Long term survival
I have bone lung liver Mets my bone and lung have been stable for six years my liver has progressed twice this year I am very scared and depressed.
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hi rainbow
I wasn’t sure if there was more you were going to post-I’m 6 1/2 years out with multiple bone mets. Big increase in tm’s the past year but no evidence of progression. I’m not sure if 6 1/2 years is long term but I hope to be here a few more.
Kristi
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I hope there are more posts here. I’ve only started my MBC fight, but I am committed to the belief that I will be one of the lucky ones who make it to two, five or ten years
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You might want to check out this thread:
https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/8/topics/830627?page=41#idx_1206
I have lived with mbc for eight years with no progression. No special diets or protocols. I just swallow an AI, currently exemestane, every night and keep on living. I did have rads to my single bone met, but have never had chemo. I have idea why I have done so well, but I wish you all the best
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I’m still doing well 2.5 years out from bone met diagnosis. No progression.. no side effects at all. My MO tells me all the time if he saw me in public and didn’t know I was a stage iv cancer patient, he would never guess it. He tells me that I’ve blown through all of the milestones that they would expect. Like exbrnxgirl, we (my MO and myself) have no idea why I’m doing so well. I think it’s a bit of stubbornness and a bit of luck. Right now, I’m just living each day. If something pops up medically, I’ll deal with it then.. but for now, I’m just living life.
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I hit the 3.5 year mark this past August. I have not had any progression and I had extensive bone mets (skull, spine, ribs, pelvis, and femur) when diagnosed. I also had a couple of spots on my liver. In the beginning I had chemo, surgery and radiation. I finished chemo in August of 2016 and have been on Letrozole since then. I also still have infusions of Herceptin and Perjeta every three weeks.
I usually feel great most of the time, but I do make sure I get enough sleep. I still work full-time as a college professor and life pretty much goes on as before. Of course, recurrence is always in the back of my mind, but I do my best to stay busy and productive. I have scans every six months now and have them scheduled for next week. My oncologist expects them to be excellent as they have always been for the past three years. She calls my condition "stable," and says she doesn't use NED, because the cancer is in my bones.
I do have to say, however, that I tend to shop a bit more! If I see something (within reason) that I want, I buy it. I also got a puppy in 2017 and she adds much to my quality of life.
Best wishes to all!
NancyRose
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Aw, rainbow, is this your first progression? The first time you have to switch treatments? I'm so sorry. I remember that day well. It's probably the saddest day I've had through all of this [until a month ago but that's a long story].
Somehow you convince yourself the cancer will never grow, and after 6 years why on earth would it? But then, POW. There's not a lot to say to make you feel better, but please accept some hugs and hope that the next treatment knocks your liver mets to the curb. Not to mention the bone and lung mets.
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Rainbow, I had progression twice this year after over 8 years of stable bone mets. It is quite depressing. On the one hand I’d convinced myself I beat the cancer and it was never coming back. I also considered that maybe I never even had bone mets and the scans were read wrong. It was quite disheartening to get the progression news.
At the same time, dh’s employment changed and so did our health insurance. My meds switched and on top of them making me feel nauseous and fatigued, I’m concerned of the costs associated with the meds. It’s all been a big headache and a big upheaval and change in my household on many fronts. I meditate with an app, that helps, and I try to live even more in the moment. By that I mean I tell myself I am okay today, I have loved ones supporting me and all that stuff.
I hope you can find a new effective treatment.
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if we stop to take the treatement what will happen ??
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