordered steak sandwiches. Meh. The fresh-cut fries were great--against my better judgment I ate about 10 of them; the sauteed onions atop the steak were delish too. But the steak was tough. DOTD, dinner version, was seltzer with lime because I already had wine (bubbly) with brunch. No wine tonight with my leftover steak and a salad I'll throw together--will save the leftover fries to crisp up in the SmartOvenAir should Bob want to snack on them tonight when he gets home.

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited June 2020

    Good Morning, Loungettes! Happy Twofer Tuesday! First day back at 'normal' work went well. Got a boatload of work done and a pretty good idea of what has to be done going forward. Still need to come up with an attack plan based on a shorter work week, but that'll happen. Best part of the day was after I got home and the plumbers got done replacing the water pump and electrical wiring in the well!Running water again!YEAH!Being able to flush the toilet after every visit is a luxury I have seriously taken for granted for a very long time.Now the ketchuping of laundry and dishes begins.Sadie is definitely losing her hearing, she didn't react to the plumbers being here for over an hour, they said. Then she came out and supervised, noisily, for the rest of the time they were here. She was a tired puppy by bedtime!

    Goldie--first day back was drama-free!I'm going to be working Mon, Tues, Wed, with changes as needs come up. Sadie will be happy to have me home, she gets more treats when I'm home. Actually, I think she really does like me at least a little, she keeps nudging me for pets and belly rubs and keeps track of where I am most of the time. The weather has been crazy everywhere this spring. Hard to believe the first day of summer is almost here.

    Morning, Karen!

    Chi--three outdoor beer gardens? That must be a fun place to visit. Sorry the steak was tough. That does diminish the enjoyment.

    Maple Old Fashioned | Gimme Some Oven

    Old Fashioned Cocktail Ingredients:

    • Whiskey: Bourbon or rye are typically for this cocktail. We usually use either Bulleit or Buffalo Trace bourbon.
    • Bitters: We usually use Angostura Aromatic Bitters.
    • Maple syrup: To lightly sweeten the cocktail.
    • Fresh orange: Plus a vegetable peeler or knife, to slice off some of the peel.
    • (Optional) Maraschino cherries: We occasionally like to add Luxardo cherries to our old fashioned cocktails too, which are definitely a bit of a splurge. But trust me, they are a million times better than the cheap, red-dyed, artificially-flavored maraschino cherries in the fruit aisle at the grocery store. They come in a pretty thick syrup, which we tend to tap off so as not to overly sweeten the cocktail.
    • Ice: Any ice will do! We love making ours in these cubed trays.

    How To Make An Old Fashioned Cocktail:

    To make this maple-sweetened old fashioned cocktail, simply:

    1. Prep your orange peel. Use a vegetable peeler or knife to carefully cut a 2- to 3-inch-long piece of orange peel. Run the pulp-side of the peel around the rim of the cocktail glass. Then set aside.
    2. Add bourbon, bitters, and maple syrup. And use a spoon to briefly stir to combine.
    3. Add in the ice. And stir with the spoon again to mix and chill the drink.
    4. Garnish and serve. Give the orange peel a good twist to release its oils, then tuck it into the drink. Add a maraschino cherry (if using) and serve immediately.

    From <https://www.gimmesomeoven.com/maple-old-fashioned/>

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,595
    edited June 2020

    Glad the first day back at work for days and 3 day weeks went well. And so happy you got your water. Now for the electrician. Sorry to hear that Sadie is not hearing well.

    Super windy yesterday and this morning temps are at freezing. I sure hope it doesn't kill my tomatoes! That would be devastating. I have some that are between baseball and golf ball size.

  • Cyndielou
    Cyndielou Member Posts: 1,470
    edited June 2020

    Hello..Happy Tewzzdey

    Glad to hear your surgery went well Dorty..been thinking about you and your recovery..I would hide the JD from Stella...she be sneaky.

    Burrrrr Lowie Lou....More thunderstorms on tap for later today..I love the rain if I dont have to drive in it. DD only stayed a few days and I love her BF....very sweet guy and they are smitten..cute to watch. They made me Mojito's every night and cooked me dinner...love love love.

