ALH and sister w IDC

Hello, I am new here. I have read an extensive amount of postings though and have learned some good information.

My Sister, who was being watched for DCIS decided to get a BMX after yet another dear friend was dx with an invasive cancer of breast. My sister had her box 4 weeks ago and her pathology showed that there were 2 small invasions that they called micro invasions.

I am 56 and had not had a mammogram for three years (yes, stupid of me) I was in a whole lot of emotional pain from the love of my life, my Husband died of brain cancer coming up on three years ago, and I was just gong through the motions of life.

My Sister would not stop bugging me and so I went had had the Mammo. I was called back for micro calcifications and because i have dense breasts and obviously because of my sister's dx. Next was a vacuum assist biopsy which showed:

ALH, Sclerosing adenosis, columnar cell changes. I was seen by an Oncology BS who drew a line through the SA and CCC and circled the ALH and said that the ALH was the only thing of concern. He recommended a lumpectomy. all the reading I do on what i would consider some reliable medical sites down play ALH, except for a few papers dated in last few years that show data that ALH can often be found with DCIS and also invasive types of ca. I really doubted the need for an excisional bx based on so much information out there that down plays ALH.

But then i remembered that the same breast in question has been bothering me for quite some time. Intermittent sharp very brief stabbing pain, sometimes a feeling of fullness and when really looking at my self in mirror I notice that the breast in question is just a little larger than it has been in past. I did read that SA can cause pain and so again, I wonder how necessary a surgery would be for something that seems not a big deal (ALH)

my question is are there any members that had only ALH that a lumpectomy found something more?

Thank you

Edit: I have had 2 spots of basil cell carcinoma removed from my chest over the past 2 years. However, I was told at that time by the dermatologist that it very rarely spreads to any where and he repeated very rare.