Not quite a horder - decluttering

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  • octogirl
    octogirl Member Posts: 2,804
    edited May 2018

    Hi all:

    I took a break from sorting and tossing and donating at the old house we are selling, to come up to our retirement condo to get the interior painted. Painting crew finished yesterday and it looks beautiful!!! So happy with the colors I chose. So now, the challenge is to figure out how to bring just the right amount but not too much from the old place to the new place (and then to get the old place ready to sell!)

    When the painters were done they had a couple of cans leftover and asked me if I wanted them: NO!!! I did a close inspection, had them touch up maybe one spot, but I don't need to do more touchups, and I don't want it in my garage just taking up space, which I know from past experience is what would have happened if I had taken them. A small step in the right direction.

    We decided we needed a break so are going to spend the holiday weekend just enjoying the new place (lots to do around here, especially outdoors), but I will be busy with decluttering when I go back to the 'old' home next week. One challenge is figuring out how best to sell the furniture we won't be bringing: as I mentioned, going from 2800 sq ft to 1350 means we have to get rid of furniture, and some of it is fairly high quality so I would like to sell....will start with Craig's list and local on line shopping groups and see how that goes. We lived in a gated community so a garage sale is a bit problematic. The HOA usually does a community wide garage sale in the fall so that might be an option, though I'd really like to get rid of most of this stuff before September!

    Thanks for the suggestions about books! All very helpful.

    Keep at it all.

    Octogirl

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited May 2018

    octogirl, your efforts sound like they are really paying off! Smart move not keeping the left over paint. The furniture will move quick if its priced right. My niece moved into a beautiful house in Atlanta which had heavy type draperies hung with large rods. She wanted light and airy and was able to sell the drapes for a nice price on Craig's list. She and her husband bought some designer name brand sofa on Craigs List, and after a few months wanted something different and were able to sell the old sofa on Criags List for even a little more than they'd paid for it! It helps that they live in a large city, I think.

    That said, I can understand not wanting to venture into Craigs List if you dont feel comfortable doing so. My husband has made a few purchases that way and always met the seller at a busy car park or local grocery store and it has worked great.

    Agatha, I get my books at the local library. I love to read. My library belongs to a consortium, which is a large group of Ohio libraries, and I can place a hold on any book I want in the system and if my library doesnt have it, it will be sent here from one of the other libraries. Its wonderful. And if you end up buying a book, you can always get the Kindle version so no clutter, right?!

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited May 2018

    Octogirl, Check to see if there are consignment furniture stores in your area. They especially want quality items. You might get a little less, but it would be gone and they would have the hassle.

  • octogirl
    octogirl Member Posts: 2,804
    edited May 2018

    Wren, in my old area, unfortunately no, there aren't. I've checked. Just too rural I guess.

    However, my new area has WONDERFUL consignment stores, at least three that I know of! (I wanted a smaller dining room set for the much smaller dining room area and got the perfect set at one of those consignment stores). In fact, I've actually contemplated bringing all of the furniture up in the move and then just having the consignment store take what we don't want...only problem of course, is that I then have to pay to move it (it is about 200 miles from old place to new place).

    I think I will try and sell what I can, and I might then bring up what is left for consignment sale here, if it doesn't add too much to the cost of the move....

    The goal is to move as little as possible, of course!

    Octogirl

  • Zillsnot4me
    Zillsnot4me Member Posts: 2,687
    edited May 2018

    Sounds like a great plan.

    I sent a king sized duvet, a lamp, hats and more odds and ends to yardsale. Delivered three bags of uniforms. Yea! Still feel cluttered and disorganized.

    Furniture repair guy coming to fix library table so I can scrapbook. That will alleviate lots of papers. It's unreal how manypapers they bring home from school.

    I'm really wanting to tackle my honey do list this weekend. Please hold me accountable. No excuses!

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited May 2018

    Zills--you can do it, I have faith in you!


  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited May 2018

    Zills- that is empowering for you to say about tackling your honey do list. You will feel great for taking that on and owning it yourself. I love taking things around the house that I know I can do. Ninety percent of the time, I can handle things myself, only 10% I need to call in a professional. You go girl!

    Wishing everyone a safe and enjoyable holiday weekend (and fun de-cluttering if you are doing some of that too this long weekend!)

  • AgathaNYC
    AgathaNYC Member Posts: 473
    edited May 2018

    Hello, everyone.

    I feel pretty good about tackling some sorting today. I've heard back from 4 of the great organizations I found on line and got a better idea of what they are looking for. I'm going to start putting together boxes to send them. There are four categories and I will probably do one at a time so it's not so overwhelming for me. I've got fabric/notions, baking supplies, makeup/beauty, and art supplies.

    If it weren't going to rain all weekend I'd some books out on the sidewalk for people to take. (I live in Brooklyn and get a lot of foot traffic.) That might be next weekend's project.

