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  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited March 2018

    Thanks keepthefaith. Happy Easter! It’s going to be ccccccooold here.

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  • Lucy55
    Lucy55 Member Posts: 3,044
    edited March 2018

    Farmerlucy ..yay !!.what a great outlook ..I will think of "that old duck 🦆" I see when I look in the mirror differently now ... 🙂

    Kerpthefaith..Your Mum.sounds great ..I love how your son calls her Bionic Grandma 🤗

    We are having a combined Easter Celebration /Hubby's 60th birthday party at a restaurant today ...with family and friends joining us ..Hubby's not too happy about turning 60 ..I thought he wouldn't care ...but it's been playing on his mind the last couple of weeks 😲...


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  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited March 2018

    Those “0” birthdays are hard. Hope you have a wonderful time!

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2018

    My grandson is here!!!! He was born last night at 11:15 pm after 26 hours of labor!! I talked to her yesterday morning and she said she had been having pains since 9:30 the night before. I asked her why she wasn't at the hospital!! She thought it was false labor because the pains weren't consistent. I told her to call the doctor and at least ask him. So she did and he had her come in to be checked. Well, he sent her straight to the hospital!! He said she had been in labor for 12 hours!! I got to witness his birth!! A first for me because my children were adopted!! Very special!! In the room with her was her husband, her sister, me and her birthmom. He weighed 8 lbs 5 oz and was 21 inches!! He's a big boy!!! Missed my birthday by 24 hours and 45 minutes!! I kept asking her if she could hold off!! Lol

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  • Tappermom383
    Tappermom383 Member Posts: 643
    edited April 2018

    Congratulations, Oceanbum! My grandson will be 2 on April 19 - there is absolutely nothing like it! Watching them transform in tiny humans is just incredible.

    Enjoy every minute!

    MJ

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  • Lucy55
    Lucy55 Member Posts: 3,044
    edited April 2018

    Becky ...Congradulations !!! 🙂 Gosh... he is a big baby , and especially seeing he arrived early ! My 2 daughters and DIL all had C -Sections , but I was at the birth of my last grandson and actually cut his cord ..which was so exciting...His Dad had fainted ( he can't stand blood ) during her previous 2 deliveries so I went in his place !!!!!

    Oh.. how "inconsiderate " of your daughter not to hold off another 24 hours and 45 minutes 😋🤗💖

    Tappermom ..yes !!! Watching baby's grow and seeing their personalities develop is wonderful !!!!!


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  • keepthefaith
    keepthefaith Member Posts: 2,156
    edited April 2018

    Becky, congratulations on your new Grandson! How exciting! Grandchildren are the absolute BEST!!! They can lift your spirits like nothing else. I am lucky enough to have 6 and they all live close enough to visit often. Post some pics when you can:)

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited April 2018

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited April 2018

    Congratulations Becky........you must be on cloud nine......😁

    Thank God everybody's okay.

    Hugs 💜

    Sheila

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  • kathindc
    kathindc Member Posts: 2,042
    edited April 2018

    Congratulations Oceanbum! Nothing like new baby smell.

    Yay, we have made it to page 500.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2018

    Thank you everybody!!! It's such an exciting time!!! My daughter is being discharged today. Little Scotty is in NICU. They are monitoring his O2 and glucose. He has to stay a while longer. Could be a couple of days, maybe longer. It's going to hard for my daughter to leave the hospital without him. But he will be in the best of care.

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  • EastcoastTS
    EastcoastTS Member Posts: 864
    edited April 2018

    Congrats on the new baby!!!

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  • CeliaC
    CeliaC Member Posts: 1,320
    edited April 2018

    Congrats, Oceanbum! Interesting that you are in Ohio, with a "name" like Oceanbum - there must be a story to tell? I am a NE Ohio native, moved across the pond to the UK (London) & then landed in greater Cinci area.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2018

    Hi Celia! Thanks!! You caught me!! No oceans in southern Ohio!! Lol No real story. I am a beachbum once a year for a week on vacation. Would love to live there someday!! The reason for oceanbum instead of beachbum is because as far as user names go beachbum is always taken and oceanbum is usually available!! I've been using it for years for that reason!! Lol

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  • Pjh148
    Pjh148 Member Posts: 1
    edited April 2018

    Diagosed with IDC, left breast, a week ago, less than 1 cm, only picked up on MRI—this is my 1st post lumpectomy screening. Lumpectomy was 25 October for atypical hyperplasia (precancerous)—we were surprised to find IDC as this area never showed on ultrasound or mammogram.

