Not quite a horder - decluttering

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  • MuddlingThrough
    MuddlingThrough Member Posts: 726
    edited August 2018

    Mominator, now I want to go make a bowl of 7 layer dip. Looks like it was good. How did he leave any olives? I'd have scooped those first! ☺

    Octogirl, glad to hear you got to pass along furniture to folks who needed it.

    We have two *heavy* things to take to the landfill. The challenge has been to find three trustworthy, strong guys to hire to help DH get them out of here!!!

  • illimae
    illimae Member Posts: 5,710
    edited August 2018

    I want 7 layer dip too! Is there a specific recipe you follow or products you use?

  • Zillsnot4me
    Zillsnot4me Member Posts: 2,687
    edited August 2018

    Our library lets you check out games. They are weighed. Great idea!

    Love 7 layer dip!

  • Mominator
    Mominator Member Posts: 1,575
    edited August 2018

    Madelyn's / Mominator's 7-Layer Dip

    Layer the following ingredients in a serving container. 
    I use my new Ziplock large rectangle container for easy storage, but use a large glass casserole dish for fancy events.

    (denotes healthier options)

    16 oz can of (fat free) refried beans

    about 16 oz of guacamole (I use a brand name and then mash in a whole, fresh avocado)

    about 16 oz of (fat free) sour cream 

    about 8 oz of (part skim or low fat) shredded cheese (cheddar or taco or your favorite mix)

    about 8 oz of sliced black olives

    about 8 oz of sliced cherry tomatoes

    about 8 oz of red, pink, or black beans (depends on my mood)

    Serve with Tostito scoop chips

    Scoop and enjoy!!


    Notes:
    I use fat free versions of refried beans and sour cream, and low fat cheeses. 
    I mash in the fresh avocado to make the guacamole less spicy. 
    Some folks have chopped onions as the last layer, but I use the red/pink/black beans instead. 

    I'm making another batch tomorrow afternoon. I'll get a picture before hubby (and I) attack it. 

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited August 2018

    Great recipe! Thanks for the share!


  • borogirl
    borogirl Member Posts: 86
    edited August 2018

    I had to clear out my parents almost 5,000 square ft. house last year as they moved into a 1,500 sq ft duplex in an independent living community. My sister in law told me something she heard in a widows' support group - as you go through things from the past and get caught up in the memories of each thing, first hold/touch the item and savor the memories. Then "release" the item (donate, throw away etc.) It's amazing how well that worked. By acknowledging those memories, you can enjoy the moment, reinforce the memories, and then not feel so bad about letting go of the "stuff". Touch and release.

  • octogirl
    octogirl Member Posts: 2,804
    edited August 2018

    Sold more furniture cheap yesterday as part of our downsizing mode (and got ride of more games in the process :-)).... and finished packing up my kitchen. There is a LOT of glassware I am letting go of: I just don't use it, ever. Wine glasses, water glasses of every possible shape and size, cheap vases, etc etc etc. It takes up room and gets dusty.

    Some of it will go in the recycling, some I may donate or give to friends. I did keep one cut glass vase that was my grandmother's.

    So nice to see the house without a lot of clutter.

    Octogirl


  • Mominator
    Mominator Member Posts: 1,575
    edited August 2018

    I made a double batch of my 7-layer dip.

    image

    Discovered today that the dip also makes a great filling for burritos.

    Close up of dip:

    image

    MuddlingThrough: I also go first for the olives!

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited August 2018

    Borogirl--what a great way to approach decluttering!

    Octogirl--WTG!Keeping grandmother's cut glass vase is wise, you do need ONE vase in the house and this is a great choice!

    Mominator--so pretty!Almost too pretty to eat!

