I am a miracle?? Ok, I'll take that!!

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  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited May 2018

    I feel like I'm hijacking Jenn's thread, so apologies in advance. I have been stage IV for almost 7 years and my mo has never considered me terminal. She has never used that word nor treated me as if I was dying. I differ from Jenn in that I am ER+, HER2-. I have never had chemo, simply AI's. My lifestyle and diet are geared toward the healthy, but I am not compulsive about it and treat myself to whatever strikes my fancy, without guilt or worry. In a nutshell, I don't do anything to actively fight my MBC (other than take my letrozole every night).

    Jenn is not the only person to go off of Herceptin and thrive. My point is, there is no clear reason to point to when trying to figure out why some of us are exceptional responders. We simply don't know.

    So, while Jenn and I are exceptional responders, I think we don't yet know why.

  • Southernsurvivor
    Southernsurvivor Member Posts: 632
    edited May 2018

    Congratulations, Jen - that is really incredible news! Whoo hoo! 🎉🎉

  • 50sgirl
    50sgirl Member Posts: 2,527
    edited May 2018

    Exbrnxgrl, Thank you for mentioning that there are others who have stopped taking Herpceptin and thrived. There have others who have reported such news on these boards. I was amazed by the first report, but some of those people have been off Herceptin for several years and have not had a recurrence. They, like Jen, have been told that if (not when, but if) they have a recurrences, they can go on back on Herceptin. I think it is wonderful and encouraging to learn about the exceptional responders like Jen. More research needs to be done on these exceptional responders to discover the secret of these outliers, but I do not question the results that we see nor the advice they receive.

    WOOHOO again to you, Jen. You are a wonder and a miracle. I am celebrating for you.

    Hugs and prayers from, Lynne


  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited May 2018

    Yes! Let's celebrate Jenn and all exceptional responders. But, let's not ascribe their success to things that may or may not have helped, based on anecdotes. Yes, maintaining good health and healthy habits is good for everyone, but that doesn't equate to to keeping stage IV at bay.

    Why have I thrived, progression free for almost 7 years? Darned if I know, but I sure wish I did

  • Cure-ious
    Cure-ious Member Posts: 2,626
    edited May 2018

    To be sure, it is the genetic makeup of these cancers that make them super-responsive to a particular drug, and I hope somebody is sequencing these cancers for clues to biomarkers that can be use for better diagnoses..

    Exbrngirl, your grade 1 (ie slow-growing) cancer is no doubt part of it, but seven years is fantastic!!! Thanks for sharing that..

  • Bestbird
    Bestbird Member Posts: 2,818
    edited May 2018

    Congratulations! You've practiced integrative medicine - the best of all worlds! I wish everyone who has mbc could enjoy the same outcome!

  • niiankrah1
    niiankrah1 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2018

    exbrnxgrl you are actively fighting your cancer by taking letrozole every night. I dont see how you can declare otherwise. Likewise the OP is also actively fighting cancer by regulary seeing a naturalist, though she does not want to give credit for reasons I would like to know.

    Letrozole counts for something, and naturalists also count for something. Am I missing the point ?

  • holmes13
    holmes13 Member Posts: 214
    edited May 2018

    jenn great news!!! I am so happy for you! I say ride the NED train as long as you can.

    niiankrah- I believe that the point here is that she is NED and trying to enjoy her life. I understand that people have gotten sick and died but I'm sure they are monitoring Jenn for any signs that something is not right.

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited May 2018

    Cure-ious,

    Yes, I have always felt that the fact that it's such a lazy cancer, is an important part of my survival. I also know that it change in a heartbeat.

    Niiankrah,

    I have never identified with the whole warrior/fighter thing. My main point was to say that with respect to lifestyle, diet etc, I have changed virtually nothing and focus on enjoying the here and now. It's a fairly passive approach compared to what some patients do. However, I am not suggesting that my approach "works" . Lucky, I've just been very lucky

  • Lauriesh
    Lauriesh Member Posts: 692
    edited May 2018

    congratulations Jen!

    Niankrah,I am another one who has been off all treatment for over 3 years and Ned for over 7 years. I don’t see a naturalist and don’t do alternative therapies. I think I am in this position because my cancer responded to the treatments I have had( taxotere, herceptin and perjeta)

  • niiankrah1
    niiankrah1 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2018

    The main point of the OP, as I see it, is that her doctor thinks she has exceeded expectations as a stage 4, given that her treatment worked. She is a miracle because she is not expected to still be responding and doing this well. Compared to others similarly situated she is different, a one off. Others dont get this long a ride. Rare.

