Who has the right to delete a memorial page

Late to the party, as usual. My two bits:

Anyone who posts here does so voluntarily. Their words are a gift. A donation. A piece in the puzzle and others add and build as we juggle our way through this life event.

No outside force should have any authority over the gifts a member has chosen to leave here. I feel it is the job of the Moderators to manage this site as per the rules that keep this site flowing well. However, it is another thing completely for Mods to take orders or be influenced by people who are NOT members of this community, who HAVE NOT contributed to the site and who ARE NOT the author nor donater of the written words given here. There are inside issues for the moderators to manage and outside issues for them to say no, sorry, go away, this isn't your tea party, buh-bye now. Meaning, if my Hub were to come along after my death and pitch a fit that he wanted my posts removed I hope the answer would be, sucks to be you Buddy!

Mods need to know who issues their marching orders and we need to understand that clearly. Us on the inside or those on the outside?

I have removed my own posts. I believe we should be free to reconsider what we say. But no one else gets to reconsider that for us. Not in life and not in death. I would be interested to know under what circumstances a partner can demand, after our death, that our words be removed? The ultimate edit! It bothers me on a deep level.