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited August 2018

    Some things is easy to toss. I bought a brand new cordless stick Dyson vacuum cleaner on line this week and am excitedly waiting to receive it. With dark carpet and two cats, I unfortunately find myself vacuuming often. I’ve been putting small windfalls of money into a ”vacuum fund” for when the Dyson went on sale (which it did this week). The fund includes coins wrapped from our garage sale last year, a rebate from a lazyboy chair purchase, a few left-over bills I didn’t spend on vacation, ect.

    The vacuum I currently use downstairs is going upstairs to replace the pretty-much-worthless one that’s up there so I brought it downstairs today, i started saying something derogatory about it to dh and then said, “No, this vacuum served us well for many years.” and I thanked it for its service! It’s sitting in the garage to be put out for trash day on Friday.


  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited August 2018

    I like that--thanking the vacuum for it's service!

  • Mominator
    Mominator Member Posts: 1,575
    edited August 2018

    We had come back from vacation last Monday to a funny smell in the house. There had been heavy rains while we were away and many neighbors had flooding in their basements. 

    We couldn't find any problems, but the smell persisted. DH finally found a 10' by 10' area of the finished side of the basement where the carpet was damp underneath. The seal of the window above had failed. The was a wooden table in the corner, and all four legs had a small, smelly patch of mold growing beneath them. 

    This was DH's corner of the basement, he used to have an office down there. Now there is a lot of office and technical equipment cast-offs.

    We rented a steam cleaner and spent 2 days working on the corner. We got it cleaned, although the black stain didn't entirely come out of the carpet. 

    Now DH is sorting through his stuff, and lots of it is going out. We had to toss 6 reams of paper that got waterlogged. I was lamenting what a waste of paper and money. Hubby said maybe by absorbing all the water, the paper saved the carpet. 

    We'll be spending the next several weeks sorting through this mess. 

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited August 2018

    That's not a fun finding when you're just back from a vacation. If his corner is like my DH's, some necessary cleaning would be a good thing.

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited August 2018

    Mominator--Wow, what a problem to come home to! Glad it cleaned up well. Got to wonder if the paper didn't, in fact, help the carpet! But what a mess to clean up.

  • JaBoo
    JaBoo Member Posts: 520
    edited August 2018

    Today I've donated 4 large bags of beatiful baby things, I've kept just a small box of the most treasured baby clothes, such as those our babies had been fotographed in. I will put the photos in the box too and leave it somewhere for the kids to discover when they grow somewhat. (they are just pre-schoolers now)

    And I got rid of a large Ikea bag full of my clothes, donated it too. Nice things, but I won't be able to wear them anymore... like low necks etc.

    I've donated those to a safe house for mothers and children in need, I drove there myself. I like to hand my stuff directly to the people running the house, they always comment nicely and sometimes say what they need most.

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited August 2018

    JaBoo, Good for you with the donations. It is nice to have a more personal connection with the recipients.

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited August 2018

    Mominator, why does that stuff always seems to happen after a vacation? It sounds like you have your work cut out for you.

    JaBoo, good work going through the clothes and donating! It's even nicer when you find the right place to donate to.

    Hey, this Dyson cordless vacuum is a dream. It is different, but works great! So lightweight and non-cumbersome. Easily switches to a handheld vac so I can clean the carpeted stairs.

    Lately, I've been counting and wrapping the change in a large 5 gallon water dispenser bottle. It's about 2/3 filled with coins. I'll keep pennies before 1982. While I'm going through it, I also keep an eye out for a couple other possible coins that might be worth a little more than their face value. I'm going through it a little at a time. Nice hobby to do while watching TV. Once the coins are all wrapped, I'll cash them in and get rid of the bottle.

  • Jadedjo
    Jadedjo Member Posts: 469
    edited September 2018

    Since it's still too hot to work in the basement, hopefully weather will cool off next week,I decided to switch out my table coverings problem is I tend to go with the seasons and I'm probably going to have surgery in October and won't be able to lift the tv or other heavy items to place the coverings for months so I did it today. 