    Finally had success with Un employment...FL is so jacked up but I got a small check in the mail yesterday and was able to claim my weeks. I also called them and spoke to an actual person who verified my claims look good and I should start to see the money by the beginning of next week.

    Have to start cleaning as Donese arrives on Sunday.

    Enjoy your day ladies

    xoxo

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited June 2020

    Whoa, Lori--I never thought "AZ in June" and "freezing temps" were not mutually exclusive.

    We've had rather active weather today--the electrician was working between the isolated storms (rode 'em out inside the garage or in his car). He hopes to finish tomorrow once it's clear, and then the landscaper can finally fill the trench back in and lay sod. Meanwhile, I have my mani-pedi tomorrow. Masks are mandatory for everyone, gloves are mandatory for staff, stations & chairs are disinfected between clients, stainless steel foot bowls are sterilized with boiling water, reusable tools are autoclaved and all other tools are single-use and discarded. Plastic barriers too. No more refreshments, no waiting in the waiting room for one's appointment or ride home (so I will drive, park where I can and walk). I'm a bit nervous, but Bob thinks I'll be fine. I figure that we are in for an accelerated second wave of the pandemic, so best to get this done while I can. Then Thurs, is Happy's vet appt.

    No wine tonight. Just lime seltzer and a decaf breve cappuccino.

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited June 2020

    Good Morning, Loungettes!Happy Hump Day, and welcome to my Friday! I finally figured out why I wasn't hearing my alarm going off in the ayems--I had the alarms turned off! DUH! Thank goodness for early sunrise waking me up these last few ayems. Of course, now I have to reset the alarms so they don't go off EVERY morning. Ah, the difficulties of changing work hours. Sadie says Hi to everyone.

    Goldie--I've suspected that Sadie's hearing has been going for a while. She is 11 years old, so she's entitled to a little decline, I suppose. She still seems pretty happy, so that's a good thing. Electrician is next, now that I know my work schedule. Hope your tomatoes are surviving.

    CynCyn--oh my, company that comes and cooks and mixes drinks, what a luxury! And getting through to unemployment, that's a major victory these days! Youmust be looking forward to Donese's arrival. Say Hi to her for us.

    Chi--It must feel good to be able to get out and do things like a mani-pedi again.

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    Raspberry Limoncello Prosecco

    Ingredients:

    • 3 cups prosecco, chilled
    • 1 cup limoncello liqueur, chilled
    • 1 cup frozen raspberries
    • 6 sprigs fresh mint

    Directions:

    1. In a large pitcher, whisk together prosecco and limoncello.
    2. Serve over raspberries, garnished with mint, if desired.

    From <https://damndelicious.net/2014/06/09/raspberry-limoncello-prosecco/print/>

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited June 2020
  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited June 2020

    Mornin' ladies,

    I'm so screwed up with my days nd nites lately. These oofy phones are ll over the place and we're so so busy. I sleep mostly during the day an the phones re going during the nite One of my boyfriends fixed my GF's electric yesterday and he didn't charge her so she wants new toilets and told her to pcik them out , he'll pick them up and told her not to worry about it. He tol me he'd take care of her for me. That was so sweet, I was glad she was happy with him.

    OK Kim not saying a word but mum is my word for you. Poor Sadie not hearing well, so see she needs u more. Give her a great big belly rub from me.

    Lori ur weather is crazier than mine. I hope nothing gets frozen out, u work so hard or ur garden an then to have some cray nites to screw it up.

    Cyn I'm sure ur waiting for this weekend an with good reason. I'm telling you Stella is going to make trouble for you. After all we know who introduced her in here, the troublemaker herself. speaking of

    Dara I thought u were staying in the hospital longer but I'm glad ur not but please take it easy. Ur another one that doesn't listen to Drs. sometimes. But u have to listen.

