Chemo starting in August 2018
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Volleyballmom; glad to have you with us. We all know how overwhelming this is, but if you prepare with information, you will be able to face this all with strength. I am glad to hear that you are trying to quit smoking, you can do it! You should look and see if there is a thread for that so you can have the support of others too, or start one.
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Hi all! I started my chemo on Aug 2nd. Will have three more AC infusions on 16th, 30th and 13th. Then it will be 4 infusions of Taxol (also 2 weeks apart), and Herceptin every 3 weeks for a year.
First day I forgot my (football pill) med and had bad nausea for 5 hours. Day 2 and 3 was bad heartburn. Living on Gaviscom atm. Will talk to Onc about this soon though if it doesn't let up.
I finished steroids today so expect to crash tomorrow. So far it's been mostly fine. My Chemo center was great and dare I say, the actual infusion experience was kinda fun. I had great amusing nurses.
I'm doing Neupogen shots at home on myself for the 7 days after chemo as well. Taking Claritin so no bone pain as of yet. I was super nervous but it's easy. There was a nurse who came to my house showed me what to do, I did it while she watched and I'm confident now.
1 down 7 to go.
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hi ladies,
I did the first infusion yesterday. Got hubby and my dear friend to help out on the penguin caps. What a hectic day! Infusion went really smoothly and everyone was on schedule. But the cap is consistent hard work. I am so glad I got two people to help, can't imagine how to go through this with only one helper! 7 hours of cap cooling, changing and recooking is hard work! But I am so glad our little team did it! Hooray 😁
Still on steroids so feeling mostly normal. Face glowing and less wrinkles, thanks to the steroids I guess 😊
Got the neulasta shot with onpro a few hours ago. I took Allegra starting yesterday to help with the bone pain according to my nurse. Haven't felt any yet, fingers crossed!
Cefinkc, so sorry to hear the port issue is still lingering. Hung in there, I am sure things will get better very soon!
Best luck to everyone. We can do this together!!
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Volleyballmom2008-
1st of all welcome to the group! 2nd, villeyball is my favorite sport, but I coach basketball with our daughters (12 and 9). Its my 5th year
Im very sorry to hear your news! This group is GREAT and it gives a ton of info. So I was diagnosed on my 35th birthday, April 30th and was supposed to start a new job that day. I t came as a total surprise as there is NO family history. I was told that day I had breast cancer and had to stop smoking as well. Fast forward to June and ended up having 3 surgeries in 3 weeks....and now beginning chemo this Thursday. I have not smoked a cigarette since they told me I couldnt. Its hard, very hard somedays, but you can do it. Believe me you can do this and make it through this scary mess 💕 Feel free to private message me any time!
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welcome VolleyballMom2008! You can get through this, it’s great having this support group to lean on.
I’m home today after 6 days in the hospital. Yay!!!! Wow, guess I’ve had 3 surgeries too this week — plus my lumpectomy last month. Not that I’m going for any records by any means. Just so happy to get home. They sent me home with a chest tube to close the last gap where my lung collapsed. It will come out this Friday, the next can start chemo the following week (just behind schedule by 2 weeks now).
Please accept help from friends and family. It is such a blessing. The kids start back to school next Friday, so some life normalcy is good.
We can do this.
Cefinkc
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Thank you, cefinkc. You sound like you had a bad week. I hope you are feeling better. My port placement is Tuesday. Tomorrow is bone and CT scan, which terrifies me and chemo starts Thursday if all goes well Monday and Tuesday. I will have 12 weeks taxol and then ac for 4 rounds every other week. Surgery, then radiation. Can't wrap my head around all of this.
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Hi everyone!