    I am now looking at a table covering full of Christmas poinsettias and Christmas candles thatsvin a tapestry large throw  on my huge coffee table/tvstand ( it's a studio apt,things are used for double duty). 

    That's nothing, I got an orange and green (Halloween!!!) giant granny square blanket with a white,black and red Christmas penguin tapestry throw one on top of that  covering my storage bench. The storage bench holds blankets and sheets inside  and I considered cleaning it out and getting rid of some but realized I use most of it either for my bed or as coverings so it's staying.

    It's like my apt is confused.

    Actually I'm gonna be confused it's still summer...

    That's my attempt at decluttering at the moment. 

    That and creating a workout corner with a container holding resistance bands,workout tops and shorts, yoga blocks,light weights, a wee towel and such.these days that corner gets more use then anything else in the apt. I also have a folded blanket on top to cover it when not in use so people who might come in don't see all that just a pretty blanket draped over something unknown.

    Not a lot but I do what I can at the moment.

    :)


  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited August 2018

    JaBoo--good job!I like the idea of keeping the baby clothes and pics together.I like the idea of finding out what various organizations need most, too.

    Mrs.M--It would be really interesting to find out how much money a 5 gallon water bottle can collect!I have a jar I collect change in, when it's nearly full it will have about $100 in it.I use that for vacation spending money.I've heard the Dyson vacuums are really nice.

    Jadedjo--while it does sound a little confusion with multiple holidays on display it also sounds very unique and eclectic! I can imaging studio living prevents a certain amount of clutter. Love the work out corner idea!

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited August 2018

    NativeMainer, I’m curious how much has been saved in the bottle, too. I’m keeping all the wrapped coins (and a few bills that got tossed in also) in a box till the bottle is empty, and I’ll let you know!


  • MuddlingThrough
    MuddlingThrough Member Posts: 726
    edited August 2018

    DivineMrsM, we keep coins in a large plastic pretzel jar, probably 2 or 3 gallons if it held liquid. I dont even know where we got it since we don't eat pretzels very often, lol. Probably from the snack room at DH's office. Several times I'd scoop out a plastic bowl full and wrap rolls of coins. When I had a little more weight than I could comfortably carry I'd take them to the bank. Those bags were heavy!! I'm sure the tellers hated to see me coming, but they were always nice. For what it's worth, I'd get between a hundred and a hundred fifty dollars per bag. I'd set it aside to spend on vacations, for a nice meal or two and a garden flag souvenir from a roadside shop. I'd get to enjoy the flag all season (Christmas, spring, whatever) and remember the trip without having to dust anything inside, ha ha.

    I can't do it now since my dominant hand doesn't really work so the jar is filling up again. Those pennies! Lot of work for little gain, except in clearing space. I did find one or two wheat pennies to keep. Why did you set 1982 as your target year?

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited August 2018

    Muddling, I love hearing your story about the pretzel jar coin collection. Great idea to get a vacation souvenier to enjoy but not have to take care of!

    All pennies before 1982 have a small amount of copper in them. So they might be worth 1.5 cents! Lol. It is fun to collect them as they are everyday coins you come across naturally. The wheat pennies are so scarce these days! I can remember seeing them always in change when I was growing up. I also remember the buffalo nickels and loved them and wish I’d saved a few of them back in the day. The wheats and buffalos fetch a little sum on ebay now and you’ll even pay more than face value for bulk pennies before 1981. Not that I’m interested in selling. I like the idea of passing along a small coin collection to my son and hopefully future generations. They take up very little space and will retain value. I have a handful of silver coins from late 1899s, early 1900s from my grandfather and love them.