    P.S. On a non-decluttering note I hope everyone is going to enjoy their Memorial Day weekend. As a tribute to my father whom I lost to cancer a few years ago, I'd like to remind everyone to also think of the U.S. Merchant Marines who lost their lives during wartime. They aren't an official branch of the military but sailed the ships that transported military personnel and supplies for every war since the Revolution. Their ships were often targeted and many sailors lost without official recognition.

  • mustlovepoodles
    mustlovepoodles Member Posts: 2,825
    edited May 2018

    My grandfather was a Merchant Marine during WWI. His ship was the former Vaterland, which was captured from the Germans in 1917 and renamed the SS Leviathan. It was used as a troop ship during the war and was later used as a passenger ship. Grandpa joined the Merchant Marines after he was deemed ineligible for the draft--he had lost vision in one eye while working in the shipyard when a steel fragment punctured his eyeball (yikes!) While the regular Army and Navy didn't want him, the MM was happy to have him. He got out of the MM just prior to WWII and went right back to building ships in the same shipyard where he lost an eye. They don't make men like they used to!

  • AgathaNYC
    AgathaNYC Member Posts: 473
    edited May 2018
  • Zillsnot4me
    Zillsnot4me Member Posts: 2,687
    edited May 2018

    Put up shelving in garage. Need one more. Can combine several totes. Garage looks so much better.

    Was able to get bed frame set up. Room looks so much better.

    Library table fixed. Scrap booking can commence!

  • AgathaNYC
    AgathaNYC Member Posts: 473
    edited May 2018

    Way to go Zills!! That's an inspiring amount of work you've done.

    Happy Scrapping!

  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited May 2018

    So what’s the punishment for not having made a move on my storeroom yet? Water torture? Put in the stocks? Bed without dinner? Hanging

  • Zillsnot4me
    Zillsnot4me Member Posts: 2,687
    edited May 2018

    Put on something itchy:)

  • Egads007
    Egads007 Member Posts: 1,603
    edited May 2018

    LMAO!!! Perfect!!

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited May 2018

    Zills, shelving is a wonderful thing. I remember years ago having a whole bunch of stuff laying in a spare room for a long long time, and my brother, a bachelor, took a look and simply said, “Needs shelving.” It was just what I needed to hear, and I bought a couole metal shelving units which solved many problems. You progress sounds wonderful!


  • octogirl
    octogirl Member Posts: 2,804
    edited May 2018

    The interior painting of my new condo is finished, looks great, and that means we can start moving in what we will keep in downsizing, and selling or giving away the rest! We were up there this weekend and did take some time to relax, but hung pics on the wall, decided which drawers and shelves will be for what...etc. Tomorrow I start in on sorting clothes!

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited May 2018

    Poodles--they do not make men like that anymore!

    Zills--Good for you!!

    Egads--I like the wearing something itchy punishment!

    Octo--Such progress!Good for you for getting some relaxation time, too!

    I think I've solved my lack of motivation. I sent out e-mails requesting estimates for the installation of a heat pump, will be getting calls over the next few days and making appointments for the estimates, and will need to get some of the mess cleaned up before anyone comes to see the place! It's already motivated me to get the dishes caught up and some picking up done in the kitchen!

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited May 2018

    Hi ladies- I finally got working on my paperwork stuff last week and made good progress. Going for more this week. I also dropped off some things for consignment, the rest they did not want going in to bags for donations next.

    A good friend of mine is leaving town for a job in Denver. She has been trying to get back there for some time, her family is there, and the job finally came. She has to leave quickly to start her new position, but has been purging for some time with the idea the job would come. Anyways, she is going to leave next week to go up and start work soon and will be back to pack up her house and put it on the market.

    She was a great friend to me during treatment, so I am going to step up and help her with the house packing and purging. I told her when she is back and ready to box things up, there will be things to donate and I will get rid of those for her with whatever I can fill my car up with. I had a friend do that for me when I did my last big out of state move, came and took all my leftovers from a yard sale. With all my de-cluttering experience, I know all the places to take things to recycle or re-use. Or if she has places she wants them to go, I will just be that errand runner. Taking my de-clutter skills to now help a friend!

  • Vargadoll
    Vargadoll Member Posts: 2,028
    edited May 2018

    I have been wanting to get downstairs and attempt to get a grip on the clutter and mess. We moved in this house in 2013 and there are still boxes that haven't been opened. Shortly after we moved in our oldest daughter died unexpectedly. That slowed things way down . Next we had family moving to our area we stored their things in our downstairs for a few months. Got that moved out then my sister (11 months older than me) passed away unexpectedly and we ended up cleaning her house and the majority of her stuff came to my house. She was a hoarded and I had no idea how bad it was!! She lived a state away and she always wanted to come see us never really waneed anyone at her house. Anyway. ...for storing other people things we ended up with mice!! I have never had mice before....bastards! I have two cats (fat lazy cats!) So we should have never had mice survive in our basement! So...the reason for my rant...I haven't seen a mouse in months and today I decided to get the cabinet area in my closet and dressing area downstairs cleaned up. I even made pictures of before and after. Omg! The upper cabinets which I rarely get anything out of were full of mouse poop!! So my little 20 minute straighten up turned into a hour with lots of trash!!! I would be to embarrassed to tell this anywhere but here!

