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  • vampeyes
    vampeyes Member Posts: 1,227
    edited August 2018

    Anyone know this about melatonin? No wonder I feel like crap today. I am sleepy and irritable, my melatonin are going into the garbage asap!

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  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited August 2018

    I don't experience those SEs of melatonin, and I was put on it by one of my docs because there are correlational studies saying it may help prevent BC. I've been on it for coming up on 3 years. If it were giving me a lot of SEs, though, I'd consider discontinuing.

  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited August 2018

    Vamp & JKL - Agreed, completely. If she was a younger healthier woman then we'd probably have no other alternative but to spill the beans. As it stands I think the big news would only tear a chunk out of her joyous love for her husband, and as JKL mentioned cast doubt on a lifetime of what she believed him to be. As Vamp said, why stir the pot? The possibility of turning her remaining days upside down is too great to risk. The lady ain't no fool and deep in her heart she probably knows he was sexually active (especially seeing as he was 38 when they married, and having fought 4 long years in WWII), but I'm positive those things weren't spoken about. Even in today's social climate who wants to hear about the love of your life's escapades? I don't. I choose to not go there in my mind. He's mine now, that's all I need to know.

    JKL - LOL novel indeed, a dime store one at that! I'm considering writing a book.....My Brother From Another Mother :))))))) My DH is very happy he tested and is embracing his new brother enthusiastically.....so much so that we're booked to fly back to Toronto in a few weeks to meet up. I'm dying to see similarities! He's thanked me for the 'gift' a thousand times....whew, so yes, he would repeat and plans on taking other tests available. His half bro is also all for it but is still struggling. He's having to come to terms with the fact that his mother was, ummmmm, 'active' (5 kids, different dads, whole other story). Bless him, wrapping one's head around that can't be easy. My DH's siblings are also happy to find him, except for my BIL...of course, such an asshat. I know he's allowed his feelings on the matter, but the ONLY problem he has is being ousted as the eldest male (long story, you'll have to trust me on that one). I'm next up on the DNA thing and am taking three.....Ancestry, 23andme & National Geographic Neanderthal DNA (pretty sure I'll rank big on the last one LOL)…..no worries, I've already contacted my Mum and asked if there is anything I should know :)))) I'll be posting my results, but it could take months.

    I'll also be posting on the continuing 'brother from another mother' saga. As for decisions, the only one I'm 1,000,000% sure of, is that this Christmas I'll be buying my caveman a new set of golf clubs :))))))))

  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited August 2018

    Vamp - Never worked for me. The only supplement that made a wonderful diff in my sleep (or lack thereof) was taking Magnesium (not the citrate type, that will give you the big D). Might also help with leg cramps. My NP said that 50% of women get great results with both the sleep and leg issues when taking Mag. Worth a shot?

  • kathindc
    kathindc Member Posts: 2,042
    edited August 2018

    Egads, this can be a slippery slope for your MIL. I just lost my husband last month after almost 46 years. A couple of weeks after his passing a neighbor told me that “he broke down and cried like a little boy” in front of her. This took place a couple of weeks before he went to the hospital. I felt and still feel very betrayed by his action. To think he couldn’t so his fear to me because his health was declining so rapidly cut me to the core. It has made me question my marriage. From this experience I’ve just gone through, I say let sleeping dogs lie.

    On a lighter note, I haven’t gone full out paleo but have been cutting down a lot on the bad foods. Taking baby steps. Think of me as the toddler in the room. I love your writing style and find it very motivational. Have you thought of writing a book? And I feel your pain with the plumbing issue. Several years ago we had a backup in our waste line two months in a row. Turns out on the second snaking of the line it was discovered we had tree roots in the city part of the line. City came out and cleaned out the line, relined it as well as put in a clean out access on our property. The joys of living in a now 80 year old house. Thank goodness it happened in the city part, they picked up the cost otherwise we would have been hit with bill

  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited August 2018

    Kath - First and foremost, my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your husband. 46 years, man, a lifetime. We lost my dad at 36 years of marriage and I watched my Mum go through it. I only have observances, so can't imagine your pain. I'm so terribly sorry.

