Is anyone else an atheist with BC besides me?
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When I tap into the awareness of the universe, I feel so flipping lucky.
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Excuse me !! This is not how a president speaks. Wake-up call. Time to Dump Trump in the party of history where he belongs. The Federal Hoosegow.
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Apologies for the post I removed. I lurk here because my son is an atheist and I have respect for his choice and that of anyone who lives the truth that is right for them. It was a political post for those who may not have seen it before I deleted it. I am sorry and will try my utmost to be careful in future.
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Such an interesting book. I had forgotten the part about striped sticks.
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Ananda8
That post made my day! Thanks!
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Oh yes... particularly the 'women should keep quiet' line !!!
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ananda, what a great thing to read first thing in the morning! The really crazy part is that there are still a lot of Bible literalists out there.
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wanderweg, Bible literalists are an odd group. It makes one wonder if they have ever read the Bible. Reading the Bible cover to cover is the most common reason that people become atheists. The craziness and cruelty starts people asking questions.
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😁😁😁😁😁
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So true, Alice. I read the Bible cover to cover and it started me on the path to atheism. I tried hard to find work arounds to the craziness, but ultimately had to walk away.
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Saw this quote on a relative's FB page. Even though we've never met, I swear she's my sister from another Mister. I hit "love" on everything she posts.
"America will never be a Christian nation because the moment it becomes a Christian nation it will cease to be America'
It was originally posted by Andrew Seidel.
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Just watched part of the PBS show on the Ark. Doubt that PT Barnum said that, but the sentiments is right ---there is a sucker born every minute and they are lining up to see a story about the 6000 year old universe.
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It’s been four or five years since I stepped beyond my Christian faith into the great unknown. It was so scary at first because like many, I’d been conditioned with religious beliefs my whole life. It’s not that I intensely seek answers on a daily, weekly or monthly basis. I meander. I’m an avid reader, so if I a book or article that gives insight into what a former believer might experience, I will read it.
This has served me well. I feel much more clear about why I am no longer Christian and I don't feel defensive or scared about my choice anymore. I saw how religion tries to get you to be submissive and not ask questions, and I can’t buy in to that. I’m more in the agnostic range. I think I’ve probably read more on religion in the past few years than a lot of church goers. They just get their information from the pulpit and seek no further. Hey, easier for them.
My sister in law recently sent me a religious music video clip—she wants to heal me, I guess. The beautiful woman in the video dressed in a flowing white gown while walking through cliffs above the ocean with waves crashing into the shore, was singing to god to rescue her. It seemed to me Cinderella waiting for her prince to come save the day. More societal conditioning that women are to remain passive and let men take care of the hard stuff. First of all, I don’t live a life that I feel I need rescued from! I am also pretty sure if it was sil’s brother dealing with cancer, she would not send a video of a manly man singing to god to come rescue him.....
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Good point about the gender discrepancy.
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Almost all religions put extra burdens on the female relating to "purity" of person, dress, and behavior. It's although religion itself was created to control women.
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Well duh! Women's value in primitive societies was obvious - we made babies. Men had to invent their reasons for being important. So they became "God's" chosen gender.
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That makes sense, in a pathetic kind of way.
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...and the cooking, and drawing the water from the river, and tending & harvesting the crops, and making whatever clothes were needed, and the nursing when someone was sick, and..... Following right along with the gender discrepancy!!!
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Churches need women to do the praying, to cook and clean for the clerics, to get the men into the pews. In my neighborhood, I see the women waiting on the catholic priests , who do not have wives, so the women in their churches dote on them like they are children, celebrate their birthdays in much bigger ways than they do for their own families, while at the same time calling them father. It is so bizarre.
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I was raised Catholic and bizarre doesn't begin to describe it.
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If the ladies dote on the priest, at least they have a hope of currying favor with god in the afterlife. What thanks do they get at home for all the work they do? It makes sense to me, sadly. They're taking care of the person who might gain them something.
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maybe they think some of the "godliness" will rub off on them.
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A lot of the women at the Catholic church my husband attended in the 1980s and 90s had the hots for the priests. They weren't that good-looking, but those women were like teenyboppers chasing a rock star. I guess they thought it was a safe crush - and it was, because the priests prefer them much younger of either sex. The other annoying thing was when they wanted parishioners to help with the big annual cleaning (before Easter, I think), they'd schedule men's chores at night, but women's during the day on weekdays. Then they'd complain that younger women weren't volunteering. Those sexist idiots thought all the young women should be 1950s housewives.
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There's no difference between "men's chores" and "women's chores". That's just as stupid as assuming that women don't have day jobs.
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I recently had someone tell me they are trying to help a single dad by making some meals for him & his kids. I would have had no issue with this until she said, “poor guy. He works all day and has to come home and make dinner, do homework, kids activities”. I responded that single moms have been doing this for years and rarely does someone make meals for them, or mow their lawn, clean gutters.... just saying
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As most religions are patriarchal, it very much is about controlling women. Among other things, society in general cannot handle the sensuality of women. Religions place priorities on purity. I recently read a book on the topic, and it’s appalling the adverse effect the purity movement has on a woman’s sexuality not to mention her self worth.
It’s an interesting observation, how women baby priests but call them Father. Quite dysfunctional, actually. A Church of Christ assembly in town holds a big mother’s day luncheon where all the men cook and serve the women and clean up. One friggin’’ day of the year. Oh, the mens think they are so generous to do this! “Look, we really do appreciate our womens.”
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Being a good atheist, my husband does 70% of the cooking and 95% of the dishes and all of his own laundry, all the grocery shopping (I unload the car) and all of the household finances. He is disabled and he figures he has to do his best to pull his weight since everything else is up to me.
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Ananda, Good for him! My husband does that much cooking and grocery shopping but I do all the dishes. I think he cooks because I'm a really lousy cook.
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