Reconstructive surgery after mastectomy

I Had ILC and mastectomy of my right breast.  Because it was in several areas breast surgeon said Mastectomy was the best thing to do.  I did have immediate reconstruction with nipple sparing.  I did not have to have expanders because they put it right on top of the muscle so I had both done at the same time.  Since I still have my left breast it feels weird because I can feel the difference between the two.  The reconstructed breast feels heavy to me.  I wanted to have both done at the same time but the surgeon said it would not be covered because the left breast was fine.   I think if I had it to do over I would still do the same.  Its probably more comfortable to have both breast done because you won't notice the difference so much.  I am older also (72) so I really didn't care about even doing the reconstruction but surgeon said I was so young looking I would hate myself.     I don't really think I would  

I was dx with both ILC and IDC in my left breast. Had a bilateral mastectomy with tissue expanders placed. Then due to 2 positive lymph nodes I had radiation, which caused skin damage. No PS would do the exchange to implants so I went with DIEP flap reconstruction. I found the perfect PS and am now 2 weeks post-op and doing well. It was a big surgery but I'm so pleased with the results.

Whatever you decide to do, make sure you do it for YOU. Best wishes.

I had only right breast mastectomy without any reconstruction. I am very happy with my decision not to remove my good breast. Because I am married and sexually active and having sensation on my left breast and not losing both breast make me very happy. Besides looking at my healthy breast and not completely loosing both was best decision for me. I am fine wearing bra with breast forms. For me having a healthy life matters more than anything else. We are all very different the choice you will make will be the best one for you

Best wishes

I was diagnosed at the end of May 2018, with ILC, Left, 2.9cm, Grade 2, 1+ Lymph Node, ER+/PR+, HER2-, and Genetic Test PALB2+. I saw the oncologist on June 13, 2018 and then started chemo on July 3, 2018. I was given 16 weeks/8 sessions of chemo (didn't receive the 8th round due to numbness in feet and hands) to hopefully shrink the lump enough to spare my nipple. I plan to have a double mastectomy and flap reconstruction BUT am so confused now because the surgeon told me I would need radiation after surgery. NOW I don't know which route to take and none of the doctors want to give me their "best option" opinion. I know radiation can effect the reconstruction but can also effect the nipple with the expanders if I wait for reconstruction. SO I don't know which way to go - I only had chemo (since they weren't sure it would help since I am hormone positive and will end up on the hormones for 5 years) to help save my nipple and don't want to now lose it after going through the chemo. Has anyone else had to decide in regards to reconstruction whether to wait or not before radiation? I hope this made sense as I am very confused...

I was diagnosed with ILC 6/2018. Due to a very complicated biopsy, I didn't have surgery until 8/2018. They told me I had about a 4-5mm tumor by MRI, but it wasn't really clear because of the botched biopsy and how it interfered with the MRI. I opted for BMX with immediate DIEP recon. Had that on 8/6/2016. My reasons were: 1. ILC is often bilateral and since they didn't pick it up on mammogram the first time, I didn't have a lot of confidence that a recurrence in the contralateral breast would be found if I opted for a smaller surgery. 2. I had a 9 cm hematoma after the biopsy, and that would have almost been a mastectomy anyway in that breast, so might as well go ahead and do both. 3. I didn't want radiation, and 4. My gut told me to.

I have absolutely no regrets. It was a very hard surgery, and I was just about getting recovered by early November when I decided to have phase 2 of the DIEP, so I'm still recovering. I would still do it again in a heartbeat. I feel like I've done everything I could have possibly done to beat this f****er. I was very fit and healthy before the surgery and I think that helped.

Take your time. When I was diagnosed, I wanted the mastectomy the next day. God provided me the hematoma which slowed things down and gave me a chance to consider all my options. The only thing I really could have done differently would have been to get a second opinion from a large cancer center (MDA, Dana Farber, etc) before proceeding, but because my husband is being treated for myeloma in a distant city, I really needed to get my treatment at home. Also, PRMA plastic surgeons is here and they are some of the best in the world. I am happy with the care I received.

Shortly after my diagnosis, my dear friend was diagnosed with IDC. She knew all of my thought processes and decisions, but she went to MDA, and has been very happy with her decision for lumpectomy and radiation there, and I completely agree with what she decided. So, it's really a personal decision at this point.