Support for our sister ABeautifulSunset!

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  • holmes13
    holmes13 Member Posts: 214
    edited September 2019

    Just thinking about you and hope you are enjoying the first signs of fall.

  • Grannax2
    Grannax2 Member Posts: 2,551
    edited September 2019

    You're on my mind Sunset. I wish there was someway all of us could help. Virtual hugs coming your way. 💞

  • masonsmawmaw
    masonsmawmaw Member Posts: 134
    edited October 2019

    Good Morning Sunset!

    Thinking of you today and praying that you are resting comfortably and enjoying time with your family.

    Wishing a blessed week for you....

    Angie

  • SandiBeach57
    SandiBeach57 Member Posts: 1,617
    edited October 2019

    Hi Sunset, you are also on my mind.

    I don't know where you live, but wouldn't it be great if the weather is cooling, fall is arriving and you can sit outside?

    I am so looking forward to candy corn, pumpkins, falling leaves and beautiful cool evenings. Just not happening yet where I Iive..dealing with mosquitoes and biting flies and daily sweating. Ugh.

    S

  • ABeautifulSunset
    ABeautifulSunset Member Posts: 990
    edited October 2019

    I'm still here!!!!!! I not only had a rough few weeks but I lost my passcode and couldn't figure out how to change it. But here I am!

    I am bedridden, using a wheelchair when comfortable, I have Mets ohh, pretty much everywhere. Just had some on my CS zapped.

    Otherwise , not even going to the hospital. Just hanging at home. Enjoying my friends as much as possible and making sure the kids are on the right path in in school. Part of that is not dying in the middle of the quarter.

    Not the best life, but a life at least.

    Beautiful Sunset


  • Anotherone
    Anotherone Member Posts: 633
    edited October 2019

    glad to hear from you , sunset.

    That must be a lonely place to be in - after all everybody around is going to stay here keeping living.. hugs.

  • BevJen
    BevJen Member Posts: 2,523
    edited October 2019

    Sunset,

    I think about you often, even though we've never met. I'm happy that you were able to chime in on the boards. Hope that you can get in that wheelchair some more and even get outside to enjoy fall with your kids.

    Bev

  • Iwrite
    Iwrite Member Posts: 870
    edited October 2019

    Sunset,

    So good to hear you feel up to being involved with loved ones and mobile (at least sometimes.) Glad you zapped a few more of those troublemakers, too.

    Thinking of you and sending gentle hugs. Hope you enjoy a glorious fall color show in the coming days. An artist friend once described autumn light as looking “buttery.” Hope we all get some beautiful buttery days this month. Warmest wishes



  • Moissy
    Moissy Member Posts: 550
    edited October 2019

    Stef

    So glad to hear from you. Oh, the torture of passwords! I’ve often thought of one of those password manager programs, but I’m too paranoid!

    Glad you are getting to enjoy time with friends. We would all jump in a chair next to you if we could. Your kids are already on the right path because of having a great mom like you! But there’s always more work to be done bymoms, isn’t there?

  • Andi67
    Andi67 Member Posts: 423
    edited October 2019

    So glad I popped in just in time to "see" your beautiful face, Sunset! Glad you are still here and enjoying your friends and family. I am sure you are zipping around in that wheelchair. Sending hugs and love. XO

    Andrea

  • Nkb
    Nkb Member Posts: 1,436
    edited October 2019

    sunset- so happy you’re up at times and engaged with family and friends!

  • SandiBeach57
    SandiBeach57 Member Posts: 1,617
    edited October 2019

    Hello Beautiful Sunset.

    Just thinking of you and was wondering how you were spending your days. You seemed to be a person to not just sit around..even in a wheelchair!

    If you watch Netflix (or maybe it is Amazon Prime) one of my favorite shows is Poldark..a PBS series. Oh my gosh, romance, battles, lost loves, evil guys..has it all. You will binge watch..trust me. Ha.

    Here's hoping you are getting out in your wheelchair when you have good days and someone you trust to get you around. Maybe a gentle massage or a manicure?Those things can be done in your home.