    Sandy u got to get out finally for dinner. There are quite a few outdoor places here, I'm sure they'll be crowded. Today is Joey's BD <16> so she's looking around for someplace to go that;s safe.So we'll see what happens.Jodi's coming Sat. morning to bring breakfast and coffee for Joe's BD and he had a BD parade Saturday so he's having this spread out for a week.Brat

    My phone's been going so I'll go for now, have a nice day everyone.

    LUBS U ALL

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,595
    edited June 2020

    Gosh, it's quiet in here. Well, my son is back in rehab. My DD called and asked me if I would do some of the leg work to take some of it off of her dad, so I did. I spent a morning gathering up information for homeless shelters, called the rehab. place and got my son set to be admitted again. I called his dad last night to talk about how the things/discussion went between the two of them. It was a decent talk. Well, about 15 minutes later he calls me back and asks if he can say some things that he's wanted to say for 20 years. I won't go into all of, but basically I'm a whore and an unnurturing mother. Then said if I didn't ever want to talk to him again, that was fine with him! Oh gee Don, I would love to talk to you! He said lots more, but it would take forever to type it all up, but you get the gist of it. My dilemma now is, how do I explain to the kids that we are not talking again? Or do I let him do it. My husband says to me after I hung up, he knew it wasn't good cuz I just sat there with my mouth open!

    Lucy, how cute to be able to watch the two youngins in love. Is this her first real love? And good that you like and approve. You and Donese sure know how to make a long distance relationship work! How long will she be there for? Glad you finally got unemployment taken care of.

    NM, I had to look at the calendar in my email after you mentioned it being your Friday. I'm straight now, it's really Wednesday! Summer cocktails always look so refreshing. So do you have anything planned for your first 4 day weekend?

    Sandy, enjoy that mani/pedi. My nails are so jacked up from meds, I would be too embarrassed to go for one.

    cami, I kind of thought I would be bumping in to you. I saw Joey's thank you on FB, so sweet...just like him! And how nice of your "boyfriend" to help out your GF. You have a wonderful family. I do hope Joey can find something/somewhere fun to go or do.

    Oh, my garden survived! It got down to 28 degrees.

  • JCSLibrarian
    JCSLibrarian Member Posts: 564
    edited June 2020

    Good morning, all! What a busy day yesterday. I met friends (3) for lunch. We had fun catching up with each other. The wait staff all had masks and the menus were disposable. Then I went to vote in our statewide primary. Lines were long in other areas, but I waited only 30 minutes. Masks were required and they gave you a swab to use with the voting machine. It will be interesting in November! Then I went to get my hair cut. The salon was very clean and everyone had masks on. My hair had grown out with a “mullet” look that the stylist was able to cut off. LOL! But the more she cut, the more my hair curled. My desire for a short, straight pixie cut did not happen. Instead I look more like my mother with the short, permed hair of the 40’s. Oh well, it will grow.

    I have marked the calendar in case I am sickly two weeks from now. I was around more people yesterday than I have been since March. I also went to the hospital on Monday for a bone scan. More strangers! I will go to my MO for a CT and chat this coming Monday. Hope there is no cancer and no Covid19. Yikes

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited June 2020

    It was liberating to get that mani-pedi today, but I was still worried. Everyone was wearing masks (I wear glasses so I didn't need the face shield), mani & pedi stations were 8 ft. apart, everything was constantly being Lysol-ed. The salon owner (my tech) wore gloves for the pedi but said she couldn't do a proper mani with them on. So we both washed our hands after EACH step. There was bottled water, but I didn't want to have to use the loo for anything other than hand washing.

    Abt's repairman came yesterday and replaced the compressor in the fridge anyway--he says it's a vastly-improved model, and he also updated the firmware. He did everything from the back of the fridge. The electrician had to work on & off between the storms, taking shelter in the garage & in his own car. He should finish tomorrow (after this afternoon, it will be clear into Sat. morning). We will test the new line, and if it works the landscaper will fill in the trench and sod it over.

    DOTD thus far is almondmilk breve cappuccino. Tonight, if I can grill the steak I'm defrosting, it'll be a Sonoma area pinot noir in memory of my PCP, who loved pinot noir and grew up in Santa Rosa (where his nonagenarian parents still live).