    As far as her oncs are concerned it is all due to conventional treatment. But we have since learned that there is unconventional treatment as well, which is ongoing, which was not initially mentioned, and for which no credit is given. What is this treatment and why is no credit given? When treatment is integrated credit must be given to all parts.

    There are people scouring these boards, looking for glimmers of hope like in this instance, right now and long after this thread tapers off. The OP will do us a lot of good by telling us about the unconventional treatment component.

    Conventional treatment works. Integrated treatment also works.

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited May 2018

    ". The OP will do us a lot of good by telling us about the unconventional treatment component."

    The OP, know to many of us as Jen, has freely posted about her treatments, conventional, complementary etc., on bco for many years. I am sure she has done many good!

  • Meja
    Meja Member Posts: 102
    edited May 2018

    Hi Jen,

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful news and your story, I am so happy for you and your family.

    I also believe that MBC patients with an outcome of NED after years of treatment, inspire and motivate researchers and oncologists to keep studying the biology of this disease and looking for new targeted treatments, that match the individual cases. This is what we should hope for sooner than later, new tailored treatments, and for this to happen we need more research within the field of MBC.

    Take care all,

    Meja

  • niiankrah1
    niiankrah1 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2018

    exbrnxgrl if you know the details of the OP's unconventional treatments then fill us in.

    I am hungry for this information.

  • DATNY
    DATNY Member Posts: 358
    edited May 2018

    niiankrah1 I personally know someone who beat advanced cancer without any particular lifestyle change. Some refer to this person as a miracle. He calls himself just lucky...no lifestyle changes, no particular healthy food, no naturist doctors. And there are also these spontaneous remission cases, reported in literature, where cancer disapears without any apparent reason.

    It's only a matter of turning on the immune system. Once it has the ability to recognize the defective cell, cancer doesn't stand a chance. This understanding is well accepted. What exactly turns on the immune system, that's the million dollar question. So maybe it's the medicine, or the medicine plus one or multiple lifestyle changes, or just the surgery, or an unrelated illness (this seems to be often the case for spontaneous remissions)... no one is able to tell now.

    Also, the hormone positive and hormone negative cancers tend to behave differently, although exceptions exist. No one knows why, but hormone negative tends to recur quickly, while hormone positive can stay dormant for many years and then come back. So a stage four hormone positive patient will likely stay on the medication throughout life, but is not that clear the same is needed for a hormone negative patient. Especially since the medicine, Herceptin, it appears to be working by stimulating the immune system -that's why it is called immunotherapy. Of course, since Herceptin is relatively new, there aren't studies to confirm or infirm yet that lifelong treatment is needed.

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited May 2018

    niian, as you have only 8 posts on this forum, most of which are from just this thread, and Jen has almost 3,000, perhaps it is you who should divulge more informatiin about yourself, your cancer, and your situation. Can you provide some background about yourself?

    As exbrnxgrl mentioned, many of us on the boards have followed Jen's inspiring story a day, week, month at a time over the past number of years. I well remember when I first became a member of the forum looking for advice, information and support, Jen told me about her aggressive treatment at the beginning of her diagnosis because I had questions about my own line of treatment. Her words meant so much to me and influenced my approach.

    The paths she has taken to get where she is now can all be found in her posts that you can read up on. Like a book. Just use the search feature. I dare say it might even be more insightful to you than reading a few summarized paragraphs of all she's been through in the past ten years.

    Like exbrnxgrl, my onc never has said I was dealing with a terminal disease. Upon informing me of stage iv status, her words were, “With treatment, you could live years." Now that is an extremely open-ended, subjective statment, one I am so glad my onc spoke. Because apparently my mind went somewhere in that millisecond and grasped onto the hope she was giving me.

    [If she'd said, “You have terminal cancer. 3 to 5 years. Get your affairs in order and cross things off on your bucket list." Hmmmm.....wonder if my mind would have clamped on to that and would I still be here???]

    There are several books I read that address the exceptional responder types,

    Mind Over Medicine by Dr Lissa Rankin

    Radical Remission by Dr. Kelly Turner

    AntiCancer by Dr David Servan-Schreiber

    All are written by doctors with lots of research to back up what they say.

