Found a Lump Worried about Male BC
hi everyone, I have had a hard lump feels like a hard pimple to the left of my nipple for about a month. At least that is when I first noticed it. Went to see a dermatologist today thinking it might be a skin issue and he sent to to a doctor to get a biopsy as a precaution. My appointment isn’t for a week so naturally I’m stressing myself out to no end reading about BC in men.
I guess my question to everyone is for those who have had the hard lump and if it was not BC what did it turn out to be? How long did you have the hard lump for? I think mine has been there for over a month. Hard lump but no pain.
I guess I’m trying to figure out what the possibilities are besides BC I guess to help me feel better that there are some other possibilities besides the worse case scenario. Just feeling really steaswd
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Hi, Avh112. Sorry you're going through this worry. You're in a good place here, among good people, some of whom are men. The banner-carrier of men with breast cancer is Traveltext, and he'll probably be along soon. He's brilliant.
There are probably dozens of reasons for a lump to come up on your breast. My husband found a lump under his nipple many years ago and his doctor sent him for a mammogram. It turned out to be a lipoma, a benign fatty collection of tissue.
Good for your dermatologist to recognize the possibility of breast cancer in men!
Waiting sucks. The time will go by before you know it, though, and you'll have more information in hand. Gentle hugs. SB
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thank you for the note. Although reading online endlessly has been stressful because it does focus on the worse case scenarios, finding forums like this has really helped
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can I ask what happened with your husbands lump? Did it go away on its own or did he have to have it removed
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Avh112, I've sent you a PM.
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Avh112, my hubs still has the lump. The doctor said he could take it out if he wanted, but it was so obviously a lump of fat on mammogram my hubs was OK with just leaving it alone.
I see Traveltext is on the case! Yay!
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When people refer to the lumps found, are you referring to a lump that is underneath or more of a pretruding lump like that similar to a large pimple? Mine is like bump kinda like a pimple. Wasn’t sure how folks were defining lumps they foun
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They are referring to lumps under the skin. Breast cancer doesn't present as a raised lump as far as I'm aware. Why not visit your doctor and get his trained opinion? Keep us posted.
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Avh112, my doctor told me to the tissue of my breast should feel kinda like oatmeal. If I found something harder in the oatmeal, like a BB, or a hard pea--anything "thicker" than the surrounding oatmeal--it should be checked out.
Like Traveltext, I've never heard of breast cancer presenting like a pimple on top of the skin. But he's also correct in his advice to see your doctor.
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went to doctor today. He wasn’t sure what the lump was, he thinks it could be a cyst but asked me to go get an ultra sound later in the week. I asked why not just do the biopsy but he wanted to take step by step, ultrasound then mammo then biopsy. Is this normal? Is there a way to rule out BC from an ultrasound? Sound I have pushed for a biopsy? Anyone with any feedback I would appreciate. Thanks
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Avh - your docs protocol is normal, and yes both mammo and US can rule out cancer on many benign findings such as cysts. Most lumps and bumps are benign so there isn’t a need for an immediate biopsy, which is expensive and invasive...putting the cart before the horse for lack of a better term. If your imaging turns out to be vague I would push for biopsy but most likely the Rad will recommend it anyway. Breath easy, the vast majority of findings are benign and the stats are very much on your side. Keep us posted
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What should I expect after ultrasound? Likely move to mammo unless is really clear it’s a cysts? I guess I’m preparing myself for the worse and if they move to further testing after the US I don’t suspect the worse? What have most folks through as a process
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In my experience the mammogram is done first. If something presents in the mammogram they take a further look at it with US. Both machines are good at detetecting findings in different ways. If a lump still looks suspicious after both mammogram and US a biopsy is usually ordered to determine exactly what’s going on with a lump. Some centers will tell you your results on the spot and some won’t, and refer you back to the doctor that sent you for results. Results usually come in 3-5 days if you have to wait, sometimes sooner.It’s definitely a process.
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update on my situation. I went and got ultrasound. Good news they didn’t find anything. The radiologists suggest coming back in 3 months. Question should I have asked for biopsy to make 100% sure? I’ve read so many people getting assurances that everything was okay after ultrasound or even mammo but later was diagnosed with something more serious? How sure can I feel that things are okay off of an ultrasound?
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Well, that IS good news. Ultrasound is very good at finding stuff--if it can't see a mass, they won't do a biopsy. You don't want someone poking around in there with sharp needles, anyway, unless you have to. Biopsies have their own risks and can leave lumpy scar tissue. I think your radiologist gave you good advice to re-evaluate in 3 months.
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my worse nightmare has come true. Even though my radiologist didn’t see anything on the ultrasound and told me to no do anything I had this weird gut feeling. I went ahead and had the doctor remove it and get a biopsy on it. I just got the result that they did find it to be cancerous. I have so many emotions right now as I digest this news. I have anger that the radiologist didn’t catch any thing, grateful I went ahead and had the biopsy, and most of all I’m scared as I try to process this news. I trying to setup an appointment with a specialists to give me a better diagnosis. I have a European trip planned for the 15th with my family, I’m so dazed and confused right now I’m just not sure where to go and what to do.
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Sorry to here this, but you've landed in the right place for advice. Radiology often misses cancer, so don't be angry. And you've had the lump removed. Did they get clear margins?
To help us give you advice, could you post your pathology results here. It may well be that your European trip can still go ahead, so relax for now. -
what should I be asking about the markers? Sorry I'm so dazed and emotional right now. Did the lack of thins showing up in the ultrasound mean that I might of caught it early? I'm only 44 and I don't have any history of it in my family, I just don't indedstand
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Yes, you've definitely caught this early. Very early. Once you've had an MRI, they will know more and if your lymph nodes are affected. Then, combined with the pathology report they will make a plan. Don't worry about the markers for now.
Keep coming here and we'll guide you through this. Lots of us have been there done that with BC, so we're keen to help others.
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thank you. I’m out of town for work when I got the news so I’m headed back home to digest wit h my family. I have zero experience with cancer in my life fortunately have not been around anyone that has gone through it so it’s all so new and hard digest. Will I be able to live a normal life? Can I continue to work? What will be different
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Everyone here has experience with breast cancer. Some, like me have had extra cancers.
Yes, you will be able to live a normal life after treatment. Many people even keep working through treatment. What is different is that you will become a more resident person and learn to appreciate all the good things in life.
Post any info you have specific to the disease here when you have it, and there'll be more advice offered.
Oh, and try to keep calm.
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7mm was size of the lump. Trying to get a copy of pathology report tomorrow morning
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I think you are amazing! way to trust your gut and get that lump removed. Many men ignore their health. It can only be of benefit that you removed it now.
The next few weeks you will be stressed. They will run the pathology of the tumor and then they will make recomendations. Given your situation I think you are very justified in insisting they run a MRI with dye and make sure the limp nodes are clean. Perhaps TravelText can comment on mammograms for men but since they already found cancer I think you are past that. I had my cancer removed with surgery and they also looked at the nodes. you definitely want to find out you got it all and there is nothing else hiding.
My advice is be a sqeaky wheel. Advocate for yourself and make sure and record or take notes on calls and visits ( I used boldbeast recorder on my phone) that way if you misremember something you can check it later. Also if you have a calm rational person in your life it would be a huge benefit to take them to an appt because they can be calm and make sure all of the information is clear.
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I'm replying to PM's from Avh112. Certainly, ExerciseGuru is right, advocate for yourself and take notes or recordings at all appointments. Medical people are very busy and things can slip through the cracks.
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