The Chemosabe March Cruise
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I've been waiting to have my scans approved by the insurance and I finally got a call today from the imaging place. You're not going to believe this, lol. She told me that they and all the other imaging places were told to stop doing nuclear scans because there may be a problem with one of the solutions they use. So...I'm schedule to start chemo on the 19th but they have no idea when I'll be able to get the bone scan and especially the MUGA. I'm waiting to hear from my onc's office on what will happen now. They are trying to see if the hospitals might still be able to do scans. Sigh. I just want to get on with it.
Nancy - so glad your scan was clear!
Welcome everyone else.
Cynthia -
I have a question for those that have your port. How long before you could do everything again. My mother is one of those people, oh so and so didnt get sick, and so and so is doing wonderful you will too. So when she went to the surgeon with me yesterday all she heard out of the whole conversations was day after surgery, might be able to do everything normal. So now she has this attitude the day after the port I will be running marithons and not having anything wrong.
Dawn -
so, i had a CAT scan, a bone scan and an echocardiogram. i wonder why i had a CAT instead of a PET, and an echo instead of a HUGA or MUGA?
anyway, everything looks good in regard to those results. i'm her2/neu negative, so no herceptin for me.
i'm scheduled to get my port monday -- does it hurt? do they put you under? that week is spring break for us, and i don't want to be under the weather....
my onc has a heavy Swiss accent, but what he said, i think, was that i would go on aduramycin (entrocycline) and taxine. does that sound familiar to anyone?
i also need a biopsy of the right breast cuz they found something there, too. yeehaw! -
Taurie and Barbkirk,
I had my port installed 2-23-07. I had sedation rather than general anesthesia. I was aware of what was going on, but no pain and it was over quickly. Fast recovery time. I got to hospital at 7:00 a.m. and was home by noon.
Very sore and bruised for about a week and range of motion in arm was limited. I am now feeling back to normal except still feel the port. -
Thanks for that info Marsha....I get mine on Friday and it will be sedation not general anesthesia. Just one more hurtle we have to jump through on this journey.
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Dawn - you won't be running marathons the day after your port goes in, but you shouldn't need any 'care' from others. So tell mom to take her attitude with her when she leaves!
I feel I had a pretty normal experience when mine was placed on 2/13 - the procedure itself was no problem, but dang, that thing was sore for a solid week. I suppose shoving something foreign underneath your skin and then jamming a tube between a good six inches of skin and fascia to reach the insertion point is kinda traumatic to the chest. But, now, mine feels just fine. And without exception, every chemo patient I've ever talked to says their port was a godsend. Anything that makes the next few months a little easier!
Lisa -
Hi playwriter - I'm not having a MUGA, either. In fact, she's relying on my echocardiogram from last month. When I asked why no MUGA, she said I was young and healthy with no history or risk factors for my heart and if I really wanted to go through one, she'd order it. Uhm, no, that's okay - if you're cool with it, and I can avoid a procedure, I am waaaay cool with it, too.
Good luck on Monday - the port should not keep you from enjoying your Spring Break - it'll just be very tender.
Lisa -
GrammyNancy that is GREAT news!! Sorry Lisa that I didn't get you on the list. Can't blame it on chemo brain yet, nerves??
I went this afternoon and picked up some wigs, have to say I love them. They look better than my own hair. My DH took the day off work today, took me shopping, had a nice lunch. It was great, he said he couldn't think about leaving for work the day before my chemo. He's so sweet. -
I also had what they call sleepy sedation with the port, I don't remember anything at all. You'll be a little sore a couple of days after, but didn't keep me down. It is a quick procedure, in and out in no time. Taurie, your mom sounds like mine.
Barbkirk, you sound like such a sweet caring husband, she's very lucky to have you by her side. I wish there was some place that significant others can communicate, I know my husband feels lost through all this also.
Well, going to do some drugs and try and sleep tonight, if I dont have to get up and pee 100 times. I drank more water today than I have in a long time. I'm already sick of it.
Tomorrow's dance #1 ..... I'll check back with everyone as soon as I can.
Hugs to everyone !!!
Linda -
I'm in love with you Jill...you will be my breast buddy from now on...oops...I meant best buddy..no I didn't!! My son suggested I wear a PINK wig...no use tyring to look like your real scarggly hair mom...he sadi in his most endearign tone... gotta love those gawky teenage sons...
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I've been waiting to have my scans approved by the insurance and I finally got a call today from the imaging place. You're not going to believe this, lol. She told me that they and all the other imaging places were told to stop doing nuclear scans because there may be a problem with one of the solutions they use.
Cynthia
And I just had the MUGA yesterday. Sigh.
Congrats on the clear PET scan, Nancy, and thanks for the good wishes.
taurie, I'm having the same experience with the port that the others have had. I would just add be sure to keep an ice pack on afterwards (30 mins. on, 30 off). It really makes a difference as I found out when I stopped.
