In shock
I'm new here. Lurking for a couple of weeks while I waited for mammogram and ultrasound.
I found a lump in my breast about a month ago. I just had my tests today. I ended up also having a biopsy done as well because the Dr says it does look like cancer. I'm just in shock. They let me know what will likely happen next, I do an mri and meet with a surgeon.
I don't have a report yet. Probably when I go back in next week. I will also be talking to their coordinator on Monday as well so I will be sure to ask her about my report. Just in a state of shock.
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It will get better once you know what it is and how you are going to treat it.
Good Luck.
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There is unfortunately both a mix of a lot of waiting and a lot of information that will come your way with tests and appts with various doctors. It does get better. You’re in a good place here to help process what and when you need to <
Side question ... your user name with 406?? Are you in MT too?
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yes I live in billings.
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Lfe406,
Unfortunately, I and everyone here know how you feel. But I echo the sentiments for the other posters in that you will get more information, know what you are up against, and you’ll see a plan emerge. As that plan shapes you’ll begin to know that there will be solid help for you.
So when you get the results of your biopsy you’ll know several things-whether you have cancerous tissue or not, and the tissue will be tested for ER (estrogen receptor-will be a positive or negative number), PR (progesterone receptor-will be a positive or negative number), and HER2 (human epidermal growth factor-will be a positive or negative number). These tests already yield clues about the options for treatment, usually after the tumor is removed. A good surgeon will understand these values,even though the surgeon’s primary role is to remove tumors and tissue. You’ll also work with an oncologist who will use these values,plus other information to shape your treatment plan.
If there is someone who can attend these appointments with you (a spouse, a family member, even a trusted friend), you’ll have an extra set of ears and eyes to understand what you will hear. Take your time, ask lots of questions, and know that these doctors care and are there to help you.
My cancer was flagged through a mammogram and then a series of ultrasound, and finally a biopsy. I found an outstanding surgeon, and through the surgeon equally outstanding oncologists. Six months later, my cancer was surgically removed, I had radiation, and now I am receiving hormone therapy. Each step of the way these professionals were there to help me. Having a plan and skilled physicians lifted the shock. I felt like my life had been given back to me
Everyone is here to support and encourage each other. This site will also become a resource for you.
You can do this.
Prayers and best wishes.
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Lfe406,
I'm in the same situation as you. Found a lump in my right breast, went to gyno who ordered mammogram and ultrasound. Sent me to a breast surgeon who Biopsied a mass and a lesion. I'll get my results on Tuesday. I feel like my whole world is turned upside down right now. I know whatever it is cancer or not I will get through this and so will you. These ladies on these forums have been great at explaining things to me and helping me relax. I'm praying for you and everyone else on this site.
Josie, thanks for the info
Hugs to you
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Hey there,
How are things going?? I just wanted to give you a more personal hello. I'm over in Missoula. I felt a lot of relief having people nearby to talk to. If you need to chat at all I'm here
- Sarah
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I'm so sorry. It's weird, isn't it? We hear all of our lives about the risks of breast cancer--"1:9" etc. Then when we get the news it's so shocking. I remember feeling the same way. To be honest, it's been 3 weeks since my diagnosis, and I still wake up most mornings thinking it was a dream. But, of course, it wasn't. As others have posted here, it does get easier once you have answers about size, stage, grade, etc, and once you determine a treatment plan. I still haven't even had an MRI, but I am feeling better since I met with my MO. Do find an MO you like and can work with--it's been wonderful for me. Also see if your center has a breast navigator nurse.
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Just popping in to wave at our Montana peeps. My youngest graduated from U of M in May. I am *so* going to miss my trips out there to visit him. Loved loved loved Missoula (and the rest of the state!). . .
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I'm doing alright. Got my results. Will be making a post. Feeling somewhat better and a new set of anxieties now.
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