  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Member Posts: 2,129
    edited June 2020

    Hi Dahlinks,
    Just a note to say I'm doing pretty good.
    Dealing with some mega-hot weather and the winds, oh my. But I'm ok with it for now.
    Been trying to get some hair to grow. Been doing the 'comb over' LOL. Got some growth but still see the bald spots. Been using Keranique, is working better than the Rogaine I was using. I've been working on the re-growth for 5+ years. UGH!
    I had a brain MRI last Thurs, haven't got results yet, but as they say 'no news can be good news'. Have been having incredible headaches for over a month now, so am glad I got the MRI.
    Anyway, that's what's happening on my end …wishing you all happy days. Still praying for everyone, morning and night. Take care ya'all.
    LUBSLUBSLUBSLUBS

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited June 2020

    Thanks for checking in, MemaSue! I think as we're getting older (and more estrogen-deficient, especially via meds), we're devising more and more clever ways to disguise our ever-thinning tresses! In your pocket for MRI results and that no news is indeed good news.

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited June 2020
  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited June 2020

    Hey Guys,

    Oh Lori I'm so sorry. I know when u go to rehab u can leave anytime u want, but personally I don't think it's long enough to start with. This is a tough disease and leaving rehab is just the start of a long day by day struggle.and unless u come out and start over leaving everything and most people behind you it's worse. And I hope ur ex said what u can brush off is what happened. Sometimes my ex would call me so many vile names that when he'd call me a whore I said thank you for ur kind words. Sometimes he would tell me he still loved me so I knew that's why he caled me a whore. So really that's the reason. But should u tell your kids, I'd say no for your son right now, and ur DD .well she is an adult but u know her best., I don't think it would shock her cuz it's been years. All in all if they don't have to know then why say anything. This is really all about ur son and if u can keep it that way the better off the whole situation would be. Please don't take this seriously ur ex had to feel better in the moment and thinking it would hurt you what better thing could he do. Andd let's face it u really can't help ur son but to let him know how much u love him, he has all the hard work to do. <PRAYERS> Lori

    JC leave it to you to start ur time going slowly to being exposed by just diving into a pool of every kind of germ there is out there. And after 2 weeks u'll be like super woman. But even reading it I could hear the excitement in your voice. It's very hard for u to stay in and seeing ur friends had to make u feel so good. Oh and the hair thing we are all up that creek <ok some of us> It's just plain sad.

    SusyQ I'm glad ur doing OK, please let us know how the scan goes. But ur right no news is good news.. So that's a good sign.

    Cyn I hope u take some pics for us so the newbies know exactly what we're talking about. I've always enjoyed the things u do. The last time I felt sand under my feet was in the 80's, and u all make it look so relaxing and fun. Are they all people that u know for years an new ones just keep on coming in, cuz there are always so many.

    Hey Kim how are things going, and u'd better give Sadie the extra rubs from me.

    Hey Teka!!!

    Oh the latest house news. Marty broke 2 ribs falling at work. Of course I LOL can't help it. He's running out of any good body parts to hurt.

    Everyone have a good day and let the papers go where the wind blows, meaning nothing.

    LUBS U ALL

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited June 2020

    Good Morning, Loungettes!Happy Thirsty Thursday! And the first day of my 4 day weekend! When I turned on the alarms yesterday I forgot to edit them, so on this ayem when Sadie and I can sleep in, the alarms go off!Got that fixed now. Looks like we'll get some rain this ayem, which is badly needed by the gardens. At least if it doesn't rain enough I can now water the gardens. Sadie has been enjoying her pool during the warmer times of day, I can tells cuz she's wet when I get home from work. Nothing like the smell of wet doggo!But it makes her happy, so I don't mind so much. Until she's still wet at bed time and wants to get into bed with me, then we have a toweling off session, which is entertaining cuz she always keeps rolling over to get her belly rubbed, even when I want to get her back or sides.Did you know a 65# dog turns into 1,000# when she doesn't want to be rolled over?!