  • MuddlingThrough
    MuddlingThrough Member Posts: 726
    edited August 2018

    DivineMrsM, so that roll of pennies I turned in for 50¢ might have been worth 75¢! Dang! LOL

    Sad story- my grandmother had collected a nice jar of wheat pennies but when she was hospitalized one time for the cancer that eventually killed her, her house was robbed and they took all her coins and other things including my grandfather's watch AND they trashed her house thoroughly and disgustingly. Sad story part 2: between the time she died and her funeral, her house was robbed again and trashed. Ironic part of the story - her house was in sight of the police station in a formerly nice neighborhood overrun by drugs and gangs. Naturally no one was caught but I still hope they will get their just desserts one day. People who prey on the elderly are despicable.

  • borogirl
    borogirl Member Posts: 86
    edited August 2018

    Years ago we collected pennies in one of those giant water bottle/jugs. When we got ready to move, we went to pick it up, and the bottom broke off - spilling pennies all over the floor! From then on we made sure to use the plastic bottles LOL!


  • MuddlingThrough
    MuddlingThrough Member Posts: 726
    edited August 2018

    On my gosh, borogirl! It broke a glass jar? What a mess! Dangerous to try to pick through coins and glass shards! Our plastic jar would get too heavy to move for vacuuming! It's still heavy but I can nudge it.

  • Sara536
    Sara536 Member Posts: 7,032
    edited August 2018

    Muddling, My heart aches from hearing about your grandmother’s experience with break-ins. It is such a violation no matter the amount. One of our first apartments had an entrance partly obscured by stairs to the apts. above. I put a hanging plant out there to make it cheerier. It was stolen in a couple of days. I posted a small note there- can’t remember what it said but but some unknown person came along and put another plant there. That made a world of difference!

  • MuddlingThrough
    MuddlingThrough Member Posts: 726
    edited August 2018

    Sara536, how good that a genuine human being replaced the plant! Most people are good but the rotten eggs get most of the press ☺

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited August 2018

    I am back in my home town which is a quaint little New England spot. My mothers family was one of the families who settled the town back in the 1600s. Several in the family are trying to off load family collectibles from generations before to me, but said no room to take or anyone to pass down to. I suggested the town historic society and have a few items for them myself.

    I went for a tour yesterday which was great fun and got some ideas of things I may send to them to have in their collection for the duration. Something I have been trying to do for years but they are rarely open and never when I have tried to go.

    Now to return and look for some of those items I can ship.....

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited August 2018

    Jazzy, what a difference between New England and New Mexico! And fascinating that your mother's family founded the town you are from.

    I'm taking my own advice when it comes to tackling the home videos I need to edit. I'm chunking the process down into manageable time frames: a half hour at a time. It's easy enough to find a free half hour a few times a week. I'd been overwhelming myself thinking I needed a big block of hours to try to plow through as much as I can in one sitting. That led to inaction and getting nothing done. With the new approach, I'm making a little headway every week.

    Editing videos is similar to going through photos. It takes you back in time and you want to savor the memories. That part slows me down which is okay. There's also an awful lot of pointless video clips that are boring as hell, ha ha! And I get a little picky about narrowing some clips down to watchable moments. When all is said and done, I'll be glad to wrap the project up.

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited August 2018

    On another de-cluttering subject, I am going through my safety deposit box and thinking about ways to pass down some family heirloom jewelry. I have a pocket watch my mother asked me to give to my nephew when he gets older that belonged to his great great fathers and is made from gold (so I am told). It does not work, but took it with me on the trip. My sister said it might be good to see if it can be fixed to actually run and agreed. So I decided instead to not give it to my nephew this time, but going to take it to an antique clock place in town I found last year to fix some other clock things and see what they can tell me about the watch. My nephew is going to come visit next year and think that will be the right time to give him the watch vs. this visit. I want a good hand off on this one!

    I am pushing 60 and don't have children (nor does my sister) so I am looking more broadly now to pass along some of these family items to my cousins kids, nephew, etc. No need for me to hang on to all this stuff. Or they may go to the historic society in my home town too. The gold watch is from the other side of the family, everything else I have is from my mother's family who settled the town where I grew up. Time to pass along some family history to the ones who can appreciate things!

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