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On a diet Hah-----going to have a bacon mayo on BREAD sandwich-----------------------1_37 am, a command decision with milk
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Lovely patio Mags. I spot a lovely rocking chair there too.
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Sas: not quite a buzz in the military sense, but yes--very short...and the length I usually wear it for a few years now. (Last summer, I was taking a class with a veteran; (navy) when I cropped it to 3/4" for the summer, he just murmured "I gotta get a haircut." At that point, my hair was shorter than his.)
Mags: you need more rocking chairs.
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Queenie, see the stack over on the right? One more rocking chair, a small table, and 2 chaises. A little heavy for me to handle right now, and most days still chilly of a morning. But soon DC and I will be rocking with our coffee and sweet rolls. It will be lovely.
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Mags: perfect. I'll bring snacks. (It's a bit chilly for me too. Even the birds' cheeps sound like their beaks are chattering.)
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Queenie, was it for divertic? I reread what I wrote on it on the constipation thread on page one. At the time I wrote it, one of the gals here on another thread waited to long and she ended up with a colostomy. My goal was to give folks a tool when they were in trouble. I may revise it some, but it's got some nitty gritty good stuff.
The doc din't admit Junie. Pisses me off. She is @ #2 for sure, maybe heading towards #3. The key difference is a temperature. That's a real game changer. That means there is a leak. The doc never laid a hand on her abdomen. That is very important with divertic. The hotter the abdomen the more palpation hurts. If the palpation pain is pretty localaized thats way different than pain in a wide area. It's a clinical finding versus an imaging thing. Imaging is not the absolute story.. The doc apparently doesn't know that. PLus, he never gave her any diet instructions i.e clear liquids., is minimum at this point. Better to be in the hospital on IV's with IV meds and NPO-nothing by mouth. But clear liquids are better than nothing. Apparently, the doc doesn't know this either.
Sounds fun with the hair. Daring. Not everyone can wear short short hair. Very funny story about the veteran. -
Sas: Too bad about Junie! I'd be pissed off on her behalf too.
But no, my hospital admission this time was for "fever of unknown origin", though almost certainly related to an infection/cellulitis on my leg. (Still have a blotch circling my ankle.) When the veteran had his head straight, he was funny like that; he was as noisily outgoing as I am introverted, and at one point, I thought I heard him coming up behind me....pause, and silence, then in a stage whisper "Shhh! She's very quiet!" and then he tiptoed past, finger to his lips.
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Queenie, kinda, pretty weird? OR funny?
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Where is Loverly and Shep?
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Both: funny ha-ha and funny skewed from the norm.
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Ms. Sas~ We are behind the curtains playing hide and seek again.
Junie, hope you got your laundry done....just in case. Actually the best place for you to be is you know where.....where they can keep an eye on you. Hope your doctor agrees. I am so sorry for all the trials you have been through. Gosh!
Mags, your story warms my heart. You and your son look like siblings. Oh and the patio looks like it would be a nice place to draw or paint
Feline, what is the name of the supplement you are taking for memory? Of course I forgot to write the name down.
BBL
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Not sure how long this will be. It will be complete so I can transfer it to pain and other things. I will be typing and saving. Dislike things going to the computer netherworld. The point of the post is to allow someone in a same or similar circumstance to know what they do presented with a new circumstance. Knowing what and how to do something, can make a huge difference in outcome. Remember from and earlier post when I said in the decision making process, when you reach the point that you say I don't know and the situation isn't in control, give it to a higher authority.
Mags had a cardiac event today. She called me versus EMS. Was that wrong? No, in this circumstance. Different circumstance calling EMS may/would have been appropriate. She had three occurrences of anginal type pain, plus, a day that had some fast heart rates determined by telemetry, but asymptomatic. My teaching and intervention with the hospital staff, actually , got them on the right tract. I was involved with the second event and tried to get the staff to work it according to Advanced Cardiac Life Support standards. They last hospital event they worked ACLS protocol to a tee. The positive out of the three hospital experiences she could see how management was different. Management is everything.
So, today she has an occurrence of chest pain, left arm radiation into TMJ and cheek. Absolutely, 100 % cardiac. No question. But she had no associated complaints. The associated complaints can tell you lot's regarding severity of occurrence.
