The Chemosabe March Cruise
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Max, good luck on your port tomorrow. I barely notice mine now.
Just got back from my second fill, I had a bi-lateral with expanders the end of January. What a trip, I feel like the bionic woman, go in to the office one size, come out 10 minutes later a size bigger!! This time my PS put 100cc's in each, Im probably a small C now. I'm going to have him fill 1 more, maybe 2. At least now, I no longer have to stuff my bra and wear baggy shirts. YAHOO!! I was a small C before this BC crap, and decided when I had my bi-lateral done I was going to come out at the other end of this journey with something to show for it. Its going to be boobies, dang it...
Now I'll take my valium and go back to my panic attack about this coming Thursday.. sigh... -
Okay.....went back to surgeon today and am scheduled to have my port put in on Friday. I asked my surgeon to refer me to a different onc as the one that I visited week before last is such a smouck. I had PET scan and MUGA last Monday and Tuesday and haven't heard a word from him. I was suppose to start chemo there tomorrow but I just decided to heck with them....didn't seem like they cared that much. I've really been anxious especially on the PET Scan. I see the new onc on Thursday so please keep your fingers crossed for me.
Linda, I so happy you are coming out of this with some fantastic new boobs. Unfortunately, I had a single mastectomy and am looking somewhat like an unicorn.
Good luck to all.....we'll beat this beast!!!!
Nancy -
Welcome to all those who boarded since I last posted! Hope Sheri is doing OK.
Two days and 12 hours till my first dance, but who's counting? -
Hi fellow March chemo-cruisers!
I'm ready to go - have my port already in place and healed up pretty well. I, too have a very aggressive tumor(s) so I don't want to dilly-dally, but get on with the smack-down of this Evil Thang. Besides being triple negative, I'm also BRCA-I, so I'm interested to see the schedule my oncologist proposes on Wednesday.
Good vibes to the early starters. Please come back and let us know how you are doing!
Lisa -
I am so excited! I thought they said chemo and all along they said cruise!!!!! I had an excisional biopsy on 1/8/07. Surgeon said it was a formality. Didn't look like anything to worry about. Well, he was wrong. I was dx with IDC, no clear margins. An mri showed "suspicious" areas in other parts of the breast. I chose to have a bilateral/SNB so as not to worry. I also had immediate expander recon. I ended up having two tumors, the biggest one was 4.6 CM and I had 3/12 nodes positive. The good news was, only "pre-cancerous" tissue in the left breast. Woohoo!! That was 3 weeks ago today. As you all know, it has been a whirlwind of appts. I have a bone scan and a chest ct tomorrow. Muga on Thursday. Port insertion on 3/12 and start chemo within a couple of days after that. I am having 6 sessions of TAC three weeks apart and the ps is going to fill me up on the off weeks. Onc and surgeon both say will probably have rads at the end of chemo. I was reading some posts today and they talked about losing finger and toenails! The hair I can do without but the nails? I hope the cabins on this ship are roomy!
Patti -
Hi Patti - and welcome aboard! We all have the deluxe level veranda staterooms on this ship. Mothers-in-law, Boy toys, and various hangers-on are assigned to the lower decks.
You've already made huge progress on your path back to health. I had two tumors, too - but my bilat. mast and oopherectomy will be after chemo. Hope I bounce back as quickly as you seem to have!
Glad to have you with us!
Lisa -
Dang.. hearin' ya'll talk about MUGGA's just drives home the fact that when I meet with the onc. on the 15th, he will tell me that I need chemo (I meet with him then go for a MUGGA....wish it was a cool, Daquiri!!) I am not part of the March group as I want to enjoy the spring break with my kids before the CRAP kicks in. My heart is with you! Unless you've been there, you have no idea how friggin' scared we all are!
Cath -
Tomorrow (or today since its after midnight) I am one step closer to the boat sailing on this cruise. Surgeons appt to schedule for port. Then mugga then on my way to the scarey seas. The incision finally looks healed after over two months of dealing with infections and everything else. I should be almost over with chemo and never thought I would say, DO IT ALREADY. The stress is killing me waiting.
Dawn -
Boy do you have that right.....stress and fear. It seems that they say we need to get this started right away and then we wait and wait...test, more test, and WAIT for the results. I look forward to the start date,....(with much fear of the unknown - what does it feel like, will I have a reaction, WILL IT WORK?)so that I can get this part behind me and move on. I think waiting is the worst part.
Girls, remember to bring your lifejackets....we will make it through this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nancy -
Hi, I just started my Chemo yesterday (3-5-07)...will do 4 AC then 4 taxotere each 14 days apart. Had the PET and MUGA and Port done week before last. Scans were no problem..the Port was sore and bruised but it's feeling better.