    Wherever you are at in dealing with this disease, niian, I wish you well.

  • jojo68
    jojo68 Member Posts: 881
    edited May 2018

    I agree with Nian about asking Jenn what her Naturalist does for her....why is it a secret?

    Why only mention the chemo etc? Yes lets celebrate with her but many here come every day to learn new information. Ive survived 6 years myself as stage 4 and am always excited to share. Where has the OP gone? Im sorry but makes me skeptical. ...if this were someone who did all natural treatment and proclaiming this miracle, many of you would be asking a zillion questions for sure😄

    Btw...I never did chemo...no rads...no hormonals. Only surgery with alternatives

  • niiankrah1
    niiankrah1 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2018

    This is not about me. I dont have anything to share. I am only here to learn what is missing from the reputable books and publications like Pubmed, and even then I cannot ask questions. I am not after the theory of treatment. I can only get what I want from anectdotes. Here we have Jen to answer questions.

    I learned so much from Rosevalley more than I learned from books because she put it all out there without holding back anything. I never asked her any questions. What I got from Rosevalley was the unsanitised version, the full details, the whole nine yards. My first post was to say thank you to Rosevalley shortly before she departed.

    It was only after I voiced skeptism that I learned that the OP is still in treatment albeit by a naturalist. Does that not count for something?

    I am still waiting for the OP herself to enlighten me on her naturalist treatment. That is a big deal to complete this uplifting story that is a gem on this board.

    Thank you Jen.


  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited May 2018

    Jen has freely discussed her complimentary approach along with traditional medical treatment in dealing with mbc. There is no secret, and all her information can be found in her previous posts. I know she takes large breaks from posting on the boards as she is living her full life. There is no kind if concealing anything,

    I feel it is semantics, that you consider the naturalist approach as treatment, yes, however, many of us consider that to be complimentary treatment in addition to conventional treamtent. Those of us who believe in the power or conventional treamtent don't want to give others the wrong impression that our belief is in alternative medicine alone. It is a splitting of hairs, not something I wish to engage in further.

    It is okay if you do not wish to say anything about yourself, niian. In doing so, you are holding Jen to a different standard. Best wishes to you, though.



  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited May 2018

    Niian,

    I feel it is not my place to detail Jens treatments. To be honest, I wouldn't want to misstate or misrepresent what she has done and I'm sure that hearing it first hand would be a lot more accurate than a second hand account. Additionally, I would have to search several years of her old posts to insure accuracy, so please feel free to search her posts yourself

    Jojobird,

    There is no secret! Jen has been an active poster for years and has been open about her tx. To maintain accuracy, please search her posts as I don't want to misstate anything by giving out second hand info.

    Last, and I may be off base, it sounds a bit like of a demand. No one is required to post or reveal anything!

  • 50sgirl
    50sgirl Member Posts: 2,527
    edited May 2018

    Niiankrah, I cannot tell how long you have had stage IV bc or if you do have MBC at all, nor do I know what treatments you have had, conventional medicine or alternative/naturalist medicine. For those of us who have been active in these stage IV boards for a number of years, we are used to searching older posts for information and do not find it necessary to ask someone to detail things all over again. For most of us mbc'ers, it is welcome news to read a post like Jen's. We want to celebrate her victory over this disease. It gives us hope, but we understand that right now exceptional responders are just that - exceptions. I have seen people on these boards who have been treated by naturalists as well as conventional medicine, have followed a vegan diet, have exercised regularly, and died within a year. I have also seen the other extreme, people who were treated only with conventional medicine, have not changed diet or lifestyle, and are still alive and being treated after ten years, some are NED some are not. There are too many factors in play to determine what will work best for each individual or for the entire group of mbc'ers. Someday, the "secrets" will be found, but what has worked for Jen will not work for all because our disease, genetic makeup, and who know what else are not identical.

    I would really like to let Jen and others enjoy the good news without the conflict that is overtaking this thread. I hope you understand what I am saying.

    If you search on Jen's name, you should find the information you are looking for but only if she chose to post it. You could send her a PM, of course, and she can choose to respond with whatever she wants, but please don't think that she has an obligation to answer all your questions. She has a right to privacy just like everyone else on these boards. I would like to see Jen post again in the future, and I don't want her to feel that reactions to her posts might make her uncomfortable.



  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited May 2018

    Right on, 50sgirl!

