Is anyone else an atheist with BC besides me?
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Nope - Joe277 is a troll and the mods have removed her posts. As Ananda said, she'll be gone woon. I too have seen her disrupt other threads. Best to just ignore.
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I love this new-to-me expression: 'drive-by religious bashing.' I am now officially a persecuted atheist. Who knew that was A Thing? Thanks to everyone here for sharing sanity.....
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Man, I'm late checking in and all religious hell has broken out! Damn, I miss all the fun. Hey, Joe277, if you're still reading this: what would be disrespectful is if one of us went to one of the MANY, MANY, MANY religious discussions to talk about our lack of faith. But no, we keep it to one thread. And here you come, trespassing on OUR place, being all rude and pushy like a bad stereotypical christian missionary. Well, you've just had the door slammed in your face. Go away and stay away.
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Ananda8, I just can't get into the fear-of-germs thing. And the mega-catholic woman wasn't an old woman, just a youngish snot who thought everyone was intruding on her private space..
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I guess I just pictured her that way. My town is practically a senior center there are so many old folks. One out of 3 people in my town is over 65. Lot's of people would rather not hug in church. Prior to anti-biotics it was very uncommon for strangers to touch each other because of fear of contagion.
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I guess the congregations I've been familiar with are not groups of strangers, but communities whose members know each other well.
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I guess I haven't explained myself well. When one is dealing with an aged population colds, flu and other diseases can run through a community very quickly. It is because people care for one another that they are careful about contact especially since old people often have suppressed immune systems. I just meant my original comment to be something in passing. I didn't intend it to be a challenge or upsetting in any way. 😉
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JoE- when you came into this thread for the first time several months ago I gave you the benefit of the doubt . Since that time you occasionally pop up with severe criticism about our lack of belief . Your attitude has been condescending and patronizing . This particular thread isn't about trying to convert us to Christianity . I feel you coming from a place of meanness . What is your real purpose for coming on to this thread? I relish thoughtful discussions but you're not coming to share philosophies or debate issues. Sometimes we just have fun.
Mountainmia- I come from a very large Southern family. You are 100% correct. Southerners love to share their opinions on God whether you want to hear it or not. LOL
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I am, for what it’s worth
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Ooh, Ananda8, I like that! If nothing else, it would confuse the heck out of people who don't think.
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Hi everyone-
There are many, many threads on these boards that hopefully subscribe to the belief (or non-belief) system that each and everyone holds dear. We hope to offer a place where everyone can share as they see fit and are comfortable, but we also ask that you extend the same kindness and acceptance to everyone. Even, and perhaps especially, those with whom you don't find common ground. As always, we suggest that if you do not agree with what is posted in this particular forum, you either don't read here or block it to keep it from your active topics. We're always here if you have questions or concerns!
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Thanks mods, and we agree not to flame the religious posts.
As long as we have a safe place for devout atheists, we're happy.
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I’m also in the south. I’ve started wearing hats at work and have had a lot of people say they are praying for me. Ok but surely there are things and people out there who need/deserve prayers more than I do. Better yet how about doing something more constructive for those who need it
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I told someone I knew from long ago about my diagnosis/treatment. He kind of chuckled and said now he had someone new to pray for. I thought, wow, glad I could help.
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I know that type of Christian. Praying, or saying they'll pray, is just a grab for attention. At least the guy you know is up front about it.
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To offer a prayer for someone in need is just about the least and laziest thing one can offer. Offer to do something or rather just do something for that person.
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AliceBastable: the end of your aunt's story made me spit my coffee all over the tablet for laughing out loud! You almost owe me a new one! LOL
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my elderly neighbor has been in a SNF for almost two weeks now. I go every single day to check on her and to keep an eye on staff. Her devoted friends from her church call her daily to offer prayers and not one of them has shown up to visit her at the SNF . She has frequently asked if they would visit her, bring her lunch or sit with her for a couple of hours to give me and her caregiver a break. Their response each and every time we have our own lives. Yes most of these women are in their 70s and 80s. Most of them drive and those who don't have private drivers. My neighbor always makes a face and comments" prayers don't mean a damn thing unless a person offers to help" I do find it interesting the same group of church people who cannot visit her or help never miss her huge Birthday Bash every year. Maybe the secret is offering gourmet food and great wine. I know Many religious people do offer their time and services to help people in need. There are a lot of people out there who don't.
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My article is being widely distributed. Here's the latest mention:
Not everyone will agree with male breast cancer advocate Rod's latest post on religion and cancer, but it's important we give space to this discussion. As a non-religious person myself, I appreciate that a strong faith is a truly wonderful coping strategy.. for some.. but for the rest of us, it simply isn't an option.
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Traveltext, Have you received any feedback from believers on your article about atheists?
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Traveltext: I can not find the article, just the comment about the article.
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Travel...which one of those 15 or so stories is about males and religion and cancer?
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Jo6359, it's a long tradition with Christians and food, all the way back to loaves and fishes and water into wine. They don't show up unless there's something in it for their stomach.
Yndorian, my aunt deserved a good story. She was a real sweetheart. I didn't care much for her when I was a child - she didn't have kids and was a real hoverer, always worried about something happening to me and my sister. But as an adult, I came to realize how much she loved us, and how lovable she was.
Traveltext, very cool.
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For those of you who didn't find the article - click the highlighted ROD - the 7th in line.
Thanks TravelText. Really nicely presented.
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Minus...thanks. The link to malebc.org is helpful. Never know when I'll learn about someone in need of that info.
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traveltext- very well written article. Thank you so much for sharing that link.
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AliceBastable, it sounds like your aunt was a very sweet lady ... She took literally the comment that her dh "went to a better place" ...that made me laugh.
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Traveltext, I just read your interesting article. I believe that faith and religion are not the same. Faith does not always need to be expressed through religion. Faith (for those who have it) is something very personal and free, but religion is a set of dogmas. And because of those dogmas there is procelitism ... and in many cases, unfortunately, terrorism
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