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ik0106
ik0106 Member Posts: 44

While I realize everyone is a little different, was is the average time to stay in the hospital after a Bilateral Mastectomy with immediate implant insertion and how long can you drive or at least go out with someone else driving? What is a reasonable time to be able to go back to work (desk job)

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  • ipenelope
    ipenelope Member Posts: 301
    edited May 2019

    IK- I had bmx on Nov 15th and went home on Nov 16th less then 24 hrs out of surgery. I had prepec tissue expanders (TE) placed at time of mastectomies. I wasn't taking any narcotics and have a huge issue with passenger anxiety so I drove part way home from the hospital. It was challenging due to difficulty turning head because my chemo port was placed and hurt if I turned my head to much, I was also limited on range of motion in my arms obviously. I was off work for a month due to wt restrictions.

    Everyone and every doctor is different on restrictions. Do what you can in the limitations you are given. If you feel up to going and doing things do it, just remember the surgery is a major surgery and your body will need time to recover, physically and mentally!!

    Best of luck!!😊

    ~Katie💗

  • Jamesa
    Jamesa Member Posts: 1
    edited June 2019

    I had bilateral mastectomy and DIEP flat on 6/10. What is general time for swelling to begin going down in abdomen? And when should I be able to stand up straight?

    Thank you

  • hodgepodge
    hodgepodge Member Posts: 92
    edited June 2019

    I had my surgery 4/23. I was in the hospital barely 24 hours. I started driving at about 2 1/2 weeks. The hardest part for me was reaching forward to bump the turn signal up. -and speed bumps! :) At about 4 weeks I started back to work from home sitting at a desk. It was fine as long as I took frequent breaks. I have recently started going in and find that focus is still hard for me. I do better from home. :)

    As far as abdominal swelling... I kept wondering that myself. I've now resigned myself to the fact that it's just my belly. I guess my giant boobs shielded it from my view!

  • ipenelope
    ipenelope Member Posts: 301
    edited June 2019

    Hi ladies, sadly expect some aspect of swelling for multiple months. The biggest part will go down after about a 3 weeks to a month but you could have swelling for up to 6 months after. I didn't do the diep but had bmx in November and still had swelling into April-May though it was more difficult to see at the end.

    Best of luck with healing!!

    I hope everyone is doing good!!

    ~Katie💗

  • happyperidot
    happyperidot Member Posts: 53
    edited June 2019

    How long was it before you were able blow-dry your hair and put on make-up? I need to attend my future daughter-in-laws bridal shower 12 days post-op.

  • kber
    kber Member Posts: 394
    edited June 2019

    I'll chime in here - I'm 21 days post BMX with TE implants. I drove for the first time yesterday and went into the office for the first time today. I began working from home after 10 days, but very part time.

    I don't have hair, so no blow drying, but I was able to put on makeup at day 17 to attend my daughter's graduation. I would have struggled to go out on day 12, to be 100% honest. I did have several follow up appointments at one week and two weeks post surgery, but I wore comfy sweat pants and didn't care about looking cute.

    I'm still quite sore and swollen, but getting by with Tylenol and Advil. Work is actually a nice distraction from the discomfort, but I expect I'll have an early night tonight!

  • Crescent5
    Crescent5 Member Posts: 442
    edited June 2019

    happyperido I had a hard time with T. rex arms so I don't think my hair was perfect at 12 days PO but it was still presentable. Perhaps you can book a wash and blow dry with your stylist the day of the shower

  • ipenelope
    ipenelope Member Posts: 301
    edited June 2019

    This is am opinion from a nurse....I know the doctors and many recommend trex arms but I feel that they can cause increased issues with range of motion once things are healed more. I've sadly seen numerous women who have done this that have to do a good amount of occupational therapy due to not using their arms post- mastectomy. Yes be careful and if you feel pulling stop or don't go past that point but there is no reason not to extend your arms in front of you or to your sides, barring discomfort. After my surgery my elbows didn't go above my shoulders but my arms did once the pull subsided and i did no damage to the aloderm or work from surgery. Thankfully i have no restrictions in my arms from surgery either.

    You have to do what's best for you though, keep in mind this is just my opinion!!

    Happy- I think the idea of having your hair done by a stylist for the shower is a great idea!! A little extra pampering for you after what you're going to be going through!!

    Kber- happy to hear that you are recovering well!! I hope it continues positively!!

    Thoughts with all you ladies and keep kicking cancer's ass!!🥊🥊

    ~Katie💗


  • LaCombattante
    LaCombattante Member Posts: 226
    edited June 2019

    I was encouraged to start gentle stretching in the first week after my Uni, skin and nipple sparing mastectomy with immediate reconstruction to implant. Here is a link with examples of stretches / exercises:

    https://www.cancer.org/cancer/breast-cancer/treatment/surgery-for-breast-cancer/exercises-after-breast-cancer-surgery.html

    I did the stretches religiously, but it was swimming that allowed me to fully restore the range of motion (it was summer time, so once my PS cleared me to swim, I did just that and I swear, I could feel the difference very fast).

    This time around, after lymph nodes removal, I was also encouraged to start stretching immediately after the surgery, however, be careful not to raise arms above my head for two to three weeks.

    Work-wise, I found it a challenge to do full days in the first two months. I did work some, but not nearly as much as I usually do. I jumped into work full-swing once my medical leave was over (two months).

    Word of cation to my fellow workaholics :) : if you have to travel abroad, especially long-haul, please do check with your doctors and do bring your first aid kit with you...Three months post mastectomy, I had to go to Russia, to audit the local office over there, and my incision got inflamed. After consulting with PS over the phone, I managed to get all the medicines I needed, including antibiotics, but it took nearly two days. I wish I had the meds available from the start.

  • dreaminjaded1
    dreaminjaded1 Member Posts: 2
    edited June 2019

    My mother had her lumpectomy two days ago. Her surgeon was very pleased stating he removed the tumor and the lymph nodes removed did not have cancer. Mom took her bandages off tonight and said she's pretty swollen. She hasn't had a fever, not a lot of pain, and no drainige. I'm just wondering if this is expected. Thanks!

  • dreaminjaded1
    dreaminjaded1 Member Posts: 2
    edited June 2019

    My mother had her lumpectomy two days ago. Her surgeon was very pleased stating he removed the tumor and the lymph nodes removed did not have cancer. Mom took her bandages off tonight and said she's pretty swollen. She hasn't had a fever, not a lot of pain, and no drainige. I'm just wondering if this is expected. Thanks!

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited June 2019

    Hi dreaminjade,

    All sounds very positive about your mom. You may find our content here helpful to know what to expect. Lumpectomy: What to expect

    Hope this is helpful,

    The Mods

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