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  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 3,085
    edited March 2019

    They did not test me for that... I have been curious about that, but I do not know. I think I had *necrosis* predominant. High grade, Nottingham of 9. I had chemo prior to surgery.

  • Farfalla6
    Farfalla6 Member Posts: 105
    edited March 2019

    My grade was high too, either 3, or Nottingham 8 too. Trying to learn lingo. Surgeon checked with pathologist because I asked about percentage of lymphocytes. Apparently ( this is all googling, so...) there is a correlation between an immune activated subtype of TNBC and v good prognosis, at least this is what I seem to find, and pathology said this Amt of TIL cells is unusual

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 3,085
    edited March 2019

    Yes the Immunological subtype is one that tends to respond well to chemo. As does Basal 1. I think I must have been one of those two. Not sure though. My AR + was very high but my MO said that the other subtypes besides LAR can also be AR+

  • BanR
    BanR Member Posts: 289
    edited March 2019

    Hi!!

    Really nice to login after long and see old faces/ names in here! Anyone finds me familiar too?

    Love to all..



  • adagio
    adagio Member Posts: 982
    edited March 2019

    BanR - I do remember your name from this thread a few years ago - I don't participate much any more, but do wonder about past posters! Hope you continue to do well - I am just about 6 years finished treatment now and so far so good - I am filled with gratitude!

  • Flynn
    Flynn Member Posts: 307
    edited March 2019

    Always make me happy to see fellow TN’s doing well several years after treatment!

  • BanR
    BanR Member Posts: 289
    edited March 2019

    I remember you too Adagio! I hope others from our days keep swinging by here on and off too.

    Sending wishes for good health to everyone

  • urdrago71
    urdrago71 Member Posts: 559
    edited March 2019

    inspiring to have you stop in!!

  • Volleyballmom2008
    Volleyballmom2008 Member Posts: 54
    edited March 2019

    Good morning ladies. I have a question. I am half way through rads, I finished chemo Dec. 20th. Had surgery in january. Last few weeks my hand has been going numb and painful at night. Anyone developed neuropathy after chemo? It's so painful.

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 3,085
    edited March 2019

    I was told it can happen as a delayed reaction, but it might also be spurred by the rads. Is you breast inflamed or swollen? Mine is (24/28) and my nerves are acting up but more in upper arm/breast. Mine is not intense but more like the post-surgery zingers. I would call your RO and mention it.

  • Volleyballmom2008
    Volleyballmom2008 Member Posts: 54
    edited March 2019

    Santabarbarian, I am on 13 of 30 rads. I am not inflamed but am getting a serious burn on side of my breast where lymph nodes were removed. I apply calendula cream and neosporian to the burn. I can't wait to be done. You should be done or almost.

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 3,085
    edited March 2019

    2 more, including today. Will be so happy to let myself heal, FINALLY! A 9 month marathon, but the finish line is tomorrow!

  • Trishyla
    Trishyla Member Posts: 1,005
    edited March 2019

    Yay, santabarbarian! Congrats on finishing active treatment. Hope you've got something wonderful planned to celebrate. Even if it's just a favorite meal.

    Best wishes for continued healing.

    Trish

  • Vslush
    Vslush Member Posts: 183
    edited March 2019

    Santabarbarian,

    Congrats on finishing treatment tomorrow. I have seen you on many boards, and you've gone through this with an amazing amount of knowledge and proactive grace. Wishing you peace and healing.

    Vickki

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 3,085
    edited March 2019

    Thank you so much, I am thrilled to be finishing at last!

    The Proton center had their weekly "graduation" yesterday for everyone finishing this week... They catered a nice lunch and all the graduates, family members and the other patients randomly there for their appointments participated. They give every graduate a commemorative coin with a unique number on it, corresponding to the number patient they are, to have received Proton Rads at the center since it opened (it's 7 years old, and I was 3968).

    One young man of about 20 actually finished his last session right as we were graduating, and it was sooo sweet, they played the "Rocky" theme song as he walked out of the treatment area into the lobby, where the party was, toting his IV pole... everyone gave him a standing ovation as he rang the bell and walked up to get his coin. Not a dry eye in the place!

    There is such a huge difference between a medical environment and a *healing* environment... I am sure everyone on this board can recognize the difference. When people go the extra mile and connect on a deeper level and care about you as a full person, not just a body part or a diagnosis, they care about your spirit and morale. ProCure is a healing place with extremely kind, connective people. From the front desk to the top doctor, they were lovely, lovely people.

