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San, so sorry about your results but you are right, the earlier the better. Your doc should have more info when you see her. My breast specialist had me meet w a breast surgeon during the appt to go over biopsy report. Staging was done at surgery and I didn’t get results from that (as well as lymph node pathology) about a week after surgery. Of course, this means more waiting but you will get through it. Hope all goes well.
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- thank you for your great words for the biopsy I’m having tomorrow. ❤️I forgot to mention that it’s an ultrasound guided biopsy. I hear that hurts .
hopefully that’s wrong information
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Hi Sig1324
I was recently diagnosed after not having a mammogram for many, many years. I felt similar to how you are feeling - guilty for not going, thinking that the biopsy results would bring really bad news and that life as I currently knew it would be over. I worried to the point of almost being sick.
After a day of fretting, I took a deep breath, went for the biopsy and waited for the results. I had trouble sleeping and I was worried but I decided that making myself sick wasn't going to change whatever was happening in my breasts.
Think positive, hug your husband and children and try to relax. The women on this board are fantastic so jump on whenever you need to chat with someone...they have SO much knowledge!
Hugs to you,
Donna
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Tell radiologist team to give you lots of numbing stuff. I had my primary call in a script for Xanax...not sure if it did much good (I had a stereotactic biopsy) I coasted through the biopsy and I was so SCARED! If it hurts, speak up; you shouldn't feel much more than a pinch or perhaps a bit of a burning sensation. Good luck
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Thank you MassGirl !such encouraging words and (i will think of them tomorrow) from you .I may ask for extra numbing stuff . you are so right about my wild imagination. I’m sorry you were so scared but glad you coasted through the biopsy.
Also thank you for sharing that you had skipped mammograms and I hope you don’t feel too guilty. We both know it serves no purpose in the present.
Hope and hugs to you
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For those who are having problems getting through the waiting phase: go have some fun! Go to a concert, have a picnic, go to lunch or dinner with friends, take a weekend trip, see a great museum exhibit, or a play or a movie. Do as many fun things as you can. It really helps to balance the nerve-wracking moments, and will give you good memories to look back on no matter what happens. I kept doing that all through, between surgeries and further testing, and I remember the fun times more than the health-related ones.
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thank you Alice ! Truly great wise advice ❤️I’m doing my best to do fun things and that can be challenging too for various reasons but trying and will keep it close in my mind .
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Thank you yogatyme I appreciate it. I know it's just the start of this journey but I'm ready to get the details/answers and go from there. Everyone is amazing on this thread and all your words of encouragement mean so much!
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Sig, like others have said, the biopsy is more anxiety than pain. I had plenty of numbing and the doc showed me the instrument (I had a core biopsy) and demonstrated it so I would have an idea of what it would feel like. Additionally, he warned me each time he was going to activate the spring loader. I felt a little pinching but absolutely no pain. After the biopsy they did a “light” mammogram to make sure the marker clips were in the right place. When they told me that I went into full mother of god alarm but honestly, it didn’t hurt at all. My nerves were shot and I wished that I had taken my husband to comfort me and drive, but regardless I got home fine w the ice packs they gave me after the mammogram.
I hope all goes well for you tomorrow and I’ll be thinking of you and sending good biopsy thoughts your way.
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Thank you for sharing your biopsy story Yogatyme , it helps prepare me. I had no idea they might do another mammogram. I knew about the clip and my brain still hasn’t begun to absorb that one. My husband will be going with me so that’s really good .sorry you were alone for yours.
I so appreciate you sending your good thoughts ❤️
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sig, 🤞🏻for you today!!
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Thank you yogatyme ❤️The biopsy is at 1:00 but I’m really having trouble breathing again and not feeling well at all .I may call the office and see if they recommend I do it in this st
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Sig, you may want to call them but I am wondering if the breathing issues and not feeling well are due to the anxiety of this. If it is, it is likely to be there regardless. I wonder if they would give you a low dose anti-anxiety medication just to help you get through this. Never hurts to ask.
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Sig, fyi, I too was anxious as a cat on a hot tin roof. Felt like I was going to jump out of my skin and even had some dissociation....feeling like I was watching myself from above. The anxiety was so bad I felt like I was going to vomit. I just did a lot of deep breathing and telling myself it would be over soon. Hang in there! You really do have this!