11 1/2 hours to go, but who's counting? I'll be thinking of you, Linda.
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Kirk - you are the best. Barb - we gotcha girl...I had my MUGA today...what a trip..didn't know I would get a grade...what should I hope for??
hugs from Holly -
It's a MUGA love...and it's quite straight forward. They take out a little tube of blood from your arm or top of your hand...send you to wait for 30 minutes while they mix it with radioactive isotopes and then re-insert it in the little thingy majig(heparin lock) that they left in your arm or hand and then (while you are fully clothed in your street clothes) let you lie on a lovely table and meditate for two 15 - 20 min intervals and a camera takes 'pix' of your hear function... Because Adriamyacin is cardiotoxic they need a baseline to see what kind of function you have before the onset of the lovely chemo treatment.....
I start chemo on Friday and am scared (are we allowed to swear here??)SHITLESS... -
WHERE did you find good and cute wigs? I bought one that looks like uhm...crap and cost $400....the ACS one were ridiculous - I looked like a hooker...not that there's anything wrong with hookers!!
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LOVE to YOU chiquita!! You dance one day before me...I will follow your steps...make them light and lovely...
Hugs from Holly -
Hi, shipmates -
It looks like there are two of us "Marsha's" on this cruise. It's unusual that we even spell it the same way! I had my MUGA today, tomorrow I am going to a chemo orientation class, then surgery for the port on Friday. I was told that I would have general anesthesia. On Monday, 3/12 I will have my bone and CT scans, then chemo starting on Wednesday, 3/14. I was chuckling as I read some of your posts about other people offering words of wisdom on how someone else coped with their cancer. When I told a co-worker that I was going to be out on medical leave, she told me that she had a friend who worked all thru her treatments with a SMILE on her face! What do you say back to that kind of insensitive stupidity?! Jeez------ Well, it's nice to have all of you to be real with. See you on the LIDO deck!
Marshabel -
WOW!! What a great cruise this will be. You all have posted so positively--GREAT!!! Can some of us "oldbies" help steer your ship???? The cruise you begin will be interesting--you'll laugh a lot and you'll cry a lot, but you will be amazed after your trip is over--many friendships will be forged during your cruise. And, you will be able to steer others' ships!
huggggsssssssss to you all!!!!!!
junie (IDC, lump, ax node 16-neg, A/C, rads, Tamoxifen...just finished my 5 yrs Tamoxifen......quite the trip!) -
Here I am up at 4:30 in the morning of D day. sigh.... This is my usual waking up time anyway during the week, I start work at 6:00 in the morning. We can set our own hours at work, so I go in early to avoid traffic jams, they drive me crazy. I'm on short term leave now, taking time off around my chemo days. I was hoping I could sleep in a little, but doesn't look like thats going to happen.
I got my wigs from a place called Brian Joseph's, the lady that owns the place is a BC survivor herself. Her store is strictly for BC survivors, she carries everything from wigs, bras, wraps, skin moisturizers, you name it, she's got it. Here''s her web site if your interested http://www.brianjosephs.com . It's located a couple of miles from where I live, if anyone wants anything from her store, I'll be glad to pick it up and send it to you, save you sisters some shipping charges. I also picked up some face moisturizer from her yesterday and I love it.
And yes, Holly, swear words, pity parties, thumb sucking, laughing, all are allowed on this cruise. Whatever it takes to get us through this. I know I've said a few and sure there's more to come!!
Maxgirl, I've got your hand today also girl!!
Junie, you are most welcomed on our little cruise. We're all newbies, and as you can tell scared sh*tless as Holly puts it so well. And congrat's for being done and making it through.
Good luck to everyone who has scans, pokes and prods coming up soon. Sick of being poked and proded and scanned everywhere. I've never sat in so many Dtrs offices in all my life, and it's only just begun.
Well I'm rambling, I think I'm on a adrenlin (sp?) rush....
Hugs to everyone.