    I would like to apologize for any part I have played in derailing Jen's happy post.

    Hooray for all exceptional responders! May they inspire hope and may researchers one day discover how all stage IV patients can be exceptional responders and then be cured 👏👏👏

  • Nel138281
    Nel138281 Member Posts: 2,124
    edited May 2018

    Jen - So excited for you - may we all be there some day.   If your onc is recommending tykerb, I took for 3+ years with great success, and was always happy to know it had some impact on the blood brain barrier

    Enjoy spring and this great news!!

    Nel

  • niiankrah1
    niiankrah1 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2018

    Thanks jojo for your voice. I have learnt a lot from your inquiring mind, your skeptism, and your steadfastness. You are one of my favorites on this board.

    I have read most of what exbrnxgrl has written on this board. She brings depth to any discussion. Thank you exbrnxgrl.

    This thread is not about us. It is about Jen and her miracle. I know how to search for information in old threads. That is what I have been doing silently till the miracle of Jen. I am here to learn. Light and not heat please. I am patiently waiting on the OP to enlighten me.

  • gonegirl
    gonegirl Member Posts: 1,871
    edited May 2018

    The Metastatic Breast Cancer Project is working on just this question, what makes an exceptional responder exceptional. Easy to sign up at https://www.mbcproject.org.

    In fact, everyone should sign. They look at the DNA of all metastatic breast cancer patients, get our medical records, and look for new connections to help find a cure.

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited May 2018

    Hi and how are you, gonegirl? Signed up for the Metastatic Breast Cancer Project quite a while ago. I hope those who haven't follow gone girl's link and sign up soon

  • gonegirl
    gonegirl Member Posts: 1,871
    edited May 2018

    I'm ok, exbrnxgrl. Coming up on 7 years and still knocking on lots of wood. As someone once told me, this is like having the radio on in the background of life. Sometimes it gets loud, other times it's quieter, but it's always on. Like Jenn, I disappear for periods of time just to go chill. Saw your posts on living life thread. Sounds like you've got lots going on. Good to keep the focus on just living. 😀

  • niiankrah1
    niiankrah1 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2018

    Dear Jen.

    I am pleading, begging for information, on the naturalist treatment that you are taking. Other posters here know a lot, but I know next to nothing except for a few anectdotes. This is not about them. They are trying to be your mouthpiece but they dont know what your naturalist regimen is. They know so much that they dont have to learn from you, but I do want to learn from you.

    I believe in anectdotes, one off stories of individuals like you. I have been on this board quietly learning from many people. Books and publushed studies have a place too.

    I appreciate all the responses here but I am looking for the specific information of your naturalist treatments. It is only you who can answer that.

    Thank you.

  • gonegirl
    gonegirl Member Posts: 1,871
    edited May 2018

    niaankrah, Jenn is probably not logging into the group. If you click on her name, you can see her posts and probably find out a lot that way.

    This is a terrifying disease and we all want answers, so I get that fear.

    When I was first diagnosed, I heard a talk by an oncologist who said how well a patient does depends on the biology of the tumor and the biology of the person with that tumor.

    For me I've done CBD oil and turkey tail mushroom supplement, and still had a cancer flare up. Now I just do my best to eat healthy, get exercise, get support and work very hard to keep my stress level as low as possible (managing stress is a big challenge).

    Researchers are working to unravel all this stuff, but because biology is different for us all, it's hard to tell what will and won't help.

    Hugs. Susan

  • niiankrah1
    niiankrah1 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2018

    Thank you gone girl. Oncologists know a lot of theory. I have read and listened and read and listened. But up to this point the practical application of their theories is measured on a 5 year survival scale assuming their theories work.

    Most of the time the theories dont work. And the times when they work very well they dont know why. Certain unapproved things work outside their theory, but are ignored because they have not yet been subjected to the rigors of testing. They are written off as anectdotes, of no value.

    When Jen first posted I voiced skepticism about going off everything based on an anectdote. Her response showed that she is very smart to listen to others outside the field of oncology expertise. Then others took over the thread to make it about themselves. I have seen this dynamic a few times where people have been run off these boards. They have nothing to learn, and would throw a monkey wrench into any good discussion.

    There is exbrnxgrl who is taking letrozole every night yet claims she is not actively fighting cancer. I am so discouraged by these hijacks.

    I hope that one day Jen will come back to enlighten me. I will keep checking.

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