    Cammy Cat--wow, your boyfriends take good care of you and yours!Do you have to cross of the days on a calendar like I do? That's the only way I can keep things straight any more. Sadie says "thank you" for the big belly rub that just got put into her bank for tonite. Say Happy Birthday to Joey for me! The big 16, he's really growing up.

    Goldie--Good heavens, what a family drama! After youhelping him out he has the balls to say things like thatto you? I wish I knew something to say to make the situation better for you or how to explain it to the kids. At least your son is getting help. You've help accomplish that much. My plans for my first 4 day weekend are modest. 2 or 3 small housekeeping projects a day, treating myself to a shopping trip for gardening stuff and then playing in the dirt. I'm hoping the porch rocker I ordered comes this weekend so I can put it together and be able to enjoy the deck more. Maybe check out the local pond and see about water temp and maybe swimming, if it gets as warm as predicted. Glad your garden survived the cold snap!

    Librarian--Good idea to mark your calendar with your outside activities. If you do get sick you will be in a much better place to determine where you came in contact with it.Most medical places are pretty safe with all the precautions they are taking. If people in the hospital/scan center aren't wearing masks remember that you have the right to ask them to put one on while around you. That's turning out to be the best protection going, having both parties faces covered.

    Chi--Sounds like the salon is being run really well with mitigation practices. Good for them! Glad the fridge is updated. It should work without trouble for quite some time now, I would think.I bet you are more than ready for the electrical work to be finished.

    Mema--praying for good MRI results, sorry to hear about the headaches. Glad to hear the hair is growing, too! I hope the mega-hot temps are being too much of a bother for you.

    Cammy Cat--good advice for Goldie.Ouch, poor Marty!I hear that broken ribs really hurt. I hope he recovers without complications.

    High Drama | Recipe | Cocktails, Cocktails for beginners, Drinks

    High Drama Cocktail

    Ingredients

    1 oz aquafaba

    .5 oz rose water

    1 oz Charcoal Simple Syrup

    2.5 oz gin

    rose petals, for garnish

    Method

    • Add all ingredients except the garnish to a shaker.
    • Add ice and shake.
    • Strain into a rocks glass with one large ice cube, and garnish with a rose petal.
    You've never seen a rose cocktail like this before. Even though it's pitch black (thanks to activated charcoal), this striking cocktail is unexpectedly floral. Created at the Portland, Oregon, outpost of Virtuous Pie, a mini-chain of "plant-based" pizza restaurants, the cocktail reflects the restaurant's vegan values by using aquafaba (chickpea water) in place of egg whites to give the drink a gorgeous, foamy head and creamy texture. Rose flower water gives it a rich scent and mild sweetness, while locally made Aviation Gin adds notes of crisp juniper. The charcoal simple syrup brings everything together and gives the drink its shocking ebony hue. It also might have some health benefits. "Activated charcoal works as a health aid, teeth whitener and prevents hangovers," says general manager Chelsea Boyer. So go ahead, have another.

    From <https://www.supercall.com/recipe/rose-cocktail-high-drama>


  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,595
    edited June 2020

    LDB, glad you gots a little bit of hair growing, but I'm sure you will always have that issue from the rads. I'm just happy that 5 yrs later you are still with us! I'm so sorry about the headaches and praying it's not the RB. I hope you get results soon. Waiting is the worst.

    Cami, I won't say anything to the kids. If it comes up, I will be brief. My DD is a daddy's girl, so saying anything about her dad, she will defend him or make excuses for him. So I would most likely say that he said some very nasty things to me and leave it at that. Been quite some time since my toes have been in the sand too.

    NM, you and Sadie are gonna have a great 4 days. Visiting a pond, playing in the dirt, a little housekeeping, maybe some swimming. And you have 4 days to do it all! We have rocking lawn chairs, but what I would really like is a swing. I had one when I lived in Michigan, loved it. Interesting Drama cocktail, I had to look up the aquafaba, altho now I see it says what it is in the recipe!

    Temps here are heating up! Heading back up into the 90's...UGH! I think things in the biz are starting their downward slope. I've been fighting between my specialty pharmacy and my MO's office to get one of my meds. It's an monthly injection for which I will be 2 weeks late as of tomorrow. I'm starting to get a tad peeved over it.