    A little story for you, in the FWIW category. When I was diagnosed I immediately went to my son's high school and met with the guidance counselor to ask that his teachers be informed privately, and that they keep an eye on him for any odd or depressive behaviors. When I said "I have breast cancer" the counselor looked crest fallen and her eyes welled up. I mean she suddenly went from tired looking to agonized. Wondering why my cancer would upset her THAT much I gave her a quizzical look, to which she replied "my husband died 6 weeks ago from a cancer reoccurance". She went on to tell me that he'd kept it to himself until he was almost palliative. She had no real time to process. She then asked me with the intensity of someone that REALLY wanted a valid answer "why?!!?? Why wouldn'the tell me sooner?!" "He knew from the first cancer that I could deal with it…..I wanted to take care of him!!".All that was running through my brain at this point was my fathers diary, which I gave him shortly after diagnosis to 'track his journey'. So many of his entries noted pain, suffering and depression….and an overall theme of 'can't let them know how bad this is, I'm supposed to protect them, mentally and physically. He didn't want us to feel a scintilla of upset. That was so much my father. Always put us first…always! When I read your words my dad's diary came to mind again, and thought that maybe this is what your husband was going through. Meeting the neighbor just might have been his emotional tipping point and he had to let go. Perhaps he didn't want to share with you because of the emotional upheaval he may cause you. Protection, I know there is a lot I didn't tell my family during my debacle for the same reason. Now, I completely understand where you are with all of it….we want our loves to share with us first and always. I can see how it felt 'unloyal' (for lack of a better term) to you after 46 years. For now you have to ride the roller coaster, I'm just hoping my dad's diary might give you a tiny bit of comfort, and a possible explanation. Huge hugs of support, all of us cave chicks are here to listen to any vents you may have, and to help dry any tears. Post away if needed!

    Ok, so,paleo baby eh? Heh heh, you've just dubbed yourself KathBaby on the thread :)))) All good sweetie, we're kid friendly! Of any item you should cut completely out, make it sugar (you probably know the risks). Given time we'll have you wheat free too! I'm so glad to see you're still trying to stick to sensible choices…..oh and to see you post again! Lurker no more! Once you get back on your feet I'm seeing a paleo way for you! Stick around baby! :))))

    Thank you for your kind words!……me write a book? I think I just did! :)))))


  • kathindc
    kathindc Member Posts: 2,042
    edited August 2018

    Egads, thank you so much for the insight of your father’s diary and sharing that with me and the rest of the cave chicks. I only felt the pain his action caused not the why he let go with the neighbor and not me. I will think of your words when the thought of this incident tries to enter my brain.

    Ah, the evils of sugar. I know it well from a diabetic’s viewpoint. Bad enough fruits and some veggies are carbs so I’ve cut back dramatically on wheat but not completely there yet. I have this thread to thank for getting me to make more lifestyle changes. And OMG, cauliflower rice! I like cauliflower but thought it was so bland. I’ve prepared it a couple of times with other veggies and am addicted to it. Oh wise and humorous one, thank you for starting this thread

  • JKL2017
    JKL2017 Member Posts: 437
    edited August 2018

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Kath. It is particularly cruel that you are now doubting the very relationship that you're grieving. What possible purpose could your neighbor have thought it served to tell you those things? If things happened as she described, I'm sure your DH was just trying to protect you (that's what husbands do sometimes). It might have been misguided but I'm sure it came from a place of deep love.

    I want to offer a different perspective, though. Since I don't know any of the individuals in this situation, I could be completely wrong but please consider that there could be other explanations possible.

    Several years ago I lost a close friend to ovarian cancer. Her mother was in a nursing home (suffering from Alzheimer's) & my friend was childless, divorced & estranged from her only sibling. Her friends gathered around her & worked together to care for her & support her during her illness. Some individuals were long-term and/or close friends, others were more recent, casual acquaintances. Everyone worked together & contributed in some way to supporting & comforting her during her final months.

    Among her casual friends were some individuals who saw this situation as an opportunity to star in their own dramas. They cried publicly & talked often about how this was affecting them. They vastly inflated their roles in my friend's life & in her ongoing care. I occasionally heard from others in her small, close community that some of those casual friends were providing inaccurate information about my friend's health, her activities & even her final wishes. I assumed that those reports were made more to enhance their own status as "close, caring friends" than through any ill intent. Is it possible that your neighbor was just seeking a larger role in this story & that she exaggerated or even manufactured the things she told you? After all, would a real friend have shared something so painful with you at a time like that?

