My Mom: Invasive Lobular Carcinoma with Bone Mets
Hello Everyone, I'm Melissa and I am about to go on this journey with my Mom (67). I am now teaching her how to use the internet in hopes that she can join you all. My mom is a heart patient and has been diagnosed with Metastatic Breast Cancer (Stage 4 Advanced Breast Cancer) two days ago. Invasive Lobular Carcinoma. Her breast cancer has traveled to her Bones and no where else at this time. We started all the tests back in November, Breast biopsy, breast mri, Full CT Scan, Nuclear bone scan, bone biopsy.
I have been up for the last 24hours trying to understand everything in hopes of helping her during her appointment tomorrow with the oncologist to discuss her treatment plan. Here is what I know please let me know if I am understanding this correctly…my head is spinning
KI167 Score of 10%: this is how fast they grow and divide. So she is borderline between low and intermediate
Nuclear Grade 2 this is based on how much the cancer cells look like normal cells. It's not the least aggressive but not the most it's in the middle.
Pathology tells us that the cancer cells in her breast and bones are the same both Invasive Lobular Carcinoma ER+ PR+ HER2 -. So this means that when the cancer cells in the breast broke away they traveled through the blood or lymphatic system and decided to take up residency in her bones. So at this time it appears that the cells are the same and maybe easier to treat systemically since they haven't changed at this time.
What's going on with her bones.
Osteoblast is the cell that forms new bone and the Osteoclast is the cell that dissolves old bone. When working normal bones are strong.
Now what is happening is the cancer cells are releasing a substance that turns on these osteoblasts and new bone is being made without breaking down the old bone first so this is why we see sclerotic lesions on the CT Scan and nuclear bone scan. So these areas are hard and the bone structure is abnormal and could break easily.
The goal for mom's treatment is to
Shrink the cancer
Slow its growth
Relieve symptoms
Live longer.
During our visit we are going to discuss the treatment options. Does anyone have any recommended reading to help educate myself?
They have made mention that they may not put her through a mastectomy could this be because she is newly diagnosed and the same cells in the breast and bones could be treated systemically?
How do I find my mom a community to join locally and one for me as a caregiver?
My mom has a great attitude. She said to me Melissa I am not paying any attention to the statistics I'm going to take it day by day and put it in God's hands.
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Dear GoMom,
What a great daughter your mom has in you. You have already done a good deal of research to help yourself and your mom be the best experts and advocates you can be. While you are waiting for some responses here on the boards you may want to take a look at our main site's information on Metastatic Breast Cancer. It might help you to generate more questions for your appointment. You also may want to take a look at the Forum for Caregivers for those with stage 4 breast cancer so you can best support yourself.We might suggest that you print out this page that you composed and use it to generate your questions to the doctor. Be sure to let your mom speak to her personal goals for treatment and for her life going forward. Many suggest that it is always good to have a note taker at meetings where information is being shared. You might inquire though your mom's doctor and practice about local communities and support services. Keep us posted. The Mods
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Not Stage IV, but if you want to read about treatment options, you can email Bestbird for her guide to metastatic breast cancer.
Use the following link:
https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/8/topics/831507?page=3#idx_83
Best wishes to you and your Mom!
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Thank you Ladies so much for your kind words and guidance! The site is just filled with so much knowledge thanks for the links to caregivers! Best wishes
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Melissa, sorry to hear about your mother's diagnosis. She is blessed to have a caring, thoughtful, intelligent daughter as you in her corner.
Many women at stage iv do not get surgery. Your mom may be started with an anti estrogen medicine.
What kind of symptoms does she have that she is look for relief from?
An overall general book to read is AntiCancer by David-Servan-Schreiber
Also, you definitely want to get a copy of Bestbird's guide to metastatic breast cancer mentioned above. It provides possibly the most comprehensive and up to date information you can find on the subject.
On a personal note, I have some similarities with your mom. I was diagnosed in my early 50s, stage iv from the start, invasive lobular. It apparently spread via blood, I have no lymph node involvement, and I have metasteses to some bones. While I will mention that everyone responds to treatment differently, and each case of mbc has its own uniqueness, I want to offer you hope in saying that I was diagnosed in early 2011, had some big treatments the first year, remain on Arimidex and have been stable with no progression.
Best wishes to you as you help your mom, and best wishes to her, too.
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You are doing great, Melissa. To find in-person support groups, ask at your local hospitals. Many welcome people who are not being treated at that particular hospital. Also look at the nearest Cancer Support Community (link below).
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Thank you for sharing your personal story with us. It truly gave us hope and inspiration. I have sent of for bestbirds book and will continue to get mom more familiar with modern day technology.
