Recently diagnosed with IBC
Late February 2018, I noticed under my right arm, my lymph nodes seemed swollen. I immediately contacted my GYN. After examining my breasts, my GYN could not find a lump but, noticed my right breast was a bit larger than my left. To be safe, my GYN ordered a ultrasound. The ultrasound displayed my lymph nodes under my right arm were enlarged; mammogram completed same day displayed the same. From there I had various tests; Chest CT scan, 2 needle biopsies, ultrasounds, mammograms and a punch biopsy. The diagnosis was IBC. I was devastated. How could this be? I have 3-day mammograms faithfully each year!
Next step breast surgeon and oncologist. PET Scan ordered and completed. Scan displayed a small spot about the size of a pea on my spine in the neck area. However, my Oncologist stated to be sure IF this was cancer, they could do another biopsy. I elected not have another biopsy. The final diagnosis was Stage IV breast cancer. Again, another devastating diagnosis. Within 4 weeks timeframe, from the beginning of the original pain, I had a final diagnosis.
Received my first Chemo treatment last week. My treatment plan, 5 months of chemo; surgery and 6 weeks of radiation.
I am a strong person but, this has totally turned my world upside down. I am 56 years old, a wife, mother of 3 daughters and 7 grandchildren. I am determined to fight this. My family, friends and employer have been absolutely awesome with support!. I would really love to hear of others who have gone through or are going through this same type of cancer. At times, it is hard trying to keep positive.
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I am so sorry for your diagnosis. I imagine it would be devastating. You may want to look at joining the IBC and Stage IV forums here at BC.org. There is a wealth of support on both forums. This is the Not Diagnosed forum, so many of the posters here will not share your experience.
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That's a bummer nan09. At least your medical team is on the case quickly, and you are getting neoadjuvant treatment, which is best practice. There's a group here that has been there, done IBC and you are welcome to join us here:
https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/81/topics...
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Thank you for the information! I will look into joining!
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