  • Cyndielou
    Cyndielou Member Posts: 1,470
    edited June 2020

    Hello my dears

    Working on that stamina to clean before the big day when Donese gets here. Give me strength.

    Drummed last night in a un disclosed location. There were prolly 15 of us. Was nice to see some that have been MIA for months. Cammy Cat...most of us are old timers but a new faces show up all the time and become part of the "Tribe". No beach for drumming until further notice since we attract so many spectators. Luckily Stella is caring for our Dear Dara right now.

    Nice to see you Mema......miss your face. Praying for good news once you get it. You are one very strong woman. xox. Stay cool.

    Lowie lou..how is DH?

    NM....are you working normal hours now?

    Enjoy your Thirsty Thursday gals.

    xox


  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited June 2020

    Cyndielou, I've never joined a drum circle but I have played percussion in the studio and onstage. But I so miss singing: solo, with my duo, and my choirs (temple and the chorus of the Bar Show, which is probably extinct after 98 years),

    My middle name is Louise: my late dear cousin, a lifelong Floridian, used to call me "Sandylou." (She passed away of CHF & complications of T2DM last fall at 88--and I flew down to FL for the day for her memorial service. I miss her, and her magnificent soprano voice).

    Took Happy to the vet today for his exam, shots, & "mani-pedi." He behaved on the ride--didn't start meowing till we put him (in his carrier) into the car, and didn't pant or yowl "NOOOO! HOOOOME! I WUV YOOO!" like he usually does when he realizes where we're taking him. The vet tech met us at the car, brought him inside, and the vet phoned me to tell me how the visit went. Strange days indeed.

    Electrician flaked out today--wasted some beautiful mild dry weather. Said "today got away from me." Promises he'll try to finish up tomorrow so the landscaper can finally fill in the trench. After that, I want sod; Bob wants a kiddie pool for cooling off (IMHO, a mosquito farm). Not that he'd use it--he won't even wear shorts, and it's a major achievement for me to convince him to wear jeans and a polo or T-shirt on his days off.

    DOTD with a grill-based dinner was 2011 Signorello Estate Cab. Sauv.

    Anyone see the new recs yesterday from the American Cancer Society that NO amount of alcohol is safe? I have two words for them, and they're not "Merry Christmas." (They begin with "bite" and end with "me").

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited June 2020

    Good Morning, Loungettes!Happy TGIF day! Sadie and I had a lovely sleep in this ayem. Got some stuff done on the list yesterday, only carried over 1 item, hopefully will get to that one today. With the gloomy weather and rain yesterday I just got lazy. So, less lazy today, I hope. Sadie doesn't care if I'm lazy or busy, as long as she gets her pets and belly rubs, and those make for great breaks when I'm not lazy!

    Goldie--I didn't know what aquafaba was until I saw that in the recipe, either. Amazing what you can use for foods and drinks. I do have a swing on the deck, but it's not as comfortable as the type I had before and I prefer rockers anyway. I decided now is as good a time as any to upgrade to a good porch rocker. Temps here still seesawing a bit, should be quite warm and humid through the weekend, I think I heard. I would be upset at a 2 week medication delay, too.

    CynCyn--Does FL have a max number of people who can gather? Is that why the drubbing was in an undisclosed location? In Maine we still have a limit of 10 people, it's making scheduling some mandatory educationwe have to do this month. I am now working normal hours again, 8 ayem to 4 peeyem.The body is still adjusting. I slept well last night, but didn't go to bed until 11 peeyem, usual bedtime is 9! I need to pay more attention to that over the rest of the weekend until I get readjusted.

    Chi--sorry to hear the electrician flaked out. Not very professional, IMO. I take it Happy got a good vet report? No amount of alcohol is safe? OK. Fine. I'm an adult and I'll decide what is important to my quality of life, and to heck with them. Show me where people who never drink never get cancer and maybe, just maybe, I'll listen. Show me the absolute cause of EVERY cancer, and then I'll start listening to the "advice" that transfers the responsibility for getting cancer to the victims.