    Good job ladies on all you have accomplished! Carry on!

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited May 2018

    Varadoll- let me begin here by expressing my condolences for your losses, your daughter and then your sister. I have not lost a child, but have experienced double losses back to back twice in my life and they really throw you for some kind of a loop. Big hugs here friend.

    I lived in an old house once (built in the 1600s) with an earthen basement and so mice had been in for some time and were also in the walls (would hear them scratching at night). My advice to you is to maybe get a professional in to assess how big the infestation is? They may be able to do something before this gets worse?

    You brought things in to your home in duress so don't beat yourself up. We cleaned out our mother's house after a healthcare crisis and we had to move her nearer to us. She knew she had mice, but fortunately, my sis and I only took a few things like family heirlooms and left other things behind in a dumpster. I think we were lucky we did not export any of those critters out of her house.

  • Vargadoll
    Vargadoll Member Posts: 2,028
    edited May 2018

    Thank you Jazzygirl! I would love to bring a professional exterminator but no way my husband would. I haven't seen a mouse in months. I was able to finally start catching them with glue boards. I tried every human way and couldn't catch a one! After I get my center room cleaned up and empty from all the junk I'll keep an eye out for fresh traces of the little bastards!

    After. I love my Kitchen Aid mixer but it's to big to fit in my kitchen cabinets. Need to find a better location for it.image

    Beforeimage

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited May 2018

    Varadoll- taking photos before and after is a great thing to help you remember where you started and ended up. I cleared out a box of paperwork last week and wish I had taken a pic before, but often do with bigger spaces (especially my garage otherwise known as the "final frontier").

    You go girl!

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited May 2018

    Vargadoll, You're making great progress! I took "before" photos once, but never cleaned it up. I think it looks better now, but the photos were years ago. Perhaps the poop was from the now dead mice and there's no new infestation. :)

    Condolences on your double losses. I was lucky that I didn't need to clear my parents' house when they died 6 mos apart. The family took what they wanted and called in an auctioneer. He said to keep everything because you wouldn't believe what people would buy.

  • Zillsnot4me
    Zillsnot4me Member Posts: 2,687
    edited May 2018

    V your very good hearted. Hopefully it is old poop. Love the pic. That before is like my house.

    Jazzy that's so sweet to use your skills to help a friend.

    Let's keep the momentum going!

  • Vargadoll
    Vargadoll Member Posts: 2,028
    edited May 2018

    We purchased this house in 2011 but it took my DH almost 3 years to get me to move. The original owners were the only family to ever live here. (Built in the late 1960's true brick rancher) the downstairs was an apartment years ago but due to the septic backing up it was stripped down to concert and walls. It has worked well as a holding area but we are ready to clean it up

  • Vargadoll
    Vargadoll Member Posts: 2,028
    edited May 2018

    We purchased this house in 2011 but it took my DH almost 3 years to get me to move. The original owners were the only family to ever live here. (Built in the late 1960's true brick rancher) the downstairs was an apartment years ago but due to the septic backing up it was stripped down to concert and walls. It has worked well as a holding area but we are ready to clean it up

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited May 2018

    Jazzy--what a great way to use the decluttering skills and info gained to help a friend!

    Vergadoll--mice are real nuisances. Because of the construction of myhouse it's practically impossible to keep the critters out. Not only the mouse poop issue when cleaning is there, but the little buggers steal dog food and store it in the strangest places! Air tight containers are my best friend in this battle. I can't believe how many deaths you experienced in such a short period of time. Anyone would get knocked off their feet and get behind after all that.

    Great before and after pics!

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited May 2018

    Varga, oh my, yes those are difficult losses you have been through since 2013 and I extend my condolences. And then towards the end of 2016, you were dx with bc! You’ve really had tough years recently. Life is forever altered and yet somehow goes on. Your cleaning efforts look great. Nice work! I’m sure you’ll arrive at a good solution to get rid of the mice problem.


  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited May 2018

    Varga - thinking of you. I hope you're putting YOU first sometimes.

    Jazzy - helping your friend reminds me... My BFF died of pancreatic cancer in 2005, but we'd been friends for 30 years. She brought home every leftover from eating out. Saved all leftover food bigger than two bites. And never looked at it again after it went into the fridge. Sometimes a jar with only one olive was stuck in the back of the fridge. From the time her only son was in HS he used to call me periodically and say "time to clean Mom's fridge again". Many thing were unidentifiable. I had fun doing it but it pained her to watch all those moldy drips & dribbles carefully saved in Tupperware going into the trash and down the disposal.

    It only occurs to me just now - why didn't her son clean out the fridge? Stupid questions really. My son wouldn't have done that either at that age. Now my son doesn't buy much & is ruthless about tossing stuff or giving it away. Probably comes from living on a sailboat with no room.

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