Linda -
Here is a updated list, (I hope its right this time)
Cruise Members So Far:
1. Taurie, FL, A/C + T
2. Cynthia1962, CA, A/C
3. LindaDK, KS, T/C, start 3/8
4. Rosebud1962, CA
5. Holly Hopes, CA, start 3/9
6. GrammyNancy, GA,
7. Maxgirl, Maryland, A/C + T, start 3/8
8. Ducky1, Canada
9. Refugee, NeOH, A/C, start 3/5
10. Jillrush, Louisiana, A/C + T, start 3/9
11. Playwriter (Terri), TX,
12. Marshabel, TX, A/C + T, start 3/15
13. Pmarsh34, NC, TAC
14. Marsha2664, A/C + T, start 3/5
15. BarbKirk, A/C, start 3/12
16. LisaDCA, CA, -
Here is a updated list, (I hope its right this time)
Cruise Members So Far:
1. Taurie, FL, A/C + T
2. Cynthia1962, CA, A/C
3. LindaDK, KS, T/C, start 3/8
4. Rosebud1962, CA
5. Holly Hopes, CA, start 3/9
6. GrammyNancy, GA,
7. Maxgirl, Maryland, A/C + T, start 3/8
8. Ducky1, Canada
9. Refugee, NeOH, A/C, start 3/5
10. Jillrush, Louisiana, A/C + T, start 3/9
11. Playwriter (Terri), TX,
12. Marshabel, TX, A/C + T, start 3/15
13. Pmarsh34, NC, TAC
14. Marsha2664, A/C + T, start 3/5
15. BarbKirk, A/C, start 3/12
16. LisaDCA, CA,
17. Angel-CA,(6 Adriamycin/Taxotere/Cytoxin)start 3-14 -
Well I've been here for months now and finally on the band wagon for the March Cruise. Had to postpone starting in Feb because hubby was supposed to have heart surgery which has been postponed for 6 mos. I'm back on track now and will begin on 3-14. 6 rounds of Adriamycin/Taxotere/Cytoxin.
Here's what I've learned being here the past few months.
To keep down the mouth sores or thrush use Biotene Toothpaste and mouthwash. Suck on ice during infusion and eat popsicles or smoothie drinks.
To help with the bad taste use flavored waters they seem to be the best. Not sure about the carbonated ones.
Usually the nausea doesn't hit right during or after chemo. Can take 4-5 days to a week before you notice anything. Make sure you take your meds wether or not you have symptoms because if you don't and it hits you they usually won't work.
When you don't have much of an appetite make Protein Shakes to help keep up your strength.
Try scheduling your chemo during the week rather than a Friday because if you get any side effects you won't have to wait till Monday to contact the onc.
Ports- It's normal for them to be sore like a bruise. The neck ones seem to be more sore and sensitive.
Friends and Family- Most of them will go south for the winter while you're going through your treatment. Nobody seems to know why other than maybe they think we'll rub our cancer off on them....lol
Rude Comments-Don't ya just love anytime you mention something about your cancer friends and family members tell us all their great stories about other people Climbing Mt. Everest in 8ft of snow and bungee jumping off of bridges all the while doing chemo....oh and don't forget they didn't loose any hair either.........hehe. Tell them to go take a flying leap and get with the program.
Hats-Here's a great site for headwear during chemo.
http://www.headcovers.com/ I stuck with the basic black and white ones and can change the scarfs with them if I want. Bought a bunch of used scarves on Ebay and just washed and ironed them.
Wigs-Human Hair wigs are much more natural looking but cost a lot more than synthetic. However human hair wigs after washing must be restyled each time. Synthetic wigs are much cheaper and after washing just have to be shook out and they keep their styles. You can also take them to the beauty shop and have them trimmed for your face.
Meds-Don't try to be a martyr. Take the meds!
Sleep-Ah yes sleep. Like we're getting any of that right now. There are tons of things the Dr. can prescribe or even Melatonin and other natural remedies for the lack of sleep, although nothing I've tried as yet has worked for me.
Chemo Pack-Pack a bag and be prepared for your lengthy days of chemo. I'm taking a DVD player and movies, puzzles, games, books, blanket, and half of the house with me including ice chest with drinks and food. (My chemo is about 7 hours long). If I feel like sleeping I'll do that too.
I'm just going to expect the worst and hope for the best. That's all any of us can do. I'll be there to help you through your pity parties if you help me through mine...hehe A year from now most of us will be back to our normal lives and this will all be a bad memory.
Here's to some great cocktail days and a lot of dead cancer cells ladies.
Angel -
i am A/C and T also....thanks for doing the list!!
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Angel -- Great summary post!! Guess I'll bring that blanket just in case. Thanks for the link to the headcover site as well. I've already bought a grossly expensive -- but cute -- human hair wig, but I've been reading about women having very sensitive scalps and not liking to wear the wigs. So I think it's time for some online headgear shopping.
So sorry you have to go through this when you're also coping with your husband's heart condition. ((hugs))
Holly, hang in there, girl!
Leaving in an hour and 15 minutes -- but who's counting?
Max -
Maxgirl and LindaDK sending you prayers, positive thoughts and hugs as you launch today. Let us know how you are doing.
Thank you Angel for the info, it is most helpful.
Nancy -
Wow, all of us lucky people getting to sit around and have cocktails injected. Don't even have to raise a glass!! I heard the dumbest thing yesterday. My boss said she would gladly trade places with me because what I was going through was easier than what she was (everyday life!). I gave her a couple of chances to recant but she told me the same thing three different times. She needs our prayers, too. But on a much brighter not, here is a GOD thing.............