In 2002 I had lumpectomy and radiation to rt breast for DCIS. This time I had DCIS in rt breast and IDC stage IIa 1.5cm in left breast. SNB revealed 1 node postive. Had bilateral mastectomies and reconstructions (LDF) on
1-22-07. Yesterday, my only side effects were feeling a little headache on top of my head. Last night when trying to go to sleep, I had a feeling like restless leg, but all over my body. Sounds funny, but a friend who's been through it said she also had that feeling. I am taking Emend and Dexamethazone for nausea. I had Neulasta injection this morning and the nurse taught me how to give it to myself, so I won't have to do a trip just for that.
Look forward to the posts and discussions. I'm from North Carolina. -
Linda -- Congrats on your new endowment! LOL Sorry I didn't mean to ignore your good wishes in my previous post. I didn't realize we were on the second page. Anyway, they must have worked. The MUGA scan went quickly this morning, so I went into work for a couple of hours, then headed to the Kaiser medical center for my port. I'm sore enough that it makes the residual discomfort in my left arm from the AND practically unnoticeable, but it's not really that bad. Of course, I'm on Darvocet. I don't know about work tomorrow -- it's driving that would be the problem. Anyway, I can work from home.
Nancy, good for you on changing oncs. I changed surgeons because the first one called me an "information hound" when I was trying to get the details about my condition after the excisional biopsy. I totally love my new surgeon, and my husband and I felt so much better.
Welcome, Marsha. You're a little ahead of me on the same protocol. I'm going to do the Neulasta injections, too, and that's making me almost as nervous as the chemo is.
1 day, 17-1/2 hours to go, but who's counting? -
My wife will be joining the cruise. She is a 16 year breast cancer survivor and was just diagnosed with a new cancer,not a recurrence. She had a double mastectomy in 1991, when she was 29, and had AC. Her cancer in 1991 was stage two and she is now a stage IIIc. Starting dose dense AC on Monday followed by taxol,arimidex,herceptin, and radiation.
Portacath has been placed,PET scan was clean,MUGGA showed no damage from the previous AC treatments, so I think she is ready to go. She did not have a great cruise back in 1991, as I was with her then, so we are hoping the new meds are on target.
Kirk
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IDC 1.2cm,ER+,Stage IIIc,Grade3,Revised Mastectomy, 17 of 25 + nodes, HER2+++ -
Hi all, I had my first round of AC yesterday afternoon- spent a good part of today in bed with some ginger ale, but now am feeling much better. Have to go see plastic surgeon tomorrow about some sutures I found left in my breast from surgery on 1/25 - hope they can get them all out this time!
Kirk, I'm sorry to hear of your wife's new cancer. It must be very scary for both of you- keep us updated on how things are going.
Wishing everyone a restful sleep- I know the waiting is so hard! -Sheri -
Hello Chemosabes! Think I have another cruise date since last one was cancelled. Hsving a MRI on Thursday afternoon and will start chemo on Friday. Will be having AC x 4 and Taxol X 4 every 2 weeks (dense dose. Also will have herceptin for 12 months. This new cruise date actually works out better for me. It won't put me having chemo on the day my son graduates from high school.
Good luck to everyone starting treatments and those going to doctor appointments. I'll be praying for you.
Hang on fellow cruisers. The water may get rough at times but we are going to make it!! -
Welcome, marsha2664! Thank you for filling us in on your first treatment. That all-over restless feeling is likely due to the Decadron (dexamethasone)- some gals find it keeps them wide awake and bouncing off the walls at first, so I'm glad you seem to have had a proper dose. I'm very impressed that you have already learned to give yourself the Neulasta injection!
maxgirl - good to hear the MUGA and port placement went smoothly. Those dang ports can be mighty tender! I found mine was the worst of the four incision sites made on 2/13. Now it just itches sometimes. Which Kaiser facility do you go to? I'm a Kaiser patient, too.
Welcome to you, also BarbKirk - sorry your wife is dealing with this again after 16 years NED - and after a bilat. mastectomy even. That just bites. I had thought I had read that adriamycin could only be used one time around for chemo, but your post has disproved that one! Maybe it's because this is a "new" cancer - or maybe she just has really outstanding heart function! Anyway, hope we get to hear more from you/her as you both get through this again.
taurie, hon, hope your MUGA was a breeze today (we ought to get a lot of nice breezes on this cruise!)
How did your second opinion go today GrammyNancy?