We ran the ACLS protocol for nitroglycerin. I think I will leave the how to do that as a second post box. Reason is it's not to defer from this learning experience today.PLUS, new onset chest pain, meaning never experienced before, must be treated as a critical emergency until proven otherwise.
How Mags differed today was she had 3 previous events, with a dx that was/is known to be a causative factor. The Vasculitis. Vasculitis is inflammation of the vessels. Can be large or the worst is small vessel. But large vessel still can change flow to smaller vessels. It's a bugger. Add to that manipulation of steroids. Weaning off the vasculitis dose, then being given a chemo dose of dexamethasone yesterday. Did that influence today. Dunno. The body does not like manipulation back and forth with steroids.
Going to stay here for a couple/ few sentences. As chemo patients, we have oodles of docs. They learn the basics, then they specialize. They keep the basic knowledge, but even it can fade in memory. Consideration of drugs only used in a speciality, where a doc is using it for a specific purpose, needs to be evaluated by the specialists involved with it's absolute manipulation. In Mag's case that would be the Rheumatologist.
Patient case example, DH Greg was told to cut Zoloft b/c he had side effects. No SSRI subsitute, and no weaning instructions. The MO's schtick (training) didn't prepare him to, or he forgot weaning was necessary. DH fought my weaning guidelines b/c his doc said he could "quit it". He ended up with loss of all neuro feeling to muscle and skin. Testing showed he might regain muscle sense again, but skin sensitivity was permanently lost. Docs that work outside their sphere can cause harm. All drugs have consequences.
The positive about today's experience for Mags is she completely followed directions.
1. Had it been a first time experience, it would have been call EMS
2. Followed ACLS protocol with a return of chest pain after 20 minutes of pain we activated EMS
3. Error on dispatchers part when Mags told them she had already taken Aspirin. They directed her to take another one. Little bit to that one, but for intents and purposes of general communication that''s best to leave that..
4. EMS responded did every thing right according to ACLS protocol.
5. Hospital did everything according to ACLS protocol. EKG normal and first hour Troponins Normal. Troponins are and enzyme produce only in a cardiac heart attack event. YAY she was normal. She was slightly abnormal after the hospital event when the staff did't "concur it was cardiac in origin" . etc.
The key to today's events were she had a clue. She trusted me to guide her. But there could have been no answer at this end. Now, Mags has a clear outline of what to do and she is a very quick learner. She never forget's what is said. This post is to offer the learning of an acute event.
The error of the entire event which is called "Post event analysis" I asked this "You are on 81 mg Aspirin and did you take that dose" She said "Yes" Post analysis there were two questions there. 81 mg of Aspirin and did you take it. The key was is most people asked a double question will answer the last question. Why is this important? I asked a double question. She was on a 325mg aspirin. On the double question, I thought she was on 81 I instructed her to do a half 325mg, The dispatcher told her to. take and chew another aspirin........Even though Mags told her what had been taken.
This particular situation is IF it were Heart clot, the amount of aspirin would have impacted treatment, IF the event would have indicated a Cardiac Cath with action like a stent, the total days dose of aspirin would have been a big problem. Remember I keep saying, all drugs have consequenses (sic)and more is not better.
Two key questions I left with Mags were
1.Absolute directions about aspirin in future events, since she is on daily anticoagulant therapy with aspirin
2. H
UGH, I got two phone calls and made a couple. Forgot what number two is. Oh well, shucks
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Lover they are called Clear Brain and the company that makes them is called New Nordic
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Thank you, Feline
Queenie, when is jury duty? I am on standby the second week of May.
Mags, it our turn to visit the ER. It is 2:40 am and I am sitting here in the waiting room to find out what is going on with DD1. She came home from her swim meet, had dinner, and then threw up about 45 minutes later. Had chills/fever and severe stomach pain. Started to panic and hyperventilate and about 15 minutes later complained of severe muscle spasm in her legs. Both hands and feet curled in. Then it was my turn to panic as I haven’t seen her like that before. She is getting IV fluid at the moment and just texted DH2 (who wanted to come along with us to the ER) she is feeling a bit better.
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I'm still hiding......but I gots a little tired.
Miss Priss is on look out though.....
