Not quite a horder - decluttering
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I just love this thread! I have it marked as one of my favorites and always read the post. I am getting things in order at my house as well. We had a big move a few years ago and still have boxed that have not been opened! Apparently I'm not missing whatever is in them. I try to take a load to the thrift store once a week. The more organized I get the simpler daily life becomes.
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Minus Hope you've gotten over your blues. I finally feel better. Did more ruthless sorting and sifting today. Wonder if I can finally pass on the winter clothes?
The school has a yard sale so that's where the majority of our stuff goes. Told them I wasn't working the first day. Don't want to hear the kids about their stuff.
One is a creative magpie and her toybox is stuffed full. He just lets things collect under the bed.
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Zills - yes, thanks. I finally decided to hit the kitchen & cook. I drank a couple of glasses of nice wine while I worked. Then I went to bed early. Blues gone the next day.
Varga - good to see you here.
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MinusTwo - I need the support of this group! I have 1250 square feet of basement and it is packed! My DH is in property management and owns rental property. When people move out and leave things if it's worth anything it ends up downstairs! We have several nice pieces we are using and Im ready to haul the maybes off!! If we haven't found a spot for in it a year it's probably not going to have one!
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Vargadoll--sounds like you have quite the challenge ahead of you! Is the collection mostly furniture type things? I'm thinking that furniture might be harder to deal with than ordinary junk. Maybe a re-sale place will take the items? If there is anything that could be used in an office setting some local non-profits might come look and lug off what they can use. A women's shelter or homeless shelter may use even more than office things, like beds and dressers. When I was helping my cousin clean out her mom's place I found out how affordable roll off dumpster can be. They come in different sizes. They may not look pretty in the driveway, but being able to fill it over time is a help. Being able to move a large amount of stuff at one go is a great motivator, so is watching the dumpster fill up. Not to mention the number of steps you can get just going back and forth between the house and the dumpster! You are very probably right, if you haven't used it in a year, you probably won't use it. Welcome to the club!
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Varagoll, I can imagine that line of work lends itself to those kinds of accumulations of “stuff”. Another thing to consider is a yearly garage sale. You could mark the stuff cheap as you got it free anyway, but still make some profit. I’m sure people leave behind some surprising things, too.
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There was an organization here that took household goods and gave them to people getting their first housing. I think they had to discontinue the project because their warehouse rent went up too much (story of everywhere in Seattle). You might contact a social service agency to see if anyone has a similar service there. There are also churches here that take donations for new households.
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Varadoll- there are places like Big Brothers/Sisters, shelters, etc. that will come pick things up with a truck. But they usually won't come in and move them out of your house (they don't want the liability of causing a problem in the home, I think). When we cleaned out our mom's house (2000 square feet with full basement and attic), we got a big dumpster to just throw out the old and broken, and then gave things to others.
We lived out of state when we had to clean out our parents home, and were under a time crunch, so no estate/yard sale possible for us. But you may want to think about that per Divine. I see yard sales as a way to get people to carry away my junk (and you can make a few bucks to use for something else). Price it to go. Spring and fall are great times to do these types of sales. Get some friends to help manage the process the day of.
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This week's de-cluttering focuses on cleaning out a storage bench for yard and gardening things. I cannot remember the last time I did this, although I have looked in that space a lot and told myself it needed to be cleaned out. I finally did this am and got a lot of old broken things thrown out, plus there are a lot (too many) pots in there accumulated through time. I got a nice big box at Sam's Club yesterday I saved and going to take my extras of the pots I don't want to my favorite donation place. I found some things I have been looking for too!
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Jazzygirl - that is one of the benefits of actually doing the 'purge' - you find things you actually want!
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Janky- the last time I cleaned out that storage bin, I found a family of mice living in there (eek). I used to keep my bird seed in there for my winter feeder and had found a huge hole chewed through the bottom (this bin is hard plastic, they were determined!) I was a bit afraid of what surprises I might find in there today, but have sealed up that hole (and did so again today when I cleaned it out. I got a air tight bin to store the birdseed so that kept that from being a future problem.
Put everything back in I want to keep and cleaning the extra pots to put in the box to take to donations. Anyone know how to get scale off pots? I am trying bleach but so far no luck?
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Jazzy, The animal shelter has to keep dry food in the freezer unit along with corn and wheat based cat litter. Kind of funny when you think about how many cats would be willing to help out. Deer mice carry a couple of really bad things here. They tell you to wet down an area with bleach before trying to clean up their mess.
Not sure what you mean by scale on the pots.
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Jazzy, I've had good luck soaking pots overnight in vinegar (either full strength or diluted with water) & then scrubbing them with a brush or even fine steel wool. I've heard that equal amounts of vinegar, rubbing alcohol & water mixed together & sprayed on will also work. If you can't get them totally clean just spray paint them a fun color!
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We have big pieces of furniture, lots of lamps, a punching bag that's most of the big stuff. The rest of it is just boxes that need to be gone through. We have a rescue mission less than a mile from our house and I try to take a bag every time I go by there!
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JKL- thanks. I am trying some CRL solution tonight I found under the sink for lime scale, and letting it soak over night but will try vinegar next if that does not work!
Wren- no mice this time, but the time before. I hear you though about the diseases mice carry. We have had issues out here in NM with hantavirus. More in the rural areas on the ranches, but don't think the mice discriminate between urban and rural with their viruses.
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heard NJ got a new species of ticks. Ugh. Slowly still working on the bags. Kids sideline me. Will post next week. Thinking five?
