Is anyone else an atheist with BC besides me?

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  • wanderweg
    wanderweg Member Posts: 549
    edited October 2019

    Ananda, thanks for the link - it's always good to find the like-minded people!

  • LaurenInPHX
    LaurenInPHX Member Posts: 165
    edited October 2019

    Pooh - that you gave it any thought at all is something I am grateful for. If I can get the book out of my brain and on the page will be the best bucket list achievement ever. I think I might be getting excited about it. :)

    Wander - I applied for SSDI on the 15th so should be hearing back by the 30th. I already have a caseworker and she said the same. I still have to wait those 29 months for Medicare coverage however, so we’ll see what the ACA/preexisting conditions situation is like then. I think super part time (like gig work if I can get it) plus writing plus traveling I s the way to go to keep me busy and out of trouble until then. :

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited October 2019

    I don't think ACA has anything to do with Medicare; it has it's own set of regulations. You may want to ask your case worker if you can get a supplemental plan with your Medicare so all costs are covered.


  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited October 2019

    Ananda, Thanks for posting that link. I had lost it somehow and am happy to have it back in my favorites.

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited October 2019
  • LaurenInPHX
    LaurenInPHX Member Posts: 165
    edited October 2019

    Ananda-

    I have ACA coverage now, but they are trying hard to get rid of it. There is a case in the Texas courts right now that could dismantle it. I don’t think anything will happen to it in 2020, but if Rs are re-elected they will try again to shut it down, in which case I will have no insurance, hence the need to get Medicare ASAP. The only way I can get it before age 65 is to get on SSDI for 29 months to be eligible. If Ds are elected, I’m still not in the clear, but much better off. So no I dontthink they’ll do anything to Medicare (although they are trying that too) it’s just a safer bet.

  • wanderweg
    wanderweg Member Posts: 549
    edited October 2019

    I think you're right, Lauren - you need on Medicare as soon as possible. And while we're at it, we need Medicare for ALL.

  • LaurenInPHX
    LaurenInPHX Member Posts: 165
    edited October 2019

    We need something for all, that is for sure. I'm not as educated on the subject as I should be considering my life depends on it, but people much smarter than me have it somewhat figured out, so I'm going with it, ;).  

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited October 2019
  • LaurenInPHX
    LaurenInPHX Member Posts: 165
    edited October 2019

    So much yes. 

  • VLH
    VLH Member Posts: 1,258
    edited October 2019

    LaurenInPHX, I'm very sorry that you're forced to face this daunting challlenge. Obviously a far lesser impact, but I paid out-of-state tuition earning my graduate degree because health insurance was so expensive in the new state and I was reluctant to rely on student health insurance. I was lucky that the situation was temporary (two years), but it's terrible that access to health care drives so many important life decisions. I'm sure the folks on the Stage IV forums will gladly share their knowledge. I do know from a family member's battle that an attorney will take a significant chunk of your disability income. If the Stage IV diagnosis makes approval highly likely, it would be a shame to lose that income without some assurance that the attorney can do something to expedite the process or dramatically improve your chances of getting approved.

    Once you know better how your treatment will affect you, might your skill set lend itself to teaching in the continuing education department of a community college? They typically give more credence to industry experience vs. the emphasis on academic credentials in teaching traditional college classes. The classes are often short-term (say, three hours twice a week for three weeks) vs. for an entire semester and staying under the $1,200 income limit could be easily done. Also, if you own your home and are approved for disability, be sure to look into whether you can get a break in your property taxes.

    Lyn

  • wanderweg
    wanderweg Member Posts: 549
    edited October 2019

    Ananda - ha! A big amen to that!

    Lauren, I've been thinking a lot about your situation today and remembering the old slogan "the personal is political." I just don't think it's possible to sit back and look at the current situation and agree that it's just a matter of different opinions. People are going without adequate healthcare and the current Administration is doing everything in its slimy-hearted power to conserve money for the rich by screwing over the rest of us. I don't care if this isn't a palatable idea - it should cause outrage.

  • LaurenInPHX
    LaurenInPHX Member Posts: 165
    edited October 2019

    Agreed 100%, wander. 100%. 

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited October 2019

    I had to post this. The Devil made me.

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  • LaurenInPHX
    LaurenInPHX Member Posts: 165
    edited October 2019

    Hi Lyn -

    Somehow I missed your post.

    The teaching in a college is an interesting idea! I never would have thought of that to be honest. I doubt I could qualify however for something official. I’m self-taught with no degree and have zero experience, but teaching is basically what I was doing in my business just in a less official capacity.

    I’ve solved the lawyer issue by retiring and not making any money at all unless my book sells eventually, but YES I couldn’t believe how much they take! I don’t know how people survive on SSDI.

    I’m starting to get more excited about my passion project and retiring, so I’m in the process of closing down my business. If it’s safe to do so in 2020 I can start it up again but at this point I’m considering myself retired.

    When I am in here complaining about writing remind me I said this and tell me to zip it, haha

    Lauren


  • WorryThePooh
    WorryThePooh Member Posts: 413
    edited October 2019

    Taking mental note Lauren to tell you to zip it if you complain.