I hope we hear from you soon, refugee, about how your first round went on Monday. Did you end up taking that boombox? I loved the idea about the Wagner at full volume as the chemo got started! I'm trying to come up with an iPod playlist to take along. I don't watch TV and will want something to drown out those that others may be watching while I read. But, my previous playlists for workout, etc. don't seem appropriate. I don't want something that's "pump me up" sort of music. Maybe some Chopin, possibly a variey of Nocturnes.
Are you feeling any better HollyHopes? I agree that asking for an anti-anxiety medication may be useful - I don't take them except occasionally to help with sleep, but it's nice to know I have a few in reserve, as needed.
Cheers to all my fellow March cruisers!
Lisa -
Hi jillrush - we were posting at the same time. I'm relieved to hear that your new 'sailing date' means you won't be getting stuck on graduation day. That is a day to savor! And you are right - this dose-dense method will require our foul-weather gear now and again, but we'll reach calmer waters before long.
Lisa -
Surgeon visit today was a green light to move on, incision is finally healed, I go in for surgery thursday morning to get the port put in. Guess the tickets have been bought and I am really taking this cruise now.
Dawn -
Dear Kirk - will try very hard NOT to hold it against you that you share a name with my former husband who suggested I look at CA and chemo as a good chance to lose some weight!!
Good for you that you are on this board and loving and supporting your beloved...I applaud you and if I could I would give you a big hug. My fiance is an MD and having a VERY difficult time dealing...wish there was a board just for you loving partners!!
Blessings,
H -
me too, me too... I start on 3/9 and have a son who graduates from high school in May. sending my love and gentle hugs...
-Holly -
I have Kaiser too - in Los Angeles(Sunset) what's the deal with the nuelasta? I haven't been worrying about that - should I start?? It said on my receipt that it costs $2911.64 for a 0.6ml - holy mackerel!!
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Our group keeps growing and growing. Sorry everyone has to join this club, but you'll be glad your here. Kirk I commend you for your support for your wife. And I've also heard that the chemo cocktails are somewhat easier than they were years ago. Plus they have so many new and wonderful anti-nausea meds that hopefully she'll find this time around a little easier.
Good luck Taurie with your port insertion Thursday. Your in and out of the surgery in no time.
Refugee I'm glad to hear from you, I was worried you were doing poorly.
And welcome to all the new members. I'm going to try and post a list on everyone's start dates so far. I'm already getting lost on whos doing what when and I don't even have the chemo brain yet!
Linda -
Cruise Members So Far:
1. Taurie, Florida, A/C + T
2. Cynthia1962, California, A/C
3. LindaDK, Overland PArk, KS, T/C, start 3/8
4. Rosebud1962, California
5. Holly Hopes, Los Angeles, start 3/9
6. GrammyNancy, Sharpsburg, GA
7. Maxgirl, A/C, start 3/8
8. Ducky1, Canada
9. Refugee, NeOH, A/C, start 3/5
10. Jillrush, Louisiana, A/C + T, start 3/9
11. Playwriter (Terri), Houston, TX
12. Marshabel, TX, A/C + T
13. Pmarsh34, NC, TAC
14. Marsha2664, A/C + T, start 3/5
15. BarbKirk, A/C, start 3/12
16. StephJ, Maryland, A/C + T, start 3/1
17. LisaDCA, Ca, TAC, start 3/13
Hopefully I haven't missed anyone. -
Patti, I'm also doing Taxatore, I've heard that soaking your nails in ice during the T infusion helps, don't know but I'm willing to try it. I'm with you, hair lose fine, but losing nails, kinda grosses me out, well ok, REALLY grosses me out.
Does anyone hate the comments from people, oh, your going to be fine, your cancer is small, I know someone that had BC 14 years ago and is doing great, blah blah blah. Do these people have a crystal ball I don't have? I know they are just trying to make me feel better, but it doesn't. Then if I ask what grade was this persons cancer, was it er/pr-, HER2+??, they can't answer.
Sorry to rant, having a bad moment, 24 hours b4 1st infusion and hating it. Hate this disease, hate what this chemo is going to do to me, hate loosing my hair, and whatever else. Before being diagnosed I was a very healthy, happy go lucky person, never got sick, didn't even know I had anything wrong when I went for my yearly mammogram. Then whamo, here I am, being all pissy, scared sh*tless, and feeling sorry for myself. This sucks!
Linda -
Hey, Linda -- I'll join you in the thumb-sucking and hope that my nail doesn't fall off. (I had to have a toenail removed one time, and it was gross!!) Yeah, voluntarily (?) starting a treatment that's going to make you feel sick when you're feeling perfectly fine (mammo to the contrary) completely sucks.