    You know - better than anyone - what kind of relationship you shared with your husband. Don't let the thoughtless words of one individual alter that knowledge. Concentrate on yourself & your own healing. I hope you find peace.

  • vampeyes
    vampeyes Member Posts: 1,227
    edited August 2018

    Oh Kath I am so very sorry for your loss. I agree with JKL and Egads that it was to protect you. I am sending you big hugs.

    Egads, I was actually taking the melatonin because my naturalopath wanted me to. I was so irritable today and sleepy. I almost blamed the exercise. 😂🤪

    Ksusan - how much do you take? My naturopath wanted me to take 25mg, last night I took 15mg.

  • JunieB
    JunieB Member Posts: 1,023
    edited August 2018

    Hello Paleo Pals,

    I saw the Mayo neurologist & neurosurgeon this morning. After my initial eval. they told me I am NOT a candidate for the surgery the neuro back in Oregon had proposed doing. It is a VERY massive surgery requiring my chest being opened up to access my spine.

    My tumor is still contained within my vertebrae, but not yet affecting my spinal cord or any of the nerve roots coming from my spine. I am having an MRI tomorrow to see better what is going on, before they make any suggestions as to alternative/less invasive treatments.

    They said that with a few exceptions, they DO NOT use bone scans to follow a patient with mets to the bone. Mayo uses MRI & PET almost exclusively. They said that bone scans tend to show too many false positives, and therefore are unreliable.

    Also, for some reason my L5 is lit up like a Christmas tree, so they want to check that out as well.

    I am glad I did not have the surgery back home. The neurologist said they see lots of patients that come to Mayo after having spine surgery for cancer after their local surgeons have messed them up and need corrective surgery.

    It is soooo hot & humid here. I do not know how people survive here. However, some locals told me that the weather at this point is pretty good compared to what they have usually. Yikes!

    Ok, that's all for now. Goodnight everyone.

  • JKL2017
    JKL2017 Member Posts: 437
    edited August 2018

    Oh, Junie, I'm disappointed for you but glad you're finally dealing with doctors who seem to know what they're doing. I'm praying that they will have an answer for you. Stay strong!


  • vampeyes
    vampeyes Member Posts: 1,227
    edited August 2018

    Oh Junie, I am so glad you didn't have the surgery too. Wow girl that just sounds scary - opening up through the chest-yikes. Good luck with your MRI tomorrow, positive thoughts that you are NEAD. xxx. Stay cool. 😎

  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited August 2018

    KathBaby - Sounds like you’re doing pretty darned good....cauliflower-rice addiction is one of the few that doesn’t require a 12 step program lol! Take it a step further and make yourself some mashed faux-tatoes with cauliflower, add garlic & onion and you’ve got yourself a little piece of paleo heaven. Sky is the limit! Oh I’ll take them humourous, but wise??? Only if you add ‘ass’ to the end :))))) So glad the cave chickies are helpful to your eating quest! Wishing you much peace during this trying time, be kind to yourself.

    JKL - OMG do I hear you on people ‘enhancing their roles’!!!! My supposed BFF used my diagnosis and treatment as a reason to throw herself a pity party! “Oh poor me, I’m so upset, my friend has cancer!” became her battle cry. She also told the WHOLE world after being asked explicitly not to pass on the info to a soul. I arrived at work only to have an office full of people wringing their hands at my plight...ugggggg! Lesson learned, never tell my ‘BFF’ anything I don’t want printed on the front page of the New York Times the next day! Hard to figure peeps sometimes, and maybe I’m naive, but I take a confidence to the grave.

    Vamp - I’m not versed at all in melatonin. The only thing I’ve heard (from one person) is that it worked for a while then stopped being effective. Hoping Ksusan can fill us all in. Blame the exercise LOL!!! That ain’t getting you off the ‘rebuilding’ hook...tomorrow is workout Wednesday, and there will be a quiz!!!! ;)))) btw...how did the pup’s vet appt go?

    Junie - thank you so much for updating us, you’ve been in my thoughts all day! Well it appears you are in VERY good hands at the Mayo, and I’m still crossing fingers and toes for good/ better news from tomorrow’s imaging. You must be exhausted from the days events and the heat. I hope you’re resting comfy tonight, thoughts of the Kirbster dancing in your head! Hugs!!
  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited August 2018

    KathBaby & all....never eat bland cauliflower again! Here is a link to 37 deeee-lish recipes, yes you read that right, 37!!

    https://blog.paleohacks.com/cauliflower-recipes/

    and if 37 ain't enough here's 21 more...

    https://paleogrubs.com/cauliflower-recipes

    If you're still hungry here are another 12....

    https://www.brit.co/paleo-cauliflower-recipes/

    We'll have cauliflower coming out of our ears!!!