Loverly, I think DD1 needs some curtain time naps. She needs some rest, poor girl. We'll take turns sliding her popsicles and fruit smoothies under the drapes to keep her hydrated 🍹 🍧
Lotsa curtain space for anyone who wants to join us!
Junie and Mags gentle hugs and healing thoughts. And some more hugs.
Sas saves ass! Mmm.... Sas the hero is more politer but it ain't as catchy
Feline - Love, love Little Elliot. He likes the cursor on the computer? YouTube has games for cats and videos for cats. Pris loves 'em. She highly enjoys really, really gory and violent stuff on the telly. Sometimes she worries me.....
I injured my already messed up right leg 2 weeks ago when I had to kick 50lb Ellie off of me as she was charging. I KNOW better!!!!! Nothin broken (yet) but X Rays this past Monday show a decent section of "moth eaten" bone in my femur. I go next Thursday to the Ortho Onc too see if it needs to be shored up with steel accessories. So for now I've been trying to stay put and have been sleeping a lot. Miss Pris is overjoyed and is only biting me a little as she snuggies me in bed.
Miss Blue! Where are you? Keeping you close in thought n' prayer Dear Skunkstress 💗
Sensi, Peppy, Eeyore, Patty - sending hugs and happy thoughts to you 😊
Love to All Our Owlie Sisters 🦉💞
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Sas: thank you for talking Mags through that.
Lover: I'll be on call for jury duty starting June 4th.
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Lover, saying prayers for DD1 and the rest of the family.
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Lover I do hope poor DD1 is much better by now and that the medical people have been able to find a reason for what happened to her.
Shep love the thought of Priss playing Call of Duty, Halo etc
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Lover
Oh no, sorry about your daughter. Is this the youngest? When it comes to our kids, we worry, and would give our life for them. Please keep us posted about her.🙏🙏🙏 -
Sas
Thanks you so much for being the best communicater, and letting us know about Mags. Although I'm still a newbie, I feel included, and part of this family. Hope I'm making sense.
Ditto on all meds having consequences. Gone through much crap with that. By the way, what's the latest update on Mags? -
Shep
What a priss Miss Priss is. That's a cute, cute pic. Do you have any other cats, or pets? -
Ladies
Help!!!!! I mistakenly took my daughter, and her best friend to the humane society. My 15 year old, and only daughter said " Oh, I promise mom, I just want to see the kittens.
Now, we have two adult cats. Mary is obese at 23 pounds, and very sweet. She is very drawn to Reece. Nicole, the crazy cat loves me. Reece has been asking for another cat for awhile. I put my foot down and said NO WAY!!!!!🙄🙄🙄🙄. Now, we live in a two bedroom, two bath apartment. I just feel two cats is enough.
Well, at the humane society, there were several adorable kittens. To my surprise, quite a few were adopted today. Busy weekend. Well, we fell in love with a 12 week old gray male tabby. I told my daughter I have to think about it. Two cats, I feel are enough. We all know introducing a new pet to another in the home can be challenging. I told Reece I would give her an answer tomorrow. The kitty is neutered. Of course, if we get him, kitten food, his own bowl. For awhile, his own litter box. Sighhhhh.
I told daughter she would have to pay for the adoption, supplies, and the first check up. Also, we would need to have him declawed, but not at first. Lord, I just don't know. I had no intention of another cat. Daughter knew what she was doing. So, got to think long,hard, and fast.
Oh, while we were there, the volunteer introduced us to a beautiful 2 year old black cat. This cat was abused, and burned in several places. Who could be sooo evil???? We held, and petted her. She was so receptive. I wanted her. I had to leave quickly, and told daughter, and friend to speed it up. I got in the car, and cried.
I just wonder, how much abuse is there to animals?😥😥😥. Sorry to go on and on, I probably should be on the cat forum. It's just sad we can't save all animals. I can't stop thinking about the burned black cat. I would like to take her. Decisions🤔 -
METEOR SHOWERS ALERT!
I just added a cool app to my calendar that lists all the spacey stuff coming up .
Lyrids Sat. and Sun. ... there's a great link below with other events and interesting facts too! Sassy, I even get updates on NASA launches, lol!
