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  • nopink2019
    nopink2019 Member Posts: 329
    edited May 2020

    cake, new job in middle of this virus confusion, mx and PT? Rant all you want! And congrats on the job, incredible accomplishment right now.

    In Feb I saw some brat (who was not ill) from the ship that was quarantined who was crying & whining because she'd just finished a month cruise in the far East and now couldn't go back to her life as planned. She was part of a world wide pandemic and she was worried about missing a social engagement! Wanted to slap the tv. Are people more narcissistic or do they just vocalize it more? My guess is mommy or money have always kept them from reality. Hate to see them try to run things or deal with their own or a loved ones health issues.

    Rant is over. Thanks

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  • ctmbsikia
    ctmbsikia Member Posts: 1,095
    edited May 2020

    My husband passed today. Our kids and I were there with him. I’ve never been with a loved one on their last breath. It’s so hard but yet it’s so peaceful.

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  • Beaverntx
    Beaverntx Member Posts: 3,183
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia, yes, it is hard and also peaceful, a bit strange to experience. Know he will be missed but may he be at peace and free of pain now. Holding you and your family up for comfort, peace and rest, especially over the next few weeks.

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  • nopink2019
    nopink2019 Member Posts: 329
    edited May 2020

    ctmb, many have been following your story and thoughts go out for peace for you and family.

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  • LiveLoveLaugh2020
    LiveLoveLaugh2020 Member Posts: 322
    edited May 2020

    Ctm my deepest condolences, thoughts, and prayers to you and your family...Xo

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  • Maryjv
    Maryjv Member Posts: 306
    edited May 2020

    my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time 🙏❤️ May he Rest In Peace

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  • runor
    runor Member Posts: 1,798
    edited May 2020

    ctmb, oh dear god. I am so sorry. You were a rockstar. You were the person you promised to be on that day when you gave your vows. You stood and were counted and we all hope that when we need someone, we have someone like you in our life. Someone who stands by us. You did. You walked the walk. And now, in your grief and the bewildering time ahead, I hope peace finds its way to your heart. Yes, peace and grief and anger can exist together. Expect them all. Anger, grief, they are huge, swirling feelings. But you know how sometimes, as the sun comes through the window just right you can see all the miniscule particles floating and churning in the air and every now and then one of them sparkles, like a tiny diamond. That is peace. The smallest sparkle in a swirling storm. When you are ready, you will feel it. I am so glad you were there with him. Wrapping you and your family in a big, sad hug. You did good, ctmb, you did good. Love to you.

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  • kathindc
    kathindc Member Posts: 2,042
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia, May your dear husband Rest In Peace. Sending prayers for strength to you and your children.

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  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited May 2020

    Ctmbsikia, we are so sorry to hear about your husband. May he rest in peace

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

    The Mods

    xoxo


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  • edj3
    edj3 Member Posts: 2,076
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia, I am so very sorry. May the memories you have comfort you.

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  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia, I am so sorry. My deepest condolences to you and your family. My thoughts are with you.

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  • Gamb
    Gamb Member Posts: 599
    edited May 2020

    ctmb, Peace and comfort to you and your family


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  • bennybear
    bennybear Member Posts: 326
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia, I am so sorry for your loss! May good memories help sustain you and may you find strength and peace! Hugs!

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  • ByHisGraceTwice
    ByHisGraceTwice Member Posts: 225
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia

    My prayer for you and your children is soon will come the day when you think about your husband and the smile of a great memory comes to your face before the tears.

    🌈

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  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia

    I am so sorry; my condolences to you and your family and all who knew and loved him. It's good that you were all there to help him with his transition. Peace be with you.


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  • DodgersGirl
    DodgersGirl Member Posts: 2,382
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia— condolences and deepest sympathies to you and your family. I am sorry for your loss. I have no words to take away your tears. Sending you virtual hugs

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  • Gamb
    Gamb Member Posts: 599
    edited May 2020

    getting ready to blast Taps from my car speakers, to the lost of our loved ones. Peace everyone

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  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited May 2020

    My condolences on your loss. May you and your loved ones find comfort in his memory.

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  • Kamboka
    Kamboka Member Posts: 975
    edited May 2020

    Following your comments for many months so it feels like I knew you and your husband. My condolences to you and your family. Wishing you strength and peace.

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  • DogMomRunner
    DogMomRunner Member Posts: 616
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia- you don't know me but I have read your posts and offer my condolences

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  • bcincolorado
    bcincolorado Member Posts: 5,758
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia My heart and prayers are with you and your family right now. I am so sorry.

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  • molliefish
    molliefish Member Posts: 723
    edited May 2020

    such a sad tim for you and your family. I remember the day my dad passed. I will never forget, the feelings of love, and pain, and relief, and comfort, and anger. He fought so hard to stay, yet he struggled and suffered too. Please know that we all feel some of your grief and we wrap you in our thoughts and send you our love from afar. I am truly sorry that you have lost your love.

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  • bella2013
    bella2013 Member Posts: 489
    edited May 2020

    I am so sorry for your loss. His battle is over...now he knows peace. Praying for you and your children. May you have sweet memories of life together before cancer.

    Sending big hugs💔.

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  • mistyeyes
    mistyeyes Member Posts: 584
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia - So very sorry. I am glad you and your children were there.

    When my husband died, I remember standing outside on the porch feeling like the whole world felt different, maybe an energy was gone. It was such a weird feeling I have never forgotten it. Some months afterward I went to grief counseling. It was religious based and offered at several different churches. It was called Grief Share and was very helpful. It brought up some of the things I felt and thought I was crazy, it was good to know I wasn't ….or at least not crazy alone. Peace to you.

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  • Betrayal
    Betrayal Member Posts: 1,374
    edited May 2020

    So sorry for your loss.

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  • LoriCA
    LoriCA Member Posts: 923
    edited May 2020

    ctmbsikia I'm so sorry. Hugs

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  • Sunshine99
    Sunshine99 Member Posts: 1,680
    edited May 2020

    AliceBastable your comments made me smile. Not because they were particularly funny, but I could SO relate to them. I have a friend, who happens to go to same church we attend, who just freaked out when she heard my cancer had recurred. "This is horrible! What if this happens to ME? It's the cell phone tower on the church!" I told her to stop freaking out. I wasn't, so why should she? "Just think positive and you'll get through this", she told me. Um, no, thinking positive doesn't "cure" Stage IV metastatic breast cancer. I'll "get through" this when I'm dead. It will be my fault if I don't get over this because I wasn't positive enough. (By the way, I don't think the 45 minutes a week you spent at church "gave" you breast cancer.)

    I left Facebook a while back. I couldn't take the drama, the bragging (I went for a run today, took a wrong turn and ended up running an extra 40 miles!) I know what you mean about not wanting to unfriend her because it's the only contact you have with her, but sheesh - enough already.


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  • Sunshine99
    Sunshine99 Member Posts: 1,680
    edited May 2020

    ctm, I'm so sorry. I wish peace and comfort for you today and in the coming days.

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  • ctmbsikia
    ctmbsikia Member Posts: 1,095
    edited May 2020

    You guys are awesome. Know it! Thank you for all your posts and support. You know I’ll be back soon.

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  • Beaverntx
    Beaverntx Member Posts: 3,183
    edited May 2020

    ctm, meanwhile, take care of yourself, please.

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