    Links have been added to the bottom of the original post for future ref.

    Bon Appétit peeps & nighty night!


  • JKL2017
    JKL2017 Member Posts: 437
    edited August 2018

    Vamp, you say you're irritable & sleepy today? Well, duh, girl! Let's review what you've done lately: you set up & threw a birthday party for your twins (& without DH's help!) AND cleaned out a stinky, waterlogged basement AND dealt with the daily demands of cooking, cleaning & running a house! You'd have to be both a saint & a superhero to be anything else BUT irritable & sleepy today! Run yourself a bubble bath, lock the bathroom door & get into the tub with a racy novel. You deserve some pampering!

  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited August 2018

    Kath, I'm sorry for your loss, and sad that it raised questions for you as well.

    Junie, I'm glad for the second opinion, though I imagine it's disappointing not to have Mayo confirm the plan.

    Vamp, 20mg. I fall asleep well, then often have an hour or so of rebound wakefulness in the night. I'm considering taking it as a divided dose as an experiment.

    Yesterday's fun was making cucumber zoodles with a handheld spiralizer. It was supposed to be making egg and cheese in a ham cup, but we can't find our regular sized muffin tins. I've ordered some individual forms on Amazon. They should arrive tomorrow night.

    Since my weight is just hanging here, and I have to eat breakfast in order to take medications, it's hard to do a 13 hour fast. Tonight I thought I'd experiment since I'm not hungry when I get home from Zumba. Instead of dinner I had a spoonful of coconut oil, around a tablespoon of olives, and mint tea. If that is a sufficient buffer for evening pills, I can just have a little fat snack (on Zumba nights, anyway). This may help me fast 3-4 nights a week, though once the term starts I've got several 8 am classes and this strategy won't work. My hope is to push my metabolism a bit and keep my overnight blood sugar lower.

  • kathindc
    kathindc Member Posts: 2,042
    edited August 2018

    JKL, you bring up a very good point as to why did the neighbor mention the incident when she did. One of my DDs said the neighbor brought the incident to her attention at the funeral parlor. DD said her thoughts were “Why are you telling me this now, and of all places? Your insight into the neighbor’s behavior feels spot on. Thank you from the bottom of my heart as the pain is easing.

    Cave chicks, thank you for your concern and hugs.

    Got a question on coconut oil. I bought a jar and put it in one of my kitchen cabinets since it sits on the shelf at the store. The next morning it was liquified. Was it suppose to do that? Can you tell I’m new at this

  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited August 2018

    Morning Cave Peeps!!

    Vamp - Listen to JKL!!! pamper your grumpy self :))))))) You deserve!

    JKL - Atta' girl, you tell her!! :)))))

    KathBaby - Coconut oil will liquify in warmer temps (75 deg and above), high humidity can also make it melt. If you want it solid again stick it in the fridge. My house is highly air conditioned but I still have a small puddle of liquified in my jar when temps or humidity outside are high. Coconut oil has a very long shelf life, and I mean LOOOOONG. If it turns yellow or smells sour it's gone rancid. I don't think I've ever had that happen. If it smells and tastes like heaven it's fine. Btw....just give us the word and we'll gather our clubs & animal skin uniforms and put a beating on your neighbor :)))))))))) How's that for primal? :)

    Ksuze - That sounds like a heck of a lot of scheduling, would doing the fast Friday-Sunday not be easier? Having a fat bomb, a few olives and tea for dinner sounds miserable! Can I ask how many carbs you're doing per day?

    Fasten your seatbelts Cavies...…..you know what's coming...……..it's heeeeerrrreeeee…………….

  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited August 2018

    WORKOUT WEDNESDAY!!!! (keeps on rearing it's ugly head doesn't it?)

    The Home Gym Episode

    Today's segment is totally PiXi and Vamp inspired! If you missed the convo between these two lovely and amazing ladies, they were discussing working out at home, specifically strength training. Those with budget restrictions or just don't want to plunk out the cash might want to take a peek at this vid:

    This dude shows us how everyday household items can be used in place of weights, so no need to invest in expensive equipment.

