Found a lump deep in breast, 20yr
Hello everyone!
When looking in the mirror under a certain angle, I thought I saw a long dent on my breast and decided to check it. Surely enough, I felt a hard smooth lump deep in my breast (feels like it's attached to the wall although I'm not sure because I briefly pressed on it and I haven't touched it since). Absolutely panicking, I used the torch on my phone to check for the dent from all angels and positions but never saw it again so I'm not sure if there actually is one. The lump however is scaring the absolute life out of me and a quick google search with my symptoms comes up as basically 100% cancer. I go to uni so I will try to get an appointment asap but I don't know how long it will take to get one and I'm in such a state that I haven't been able to do my work or anything. It's been a though year with autoimmune disease diagnosis, anxiety disorder and now this and I just don't know how to cope anymore, I'm 20 years old for god sakes. I haven't told my mum yet because she lives far away and I'm scared to but at the same time, if it is cancer, I don't want to just have it come out of the blue.
Is there anyone here who has had something like this and not have it be cancer? I check my breasts all the time because this is one of my biggest fears and I've never felt it there before but then again, I've never checked it with my hand raised up so who knows how long it has been there for. Also, I read that cancer at my age tends to be aggressive so if it is cancer, is there any chance of survival at all?
Thank you to anyone who is willing to read this!
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Have you read in all your Googling how absolutely UNLIKELY it is that you have anything but benign lumps common in teens and young women? Go to the doctor
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Thank you for taking the time to read. I have read that, yes, but they say it's not impossible. I will go to the doctor as I noted that I will try to get an appointment asap once the surgery opens. I just want to be informed as much as possible and explore every option.
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It's good you're making an appointment with the doctor. I struggle with anxiety myself, and know how hard it is to think straight when in its grip, but truly, at your age the likelihood of cancer is so small! Also, it is possible that what you are feeling is actually a rib, if this is the first time you've checked yourself in that particular position. Make that appoinment, then try to completely put this out of your mind until you see the doctor. No googling! Find something fun to do instead. And I say that knowing very well how easy it is to say and hard it is to do. Hang in there ...
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Tell you mother, see your doctor, have an ultrasound, inquire about coping strategies for your health anxiety. And stop Googling.
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I found a lump in my breast when I was 19. I now have 13 lumps across both of my breasts. Most of them are called fibroadenomas, which are benign growths very common in young women. They can grow very suddenly, and often change around our menstrual cycle. It's natural to be nervous when we feel something new or notice a change in our bodies, but with your existing anxiety I understand it would be more stressful. It is good you are getting it checked, and it would be much more to your benefit if you did not use Google. Those will hopefully give you some peace of mind.
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Hello! I'm going through the same thing. I'm 20 years old and found a little lump similar to what you have in June. I ended up getting an appt with my gyno. She helped a lot and figured that what I have is just a benign cyst. However, just to be sure, she sent me to get an ultrasound. Following that, I just had my biopsy yesterday and am awaiting results! I'm also in college so, it has been kind-of hard to focus on school work when I have to make all these doctor appointments. My advice would be to stay calm, keep busy, and definitely make an appointment with your doctor. Your cyst is most likely benign like mine may be but, getting a doctor's opinion is definitely very important! ❤😊
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Hello! I'm going through the same thing. I'm 20 years old and found a little lump similar to what you have in June. I ended up getting an appt with my gyno. She helped a lot and figured that what I have is just a benign cyst. However, just to be sure, she sent me to get an ultrasound. Following that, I just had my biopsy yesterday and am awaiting results! I'm also in college so, it has been kind-of hard to focus on school work when I have to make all these doctor appointments. My advice would be to stay calm, keep busy, and definitely make an appointment with your doctor. Your cyst is most likely benign like mine may be but, getting a doctor's opinion is definitely very important! ❤😊
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So I went to the doctor today and she said she felt the lump but that it was quite soft and mobile, not fixed like I thought. I couldn't even feel her touching the lump. She has now referred me to a breast clinic in 2 weeks, is this the usual procedure? What should I expect? I'm scared but trying to take it rationally.
Thank you to everyone who has weighed in and supported me. It's very much appreciated.
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Janette20:
I don't really have any advice for dealing with anxiety other than what you are already doing...being proactive, collecting information and forming a game plan.
I just wanted to say, if they do imaging, make sure they actually see it on the imaging. Since this is a lump that seems new and is unfamiliar to you, ask about a biopsy. If they do a mammogram and see it and say it is benign because it has no microcalcifications, that's not good enough because not all cancerous lumps have visible microcalcifications. Ask about your breast density and how relevant it is to the accuracy if mammograms, ultrasounds, and MRIs. If you have a new palpable lump or a palpabke lump that us old but has changed, and it's not showing up on imaging, that's not good enough. Make sure it's conclusively identified, and not by exclusion.
