Where are my eyelashes?

I'm only nine months out and mine have come and gone but have never returned to where they were. That said, I was using an eyelash serum called Lilash even before I got my diagnosis. So far that doesn't seem to be doing much, although I just started using a different serum. There are women on other threads who have done extensions, had them dyed, . . . You can also youtube make-up hints for dealing with no/sparse lashes and brows. I get that it's not a huge deal but I think we have every right to be annoyed!