I got my initial diagnosis on July 19th and it's been a roller coaster ever since. I've been reading so many of these forums -- and I have learned so much from all you ladies here, but today is my first post. I have been through all the scans (bone scan, ct, echocardiogram, mri). My port goes in tomorrow and my first treatment is Thursday. 4 treatments of AC every other week, then 12 weeks of Taxol. My doctor said we need to "stop the clock". I have no mets (thank God) but Stage IIIB Triple Negative with a suspicious lymph node so they want to shrink it as much as possible before any surgery. I will have genetic testing in September which may mean the difference between a lumpectomy or mastectomy.
Has anyone tried the ice chips just before, during and after the infusion? My nurse says it will help preventing mouth sores.
I also ordered some hats and scarves today -- you know, might sound stupid at this point, but I think the day my hair falls out will be one of my lowest points. Right now, I still feel ok. But at that point, I think I will look at myself as a "sick" person. Just wondering if anyone else felt this way.
I hate that we are all here, but it is comforting to know I'm not the only one going through all this.
Take care ladies -- prayers for all of us.
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I start 6 months of chemo August 16. A little concerned why wait so long for surgery.
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Momma jay bird: welcome but sorry that you’re here. I haven’t heard about the ice chips, but who knows?! I had my first ac on July 27 and will have my second this Friday. I am day 10 of my treatment and haven’t yet experienced mouth sores. I also bought a hat and scarves. I am anticipating losing my hair any day now and I keep pulling at it to see if it’s loose (it’s not). From what I’ve read about losing ones hair, it seems to be that the buildup to it is worse than the day after it happens. So that’s what I’m going with... the reports of the many women who have said that they were ok after the fact. I’ll report on my experience once it happens.
Good luck to you and keep us updated. For me, just knowing that there are others out there who are going through the same thing as me is unfortunate, but comforting. -
Hi MommaJaybird, Benji44 and Moonrabbit59,
There is a great list of tips suggestions by community members for before and during chemotherapy at the bottom of this page (it's a PDF so we can't attach here): Chemotherapy.
The list suggests things like ice chips, biotene mouth wash, hair plan, etc.
There is also a great thread here on the boards called Hair Hair Hair that discusses everything from shaving your hair, wigs and cold caps.
We are sorry you all find yourselves here, but glad you found each other.
Benji44, neoadjuvant chemotherapy is used to destroy breast cancer BEFORE surgery, and is adjusted to be very specific to the type and size of cancer found. Have you discussed this with your medical oncologist?
Thinking of all of you!
from your mods
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thank you Mods! I’m so comforted that you are there watching over us! Just got the word that my chemo is now 8/15 as they want to wait till my chest tube is out and I’m ready for the next step. Let’s get this done
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Hi all. I hope everyone is doing OK. Cefinck, I'm so sorry you had to go through so much with your port placement!
I got some good news/bad news last week. Apparently when my oncologist told me that lots of cancer was left behind, what he meant was that it was left behind after I finished chemo, not after surgery. My surgeon went over my pathology report and explained that she was able to remove all of the cancer and my margins were clear, but because my cancer seemed to be resistant to the TC, and also much more aggressive than originally thought, with a very high risk of recurrence, she also recommends that I go through with another round of chemo. She is also suggesting that I follow that with 6 months of oral chemo, but wants me to check with my oncologist to make sure that would work. So I'm not as freaked out as I was, but still pretty freaked out that there is such a high risk of recurrence. I feel like I'll be "looking over my shoulder" and running to the doctor for every twitch for the rest of my life.
I'm 2 months past my final TC infusion. My hair is still only about a 1/2" long. I didn't wear a wig the last time. Instead I just bought a bunch of caps and scarves. One of my favorites was a cheap, soft black slouchy beanie that i woud dress up with colorful scarves. It worked great for work, and I got lots of complements. But it was a lot of work trying to match my headwear with my work clothes and I was so excited that I'd have hair when I returned to work after disability leave ends. Now that I know I'll be losing it again, I'm going to get a wig. I just found out that my insurance will cover the cost, so that's a relief. It occurred to me that I'll be finishing chemo around the beginning of Nov, so I'll still be mostly bald during the holidays. It will be nice to have a wig to help feel more normal during that time. Losing my hair was pretty hard for me and I agree that it really is that one thing that sorta makes it all real. I still feel that sometimes when I look in the mirror.