  • wanderweg
    wanderweg Member Posts: 549
    edited October 2019

    This was in my mailbox. Somebody doesn't know me AT ALL.

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  • LaurenInPHX
    LaurenInPHX Member Posts: 165
    edited October 2019
  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited October 2019

    🤬🤬🤬🖕🖕🖕

  • Miriandra
    Miriandra Member Posts: 1,327
    edited October 2019

    Lauren, have you talked with a lawyer about making your business an LLC? As a separate entity, your business will be making money, not you. Your business can pay you as the sole employee at whatever rate you want to be paid. This may be a way to get it rolling and give you a long-term goal, but still protect your financial interests. (This is also a way to protect your personal property from lawsuits against your business - the business and its holdings are sued, and your own stuff and bank accounts are safe. This is how businesses can go bankrupt daily, while the CEOs sit comfortably on their golden parachutes with no financial liablility.) A lawyer will be able to help you set up your business's guidelines so your company can make money that you can eventually benefit from once SSDI isn't an issue anymore.

    I get to look into all this soon too. I've found a factory that will be able to produce my Half-Flat swimwear line. So I've got designs, someone to draft patterns for me, and someone to make my stuff. Now I just need to do all the things to get customers.

  • LaurenInPHX
    LaurenInPHX Member Posts: 165
    edited October 2019

    Yes, my business is already an LLC, but there is also a gainful activity limit which limits hours. The rules seem a little objective to me and I don’t want to mess with it. I’m sure there is a way to beat the system, but I can’t risk it. More to the point is I guess what it ended up coming down to is if my days are numbered, do I really want to work every day? The answer turned out to be no.

    I’m really excited to have a passion project that will hopefully bring in a little money and also to get this story out of my head!

    Congratulations on your new project! I can’t wait to see the finished products. So exciting

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 3,085
    edited October 2019

    https://www.instagram.com/tinypricksproject/

    Anyone who appreciates a good cross stitch, antique needlework, a pissed-off woman& a slam of Donald Trump will enjoy this. I plan to send a piece or two myself and will post when done!


  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited October 2019

    Sorry but I did hope we could keep politics off this thread. On October 21st Ananda posted the link for engaging in political discussion. Yes, it's easy to be snarky, but we're supposed to be representing a full spectrum of BCO sister/brothers here who want to discuss being an atheist, and all the blow back just that word alone represents.

    For over 200 pages we've been able to support each other in various degrees of 'being an atheist' - some more fully committed & some less - but all basically on the same page with that topic. Politics in this day & age does not lend itself to supporting each other very well unless we are careful of other's feelings who we might inadvertantly not even "see". We don't want people to 'dis' us as atheists so we probably shouldn't be "dissing" others who may be of different political persuasions - whichever they might be.

    If I'm in the minority with these thoughts, I'll quietly withdraw from this thread.

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 3,085
    edited October 2019

    Church/State takes us to politics with zero degrees of separation....

  • Spookiesmom
    Spookiesmom Member Posts: 9,568
    edited October 2019

    Agree with Minus Two. If you want politics, there are threads here for that too. The Mirror thread has been inactive for months. Think they all went to fb. This is supposed to be for atheists. Can we get back to that, please

  • LaurenInPHX
    LaurenInPHX Member Posts: 165
    edited October 2019

    Maybe a new thread for liberal athiests? The only time my athiesm really gets triggered is by conservative politics, so it's hard to separate for me. I'd feel more comfortable there than I do here now or in the other politics thread as I'm sure there are believers in that one.  Do we need to ask the mods or is that something anyone can start? Keeping it on the down low is fine with me. 

    Thoughts?

  • ananda8
    ananda8 Member Posts: 2,755
    edited October 2019

    Can we just skip over posts we don't like instead of trying to make this thread a form of tapioca pudding. Some people object if there is any snarky comments about religion. Some object to comments on politics. Rather than just objecting why don't people post their own opinions on subjects rather than objection to subjects being brought up? I for one think it is important to respect people. Ideas should be always open to criticism.

    I think this thread has no purpose if it is only to say, "I am an atheist with cancer." We are all atheists living in an enormously complex America and should be able to comment on all aspects of our lives.

    Just my thoughts.

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited October 2019

    Laren, you have been given a lot of good advice

    Again take everything one step at a time. Try not to overthink.

    I found volunteer opportunities close to home. I am a friend of our local library and our Museum . Many different jobs there that I can expand or contract.

    Hugs to you.

    Lisa

  • wanderweg
    wanderweg Member Posts: 549
    edited October 2019

    Lauren, I'm with you - should I develop mets I will instantly retire.

    I'm in agreement with Ananda about not trying to ban political talk or snarky jokes about religion, and just scroll by what we don't want to comment on. The problem is, I don’t think you CAN separate religion and politics these days. The Republicans have actively made it a cornerstone of their party. We have a president who has never cracked open a Bible who is the darling of the religious conservatives. And, “the personal is political” -religious/political infringements of our rights are topics that seem a good fit to me for this thread. But if most people disagree with that, how about we start a progressive atheist thread and I’ll migrate over there?

  • wanderweg
    wanderweg Member Posts: 549
    edited October 2019

    and an example of the inextricable link these days between politics and religion:

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