My mom only has pain in her left shoulder and says when she cleans the house all day she gets tired. To which of course I said most women do after cleaning up after kids and husbands
That made her smile. Our appointment is at 1:00 today, I have invited her best friend who is also a MBC warrior with different met and she is strong 5 years.
Your message gave us all the courage we needed this morning thank you
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This is great! I added this to my list of questions for her appointment today and I am going to look into that link!
Thank you for taking the time to respond, it means so much.
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Well Ladies we just got back and we feel better. I wanted to let you know what her initial treatment plan is going to be.
No surgery, No chemo.
Mom will start on Femara (Letrozole) as her hormone therapy and next week we hope to have approval for Palbociclib (Ibrance)as her targeted therapy. I am praying she is approved as this drug seems very hopefuL.
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This sounds good. Thanks for letting us know.
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Good to hear. It can help calm some of the nerves to know there is a treatment plan in place. Best wishes!!!
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Dear GoMom-
Had my first mammogram at the end of December and after breast ultrasound, biopsy, Pet Scan, breast - head - spine MRIs, I've been diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer. Like your mom, my cancer cells are grade 2 and ER+ PR+ Her-. My onocoligist wants to do Ibrance with Femara hormone treatment. Have bone tumors in my skull and spine, plus 5 cm tumor in breast involving several nodes. Have a spine biopsy Monday to verify cancer cells are the same as in my breast. Sure could use a friend - would you like to keep in touch
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Hello Cloud Nine,
I am so sorry that you are about to embark on the same journey as my mom. I would love to keep in touch. Mom and I make viewing this community something we do together. I recently retired as a network engineer and we have been blessed to find an amazing oncologist who will answer all my questions. I told my mom that my goal was to be her advocate and somehow help others along the way as we try to find our new normal. Although some of this information may be familiar to you it's sometimes refreshing when your mind wonders to go back and actually read about it. We are learning so much about MBC together.
So here is our story in a nutshell
Mom has been diagnosed with Metastatic Breast Cancer or some call it Stage 4/Advanced Breast Cancer Invasive Lobular Carcinoma. Her breast cancer has traveled to her Bones. (Bone Met) Multiple sclerotic lesions on spine, pelvis, shoulder, rib cage.
-KI167 Score of 10%: this is how fast they grow and divide. So she is borderline between low and intermediate
-Nuclear Grade 2 this is based on how much the cancer cells look like normal cells. It's not the least aggressive but not the most it's in the middle.
Pathology tells us that the cancer cells in her breast and bones are the same both Invasive Lobular Carcinoma ER+ PR+ HER2 -. So this means that when the cancer cells in the breast broke away they traveled through the blood or lymphatic system and decided to take up residency in her bones. So at this time (following the bone biopsy) it appears that the cells are the same and maybe easier to treat systemically since they haven't changed at this time.
Mom says the bone biopsy wasn't bad. You arrive early to the appointment, they do blood work and then numb the spot. She didn't feel the procedure and as soon as they brought her back to recovery (35min) she ate and was released. She said the first three days she was a little sore but nothing that Tylenol couldn't resolve. The results took about a week and they confirmed that the the one lesion in the spine that they biopsied was Invasive Lobular Carcinoma ER+. This was good news because they can now take a systemic approach to her treatment. (full body approach).
What's going on with her bones. Osteoblast is the cell that forms new bone and the Osteoclast is the cell that dissolves old bone. When working normal bones are strong.Now what is happening is the cancer cells are releasing a substance that turns on these osteoblasts and new bone is being made without breaking down the old bone first so this is why we see sclerotic lesions on the CT Scan and nuclear bone scan. So these areas are hard and the bone structure is abnormal and could break easily.
The goal for mom's treatment is to Shrink the cancer, Slow its growth, Relieve symptoms and Live longer.
In order to shrink and slow the cancer growth, we had to identify what fuels it and starve it. No chemo No surgery
Mom's breast cancer is fueled by estrogen. To starve cancer, we must stop feeding it estrogen. Hormone Therapy does just this. Mom will take a pill each day called Femara. Mom has been on Femara for four weeks. No side effects. This Hormone therapy Femara works by stopping the production of certain hormones, in mom's case estrogen, blocking hormone receptors, or substituting chemically similar agents for the active hormone which cannot be used by the tumor cell. See Estrogen is produced in postmenopausal women in their glands and from their fat this is why diet and exercise can play a huge role.