    Meet with surgeon, oncologist and radiology oncologist next week, trying to wrap my head around this and make the best decision

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  • bluepearl
    bluepearl Member Posts: 961
    edited April 2018

    Pjh148: so sorry you find yourself here but being here when we have b.c. is really a blessing. Glad your lump is really tiny. Hopefully, the nature of this tumour will be easy to treat. (((HUGS))))

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  • keepthefaith
    keepthefaith Member Posts: 2,156
    edited April 2018

    Pjh148, As hard as it is, it is good that you went to your follow ups and got your DX early. It will be a whirlwind for a few weeks, but hang in there. There are many here that will help you along the way. You are not alone! Best wishes moving forward.

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  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited April 2018

    Pjh- So sorry for the dx. I had atypia first and then IDC was found later. So glad you had the MRI. I know it is all so shocking right now. It’s not always going to be like this. Take things step by step. We’re here for you.

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  • CeliaC
    CeliaC Member Posts: 1,320
    edited April 2018

    Pjh - Hopefully the lovely cat in your "photo" will be giving you some gentle, loving therapy as you make your way through the maze. PS- There are lots of BC sisters on the Topic: Cats, cats, cats.

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited April 2018

    We made it......

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  • kathindc
    kathindc Member Posts: 2,042
    edited April 2018

    👍👏👏👏

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  • chronicpain
    chronicpain Member Posts: 385
    edited April 2018

    Welcome, pjh! We are here to help, and your fuzzy Maine coon cat companion is too (apologies if your kitty is no longer around). They are the sweetest cats who seemed to know when I was upset.

    We are all happy we are Stage 1 and not something worse, though no BC at all would be better.

    It can seem overwhelming at first, but once you know your plan of care options, you will feel more in control.

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited April 2018

    Welcome to our sisterhood pjh.....

    We're here to listen I'm sorry about your unexpected diagnosis once the treatment plan is in order for some how you start feeling little better.

    Hugs

    Sheila 💜💜

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited April 2018

    We made it ........

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  • Lucy55
    Lucy55 Member Posts: 3,044
    edited April 2018

    PPjh...Sorry you are going through this ..We all know exactly how you are feeling ..come and chat any time !! ...I was first diagnosed with DCIS ...and was also upset to discover that pathology after mascetomy found IDC as well ..which hadn't shown on mammogram or ultrasound either ..Try and live one day at a time , and be gentle on yourself ...Know that you will get through this , and back into living again .Time is a great healer ..





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  • Lucy55
    Lucy55 Member Posts: 3,044
    edited April 2018

    Sheila..Wow !!!! That's a LOT of posts 🤗



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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2018

    15,000 posts and then it just stopped!! So I'm giving it a bump to get it started again!!

    How's everybody doing? Just checking in.

    I had my last surgery (fat-grafting) April 20th. I finished up my 12 cycles of Herceptin May 25th. Life has returned to the new normal. I am back to work full-time. I still get very tired by the end of the day. And I found this weekend that I am not up to walking and climbing stairs at a football stadium like I used to be. By the time I got to my seat I felt like I was going to pass out!! I definitely need to do some training for next year!!

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  • Lucy55
    Lucy55 Member Posts: 3,044
    edited November 2018

    Ocean ...yeah ..it's a good thread ..it would be great to get it going again. Glad to hear your through your treatments ..and it definitely takes a while to get back to normal .. emotionally and physically ..


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  • Salamandra
    Salamandra Member Posts: 1,444
    edited November 2018

    I just got diagnosed maybe six weeks ago now. I already had my lumpectomy, waiting to hear whether radiation or chemo is next.

    I love that the 5 year survival rates are so high for stage 1. But I can't help but look at the 15 year survival rates, and they're not so high. And I can't find anything about 20+. I haven't met my medical or radiation oncologist yet. I feel like the information is very clear that radiation reduces the rate of recurrence in the same location, but it's not so obvious to me how much it actually improves mortality/extends life.

    I was so freaked out at first I went along with everything the surgeon said. But now I've had time to read and think more. It's so hard to wrap my mind around.

    I'm trying to work through this time to conserve my paid sick leave for chemo/radiation, but my focus has been terrible.

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  • GreenHarbor
    GreenHarbor Member Posts: 265
    edited November 2018

    Salamandra, I totally relate to your thoughts about the long term survival rates. It’s one of the little voices in my head in the middle of the night.

    I finished my radiation treatment a week ago. Skin’s a little itchy, but not too bad. I’m really noticing the fatigue, especially in the afternoons. I’m still try to figure out my new normal (I don’t like that phrase; none of this is normal!). It’s great to connect with you all

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