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    Session-Cocktails_Kitty-Highball.jpg

    Kitty Highball

    Ingredients

    • 2 ounces red wine
    • 3/4 ounce ginger syrup (see note)
    • 1/2 ounce lime juice
    • Soda water
    • Glass: COLLINS
    • Garnish: CANDIED GINGER

    Preparation

    1. Combine the wine, ginger syrup, and lime juice in a cocktail shaker. Add a small piece of cracked ice and shake until chilled. Strain into a collins glass filled with ice, top with soda water, and garnish with the candied ginger.

    To make the ginger syrup:

    Combine 2 cups sugar and 1 cup fresh ginger juice in a small pot over very low heat. Cook, stirring constantly, until the sugar is dissolved. Remove from the heat and let cool completely. Transfer to a plastic or glass container and store in the refrigerator for up to 1 month.

    From <https://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/kitty-highball-red-wine-ginger-spritzer-cocktail>

  • keywestfan
    keywestfan Member Posts: 338
    edited June 2020

    NativeMainer- Well, I never drink, have always been thin, vegetarian for 45 years, exercised for 50 years every day, and I got it. Twice- Cervical, misdiagnosed and spread in 1969, IDC, last year. I do feel- and I think this is grandiosity and my usual guilt, that I caused it by high estrogen birth control in 1965-1969 and HRT for some many years after my ovaries were removed in 1969 at 35. The other side of it, which I try to tell myself, is that bones are good- well we’ll see what Arimidex does- cognition is good, heart is good, skin, and I look younger. I doubt it’s that simple that a few drinks a day will cause it. More likely, if not genetics, then randomness, chance, bad luck, not vermouth

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,595
    edited June 2020

    Lucy, glad you got out to go drumming, I know how much my hippie friend loves that. DH is doing ok.

    NM, why is it that gray gloomy days make us lazy??? Hopefully you will be all adjusted come Monday. Did your rocker come? This is the swing I had. I absolutely loved it!

    See the source image


    They had something on the news here about alcohol and cancer, like 4% and 6%. I call BS!! You talk about those that don't drink but still get cancer, what about alcoholics who drink constantly but DON'T get it! Still no medicine, I told the PA that I will be calling him every day. He sent another message to the whole dept that handles this type of thing with "high Priority". I told him I was really getting angry, as they are messing with MY LIFE. Oh, I did look at my labs, big jump again. Not going to let it get to me, it is what is. DH finally got a date for his back surgery, July 14. So we are gonna head north and go camping prior.


  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited June 2020

    Sandy - oh yes I saw the Cancer Society recommendations about no alcohol. I promptly poured a second glass of wine. And then I had a bedtime toddy of Amarula cream liquor. Yes, NM - quality of life matters!!!


  • Beaverntx
    Beaverntx Member Posts: 3,183
    edited June 2020

    In total agreement re "no alcohol"!!! There must be a balance that includes quality of life. My preference is generally wine and even that not daily. We brought about 30 cases of California wine with us when we moved to Texas in fall 2011(we volunteered at a winery and were "paid" in wine). Some of the reds are just now aging out nicely. We just finished a Ken Volk '09 pino noir, for example. We also still belong to a couple of wine clubs, so product must be enjoyed!🍇🍇🍇🍸🍺🍷🍹

  • Cyndielou
    Cyndielou Member Posts: 1,470
    edited June 2020

    TGIF!

    Rainy days are lazy days NM for Sure...I bet Sadie just lives for those pets and belly rubs. We do have max for people in groups here. I believe its 50 but not sure. We have chosen not to put ourselves in a position that will encourage large groups mostly because of the spectators who dont usually obey normal laws. Not trusting them to social distance and we dont want to be shut down permanently by the county.

    Love that swing Lori....wish I had room for one....some day.

    Donese will be here in 2 days...cant wait....that reminds me...gotta go do more tiding up around here..have enough dog hair to build another dog.

    xoxo

  • CeliaC
    CeliaC Member Posts: 1,320
    edited June 2020

    About alcohol and cancer - They will have to pry my wine glass or my spiked coffee out of my cold dead hands.