My experience with TC wasn't too bad. I started losing my hair on the 14th day after the first treatment. I couldn't bring myself to shave it until 3 days later, when it stated falling out so fast that I was leaving hair behind whenever I got up from a chair, and I had noticeable bald spots. It took probably another week for it to fall out completely. My legs were slower to lose hair, and it did continue to grow back super slowly. I think I shaved 3 times during the treatment. My brows and lashes thinned but not too bad, until a month after I finished treatment, then they fell out almost completely. Just started growing back in the last couple of weeks. I never had nausea as long as I ate something as soon as I started feeling hungry. Even though I got the metallic taste and weird feeling in my mouth, I had a very good appetite, and got lots of weird food cravings. I never got mouth sores, but I did get a very itchy rash on my head. I used an aloe vera gel that helped a lot. I got subdermal hematoma under several of my fingernails. My fingers and hands got really sore, but thankfully I never lost my fingernails but there is still a bit of blood left that hasn't grown out yet. I had a touch of neuropathy, but I think it has gone away completely. I hope my experience helps some of you who are just starting.
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I keep hearing Claritin. Would Allegra be acceptable?
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They have different active ingredients. I've been taking generic Claritin because so many women here are using it. (It also helps me sleep a little better at night!)
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I am 69 1/2 years old. No one has suggested a bone density test. I am in great health and have never had one. I have a port and had an echo. Chemo starts August 16. I only stopped coloring my hair a year ago and just got used to seeing myself grey. I don't think bald will be that much of a difference. Maybe the hair coloring kept cancer away!
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Benji44: my nurse recommended Allegra to me and I have been using it for the past four days. A little bone pain but not too bad. So I think it should be fine
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Hello SunnyChilly,
We are on the same “cocktail”. I start next Weds as the lung blowout set me back a couple of weeks. How are you doing now, 5 days out?
Cefinkc
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hi cefinkc,
Thanks for asking. So glad the port issue is over and you are back on track.
I am almost 5 days out. Chemo day was a breeze, other than the cold cap, everything else was easy. Then two days of relatively normal days other than some heartburn. Day 4 became tougher, back pain, nausea and heartburn. Today it finally hit I can barely get out of bed. Extremely exhausted and pain/discomfort all over. Eating and drinking become hard but still trying. Hope tomorrow is better!
No one said it is gonna be easy. Keep your eyes on the brighter side, it will come!!!
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Tomorrow I'll be a week from first chemo, but I wonder when this stomach cramp,diarrhea and acid go away. It's seriously affecting me. I woke up 4x last night and had to go to the bathroom. I think it's even worse than the nausea and headache I felt a few days ago. 😭🤢
Anyone here trying cannabis? I made an appointment but it's not until after 2 weeks.
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Tomorrow is the big day....I've done everything I can. Steroids taken, anxiety meds taken. Ive done a 4.5 mile walk/run for the past 3 days. Bag packed and cold cap packed. Snacks too.
Hoping for a good night sleep
Good luck to the rest of you ladies....I know there are a few more venturing down this path as well.
-Meara
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BCSilverlining: you can do this. Just remember to communicate with your drs and find a shoulder to lean on, if you need it.
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So happy to find this board! I start Chemo on Aug 17and have port install on Aug 13. Not happy about what’s coming but ready to get on with it. Diagnosed May 16 so the waiting for final plan has been torturous. 12 weeks of Taxol and Herceptin then 9 more months of Herceptin only followed by rads. Wig shopping with my daughters this weekend. I’ll be ready as I can be. Short cut coming up soon. Let’s all cheer each other on. We can do this!
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Good luck Meara! I’ll be saying prayers for you tonight to keep your strength and peace of mind. Please check in with us tomorrow.
