Is anyone else an atheist with BC besides me?

Options
1256257259261262297

Comments

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited February 2020

    There are countless church buildings used as polling places where I live which is the “Tri-State area": Ohio, West Virginia, Pennsylvania. Schools used to be used, tho I think not anymore, and fire stations, public housing community rooms, etc.. The board of elections building is 20 minutes down the road and I can always early vote if I choose. But dh and I like going to vote together in our home town when we can.


  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited February 2020

    Funny you said TriState. I’m. Originally from Cincinnati they say TriState quite a bit there too. Or did. Haven’t been there in 15 years.

  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited February 2020

    In Texas we too used to use elementary schools, but I think there was too much confusion once 'early voting' became prevalent & polls are open for 10+ days. The standard here is churches although there are usually polling places at junior colleges and City/District community centers.

    As a historical note - in the 'once upon a time' small college town where I was raised in Northern California, voting was in people's homes. In the 50's and 60's, I walked with my parents down the block & around the corner when they voted. Ladies served tea & punch and everyone visited with their neighbors.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited February 2020

    When we lived in California in the 1990's, we walked to a neighbor's house and voted in their garage.

  • nopink2019
    nopink2019 Member Posts: 329
    edited March 2020

    Had appt with my PCP just to follow-up and see how my cancer treatments were going (she was the one involved in treating my symptoms that turned out to be malignant fluid on my lungs from MBC, not just bronchitis.) She is genuinely interested in my well-being and I appreciate her interest. I know she attends church, although I don't know where. She asked me if I had had a faith to turn to and I replied that I did not. Then she asked if I was ok with that and I answered yes.That was the end of the topic. I felt she handled it in a concerned and caring manner, but not prying or intrusive. Don't know if she heard that somewhere, but it seems like an example that all could follow, those with strong faith and those without. Interested, but not evangelical or holier-than-thou.

  • Miriandra
    Miriandra Member Posts: 1,327
    edited March 2020

    That is a nice way of handling it. Asking if faith is a part of your equation, then gently asking if you wanted it to be. And when you said No, your answer was heard and respected.

    When I have prenatal clients, I like to ask, "Are you having a girl, a boy, or a baby?" This gives the families who don't want to know ahead of time an easy answer without feeling like they need to defend their choice.

  • BlueGirlRedState
    BlueGirlRedState Member Posts: 1,031
    edited March 2020
  • WorryThePooh
    WorryThePooh Member Posts: 413
    edited March 2020

    Greek Orthodox congregations told 'no disease or illness can exist in holy communion'

    http://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-03-14/church-relig...


    PRAISE THE LORD! Being a believer can protect you from the virus!

  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited March 2020

    Stupid, stupid, stupid people. And prepare for a round of "God took care of MEEE" while ignoring what the imaginary rotter did to other families.

  • JWoo
    JWoo Member Posts: 1,171
    edited March 2020

    so, when the H1N1 was going around, my mother was in the hospital with a severe staff infection, and lost her leg. (Previous bone cancer/internal prosthetic) My dad, mom, sister, brother in law, and myself were discussing the situation. My mind wandered off a bit and came back to my sister complaining about the fact that the deacons and priest were wanting to put hand sanitizer out for communion, because "that's the body of Christ, germs don't exist on it!" I asked with no small amount of distain "Who on earth told you that?!" She got so mad and then I just started laughing. She was furious 😂😂 Religion is truly for the gullible

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited March 2020

    Saw where the “President “ has declared tomorrow to be a national day of prayer. Whatever happened to separation of church and state?

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited March 2020

    We have never had complete separation of church and state. Thomas Jefferson objected to Congress having a chaplain on the payroll but he was overruled. All we can do about it is support organization like the ACLU.

  • AliceBastable
    AliceBastable Member Posts: 3,461
    edited March 2020

    JWoo

    Literalists like your sister are hilarious when they're not being dangerous.

    Spookiesmom

    So, a day of prayer to get rid of a virus that, if they're consistent, they must think was sent by the same god. Are we sacrificing goats or virgins?

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited March 2020

    Alice

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • magiclight
    magiclight Member Posts: 8,690
    edited March 2020

    As was noted in another thread:

    If I prayed it would be that - Trump gets hemorrhoids.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited March 2020
  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 2,349
    edited March 2020

    Alice, DH was recently called a “candy ass” by religious folks on Facebook b/c he posted support for all the limitations secondary to covid19. They told him he needed to put his faith in God and trust he would be safe. He rarely gets upset about anything but this had him on a rant about how stupid Christians can be. Then our governor set limits to groups of 50 or less and all the churches had to cancel services so DH felt validated and of course had to remark about this to these folks. I told him that this crap is exactly why I am no longer on FB and that maybe he should just block these folks.

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited March 2020
  • Yogatyme
    Yogatyme Member Posts: 2,349
    edited March 2020

    spookiemom, hilarious!

  • Jacfin
    Jacfin Member Posts: 114
    edited March 2020

    I am joining this thread because while I don’t want to ridicule people of faith I also don’t want to constantly be gracious about their offer of thoughts and prayers. Most people in my circle know I am an atheist - very happily so - but I come from a god bothering,happy clappy background and they just can’t resist.

    My dad who is the most faithful committed Christian and wishes with all his heart that I wasn’t an atheist is one of the few who respects my need not to be prayed for. He is amazing and I love him even more for learning how to give me comfort when his default would beto pray for me.

  • Jacfin
    Jacfin Member Posts: 114
    edited March 2020

    I am joining this thread because while I don't want to ridicule people of faith I also don't want to constantly be gracious about their offer of thoughts and prayers. Most people in my circle know I am an atheist - very happily so - but I come from a god bothering,happy clappy background and they just can't resist.

    My dad who is the most faithful committed Christian and wishes with all his heart that I wasn't an atheist is one of the few who respects my need not to be prayed for. He is amazing and I love him even more for learning how to give me comfort when his default would beto pray for me.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited March 2020

    I think we can ridicule religion without ridiculing people who believe in it. Religion often deserves ridicule because it is so often wants to control people more than help people.

    image

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 3,085
    edited March 2020

    Jacfin-- sounds like you have a great dad. Christians who "walk the walk" are rarely difficult to deal with. It's the sanctimonious HYPOCRITES who make me nuts! (My BFF is a Christian Scientist and she and I are very very close! We agree to disagree about the God part.)


  • wanderweg
    wanderweg Member Posts: 549
    edited March 2020

    jacfin - Your dad sounds like the kind of religious person I co-exist with peacefully. I have several religious peopl in my family but thankfully, all are live-and-let-live types.

  • Miriandra
    Miriandra Member Posts: 1,327
    edited March 2020

    NSFW - unless you're working from home, then go ahead.

    "Honest Government Ad"

  • magiclight
    magiclight Member Posts: 8,690
    edited March 2020

    Excellent video Miriandra…At least creativity is alive and well.

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited March 2020

    Really funny video. We need all the humor possible right now.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited March 2020

    The people easiest to dupe are those who have unquestioning faith. They are usually duped by those who say they profess the same faith. For example, Mormons are most often ripped off by other Mormons.


  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited March 2020

Categories