    My techs, in particular, were stellar. Very efficient, quick, kind, warm, funny... I had the same ~8 people (3 per time)-- black, white, asian, young/old, male/female, native born/foreign born... After 28 times you know one another, you have inside jokes... I will miss them. What was beautiful was watching everyone working together seamlessly in the 'machinery ballet' of setting up and re-setting up for each zap, all with grace, kindness and good cheer. What a great example of how things can/ should be everywhere.

  • ALHusband
    ALHusband Member Posts: 344
    edited March 2019

    Hello all,

    I haven't been on in quite some time. Thought maybe the group might need a shot of testosterone? Proud to announce that my wife is coming up quickly on 6 years since Dx on April 8th and she's doing GREAT. Newbies there IS hope and you WILL be fine! Wishing you all a great day!

    Mike

  • notdefined
    notdefined Member Posts: 286
    edited March 2019

    Congrats santabarbarian!  That center sounds very supportive, and made me wish my insurance would cover something like that.  

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 3,085
    edited March 2019

    notdefined, there are a few observational proton trials happening, so you may want to check whether or not you can get one of those, if Protons interest you. I know my center worked w my insurance and gave me a break... some do...!

  • notdefined
    notdefined Member Posts: 286
    edited March 2019

    Thanks! I will look into it!

  • Stitch
    Stitch Member Posts: 36
    edited March 2019

    Just diagnosed with triple neg, stage 0 DCIS - so far - from a biopsy.  Terrified, but hopeful.  My MRI was yesterday, and I did get DNA blood tests done.  3 weeks the results of that should be in and I'll have an appointment with the Dr to decide on treatment.  Last year they found a small round particle that they were not worried about, but required 6 month mammogram follow up.  In September, everything was the same.  Thank God that they wanted to do one more 6 month follow up before it went back to one year.  So this time they found that the original speck had not changed, but found this DCIS that had not been there 6 months ago.  That is what is scary.  It's obviously pretty aggressive if it wasn't there 6 months ago and now it is.  

    The pathology report mentions "high grade" which is also scary.  I'm adopted is why they are doing the DNA testing.  

    I've read some of the thread here, not all, and plan to use these 3 weeks to exercise, start taking vitamin D and eating even better than I have been over the last year.  I'm currently Type II diabetic, and last year decided I didn't want to be on expensive meds (Januvia) anymore.  So I started a ketogenic eating plan.  This has allowed me to shed 20 lbs, and has stabilized my blood sugars.  I went from an A1C of 11 to 7, to 5.9.  I am 60 years young.  

    I guess I'm most terrified of the chemo effects, being there is no telling what I've put my body through already being diabetic.  I go to the internist regularly, and I've never had bad blood tests for kidney or liver function.  My chest xray came back clear.  

    These posts have helped, because yes, I stupidly googled TNBC and the first thing I saw was "aggressive" and that I'd die in 5 years!!  

    Mary, aka Stitch

  • Stitch
    Stitch Member Posts: 36
    edited March 2019

    Not sure why my post was deleted by the community?  I'd accidently posted in UK forum, and so before I deleted it there, I copied to post it here.  I guess that's not allowed.  Oh well.  I'll try one more time.  

    Just diagnosed with triple neg, stage 0 DCIS - so far - from a biopsy.  Terrified, but hopeful.  My MRI was yesterday, and I did get DNA blood tests done.  3 weeks the results of that should be in and I'll have an appointment with the Dr to decide on treatment.  Last year they found a small round particle that they were not worried about, but required 6 month mammogram follow up.  In September, everything was the same.  Thank God that they wanted to do one more 6 month follow up before it went back to one year.  So this time they found that the original speck had not changed, but found this DCIS that had not been there 6 months ago.  That is what is scary.  It's obviously pretty aggressive if it wasn't there 6 months ago and now it is.  

    The pathology report mentions "high grade" which is also scary.  I'm adopted is why they are doing the DNA testing.  

    I've read some of the thread here, not all, and plan to use these 3 weeks to exercise, start taking vitamin D and eating even better than I have been over the last year.  I'm currently Type II diabetic, and last year decided I didn't want to be on expensive meds (Januvia) anymore.  So I started a ketogenic eating plan.  This has allowed me to shed 20 lbs, and has stabilized my blood sugars.  I went from an A1C of 11 to 7, to 5.9.  I am 60 years young.  

    I guess I'm most terrified of the chemo effects, being there is no telling what I've put my body through already being diabetic.  I go to the internist regularly, and I've never had bad blood tests for kidney or liver function.  My chest xray came back clear.  