Starting in the evening of April 22 through the next day's dawn, you might be able to catch a glimpse of the Lyrids meteor shower. Learn more about the major meteor showers and how to watch them here: http://nyti.ms/2A76t26
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Jaymeb, I volunteer at an animal shelter. Animal abuse happens but is not prevalent, thank goodness. I love to see the kitties get adopted and go off for a happy life. Unless the 23lb cat is a Maine Coon, she should lose some of that very slowly. We've had some that big who have successfully lost weight over a year or so. They can't lose quickly because they might develop fatty liver. I have an owned cat (former foster) and a foster at home now. Someone will probably feel the same as you and take the burned kitty home. I don't know the rules where you live, but Seattle has a limit of 3 pets, not counting rodents and caged animals.
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LOverly, oh scary. Hope all is well?????
Queenie, is that an old thing or new thing on the ankle? I've got a treatment protocol if it's a new thing. Based on new research published in 2009. It was a game changer for skin. Found it when I had a skin infection that year. Now it's standard treatment.
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Oh Jay, so sorry, about the burned kitty. You will make a decision best for you. My only abuse of poor Dini ,is ME falling over him. He understands that it is bad, and comes to see how I am. Other than that he is so happy now. He went through a tough life. I was really afraid of him when he moved in, but it all worked out. He is the typical black lab. He's hard to see in certain rooms even with the light on.
Shep you are so sweet. Thanks. Oh so sorry about the leg. I know you told me, but it sounds so much worse in print. GRHHH towars FFH. You've gone through so much with this gigantor pup.
Blue WHOOOohoohhhhhhhhhhhhhhoooo
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Jaymeb: so stay away from the kitty adoption centers. And keep susceptible tweens away too. Duh. (I've been saved because I've homed kitties who are totally sptah FFFTH HSSSSH sptah FFT about intruders.)
Sas: my ankle blotch is a result of the Fever Of Unknown Origin I had last fall, which resulted in a blister not too much smaller than my [expletive] mouse on my ankle. That combined with being firmly in the melanin-challenged genetic category--any scars and blotches will be clearly visible.
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Queenie -
Wasn't it just last year you got called for jury duty? You must look competent or somethin' for them to call you back so soon? I know there was talk of wild and garishly colored hair that time. Must not have worked. (sigh) Unfortunately now-a-days the older we are, the more adorable folks think we are when we frak up our hair. 'Tis pitiful times to remain a Young Suburban Punk. "I blame society! Society made me what I am!" *** Anyone who gets that reference will instantly become my bestie for life . 😎
If you don't want to get picked to sit on a jury .......
~ Loverly you listen up too!.......
Walk in looking all disheveled and frazzled. Carry a clear wide mouth bottle/jar (no label) partially filled with apple juice. As you approach the sign in area, hold your jar high in the air while sloshing the contents about and very loudly yell "Hey! who do I give this to for the p*ss test?" Tell the people around you in a loud "whisper" you brought it from home 'cuz you want to pass this time.
If that doesn't work and you end having to wait to go into courtroom for the lawyers to decide who they want on the jury try these phrases as you are being seated - loud fake whisper again:
"Hey! I'll be darned if this room doesn't look different from this side!"
"I just KNOW that son-of-a-biscuit is guilty. I'm gonna vote to fry his butt!"
"If you look over there where that table is with the Defendant sign on it you can still see where Daddy carved his initials with the edge of them handcuffs he wore!"
Gesture proudly to one of the officers in the room " That man is nicest cop ever! He ALWAYS lets me sit up front in the cop car when he picks me up!"
I can think up some more lines if ya'll need 'em. Always happy to share my wisdom 📚🧐
Queenie, about the infection/sepsis/cellulitis that is still leaving a mark on your skin.... The Infectious disease doc that took care of mine had me put Neosporin on it until it faded away. My MO had argued the other doc was nuts. Nope - it worked! It took a little over a month but the blotches I had faded away for good. I had those dang things for almost a year, geesh!
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telling you Queenie this is the look you want at the same time as doing all the above
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Or just say you're a therapist. Neither side trusts a therapist. Prosecutors are worried you'll bring up their terrible childhood and defenders are afraid you'll diagnose and say there's no hope of rehabilitation. Or if it's DUI say you're in recovery. Dismissed every time!
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