    Here's another:

    This lady works it with some GREAT moves, both weight bearing and body weight.

    And one more:

    This fellow even looks paleo! A good vid for a more extreme home workout….try building up to it!

    Sooooooo……anyone making today a sweaty one? Join me in perspiration soaked spirit! Ew. :)))

  • JKL2017
    JKL2017 Member Posts: 437
    edited August 2018

    Yes, Egads, today will be a sweaty one. Between Aromasin (listed side effects include unusual or increased sweating & they're not kidding) & the heat & humidity of August in the DC area, I will indeed be sweating. Oh .... you meant exercise? I'm only two weeks out from surgery so it will just be 30 minutes of PT exercises & a walk on the treadmill (long enough to watch an episode of Downton Abbey). Will that do?

  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited August 2018

    I wasn't hungry, so the minimalist dinner didn't trouble me. Yes, I can usually do a 13-hour fast Friday Saturday Sunday. I'd like to have the option of adding one or two of my Zumba evenings, though, so that I get the exercise boost with the fast that follows.

    My fasting blood sugar was 91 this morning. That's a number I haven't seen in quite a while. Helps compensate for the lack of weight loss.

    I have been in the moderate ketone shedding range for weeks. Yesterday I was at none to minimal. Since I've been doing this for 4 weeks with most days under 20 carbs, and the overage from above-ground vegetables per my PCP, I'm going to assume that this result means I am no longer shedding ketones and I'm moving into fat burning metabolism. Let's hope so, anyway.



  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited August 2018

    egads - I have done both Ancestry DNA and 23andMe. I am adopted and wanted to have a better handle on origins and possibly find family, and then did 23andMe when they reinstated the genetic testing/traits aspect after receiving FDA approval. If I were in your DH's shoes I would not tell his mom about the new brother. I would be concerned for the reasons others have stated above. I have not connected with any new family members yet - I have cousin connections with both Ancestry and 23andMe, but haven't really pursued the search with vigor because when my adopted brother searched and found his birth mother, and brother, it didn't go well as he hoped. His brother was willing to connect, to a degree, but his mother was not and his appearance in their lives caused issues within the birth family because they also discovered that his mom had put more children up for adoption than just my brother. None of this was known to his brother - the youngest, the only child she kept. Their mother was unwilling to discuss any of this with either of them, and took any explanations to the grave with her. My brother passed away from an aggressive rare cancer shortly after his birth mother died in 2008, but I actually see his brother on occasion- who I call my brother from another mother, BTW, lol! - because he lives only about 30 mins from me here in Florida even though my brother and I grew up in California.

  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited August 2018

    Whew....Gym done. .Can't say I didn't get a few strange looks while doing squats with a massive bottle of Tide :)))))))

    JKL - No! We want MORE exercise!! :))) Joking of course. YOU, Ms. Lifer, are the epitome of paleolithic determination!!! 2 weeks out of surgery and going strong. ANY exercise is a good thing, but doing I while recovering surgery deserves the Paleo Princess Crown for the day.....and it'll fit right in with Downton Abbey!...ahhh the days when peeps dressed for din-din. Gotta love that show! I was a diehard Upstairs Downstairs fan too. Y'all got no excuses if JKL is rocking workout Wednesday post surgery!! :PPPP :)

    Ksuze - Awesome on the blood levels.....amazing what fewer carbs can do for us eh? Three cheers and pulling for your metabolism to start 'the burn'.....see kids, this stuff really works! I'm normally not a fan of daily fasting (for a few reasons we all debated in the past) BUT, when it comes to diabetes, it's an imperative regime tool. Keep us posted on your progress please, I'm especially interested in your blood results over time, if you don't mind of course :) Oh shoot, forgot to mention, and glad you wrote about it ....below ground veg (tuberous veg) are paleo, but keep to a dull roar chickies, they're starchy (ie carby)