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A couple photos to inspire. I've mentioned that awhile ago, we re-did an old bathroom, tearing out ancient, broken down fixtures, removing wallpaper then painting and carpeting. Yes, it is a long, narrow room! Our house was built in the 1920s and this is all they were gonna allot for that room back then!! Thankfully, the bathroom we use on the other side of the right wall of this room had, at some point, been widen three more feet! I turned this into my “gift wrap room". I read that Candy Spelling, rich widow of Aaron, had a huge mansion with a gift wrap room, and while hers is no doubt humongous, I at least can say I, too, have one in my home! I must guard against buying too much wrap and bows, a weakness of mine. A black trunk peeking out in the back holds nothing, my grandmother brought it to America in the 1920s from Italy. The polka dotted bag on the right holds extra toilet paper. Fancy, huh?
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Here is what we call our storage room. Our house was originally a duplex, and we opened it up and live in the whole thing. It gave me lots of space to store stuff, and that is not always good. This room used to have two additional shelving units crammed full, a closet to the left which you can't see was filled, and the whole middle of the floor was heaped with miscellaneous junk. I spent last year sifting through it all, tossing, selling or donating so much. Now this is where I keep seasonal items. The two big bags on the floor contain two Christmas trees. There is luggage, a carefully selected collection of ds's childhood toys, and several boxes of paper memorobilia. The closet is empty. That clock, we got years ago. It ticks too loud, and I never wanted to hang it anywhere in the hiuse. Dh doesn’t want to get rid of it, so there it is.
I don't have an attic, so this is it. Our basement has only two small shelves of miscellaneous stuff. Our garage has stuff around the outside walls, but we park our cars in the garage, no junk in there preventing us from doing that.
It really requires effort, though, to keep things simple! But worth it.
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DH agreed today that we probably could get rid of our old National Geographics (2000-2014) since we haven't opened them in years and probably won't ever. Hopefully he'll keep that attitude.
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That's a lot of magazines.
Too funny about the clock.
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Mrs. M--Love the gift wrap room! I'm thinking some Command hooks, some cheap dowels or curtain rods and all the wraps can be mounted on the wall for easy access, same with bags of bows and ribbons, with a basket for scissors, tape, tags. Then a narrow table on one side, and you are all set to go!I've seen some small bathrooms, but that one was TINY! Still, if it met the need at the time, all was good. The storage room looks great! You can see where everything is. And being able to get 2 cars in the garage--that's impressive!
Wren--it's a start! Get those mags out ASAP, then find the next item to work on!
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NativeMainer, maybe its been mentioned on this thread before, but there are a lot of people who store everything in their garage except their cars! And cars are such a big expense. People usually spend much more money on their car than the entire accumulation of things they have stuffed in the garage. My step son is one of those people. He has two beautiful new vehicles -cha-ching- but they sit outside in all the weather elements all year long while his garage stores basically a bunch of junk. Honestly, it doesn't make sense.
Having space to store things has its downfall. It's so easy to set stuff aside for “later", not having to make a decision what to do with it. It can make life stagnant. When we moved my mother in law out of her house of 67 years to an apt across the street from us, we realized how she'd surrounded herself with “ghosts of the past", so many miscellaneous things that belonged to relatives long past, or items from decades and decades ago that she would not part with. Her life had been at a stand still for many years, and that was a big reason why.
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Love the gift wrap room! Gift wrap supplies take up a ot of space! I prefer to wrap instead of bagging gifts. My DD always says my presents are to pretty to open.
I'm on a roll! I got my kitchen spotless and organized. I ended up with 2 full bags of trash and a box for the thrift store. I did that yesterday and I worked on the living room today. Another bag of trash and stuffed a few more thinHS in the box for the thrift store. All the things that ended up in the trash were in drawers or baskets. DH is in Naples on a business trip (other words golf excursion) and I'm taking full advantage of not cooking and letting some everyday house work go while I "really clean house"!
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So much easier to do without interference.
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So true, Wren! Vargadoll, have at it!!!
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Added the bathroom closet to the clean out list after I posted! There was a bottle of baby oil in the back of that closet that must have been 10+ years old! I'm not sure why it even made the move to this house 5 years ago! Oh the things we hang to! Time for stuff to GO!!!!
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I hear you about the "ghosts of the past" and life becoming stagnant. I've got my share of ghosts, and have just begun thinking about letting them go. I'm finding that thinking and moving forward is more challenging than I thought it would be. Part of me is still afraid to make any future plans due to the "what if" syndrome. What if the beast comes back? What if I can't make it on part time work? And the biggy--What if I need that someday? In that I hear echoes of my mother and grandmothers. Some things I see in my kitchen cupboards and shelves are things I used to use regularly, but time and tastes have changed, but What If I want to make that dish again? I struggle to put away things I use almost every day among things that I'm going to use someday or will want to use again someday, usually someday when I get organized. Then there is the ages old Maine habit of storing all old kitchen items "To have when we get a camp someday" or "for when the children start their own homes." Well, I've got no children and am not going to at this point in my life. I may still someday get a camp, but unless I build it from scratch it will probably already have most of what is needed to when I get it. Hmmm. Seems like I need to take some time to think and decide what I really want from my life at this point and focus on making that happen.
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I think that reflection on 'what I really want' is important and needed by everyone from time to time. I decided to learn to paint (watercolor) in my old age and I'm really enjoying it. I have a lot of past hobbies that I could get rid of and haven't yet. I used to knit while I watched TV but I don't watch any more and knitting is so boring by itself. I used to sew a lot but it hurts my neck now so I can only do it for a few minutes at a time. That fabric could go somewhere else. As you see, I'm trying to motivate myself to dig in.
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nm - I hear ya about the kitchen stuff. Sort of like the black & white dot roaster pan that will cook a 30+ pound turkey. Never in my life will I cook something that size again. I think you've inspired me to let it go when I get home from vacation.
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