Stage 2 Sisters Club

But my question is that how can we donate blood if doctors says we may have cancer cells lurking around?????? How is it possible???

ruth,

Thanks for the information, isn’t it kind of good news that good immune system can fight cancer cells?? I take it as a hope, if someone else body with good immune system can fight cancer cells that I may transported to him/ her by blood donation, my immune system can do it as well..

Happy Monday! First day back at work after 7 weeks and so far so good today. I'm a little tired but I hit the 5:30 am Zumba class so that is the more likely culprit. Since I have been teleworking the last month, I really haven't had to play too much catch-up today and that has been wonderful. I'm still sore but feel like at this point I am back to about 90% in terms of movement. 

Only problem is I got my PSs bill for my DIEP and it really wasn't pretty. Waiting to hear back from my insurance company about why they didn't cover more.

Hope you all are well

Just wanted to take a minute to say "Thank You" to all the wonderful ladies who held my hand over the last 5 years... this site was a lifesaver for me a long time ago!

Ruth, it's so great to see you supporting SO many people here. You are truly special and such a loving, helpful person! Your advice and guidance was useful to me and to so many - thank you for all your support!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nisa, my surgery sister, thank you for starting this thread! I am so glad I found this safe place to share what I was feeling, without judgment and was provided with such incredible support!!

It's hard to believe 5 years have passed... it seems like a lifetime ago and at times, it feels like just yesterday. This is the 1st of what I hope to be MANY more milestones! Although I do not spend as much time as I used to here, I do try to read and catch up as much as possible. There are so many newbies... which is disheartening - but it's nice they are able to have this safe place - that I hope helps them as much as it did me, in their time of need.

I was up way before my alarm today and spent a little time reflecting on the last 5 years - a lot I don't fully remember. It was weird, in the shower was when I had my mini melt down this morning. It was like a flash back to the morning of my surgery and just a rush of uncontrollable tears. It was just like that morning 5 years ago... but today it felt "cleansing". I can't believe how blessed I have been over the last 5 years and how thankful I am for what I have experienced. Life is different now - you really don't sweat the small stuff and live for today. I have been able to travel to some places I never thought I would, I married the most incredible man who has been by my side through all of this, watched both my kids graduate college, was there for my daughters wedding and am now an all too young grandma! Life is good!!

Side note.... funny, we have a dove nest in our front evergreen that I have been stalking/spying on for the last several weeks - and the babies left the nest this morning for the 1st time!!!!! The weeks I spent home recovering, the birds in my yard really made the time pass. I spent hours just sitting outside feeding them and watching them maneuver around the yard - they were a huge part of my healing process. I thought it was a nice coincidence the babies left on my anniversary day

We will never forget what we have lived through and it will always be a part of our lives, even when others think it should be past us or we should move on - you never move on - life is different...it's an experience that has taught me so much. You don't realize how fragile life is until you face this. The experience has made me a different person - one who travels more, one who doesn't want to deal with bullsh*%, one who spends time doing the things I want to do with the people I want to do them with, I enjoy every sunrise and sunset and love watching the birds - I like the person I have become, even though others say I have changed, I know I have changed for the better!

Thanks for listening!!! Wishing everyone in active treatment all the best! Wishing the "veterans" many, many happy and healthy years to come!!!!!!

Congratulations, mjs!!!!!! So sweet about the baby birds.....I am thinking their leaving was NOT a coincidence......

I am glad if I was able to help you. When I was first diagnosed I saw a plaque which read, "It is what it is. It becomes what you make it." So I decided helping others out was one way I could MAKE something good come out of my experience.

What I think happens is, if you do go on and really live your life; that BC becomes part of your story and you never forget it but, much like childbirth, you remember that it was very painful, but you don't remember the pain itself.

I, too, have been more brave, tried new things I never would have tried, traveled placed I never would have gone, become friends with people (here and in 'real life') that I would have never known under any other circumstances. So the experience has actually made my life richer (something I never, ever, ever would have believed when I was going through it). I also am so, so, so grateful for every day. More time with family, friends, and I am especially thrilled to have been around to see my son graduate from high school, college, get a good job, buy a house etc. etc. and be a part of that all (now if only he'd get married and give me some grandchildren ). And I am so grateful for my good health and really work on keeping it that way.

I cry quite often, but they are happy tears. After a good checkup, when I hear a beautiful song, when I'm enjoying nature, or watching a sentimental commercial on TV. Heck, I almost cried during an exercise class the other day. Just because I was so happy to be alive, well, and able to do whatever I wanted!

Well, he has a girl who's a friend, maybe a girlfriend (who can tell nowadays?), so maybe there's hope......

One more:

mjsgumbas- congratulations on your 5 year cancer anniversary.

That’s a very interesting question - they want you to do chemo again because your score is high but you haven’t metasticized? You could go to the Stage IV questions topic, or start your own topic. There is a topic on mucinous BC. Your question deserves more research.

Ruth, you are absolutely right. I've tried to come up with every excuse in the book today to not get a port installed next week but the hospital apparently has wide open availability for me to get a mediport placed. Grrr

So yes begrudginglygoing with the science and praying chemo keeps the beast at bay.

Hi ladies, after being on Aromasin for 10 months, I finally had a bone density test yesterday. The result was not what I expected - I have some osteopenia ... already! Not sure if prolia or zometa will be next.

yes, seems like I did all the right thing, I walk at least 4 hours per day due to my job, Vitamin D level is at round 50 when I checked last time.

Stephi,

Try to eat kale, it has same amount if Calci as milk, I eat it with everything, even im my breakfast sandwich ... my MO told me I can eat dairy with no concernbut Im a bit careful with that and try to get more kale instead if dairy.

I'm been on the forum now for about a month, but just now found this topic. Just wanted to say hi and thanks to all of you who have posted. It's so helpful to hear from others who have gone through this and from those who are going through it now.

Hi Ladies

I've been reading these recent posts.

Opt

I agree with Ruth. I would go with the MO. If I had a high onco score, I would have definitely done chemo. Don't want regrets later. If I'm not mistaken, are you back at work?

Ruth

Thanks for sharing info about giving blood. Our church has blood drives, and my daughter's Girl Scout troop always helps assist. Well, I was sure I couldn't give blood due to cancer history. I read your info, checked with my best friend who's a nurse, and confirmed I can give blood. Yayyyyyy👍👍👍😢

Nas


You're right about kale. I love it. You seem well. How are you feeling?

Hi Marla

Welcome. These threads are great, and you have a wonderful support system. Post anything you want. Vent anytime. We're here for you.