I've also gritted my teeth hearing stories about long-term survivors when you don't know what their profiles are. I won't diminish what anyone is going through with this, but it's a fact that those with low-grade in-situ tumors, for instance, have a better prognosis. I did hear one that made me semi-cheerful. A co-worker's sister was diagnosed at age 30 with a triple neg tumor. No node involvement and my c-worker didn't know her grade, but she hasn't had a recurrence in 15 years.
Oh, BTW, I'm in Maryland and I'm getting Taxol, too. AC+T.
Refugee -- Thanks so much for checking in; I was wondering how you were doing, and I'm glad it wasn't too bad.
Holly -- Sorry for mentioning the Neulasta. I got myself all worked up about the port after reading some women's bad experiences, and here I'm not having a bad time at all. Like anything else, Neulasta can have side effects, but we have no idea how we're going to react until we get there.
Lisa, the only really bad thing about my port is that the surgeon -- a woman, no less -- put in right on my bra strap line. I thought it was going to be a little closer to the center. Now I'll have to have something covering it all the time so it doesn't rub. :P
Kirk, I'm so sorry you and your wife have to face this again, especially when you thought you were home-free. I hope the new drugs make this an easier time for her.
Jill and taurie, you must be relieved to get your schedule settled (especially with not having chemo on graduation day, Jill). This cruise is chugging right along!
I didn't go into work today because it's snowing and my arm isn't feeling too flexible, but I do have to get some work done...
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Yes - Linda, I hate that too..."Oh, I know someone who had BC once and she's doing just great! Had no problems whatsoever with chemo or anything. Didn't even mind the hair loss stuff....you'll be just fine! Fight this thing"
God - it makes me want to slap them. When people blithely tell me that they know 'just' what I am going through - I smile and say sweetly..oh - gosh, I am so sorry. Why didn't you tell me you have breast cancer too?
OK - I don't always say that- but I sure want to...
sending hugs to you,
Holly -
Hi Linda. I know what you mean about other's comments. I'm tire of hearing how one person is taking chemo and it's not bothering them at all and how another took chemo and didn't lose their hair. These people don't have breast cancer they have another type of cancer and they are treated with different drugs. I know they mean well and are just trying to help, but it sure gets old quick.
I also was diagnosed thru my yearly mamogram. Never been sick before. Can't tell you the last time I saw my GP. This has hit me like a ton of bricks. But we have each other here and that is a huge blessing.
Take care. Remember...Cancer is not for sissies!! -
Holly, besides this nasty cancer thing, we have several things in common. My favorite niece, who lives with us, is also named Holly. She has been a huge help thru this whole ordeal. Our son's are both graduating in May. I never would have thought I would be dealing with this for his graduation. He has been so great. He told me he didn't care if I had hair or not. He wouldn't be embarrassed by me. I just love him!!
Sending a big hug and will be virtually holding you hand on Friday. Take care! -
Well girls I got some good news today....my PET scan was CLEAR. I am so relieved....been waiting 10 days when I knew the results would be back in a couple of days, thought they just didn't want to tell me that the beast was everywhere.
Linda and MaxGirl, I'm seending you positive thoughts, prayers and hugs for your trips tomorrow.
Holly and Jill, I'll be sending you positive thoughts, prayers and hugs for you take off on Friday.
Marsha and Sheri, I'm so happy that thinks went well for you both on your first trip.
I'll find out tomorrow when I sail.....hopefully next week.
Kirk, I am very sorry about your wife's dx but it seems that she has a wonderful supportive husband by her side. You both are in my prayers.
I too am one of those that has never been sick, I bet I've been to more doctor appts in the past month than I've ever been to in my life. This not FUN!!! I guess frequent doctor appts will become a part of my life.
Well, I probably should run and start looking for wigs, scarfs or hats or something...this is going to be ugly.
Keep your chin up!!!
Nancy -
Great news on your scan, Nancy! Awful that they made you wait so long to hear good news.
Linda, somehow I'm not on your passenger list - I find out my sailing schedule this afternoon.
Lisa -
Thanks for all of the nice coments. Barb probably will not be posting directly on this site, but I hope to. Right now she is focusing on friends without cancer. I think since she has been through treatment before, she knows what to expect and prefers to focus her energy on others. Myself, I am having a tough time not focusing on all things cancer.
As I mentioned she had a tough time with treatment in 1991 and is taking nothing for granted this time. She is scheduled to take Aloxi at the time of
Chemo along with Emend for three days. She will also have Kytril to take home too. Wondering what others are doing.
Her Mugga scan came back very good, 69.3. So we are very happy she will be able to begin on Monday. She has a great oncologist so we are confident that he will do whatever is needed to get it done.
I wish everyone the best. I know what you ladies are facing, I really do understand!!
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