    I realize you are off treatment. I realize you have mets everywhere. But you are still here and alive. Enjoy new foods..enlist your friends to make you gourmet meals. Get your friends to buy you some fun jewely bling. Try to find your joy.

    Love ya from afar.

  • JFL
    JFL Member Posts: 1,947
    edited October 2019

    Sunset, so many people here care about you and are thinking about you daily, even when you don't have a chance to come here. I hope you have some decent options to manage the pain and have the opportunity to move around a bit, no matter how small those movements are. Hugs and prayers.

  • Moissy
    Moissy Member Posts: 550
    edited October 2019

    Hi Stef,

    Thinking about you tonight. Hope you are surrounded by hugs and love from friends and family. Sending hugs from your friends at BCO. ❤️

    Moiss

  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 4,924
    edited October 2019

    Stefanie, I try to picture you at home, with the people and things you love nearby. May you have many many good moments and blessings of life even now. You have a special place in my heart.

  • masonsmawmaw
    masonsmawmaw Member Posts: 134
    edited October 2019

    ABS- Thinking of you today, and everyday. Praying that you are comfortable...

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  • pajim
    pajim Member Posts: 2,785
    edited October 2019

    sunset, thinking of you. Glad you are still participating in life.


  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 4,924
    edited October 2019

    You are in my thoughts, often, dear Sunset.

  • ABeautifulSunset
    ABeautifulSunset Member Posts: 990
    edited October 2019

    hi everyone. Sorry I've been gone so long. This is truly a beautiful thread for me to read. The only orange I'm seeing this fall is fire, so the weather is also still quite warm which I like. . I've had tond of visitors and few caretakers so I'm Never alone. It can be exhausting . That's kinda good I think, right?

    Anyway, I'm so sorry about some of the recent downturns. But I've noticed people on hospice have a decent qol and often live longer than if they are chasing down another chemo.

    Stefanie (just entered year #9

  • JFL
    JFL Member Posts: 1,947
    edited November 2019

    Stephanie, congrats on entering year 9! Major accomplishment. However no amount of time is ever enough.

  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 4,924
    edited November 2019

    Stefanie, it’s so good to see you posting. I’m not surprised you have so many visitors, because you are so awesome.

  • Moissy
    Moissy Member Posts: 550
    edited November 2019

    Hi Stef - Glad to hear from you. I second Shetland on your awesomeness! :-)

  • Micmel
    Micmel Member Posts: 9,450
    edited November 2019

    Sunset~sending you bunches of support and hugs. Much love ~M~

  • Andi67
    Andi67 Member Posts: 423
    edited November 2019

    Hi Sunset... just returned from a week at the beach in California, and thought of you with every sinking sun! So glad you are still with us, and that you are peaceful and comfortable!

  • masonsmawmaw
    masonsmawmaw Member Posts: 134
    edited November 2019

    ABS- Thinking of you today. Hope all is as well as it can be

    Angie

  • masonsmawmaw
    masonsmawmaw Member Posts: 134
    edited December 2019

    Wishing you a beautiful day!

    Angie

  • Jaylea
    Jaylea Member Posts: 478
    edited December 2019

    Stephanie, thinking of you this morning and hoping your Thanksgiving was filled with just the right amount of family and friends. Hope you're warm and comfy. Hugs from JL

  • Andi67
    Andi67 Member Posts: 423
    edited December 2019

    Sunset - thinking of you! I love winter sunsets when it's snowy outside... just love that time of day and the way the dimming light reflects off the snow.

    XO

    Andi

  • ShetlandPony
    ShetlandPony Member Posts: 4,924
    edited December 2019

    Friends, I have sad news. I just learned that our dear ABeautifulSunset, Stefanie, passed away mid-November. She died at home surrounded by loved ones. I am so sad. She was a very lovely and special person. I feel so much for her family, and wish them strength to bear this.

  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited December 2019

    Oh I am so sad to hear this. Thank you ShetlandPony for letting us know. My thoughts are with her family.

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