Travel after double mastectomy
hey all! My surgeon’s scheduler just called and wanted to schedule me for surgery on July 27th (two weeks after the intended surgery date) based on one of the surgeons having a schedule change. I’m in a wedding on a cruise ship two weeks after the 27th. Is that enough time to heal? I know I won’t be able to lift anything but I’d be able to stand the ten mins during of certain ceremony and lounge a two then the pool. I’m having a double mastectomy with tissue expanders placed. They’re doing either diep orbimplants later (I think im leaning more towards diep because at only 30 I know I’d have to change the implants a couple of times
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I’d say probably. That is if you don’t have any complications or healing issues. Your stats aren’t showing so can’t tell if you’ve rads, etc. Do you know if they’re doing the TEs over or under the muscle? Is the wedding the reason for delaying recon?
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hi Lula! I’m still trying to figure this site out. After this reply I’ll figure out how to add my stats, lol. I will say I was diagnosed in January after finding the lump in dec. left breast only, dcis, triple positive, 2.7cm. I finished chemo on June’s 15. I’ll still be doing herceptin and perjeta until next year. They do want to check my nodes under my armpit ansnmaybe remove one I think they said. There was one they didn’t didnt like in January but it’s gone. The mass in my breast is gone, too. I’m doing bilateral because I have the chek 2 g
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I don't think that 2 weeks is enough time to be going on a cruise. I guess it might make a difference in how long the cruise is and how far away, but I'd be worried about being on a ship for more than a short trip.
My surgery was different in that I had implants placed at the same time. By the end of the second week, I was doing much better with moving around and stuff and my husband returned to work. Still ... it's a big surgery and recovery.
Maybe you should check with your surgeons?
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It doesn’t sound like there is a rush to have the surgery, so I would just wait til after the wedding sometime. Especially if you choose DIEP (which I highly recommend), but also with direct to implant, doing immediate recon at time of mx has better outcomes: 1 set of incisions, low to no risk of chest muscle animation from having TEs, 1 surgery with 2 procedures (a two-fer) vs 2 surgeries, less downtime overall (fewer surgeries to recover from), and you go in with breasts and come back out with breasts. Which center are you looking at having the recon done?
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thanks @notverybrave- I’m meeting with the plastic surgeon again today so will ask him about it and maybe he can pass it on to the oncology surgeon. They didn’t have an issue placing implants instead of expanders for you? That’s something I wanted to ask them
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@lula I'm having everything done at VCU. I moved to Virginia right before my diagnosis and liked them and their plan better than the original hospital I'd gone with
Did you do diep? How'd you decide? That's the option I'm leaning more towards.
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Two weeks out from a double Mx is still pretty new.....what about drains?? Are you flying to get on the boat? Have you talked to your physician and surgeon about this planned trip yet? I healed well and quickly and had my drains removed at 7 days---- HOWEVER I was not approved for travel and had weekly appts with my plastic surgeon after seeing my breast surgeon for post op appts. You will have surgically new incisions and infection risks are still a concern...I had a complication months after my double mx with my TEs. I would say because the mantra "we can do anything we want and set our mind to and breast cancer shouldn't limit us" BUT in my opinion it is a major surgery and the less opportunity for complications the better.
After my TE was replaced because it deflated I traveled to Greece from LA. I had my PS use the smallest scar line to go back in ( I had 2 incisions one very large one that stretched underneath my foob and a small incision in the middle) I had a week old incision that I traveled with, because the trip was planned way before diagnosis and the damn complication was VERY unexpected. Having surgery a week before flying and traveling e---> somewhat difficult. Protecting my new incision was my first priority. I went with a bottle of antibiotics and researched docs and my insurance for international travel, and set up communication with one of my docs to communicate for me to my PS in case something happened. I could not get in any water period, which sucked but I got my feet in those awesome waters....:-) I think I would say - research the doctor on the boat and what you would do if something occurred. Mx's have come a long way, but it is a major surgery....
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Surgery is usually recommended to be done within 4-6 weeks of completing chemo so that may influence your decision. I went through chemo focusing on that and assuming I'd do a lumpectomy and then changed my mind for a number of reasons. I ended up feeling kind of rushed.
Direct to implant shouldn't be a problem if you want to stay a similar size. I thought I would be the same, but I'm bigger - not in projection but in width. There are advantages stated for TE's, but I really wanted to be done as easily and as quickly as possible. Not all PS will do it this way. You might need to ask your BS for suggestions for those in your area who do.
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No that is DEFINITELY not enough time -- complications can and do happen and you are on a cruise ship with a doctor that knows how to give seasick pills and give nausea meds for norovirus. No way would I risk that - NO WAY. Also, you are putting yourself at risk for infections being around so many people so soon. The thought of being on a cruise ship 2 weeks after surgery gives me the shivers. I'm a world traveler and have been on many, many cruises. I have spoken with several women through the years on my blog who insisted on traveling soon after surgery, and they all deeply regretted that they did it.
Please change your surgery date and do not put yourself at that kind of risk if you feel you must go to the wedding.
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heck no. No way I would risk it. My bmx recovery was smooth sailing (no pun intended) but it was within the comfort of my own home. You most probably will still have the drains, which are a pain in the a$$. Infections and viruses can run rampant on those cruise ships. Please rethink.
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I still had drains and felt exhausted at 2 weeks. My movement was still quite restricted and I was afraid of people bumping into me. That was without complications or any recon.
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I agree with the others. My BMX went all kinds of sideways about 7-10 days post-op. I ended up with massive tissue necrosis and a wound vac, which required doctor visits every 2-3 days. No way could a cruise doctor have handled all that! And forget about lngetting in the pool 2 weeks post op. You'll be lucky if you have all your drains out by then, let alone fully healed.
If you can hold off your BMX until after the cruise I'd strongly suggest you do so. Even when everything goes right, its a pretty huge surgery and recovery.
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I agree that two weeks post op is not a great idea. I had my drains out after ten days, but many women don’t. I did tire very easily and still needed to be propped up on my pillow “throne” to sleep. Someone mentioned being in the comfort of ones own home and for as much as I enjoy cruise ships, it’s not like being at home.
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