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I think it's pretty common. In my experience, primary care doctors just refer all breast lumps out to specialists, even when they are confident they're benign. I had two different lumps in my twenties and thirties and went to two different doctors, and that's what they each said: this is almost certainly benign, but we have to get it checked. It seems to be some kind of hard-and-fast rule. They'll probably feel it like your doctor did, and then do an ultrasound. Those don't hurt. And even if they do want to do a biopsy, that doesn't mean it's going to turn out badly. One thing I learned within the last month or so is that they just routinely biopsy anything that has more than a 2% chance of being bad. That is super, SUPER careful.
I know how hard it is. I had three benign lumps in the past 20 years before this recent discovery of cancer, and it was scary every time. But even now, with the cancer, I think it's going to be OK. YOU CAN DO THIS!!!
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Janette20:
I don't really have any advice for dealing with anxiety other than what you are already doing...being proactive, collecting information and forming a game plan.
I just wanted to say, if they do imaging, make sure they actually see it on the imaging. Since this is a lump that seems new and is unfamiliar to you, ask about a biopsy. If they do a mammogram and see it and say it is benign because it has no microcalcifications, that's not good enough because not all cancerous lumps have visible microcalcifications. Ask about your breast density and how relevant it is to the accuracy if mammograms, ultrasounds, and MRIs. If you have a new palpable lump or a palpabke lump that us old but has changed, and it's not showing up on imaging, that's not good enough. Make sure it's conclusively identified, and not by exclusion.
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As my luck would have it - no appointment.
I had one scheduled for the 2nd, got a phone call to change it to the 5th and rang them up today to be told it hadn't been changed and that I've missed it. It's been 24 days since I found the lump and exactly 2 weeks since my urgent referral and my breast has gotten painful and feels heavy (never had that before). They said i will get a new appointment but the waiting times are long so who knows when i will finally be seen. I'm just so upset and scared
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that is very frustrating. Can you schedule with someone else too, while keeping this appointment
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Unfortunately not, this is the only hospital I can access in my area. It is very frustrating and causes so much stress.
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Jannette, so sorry you have to deal with this. You must be really strong and smart to take such a good care of yourself. It is unlikely to be cancer given your age, which is the good part. However, it appears to be causing some major trouble already. Your autoimmune disease did not came out of thin air. It might be triggered and sustained by the abnormal proteins produced by this abnormal growth, even if it is benign.
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My thyroid disease has been building up for years, it runs in the family so I doubt it's related to that. However, I do have a lot of hormonal issues (PCOS) which can cause cysts etc I've heard and even cancer so I want answers as soon as possible to make sure that whatever it is, I can get it caught as early as possible.
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Do you have Graves or Hashimoto? If Hashimoto, this can be triggered by the growth in the breast, and this could be especially the case if your thyroid looks completely normal (no nodules). I think what may run in the family is the ability of immune system to recognize and have a partial response to an abnormal tissue growth -aka the autoimmune response.
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I have Hashis but my thyroid isn’t normal. It hasn’t got any nodules but the structure is changed etc
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If no nodules, there is still a possibility the autoimmune disease is in fact triggered by the abnormal growth in the breast (assuming there is one). The heterogeneous structure seen in the ultrasound might be due to lymphocytes infiltration which is part of the autoimmune attack response. The presence of nodules (abnormal growth themselves) would make it very likely that the autoimmune attack is due to them. Of course, there is always a possibility that the nodules are just too small to see and the lymphocyte infiltration is in fact due to them. If you ever want to learn more about this, PM me with an email address where I can send you a few papers showing the link between abnormal tissue growth and autoimmune diseases.
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I got my letter through today and I have an appointment for the 19th of November so in exactly 2 weeks which will mark 4 weeks since I saw the GP. Can something seriously change in such a short time? I'm due on in a week or so and my breasts (both) are painful and the one with the lump feels quite heavy.
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I'm getting really stressed about the indent and I've just been a mess the past few days. My breast clinic appointment is on Monday and it's really starting to settle in that this is it - it's either good or very bad from there on. The indent basically follows the curve of my breast down to where the breast narrows into the areola and nipple (so basically, when I see the shadow, it looks like a long indent down the side of my breast). It's only visible if I raise my arm and even then, it has to be a very certain light to see it. When I do find the light and keep my hand up, I've used the torch on my phone and a hand held mirror to get a closer look and the skin is smooth, the 'indent' place just looks like what a big round stretch mark would look like if you stretched it. I also can't feel a dip in the skin. Yet from the image in the mirror you would think half the breast is caving in. I have long stretch marks down the sides on both sides but the other side doesn't have this look. I've been reading about this on the forum and all I've found is that this is not a good sign and most likely something bad. Please be honest - should I prepare myself for the worst?
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So I had the appointment today and they couldn’t feel or see the lump or the dent and turns out it was just glandular breast tissue that was more prominent. That was confirmed by the ultrasound and 2 doctors plus a consultant. They didn’t ultrasound the whole breast, just the areas of concern, is that ok
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