I was sitting in my recliner at 9:15 last night when my doorbell ring. My youngest daughter (7 years old) went to the door and her older sister (11 years old) was about three steps behind her. By the time the oldest got to the door, the visitor was gone. My baby handed me an envelope that said, "Ms., I don't know your name but God wanted me to give this to you." Inside was 10 $20 bills. My daughter didn't know the woman but I can guarantee you, she had the heart of Jesus! I hope that others can see God as clearly as I am right now. -
What a wonderful thing to have happen to you and it sure reinforces that God is our side. I don't think I could endure this journey without God along for the ride.
Peace -
THank you, Angel, for that list!
I am thinking of our sisters who at this momnet are getting their first infusions. {{{BIG HUGS}}}
But now I need some help from you all.
I met with my oncologist for the first time yesterday, ostensibly to finalize treatment plans. I participate in a large HMO (Kaiser) and my options are limited.
She's cool, and I like her. BUT. Her proposed treatment is/was the typical that would be prescribed for a single-tumor, node negative, hormone-positive, no-BRCA patient. She went straight by the 'book' (Adjuvant Online)- the chemo she proposes (simply A/C x4) will only give me a ~10% increased chance of survival over doing NOTHING. She ordered no scans, no MUGA tests, nothing but a basic blood test prior to treatment. No shot of Neulasta on the day following. All of these things are routine at Cancer Treatment Centers. Being in Kaiser is really a drag right now.
But I waited a month to see her so WTF am I supposed to do? I am currently scheduled to start on 3/13.
She has said she will add Taxotere to the cocktail if it's what I really want. She will go dose dense if it's what I really want. But that both of these add only a few percentage points in survival. Well, - if we're only talking 10%, then 3% increased survival would be an increase of THIRTY percent! I just don't want the typical - I want a program designed for my cancer, my situation. She's never had a BRCA pt. before and says it really makes no difference. WE know it indicates a far more aggressive tumor and poor outcome. She's basing everything on the fact that I was node neg. Well, a finer reading of my path report shows angio-lymphatic involvement present in my larger tumor. She had to look at my report - obviously this had escaped her first reading. Some authorities say that has the same impact as three positive nodes.
Again, she is going to take this to the tumor board and see what they say, and she is willing to do what I want. But I'm not a #*&king oncologist! I need an expert.
It is my understanding that using a taxane (either Taxol or Taxotere) is the standard of care, even in node-neg. triple neg. patients. Am I wrong? What about dose-dense?
I'm just really not a happy camper/cruiser right now
Thanks for your help, buddies!
Lisa -
Tammy,
My first time around 3 years ago was with Kaiser. It took them 11 months from start to finish just to get the results of my lump that it was B9. It was the most excruciating 11 months of my life. I also know that Kaiser will pay for a second opinion outside of the plan. Why not contact your membership services dept. and tell them you want one and pick a cancer center you're comfortable with for that opinion. At least you'd know if what they're doing is what you need.
Angel -
Max,
I've heard the same thing about the wigs as well. I know some use scalp caps of some kind for comfort but havn't picked up one personally. Also I'm thinking they'll be pretty hot with the warm weather coming up on us. I picked up a synthetic one as well that has a lot of airflow going through it because of the heat here.
Holly,
Are you doing the A/C & T all at the same time like I am? I know most do like 3-4 rounds of one then move on to the next one. I've only found 2 others here that are doing the same ones as I am but not sure why. I picked this one because it was the most agressive of the 3 choices for my bc and wanted to also avoid the Taxol at all cost if I could, although who knows I may regret that in the end too.
Angel -
Reporting in. The actual treatment went fine -- the port worked beautifully even though I've had it only 2 days. I went to the bathroom between the A and the C, and I was already peeing red! That stuff moves fast.
For nausea, they gave me Anzemet (sp?) in pill form before the chemo started, and I'm supposed to take it the next 3 days no matter how I feel. I also got Compazine and Ativan to take as needed, but since I turned down the Decadron they give to boost the Anzemet (long story, will share later), the onc nurse suggested I take the other meds right away.
I've started with a slight headache and I'll be taking a nap soon.
Patti, what a great story of unexpected blessings.
Lisa, I think you make a good case for getting the more aggressive treatment. I'm with Kaiser, too, but I'm getting the dose-dense AC-T (with Neulasta) because I have 2 positive nodes. Go for that second opinion! Kaiser here in Maryland uses Johns Hopkins BC Center for their more advanced cases, but Hopkins will also submit your path reports to their tumor board for evaluation.
So give the closest CA center a call and see what they will do. Believe me, I know a delay in treatment is nerve-wracking -- I've had my own Kaiser issues -- but maybe another week will buy you peace of mind in another way.
Max
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