Palbociclib (Ibrance). I almost fell off my chair when Dr. JF was telling us about it. Essentially it stops the cancers cells from dividing. Here is the verbage from our prescription "The drug blocks proteins in the cell called cyclin-dependent kinase (CDK) 4 and CDK 6. In hormone positive breast cancer cells, blocking these proteins helps stop the cells from dividing to make new cells. It helps prevent the cells from moving from G1 to S cell cycle phase in the division process. This slows cancer growth." This is another type of therapy called Targeted Therapy. She takes a pill daily, three weeks on one week off. This can come with some heavy side effects and she will need to be closely monitored but this is definitely a good combo. Mom is entering her second week on Ibrance and so far so good. We have learned that with Ibrance She has had some body ache and a little nausea. What has worked for her…? In the morning she eats either oatmeal, sprouted grain raisin bread toast and a banana 30 minutes before taking the pill. This has worked no nausea. Some days she has no body pain but for the days she does she takes 2 Tylenol and an Epsom salt bath in the evening. We go back to the oncologist on Feb 2nd to have blood work to see what is going on and how her body is responding.So what is our new normal, every two weeks we have a CBC, COMP Panel and tumor marking testing. Now Mom's numbers have doubled from the time she was diagnosed to Jan 15th. We return on Feb 2nd to see if this combination of medicine is working, are we looking at liver mets, or is this cancer just being pissed off and trying to fight back. Mom never had any pain or any indication that this cancer was in her body. Please remember that the pain you may feel could be a side effect and not the cancer spreading. The mind plays tricks on us especially when emotions run high.
Here are the blood work numbers that have doubled.
Alkaline Phosphates is one kind enzyme found in your body. Enzymes are proteins that help chemical reactions happen. For instance, they can break big molecules down into smaller parts, or they can help smaller molecules join together to form bigger structures. You have alkaline phosphatase throughout your body, including your in your liver, kidney, digestive system and bones. Her ALT and AST have also doubled. These are liver enzymes.
Now this is where we can't freak out or let our brains go to bad places. We know one month ago that the CT SCAN showed no Liver METS, we know from pathology that the cancer is slow growing. On the flip side cancer does not play by the rules, and each person is different. What we do know is that the combination of Femara and Ibrance is treating her whole body so no matter where these cells go the medicine has the opportunity to get them.
We believe this is in God's hands and each day we try to focus on that day only and enjoy it together. We will not let Cancer run our lives. This I believe has been the hardest thus far…finding a new normal. This community has been a blessing for my family and I will share our experiences with others in hopes that I can help others the way these ladies helped me when the initial shock of diagnosis was presented to our family.
I hope this has helped. Many Blessings to you
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Hi, GoMom!
Your mother is very fortunate to have your care and support. I was also diagnosed with de novo stage 4 ILC almost 3 years ago. I am writing to let you know that I have been on Ibrance and letrozole along with occasional Zometa (originally every 3 months, but after 6 doses on that schedule I now get it every 6 months) since my diagnosis (I am in the middle of cycle 35). In addition to very extensive bone mets, I have mets in my bone marrow, and for whatever reason I had significant neutropenia from Ibrance on both 125 mg and 100 mg doses-- so after a few months of not being able to complete cycles due to low WBC/ANC counts I dropped to 75 mg and have been doing exceptionally well at that dose (32 cycles at 75mg.) I complete every cycle, never have to delay starting the next one and despite having mildly low AND/WBC I have never been sick while on this treatment. I am around children and work in a hospital and haven't taken any unusual precautions except to be mildly diligent about handwashing.
I lead a basically normal life-- I work full time, travel, garden, etc. I do have general low-grade fatigue (I'm tired the end of the day, but able to do all of my activities all day long most days.) I have occasional days where I don't have any get-up-and-go, but that's only once or twice a month for a day or two. I have had significant hair thinning over the months, but it's not obviously noticeable to any one other than me and my hair dresser (I did have a lot of hair to start....). I have occasional mild odd rashes, and joint pain and muscle stiffness from the letrozole, but nothing severe. Please assure your mother that there are many patients who have had an excellent response from this usually-very-tolerable regimen. I hope that she does well on it also.
Ibrance has a time to response of 112 days on average, and initially there might be a rise in tumor markers as tumor flare happens (an influx of dead cells into the bloodstream as the medication take effect). Also keep in mind that tumor markers, like all blood tests, can fluctuate a bit just in response to the variations in your body chemistry, time of day, and minor lab test technique variability. Her alk phos levels can be a good indication of how her bone mets are responding-- if that level was elevated on diagnosis, it should fall and normalize as the treatment works.
There is an Ibrance thread on this site that you and she might find helpful, and another online support/information site called Inspire that might be helpful also.
Hugs to you and your mom.