  • Cyndielou
    Cyndielou Member Posts: 1,470
    edited June 2020

    OMG! LOFLMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SAME Celia

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited June 2020

    Judy, you look fantastic! You are the second thin, teetotling, nonsmoking athletic vegetarian I know who still got breast cancer (wife of an online guitar buddy--she's a vegan triathlete). We have amassed quite a bit of wine (not "collectors," just "accumulators") that it's unlikely we'll finish in our lifetimes. Tonight's DOTD, however, was seltzer. We were going to have some French (VDP d'Oc) rosé brut with dinner, but Bob wanted to eat while I attended online temple. (Service was conducted by our cantor, who gave an AMAZING sermon based on an extremely pertinent Torah portion--she may put the text online).

    Bob's ex-partner fell and hit his head in his assisted living apt. and was taken to the ER for observation. (So much for the "assisted" part). Fingers crossed he'll be okay. I put him on the "Mi Sheberach" healing prayer list.

    My PCP's (Dr. M's) daughter Dr. H, who was his PA/NP, did not get the virus after all. She wrote me today that she plans to return to the office soon (as will the nurses) under the (nominal) supervision of the doctor who covers for them. I'm sort of torn at this point--she is great; but our friend from Bob's residency days (Dr. P, my PCP's ex-partner) has agreed to take me on (virtually, for now); and the PCP (Dr. F) I had before Dr. M for almost a decade.--whom I had to drop when she stopped taking my insurance--is still taking patients. I don't really trust the safety of Dr. H's professional bldg. Dr. F's office is in the same building as my podiatrist, which though attached to St. Francis Hosp. is safe.

    Out of curiosity, I Googled the name of the first PCP I had in Chicago (Dr. L), back in 1978 when we had a closed-panel HMO (Anchor) wholly-owned by the Rush health system. She was utterly amazing. I had to switch to Dr. F (who at the time was still with Anchor) when Dr. L retired with her husband to rural NC in 1988. Her obit stated she died in the NC hospital she founded (coming out of retirement the moment she got to NC) in 1998. Until I read it I had no idea just how amazing she was: she founded the Mile Square clinic in an African-American neighborhood on the W. Side; and was twice arrested at Greenpeace protests. She was the first doctor I had who told me to "eat like a cavewoman" and "avoid white stuff except for whole dairy, fish & cauliflower." Only took me 41 years to start following that advice.

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited June 2020
  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited June 2020

    Mornin' ladies.. nice to see u again Beaver and Celia you too.

    Key I dont think I met u before so welcome, personally I don't drink at all, just lubs the ladies. U' be surprised how much more we do than drink. Of course that's on the top of the list.

    Lori how is ur son doing??? My prayers have been with him.

    OK Kim back on the regular times now, so u get home like a normal person. And sadie must like this better, right.

    Boy Cyn that's a lot of people u can have at a gathering <if I'm membering right> but u can have loads of fun with that many, but yea keep it on the quiet side if u can.Ur pics remind me of a time were yea people protested but a lot nicer and just preached happiness and looked so free and happy. And now all the people look even happier and calm and filled with enjoyment and thats you. So I enjoy them so much. Am I saying it right, sometimes I get things so mixed up lately. It doesn't make sense.

    Jee I miss Jazzy. See how I jumped right in there, some type of Fraudein slip.

    I'll give it another week then I'll start making my app't for my tests. good thing they're written down cuz all I remember is blood tests. Only cuz that's the simplest to remember, they never turn out very good but not so bad that I have to worry. BTW u gals know I want a glass od wine every so often and still haven't had one but the other nite it was warm an I had such a taste of a beer, yea a beer again I didn't have one. I think it's the morphine that stops me yet I believe it really wouldn't hurt anything. I've known people who've done that in excess and nothing happens so why does it bother me so. Stupid.

    JC how's it going, u've made so many plans u have to share, pics and all. Won't take anything less. Miss traveling pants.

    I think today is Saturday so have a good day, I have to work hope it's not busy I get so lazy.

    LUBS U ALL

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