    SpecialK - Hiya!! Long time no see....happy to see you post! As for informing the MIL about the 'happy surprise', well, thankfully the family is leaning towards keeping it under wraps. I think they see the sense of letting the lady live her days out without causing unnecessary stress. I'm sorry to read that your brother's experience was disappointing. I'm hoping he didn't take it too badly, and my condolences on his passing, bless him. Cancer so very much sucks! The emotional complexity of issues that crop up with DNA results is astounding.....as we have discovered. My own grandfather was illegitimate, but raised under great secrecy. We only found out through army records that my last name should be something different that it is! His mother (my great grandmother) was ostracized and sent to live in Boston (apparently she beat them to the punch, took up with the town butcher and made off to Boston with him.....how's that for family scandal?). Her parents kept the baby (my grandfather) and told him she was dead. Not one person was willing to talk about what actually happened until the late 1990s. Even then it was relayed in whispered tones....sheesh! The lengths people went to hide is amazing.Well I hope that if & when you do make a connection that it turns out joyous for you! When I get any results in I'll be sure to let you know when I post about them....hopefully you'll have good news by then too! :)

    Everyone: Anyone heard from MAP, SAS, Shazzza? I know Cowgirl is terribly busy. Miss em' all!

    Holy moley….I just noticed I've made 1100 posts....chatty little bugger I be! :))))

  • ksusan
    ksusan Member Posts: 4,505
    edited August 2018
  • vampeyes
    vampeyes Member Posts: 1,227
    edited August 2018

    Stella is on anxiety medication, we shall see how that goes. More attention, more toys, more tlc is needed. We couldn't figure out what has changed around the house to cause the issue, so drugs it is.

    Basement guy was stumped, he has no idea why we have water. Suppose to rain tomorrow so I guess we shall see if it gets wet again. He did mention to call a company to make sure the HVAC is big enough for the house, could just be too much moisture.

    JKL - my therapist agrees with you on why I was sleepy and irritable. Quite a bit happened over the weekend, lots of stress and lack of sleep.

    Ok I will do some squats in a bit, but likely going to be it for me today. 2 cleans tomorrow, don't want to wear myself out. ;0)

  • TwoHobbies
    TwoHobbies Member Posts: 2,118
    edited August 2018

    I think I am in the “dont tell” camp on the new stepson unless you think she would be thrilled. My brother is big into geneology and one time someone reached out to him looking for her father who had the same name as our father. It turned out not to be, but honestly, I didnt like the feeling of having a different view of my dad. Then later, i kind of wished she was my sister because i never had one!

    My brother also did the DNA testing and no real surprises except we have neanderthal DNA and also Yakut DNA, which is probably from our Cherokee ancestry, but so interesting to see a direct link to these people. I think they say most Europeans have Neanderthal.

    Kath I also have another view of DH breaking down in front of neighbor. This happens to me when I experience unexpected support. So for examples, after a family death, I had just talked to my best friend on the phone cooly and calmly, and ran into my VP who told me how sorry he was and I lost it so bad he sent me home. I burst into tears one day because the intake lady at the hospital lab looked at my sons paperwork and told me she was so sorry he had Crohns. This is after years of doing this multiple times and its just routine in our lives. You realize you will get support from your friends and loved ones but taken by surprise, sometimes it just comes out.

    Junie it does pay to get a second opinion from a top notch place. It would be a shame to go through such a major surgery so hopefully they have another idea.

    On the Paleo front, I have moved down to my lowest weight in probably 3 years since I recommited-133.2. Its slight because I am within a normal BMI- just trying to get down to where I was 5 years ago.


  • InnaB2018
    InnaB2018 Member Posts: 1,276
    edited August 2018

    Hey, guys. Just curious: all my doctors recommend plan based diet for me with the goal to limit animal proteins to a minimum due to the fact that animal proteins contain estrogen and my cancer is hormone positive. What made you go with the paleo diet?

    Please note: not judging or trying to persuade, just asking.

  • JKL2017
    JKL2017 Member Posts: 437
    edited August 2018

    Inna, including animal protein in my diet makes sense to (& for) me. My 20 year old granddaughter is vegan (after several years as a vegetarian) & I have watched her struggle to be healthy without animal/fowl/fish/egg protein in her diet. I am not saying it can't be done, I'm just saying that it requires a lot of effort. I have watched my granddaughter's difficulties with her weight, her complexion & her energy level as she refused to eat most traditional sources of protein.

    Personally, I am trying to limit my consumption of beef (I find it harder to digest) & eat more poultry, fish, eggs & pork. I also eat a lot of vegetables & quite a bit of fruit. Paleo works for me in that it keeps me healthy without being hungry. I have lost weight & gained energy almost effortlessly since adopting a paleo lifestyle. I occasionally veer from paleo (who can say no to birthday cake?), but I find it easy to return.