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Melissa,
Thanks for taking the time to respond and share info on the spine biopsy. I work full time and was a bit concerned about any side effects. I did meet with a surgeon before the Pet Scan revealed my spinal tumor, and he told me because the primary tumor in my breast was butting up against my chest wall, he couldn't do surgery till it was shrunk. However, now that stage IV is diagnosed, we won't be doing surgery either. I asked my onocologist if not removing the primary tumor would cause the cancer to spread faster in my body while on hormone treatment. She said some studies had been done recently, but nothing conclusive. Has your onocologist mentioned anything about that
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Hello CloudNine,
When we spoke with our oncologist on this topic, he advised that taking a systemic (full body) approach to the cancer using hormone therapy and now Ibrance as the targeted therapy is less intrusive on my mom and would yield better results. Once stage 4 the goal is treat in hopes of partial remission for a period time versus cure. Although my mom has multiple sclerotic lesions and her the mass in her breast is approximately 5cm, they expect that this dual approach will shrink the mass and the lesions as the BC Cells in the breast are the same as in the bones. I would pose the question again to your Dr once the results from the spinal biopsy come back from pathology.
Sending best wishes/Melissa
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Hello Mica
Thank you Thank you Thank you for sharing your experience with this combination of drugs. I am so happy to read that this is working for you and that you are able to move forward as my mom says doing what she needs to do each day. It is a great relief to hear that the numbers do bounce around and that as her body adjusts to Ibrance the dosage could change and work out even better for her. So far we are on cycle 1 week 2 and all is good. I will most certainly check out the ibrance thread!
Thanks so much.Warm Wishes Melissa
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Hello Cloudnine
I sure hope your bone biospy went well. I just wanted you to know Mom and I were thinking about you.
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come and join us on the Bone Mets thread if you haven’t already found us -a wonderful group of kind and knowledgeable women; there is also an Ibrance thread that is fantastic. I can’t post links from where I’m at right now but if you search for then you can add them as favorite
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Hi GoMom - Biopsy did go well - so thankful for great doctors here. Results confirm the tumor on my spine was the same cancer cells as in my breast. Started Femara last week, going well so far. Only noticed headaches and some joint pain in my hips toward evening. Have insurance approval for Ibrance, but in a battle now to get the RX filled. None of the in network pharmacies can fill the prescription and I have to get my employer to add an out of network pharmacy so I start it soon. Another roadblock I didn't need - ugh! Hope your mom is doing well.
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AH This is great news CloudNine, glad it went well. Mom finished her 3weeks on with ibrance and she is on her off week. Her WBC has gone very low (2.3) so we are hoping that it comes back up. We see the Dr this Friday. She has been tired as of late. We are anxious to see how her body has responded to her first round of Ibrance.
Wishing you a stress free battle with pharmacy.
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Hello All,
I just wanted to pop in and share with you all my latest FB post on my mom
Hello all,
Today mom had her normal 2 week follow up after her second round of Ibrance. This round was at 100mg versus 125mg. In summary, her
quality of life was much better during this round, yes she was tired and had nose bleeds but this was when her blood counts were low which
occurs in week 3 of the 4 week round. ONC gave her second shot of Xegeva (for the bone met) and told her to begin round 3 of Ibrance.Well when mom was first diagnosed with ILC Breast Cancer and bone met, a CT Scan did not show any other cancer. During this time we did
see an elevation in her liver enzymes.
(AST) is an enzyme found in cells throughout the body but mostly in the heart and liver and, to a lesser extent, in the kidneys and muscles.
Normal Range is 10-35 at initial diagnosis she was at 100
(ALT) is an enzyme found mostly in the cells of the liver and kidney. Much smaller amounts of it are also found in the heart and muscles.
Normal range is 6-29 at initial diagnosis she was at 82.Her blood work two weeks ago shows that her
AST is now at 43 which is only 8 points above normal
ALT is now normal at 26What does this all mean, this means that those shit ass microscopic cancer cells where in her liver and with prayer and Ibrance
have been evicted! We will know the results of today's liver test next week and we are hoping that her liver counts stay normal.ONC wants to see her back in one month! We will then run blood work and schedule her scans to see what this cancer is doing.
We are feeling hopeful that partial remission may be in our sights. Although this can not be cured, with God's grace he is wrapping his
arms around her. My exact question to ONC "How is this possible" to which he responded prayer! I love that his knowledge and our faith
is keeping my mom enjoying each day. -
Glad to hear about the improvement in your mom's liver markers! Here's to hoping for a great scan to match in a couple of months!
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Thanks Piggy99 sure hope your doing well with Ibrance. I see you just started in February.
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