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I am on a low dose of Valium and this trouble breathing lately is really unlike anything ive felt before.i was at the ER for it a week ago and they mainly made sure I wasn't having a heart attack. They did do a chest X-ray and the lungs and heart looked
Norma
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is the Valium working for anxiety? It’s hard to say what is causing the breathing issues, but it certainly is worrisome. The good news is the normal chest X-ray, so it doesn’t seem driven by a lung issue. Do you take any medications w side effect of breathing problems? I am not a physician, but I might consider taking a little more Valium to see if it helps w these sx. I can hear in your posts how scared you are and it is certainly understandable. Ultimately you will have to decide if having this biopsy today is the right thing for you. I wish I had some better answers for you. Sending calming thoughts.....
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I just called the office and they think it will be fine to do the biopsy with my breathing issues.
Yes the Valium helps and I do think I’ll take more. I’m not on any other medication. I tried getting on Zoloft a couple of weeks ago but that REALLY got my mind racing so I stopped.
Yogatyme your support is just tremendous! I’m sending good healing thoughts back to you❤️
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Sig, sending you my best wishes for a positive experience today. It sounds to me like you are having panic attacks. I hope the Valium helps.
My 1st biopsy I had trouble getting out of the car in the parking lot to go inside. I literally thought my life was over and couldn't breathe. I reached out to my sister (has MBC), she offered to come over but I said I was OK. Once inside it was better. Anyway, here I am still among the living and life is good! It's just a little different now. Truly wishing you deep breaths and good results!
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Sig, sending positive vibes, you got this, breath, think happy thoughts, hugs!!!
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Ctm, thank you for sharing your story. Sorry to hear that both you your sister have BC however it's so comforting to hear you say life is good (even though different) .
I am hoping it's just panic attacks if so these are the strangest I'll ever had and I certainly don't want to be panicking over ever little thing. My husband is having such a hard time because every night now, Iwonder if I should go to the ER even though it's the last place I want to be !
Breath , yes breath
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thank you Maggie !sending you good vibes and hugs too
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Sig, I trust that the biopsy is behind you at this point. I hope it went without a hitch and that you are home resting. ❤️
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As to timeframes, my biopsy was 9/18 and results with a doctor's visit 9/24. Interesting enough, I think the results were known earlier, but they didn't post to 'follow my health' site.....until I met with the doctor and then............whola all the results popped up! So I figured I had BC because otherwise I would have gotten a phone call ahead of the doctor's appointment. The waiting was high anxiety and it was a great relief to known one way or another for sure.
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Sig, hope you are ok??
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hi Maggie and everyone . I’m made it through the biopsy and it went well. It wasn’t as bad is I thought. I’ll write more later. A heart felt thank you to everyone for reaching out and being so supportive- it means everything ❤️❤️❤️
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Slg1324 - Happy to hear it wasn't as bad as you imagined. Keep us posted on the biopsy results! Fingers crossed for good news.
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Thank you MassGirl!
I did get the call yesterday - the doc said they found a small cancer (1/3 inch biopsy but 1/2 inch on mammogram)that doesn't seem very aggressive.He did say it was a hormone sensitive cancer(something about a grade 2) and that it’s not good news but not awful . They are still waiting on the HER2 result and that should be no later than Friday.
Treatment prediction so far would be lumpectomy, radiation and hormone therapy but it also depends on HER2 result.sorry about any ignorant wording here ; obviously very new at this. I'm very overwhelmed and not sure how well and when I can reply on this board- I just wanted to update. I will do more updating if I can and may have questions .any words of wisdom and guwelcome Thank you for all the loving support always and sending love and support to everyone !❤️ -
Hey, if that's how it plays out, your dx would be quite similar to mine: small tumor, caught early, a bit mixed in type, hormone positive, HER2 negative. I did in fact have a lumpectomy and sentinel node surgery, then radiation, and now hormone blocker.
So offering you hope from the other side. No, it's not good news but I was sure relieved to not have it be a lot worse.
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thank you so much for your input edj!yours does sound similar yet i do realize I’m at a much earlier phase of diagnosis than you. Not sure if different from you or not but I’m having worrisome symptoms that I’m not sure are all in my head or what , I’m waiting to see
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sig, so glad you have this much behind you. Sorry you are still waiting for HER2 status. Grades range from 1-3, so you’re right in the middle and it generally means the tumor doesn’t look like other breast cells. It does not mean anything about stage. Staging of my tumor was done at surgery but I didn’t get results for about a week. The pathologist has to examine closely and it takes time. Keep breathing!!
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