Scared

It's good that you are persuing treatment for your breast lump and its too bad the ER departments are not able to give you a mammogram or an ultrasound. Id suggest you find a doctor who would refer you for scans. They are correct when they say your age makes it unlikely you have breast cancer, since the average men get it is 65. So, rest easy, but look for a doctor. Let us know how you go.

Since you have concerns I suggest you make an an appointment set up with either a Family Med or Internal Medicine Dr. As many times those may be more likely to check out the inside but they may opt for a wait and see first to see if there is any changes within a year. As I doubt a regular GP or a PA would take it too seriously.

But I have heard many times during testerone and estrogen hormones entering the body it depends on what levels they are which can create a feeling of tissue enlargement in the chest of males under the nipple which can feel like a lump and sometimes nipple discharge can go along with it like clear to white like milk discharge as yes it's possible for males to lactate . That stuff may seem abnormal but it's normal for most of the time .

It's hard to advise you where to go from here. But since you are still worried, and since you weren't offered a scan, you might want see another doctor even just to alay your fears. This time, insist that you get an ultrasound, since blood tests are not the most reliable way to diagnose breast cancer. Meanwhile, relax because your chances of getting a bc diagnosis are slim.