1cm found..biopsy on Monday..freaking

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Nurselola1973
Nurselola1973 Member Posts: 21
edited April 2018 in Not Diagnosed But Worried

44 years old. Had diagnostic ammogram and ultrasound yesterday. Radiologist was honest with me since I am a registered nurse and work for the hospital. He only does breasts so I feel confident in what he told me..

I have a 1cm mass to Right breast, he scanned lymph nodes and they were clear. He is 75% sure it is not benign but insisted that it's very small and I am going to be just fine, no chemo or anything like that. Very early and I will be fine.

I am trying to stay positive and he told me that even though it's so small we need to biopsy then MRI and breast surgery. I want it gone!

Feeling overwhelmed. No family history.

Should I believe him when he insists I'm gna be ok. He said I'm lucky I came in for the mammogram cuz I skipped two years.

Thanks

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  • Ingerp
    Ingerp Member Posts: 2,624
    edited April 2018

    There are many early stage, very treatable BCs. Probability is that it’s something like that. Try not to worry until you have a dx. (FWIW—my DCIS two years ago was found when I was 18 months late for my mammo. I do not think it would have changed the dx; most likely it just would have been a smaller area.)

  • Nurselola1973
    Nurselola1973 Member Posts: 21
    edited April 2018

    I hope so! I can’t stop thinking the worst

  • Suburbs
    Suburbs Member Posts: 429
    edited April 2018

    Nurselola1973, hard to do but easy to say not to freak out. The pathology from the biopsy will produce the data you need to get a treatment plan in place if you need it. And an MRI will hopefully clarify things and determine if you need surgery.

    Your radiologist sounds like a pro and you were probably well served by that individual especially if you have dense breasts which are notorious for being difficult to image.

    Should you need treatment, you can find message boards here for people starting chemo and surgery which provide tips and support. There are boards devoted to various stages and diagnoses. I hope you won't need them but there are many communities here and they provide a life line especially during the early days which can be fraught with anxiety. They will be here if you need them. Here's to hoping you will not. All the best

  • chronicpain
    chronicpain Member Posts: 385
    edited April 2018

    Maybe you will be just fine, odds are good for that if you have early stage and low grade disease. But you are an RN so you may have already googled and read that if there is a BC, size alone does not predict grade or prognosis. So even though the odds are with you, sorry to say that you know deep down you cannot believe him until you have the biopsy. If things are bad, consider calling your primary care team this weekend or going into urgent care for a short term sedative, as you will have a few more days of suspense waiting for results.

    I was three years late on my mammo due to severe chest wall pain with mammos and dense breasts requiring extra vigilance, pain to the point of getting dizzy and almost passing out so we had not gotten complete views the last round. Then I got my low grade BCA dx, and after initial freaking out like you worry about, especially because I did not need another major medical problem, the BS said she thought my lesion had been growing at a snail’s pace for years and it is unclear even if I had timely done my mammo it would have mattered on my px

    Hope for the best, odds are with you, and we are here for you!




  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited April 2018

    Nurselola1973, we are hoping for all the best for you, and sorry that you had to join our community.

    The waiting is truly the worst. We're all here for you.


  • dtad
    dtad Member Posts: 2,323
    edited April 2018

    Nurselola1973....Hi I'm also a RN and IMO it does make this process a little more difficult. To start try to remember they have to prove you have BC before you do! Hang on to that 25 percent. However if it turns out that you do we are all here for you. Good luck and please keep us posted.

  • Sjacobs146
    Sjacobs146 Member Posts: 770
    edited April 2018

    Nurselola, you're gonna be okay. I'm 3 years post treatment and I am doing fine. Different than I was before diagnosis, but still good. Hopefully the biopsy will turn out benign, but if it doesn't, this will likely be a small bump in the road for you. Keeping my fingers crossed for b9 results

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