    I am 90% ER+ so I try to limit dairy & stick to the least hormonal protein I can find. But my doctors have stressed exercise as much more important than diet in fighting recurrence. (I am not saying this is correct, only that it is one widely-held point of view.) In the end, there are no guarantees for any of us. I'm just trying to lead a happy, healthy life & paleo is working for me.

    One of the reasons I love this thread is its positive, supportive tone. Whether you decide to eat meat or not, there is a (non-judgmental) place for you here.

  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited August 2018

    Inna (godda davida) - EXCELLENT question! So excellent in fact that I'm going to put the kibosh on my original Thursday post and dedicate this one to you sweetie.....so here goes!

    TUTORIAL THURSDAY - THE INNA INQUIRY

    Inna stated: Hey, guys. Just curious: all my doctors recommend plan based diet for me with the goal to limit animal proteins to a minimum due to the fact that animal proteins contain estrogen and my cancer is hormone positive. What made you go with the paleo diet?

    First, I went Paleo because I was fat and very unhealthy. After treatment I tried EVERY regime under the sun and passed by Paleo for a year thinking "omg, no bread? NO FREAKING WAY!!!" Yuck! I did the rollercoaster weight thing to the point of tears. I gave paleo a try out of sheer desperation.....and man oh man, it saved my bacon, literally.

    Paleo is not an orgy of meat consumption. 2/3 of our diets are composed of vegetation (which I might add can also contain estrogen (soy, legumes) and a host of other nasty chemicals), nuts, seeds eggs etc. Everything in moderation.

    As for you dear INNA, you have to follow your head and heart on this issue, and no matter what way you decided, you'll still be a member in good standing in the Paleo Chicks community....always! We'll love ya even if you go vegan :)))) I wholeheartedly encourage you to do your own research and come to the best conclusion for YOU....we all need to be doing that on a constant basis


    THIS IS SOME INTERESTING SCCCHHHHTUFFF & may help INNA and others with her question:

    Let's get to the meat of the subject, excuse the pun. I read the study regarding meat and breast cancer, as well as many like it, it including the biggie released in 2009 which specifically targets meat and breast cancer. The studies are observational (over a 10 year period), but painted with a pretty broad brush. All are full of as many holes as swiss cheese.... and leaves a lot of questions unanswered.

    Specific critiques include the fact that there is no accounting for carb intake nor lifestyle of the subjects. Carbs drive insulin, and insulin drives fat production, fat storage, inflammation, coronary heart disease. It can also lead to obesity which fuels cancer. There is NO MENTION of the complete diet regimes of the subjects in the studies, so one has to question…Did the subjects eat enough extra carbs to hike triglyceride levels? What cuts of meat were they eating….roasts & steaks or hamburger with additives tucked into a carby white bun? Was a sugary treat eaten after dinner? Carbs (especially in the form of HFCS, which is a food additive in almost all foods in the Western world) drive the triglyceride mechanism to the greatest degree. Were the subjects active or sedentary? No mention of this in studies. The ground breaking red meat study in 2009 noted (authors own words):

    "Subjects who consumed more red meat tended to be married, more likely of non-Hispanic white ethnicity, more likely a smoker, have a higher BMI, higher daily calories, total fat, lower educated, lower activity levers, lower fruit, vegetable fiber and vitamin intakes."

    Not exactly fair to blame it all on the red meat if the author is basically negating his own study, the subjects weren't healthy to begin with. I for one say the problem was marriage :))))))

    The 2015 WHO report on red meat was based on a questionnaire asking subjects to fill out a form listing what they ate over the past 12 months. Can you recall a years worth of eating? I can't! Were the subjects honest, did they forget? Did they report what they thought the WHO wanted to hear? Not exactly reliable data.

    The WHO study (great band, but they should have stuck to music HAR!) concluded:

    Evidence from prospective studies of red and processed meat consumption and risk of breast cancer was inconsistent [7,8,53,55,57], and the mechanisms involved require further investigation. Several mechanisms were important in explaining the association between red and processed meat intake and risk of breast cancer: (1) carcinogenic byproducts—such as heterocyclic amines and polycyclic aromatic hydrocarbons—formed during high temperature cooking of red meat [4,62]; (2) fat, heme iron, and the animal sugar molecule N-glycolyneuraminic acid were enriched in red meat, which could promote inflammation, oxidative stress, and tumor formation [63,64,65]; (3) in a few countries, hormone residues of the exogenous hormones used to stimulate the growth of beef cattle has also been suggested as a risk factor of breast cancer [66].