    These posts have helped, because yes, I stupidly googled TNBC and the first thing I saw was "aggressive" and that I'd die in 5 years!!  

    Mary, aka Stitch

  • santabarbarian
    santabarbarian Member Posts: 3,085
    edited March 2019

    Mary,

    Sorry you are here-- but it's good that you found your people!

    And bravo for getting so informed so fast, and for already being attentive to your eating. One of the MOs I talked to was very in favor of a keto diet for TNBC. (Not all MOs are the same on this.) I have done a largely whole foods, vegetarian/pescatarian version of keto with low animal fat, as low animal fat tends to correlate with low recurrence too.

    The good news about TNBC is you CAN actually defeat it. It can recur quickly or it can just die from the treatment. It is worth doing absolutely everything you can do to improve your chance of killing it off right now. Aggressive = a shark that never stops swimming, so it can't outsmart chemo and hide from it as easily. The pokey slow cancers are the ones that hide and lurk for decades.

    Chemo was no fun but not beyond my abilities to handle. I was terrified of chemo and it was actually ok.

    You are in good shape, you have caught this early and you stand an excellent chance of getting rid of this for good!!

    wishing you all the best,

    SB

  • pesky904
    pesky904 Member Posts: 402
    edited March 2019

    ALHusband, that's great! Thanks for the update!

  • notdefined
    notdefined Member Posts: 286
    edited March 2019

    Hi Mary,

    My aunt has TNC and diabetes as well.  She just finished her chemo, and is going for surgery tomorrow.  I just wanted you to know that chemo is doable, and perception of it is a lot worse then going through it.  Glad it was caught early, and wanted to send hugs your way.  The beginning and waiting for results is really hard.  Once you get your plan, you will hopefully feel less scared.

  • Stitch
    Stitch Member Posts: 36
    edited March 2019

    Thanks notdefined and santabarbarian.  You ladies make me feel more positive!

  • Flynn
    Flynn Member Posts: 307
    edited March 2019

    Mike, thanks for the update. Cheers to your wife on 6 years past diagnosis!

    Santabarbarian- congratulations on finishing treatment! Sounds like you had a great experience radiation. I also bonded with my staff and one person in particular. I just sent her a card to celebrate being 1 year out from rads and to thank her again for being so helpful. One thing that I personally take away from this whole experience is to really thank the people who made my journey better. Conversely, I also became much more vocal in dealing with those who didn’t:)

    Welcome to the thread, Mary. Sounds like you have a good handle on things. Don’t hesitate to post if you have any questions or you’re just having a bad day.

  • Cathytoo
    Cathytoo Member Posts: 667
    edited March 2019

    HEY MIKE....What a surprise to see you here. I check in once in a while and love to see posts from my “old crowd". Wonderful news on your wife's good health. I'm almost 3 1/2 years past diagnosis and feeling great. Wish you and your wife only the best....continued good health and lots of good times. NEWBIES...never give up. There is another side to this BC coin

  • urdrago71
    urdrago71 Member Posts: 559
    edited March 2019

    volleyballmom, the Rad. Oncologist should be writing u a prescription for silvadine cream, and they have a burn foam/pad u can place over ur rads burn to heap heal. The foam/pad(Mepilex) is sticky enuff to stay put but doesnt stick to the skin irritating it further. Just remember u still meed to allow air to the skin to heal when possible.

    Hope that helps...

  • VLH
    VLH Member Posts: 1,258
    edited March 2019

    YAY, Santabarbarian! It sounds like you had exceptional radiology care and what a huge relief to be done with treatment.

    Mike, it's wonderful to hear that your wife is doing well.

    CathyToo, I'm so pleased to hear that you're feeling great. Super!

    Mary / Stitch, I'm sorry that you find yourself here, but know that this forum will prove helpful for information and emotional support from people who have walked the walk themselves. Please keep us posted as your treatment plan develops.

    Lyn

  • Volleyballmom2008
    Volleyballmom2008 Member Posts: 54
    edited March 2019

    Thank you urdrago71. I will ask him in the morning. I felt like I breezed through 16 weeks of chemo and healed quickly from surgery. Thought rads would be long but a breeze compared.to chemo. Boy was I wrong. I find it worse, unless by body is just tired and beaten up. I am exhausted all the time, the neuropathy I was so glad I never got came a month after chemo and my arm and neck are killing me from the position I lay to do rads. Sorry so frustrated I needed to vent. 3 more weeks.



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