Welcome keepmovin
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LivM—I see you are in California where Cannabis is legal. I’m in Nevada where it is legal also but I went to get my medical card anyway. I started using Cannabis when I was diagnosed. It saved my butt last week after my first AC was awful. I’m happy to share my experience. I have a friend who is a cannabis researcher who really helped me out with what to use. PM me. I can tell you exactly the products (from California dispensaries) that I use. It’s the only thing that has helped with the nausea and pain significantly.
I just got mouth sores (mostly around my teeth) yesterday and my naturopathic Cancer doctor told me to add a bit of baking soda to the salt rinses. It’s helps to buffer the pH and make it more soothing. Just passing on the info if anybody else is sore.
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Moongirljes - thanks for the input. I just went today to get my ID, it is a very interesting consultation. I’m so glad I have someone to ask and that you benefited from it. That’s really great news. Dr. is Dr. Allan Frankel (if anyone else if on l.a. and interested). He is in Santa Monica.
I’m just 8 days post my first chemo, my stomach cramping was so bad the last 3 days but today, it’s gone, for mouthsore - frequently gaggle with Biotene and Sometimes salt and baking soda specially after eating. I barely eat though. But I hope your the mouthsore goes away.
Wishing the best for all of us here! 💕 -
Sending good vibes and prayers out to all of you ladies!! I am getting my port tomorrow and I start chemo next Thursday. I really appreciate all of the info I’m getting here regarding the side effects. I’ve ordered beanies and caps and have really debated on a wig. I’m just not sure yet if I want to wear a wig. I really figured after surgery, I’d be put on a hormone suppressor and that would be it...so the need for chemo was a little surprising. My Oncotype was 29 and because my PR was only 5%, they said it indicated a more aggressive tumor.
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Hello KLWilliams22 -- Welcome to the forum! My ER was also very low at 10%, and the majority of my tumor was Triple Negative, so I'm also starting chemo this week (Wednesday for me). I have my wig -- and weirdly love it -- I guess because it will help me feel somewhat normal, and the shop owner is also a cancer survivor and is very very supportive and educated on this whole process. I'm wearing it to work only so not to draw any attention, but will switch to hats and scarves outside of that.
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Sending positive vibes to all the brave hearts who are on this journey. We are together and will do this! Port installed yesterday and first chemo on Friday. Just keep moving forward
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Just an update about my first chemo sessions m yesterday. They shot anti nausea meds through the IV first that will stay in my system through Friday. That was a relief. Then they started with the chemo cocktail. I was incredibly tired beforehand because of no sleep. The good news is that my doc said to take one of the nausea medications before bed last night that is a sleep aid. 💤 it worked so well. I went for the Neulasta shot this morning which will help with my white blood cell counts. So far so good! Resting now and trying to get ahead of possible side affects with fiber, water, and Claritin for bone pain. No nausea twinges yet. An updates from other’s infusions?
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Hi all,
I had my 1st infusion last Thursday, Aug 9th. It hasnt been that easy for me. I broke out in a rash on my face and chest on Saturday afternoon and still have it. Sunday I was in the ER with a superficial thrombophlebitis and that still hurts. And then Tuesday my husband took me back in for a headache I had for 4 days. They gave me an IV cocktail and it was nice to feel relief. The last few days SEs have ranged from bloody noses, sore mouth and throat (although no sores....yet), and body aches. Felt like the influenza.
Im preparing to go back to work on Monday. I've been off since June 22nd (1st surgery). Having a bit of anxiety about it, but I think it will be good.
Hope everyone is doing okay. Cefinkc - the only thing I really notices with the neulasta injection is last night my hips were very sore. Cant be for sure, but it makes sense as I know my cell counts and neutrophils were down on Tuesday when I was in the ER.
I coach both of my daughters in 🏀 and since I have 4 rounds of TC, we are saying 1st quarter is done. 3 more quarters to go.....as long as I dont get an infection...
-Meara
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