    And:

    However, additional well-designed cohort or interventional studies and studies exploring the mechanisms in humans are needed to confirm the association.

    So, the red meat may not be the problem.....processing, feed type, cooking methods, growth & antibiotic stimulators seem to be the culprit. As with the dairy post I made last week, we desperately need clearer studies that encompass all the variables.I'd bet my bottom dollar that if a study was done with complete diet and activity profiles on the subjects, comparing grass fed beef organic vs regular, the numbers would look very different. Studies are conducted on regular ol' hormone laced, antibiotic tainted, gmo grain fed livestock. No wonder cancer rates are up, but to put the blame squarely on the meat isn't a fair nor clean conclusion.

    Here are a few paleo take away items for you -

    Considerations for meat consumption:

    • Grass fed, antibiotic/hormone free, organic meat is the way to go. Organics are a wee bit better than regular, but what were they fed? Make sure it's hormone/antibiotic free. Paleo folks choose grass fed for very good reason. It contains CLA (a healthy transfat with anti cancer effects), antioxidents from its diet which protect oxidation of the fat. Expensive, but worth every penny. If it's out of your budgets reach then buy the best you can afford (trying to avoid hormone added), you'll still reap benefits.
    • Eat a variety of meat....just like your veggies you need to mix it up for optimal benefits.
    • AVOID processed meats (and foods) at all costs! The additives alone are strong enough to clean truck tires…and clearly cause cancer…all types of cancer.
    • The amount of red meat eaten should be match by or exceeded with vegetables. They not only work hand in hand but reduce carcinogenicity. Broccoli and other greens are perfect for this. Any paleo/primal worth his salt eats far more veg than meat.
    • Cooking methods are KEY….braising, slow cooker, pressure-cooker should be relied upon most days. Marinate a cut if you plan on grilling…liquid helps. Grilling or searing = increased carcinogen release. Rare or medium rare is best. Eat antioxidant rich foods with meat, tea, coffee, berries, turmeric…they all inhibit and reduce risk, not just for the meat, for every food.
    • Red meat isn't my daily choice, I eat chicken & fish 5 days a week. I eat so much chicken I sneeze feathers! I love my beef & pork, but my mantra is balance, and until the numbers are clearer, I'll keep my consumption on the down low.
    • Exercise...essential. Walk far & walk at a normal with occasional HIIT sprints. Lift heavy things.

    p.s. Our bodies adsorb 85% of unhealthy fats, and only 10% of healthy fats. Don't fear animal fat.

    At the end of the day, and I might take heat for this, many of the medical community AND nutritionists are basing their opinions on that 2009 study (and many) like it that are touted all over the media. For years we've been pushed a low fat high carb regime....and where has that gotten us? The same place I was years ago, fat and really unhealthy. My PCP, MO, Onc BS and even RO are completely on board with paleo and I'm happy to report my bloodwork is (in the doc's words), perfect.


    We def need better and more complex studies on this issue because so far the results are skewed. Until better numbers are in I'm sticking to what is making my weight and bloodwork shine like blazes.

    As a side note, I don't believe there is a question that cannot be asked here SO FEEL FREE TO POST ANYTHING. It makes for great convo! :)

    Oh, and we lost Aretha Franklin today....damn, damn, dammit! :(

  • Jadedjo
    Jadedjo Member Posts: 469
    edited August 2018

    I get a ton of conflicting reports regarding diet too.

    Right now my dietician is suggesting a whole food diet with higher protein and more leafy greens l,veggies and fruits.She also said that estrogen in food (she used dairys as an example like cheese and yogurt)is nothing compared to what's in your body and I shouldn't be cutting them out.i cut them out for more reasons then that.im just choosing the path I can live with for now.although I'm realizing I won't be able to afford it if things keep going like this.

    But I think that might have to do with the fact that I'm going to have surgery sometime hopefully soon. I was told higher protein a little before and definitely higher after for a few weeks or at least a month as  I heal. Something about it helping the healing process.



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