Please Help! Radiologist is so blasé? Maybe it’s me.

I could use some advice here, or maybe I just need to vent. I had a breast MRI just over two weeks ago. I have several areas of enhancement on the left he wants to keep an eye on (mri/US every 6 months), and two of which lit up hyperintensly on T2. I also have three LN, same side as enhancement, which were 2.0/2.2cm on mri for many weeks, possibly months, without change, but a bit larger on US. They wanted me to come back for a non contrast MRI for suspected implant ruptures due to severe pain I have on the right and the nodal involvement, and the keyhole sign (implant rupture sign) on the left as well as a palpable lump that no one can find on any imaging. I felt it, husband felt it, and dr felt it. Machines can’t find it.

I had another breast MRI and US today. Today, my 3 nodes were too big to even pick up the whole area on MRI as they were partially out of field it said, I have not been sick and no injury. US measured them at 3.2cm minimum but she couldn’t find the posterior edge of them there is so much distortion, which makes sense since I can now feel them and feel like I have huge grapes in my armpit and they are now tender. Can LN grow by 50% + in two weeks? New MRI Did not show extracapsular rupture but only intracapsular on left. No reason shown for pain on the right but RD said probably contracture. Incidental to the breast issues they found a hyperintense punctate lesion on my sternum measuring 3mm that was not there 18 months ago during a chest X-ray. They initially said it was a bone island, then today, said they misread the last report, and now think it’s a hemangioma, which is extremely rare on the sternum. In fact, there is barely any literature or case facts on this says pubmed. The info they do have isn’t very positive as most of these require surgery if that’s what they are. Most sternum lesions are malignant is what scares me. I have had mild to severe sternum pain for about 6 weeks, and yet, this is only 3mm. My regular dr is not convinced this is just some b9 thing with my symptoms and ordered a chest X-ray with focus on the sternum. I’m frustrated because the RD, even knowing my history with cervical cancer, ADH, these several enhancements, dense breasts, nodes, chest pain, and breast pain, has nothing to say about this lesion and says it means nothing and says he’s sure everything is b9. It just feels like it’s all too much to not be related. I guess I just need to vent cause I feel like I’m getting the run around. If someone could just let me know what they think if they have any experience with this. It feels like there is so much going on!