Just Diagnosed and pain in chest/neck area, worried

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jinkieland
jinkieland Member Posts: 3
edited January 2018 in Just Diagnosed



I was recently diagnosed with IDC stage 2 (last week) after the core needle biopsy on the left breast and left axillary. Unfortunately the IDC also detected on the axillary area.
I am waiting for my appointment to see the Medical Oncologist early next week. I have also schedule to see the Surgeon Oncologist late next week for second opinon at UT Southwestern in Dallas. Should I wait after getting more test results after the Surgeon Oncologist before I go for 2nd opinion for treatment options?
I am very nervous and scared now and I have not told anyone yet including my husband. My husband will get very panic easily and he will feel helpless if I am not around to take care of my two daughters age 8 and 10. I am thinking to wait until i see the oncologist to find out more details on the cancer stage and treatment plan then will let him know.
My left breast is so hard and the mass is so huge like a tennis ball. Sometimes I can feel warmness when I touch, like some infection is going on inside. I can also start feeling the pain from the middle and right part of my chest area. At first i thought i have strained myself but the pain has been there for few weeks and not going away. Last week i had a flu and the pain is almost intolerable whenever i coughed or sneezed. The pain is still there now and it feels sore when i press hard on it. I can't bend down to pick up anything or carry heavy thing as the pressure will make the area very hurt. I have to move and walk very slowly to avoid the pain.
Does anyone has this experience before? I am worried that the cancer has spread to my lung or chestbone area.. waiting is a long game and there probably more tests have to done on me before i can find out.

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  • Veeder14
    Veeder14 Member Posts: 880
    edited January 2018

    Hi jinkieland,

    I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis and understand how scary this is. I was diagnosed on 1/2/18 awaiting a surgeon referral this Thursday and new here and also scared. It's good your getting in to see the surgeon and medical oncologist next week. If it was me I would see those two specialists and then get a second opinion after if you feel you need it. You might want to figure out what 2nd opinion doctors you want to see since it probably takes time to actually get an appointment. I don't have the symptoms you do so can't comment except to say I hope you get some answers next week. Waiting and wondering is very difficult.

  • CindyNY
    CindyNY Member Posts: 1,022
    edited January 2018

    I understand how frightened you are, it goes along with a new diagnosis. I also didn't have your symptoms so I can't really comment on them either.

    I met with a surgeon 4 days after dx, on a Tuesday, and with 2nd opnion surgeon that Thursday, 2 days apart. If your insurance allows it, go ahead and call for 2nd opnion appointment.

    It's all very overwhelming at first. But once you choose your team, you'll get some answers and hopefully some peace of mind. Best of luck to you.

  • Rubytoos
    Rubytoos Member Posts: 85
    edited January 2018

    I had pain for over two years with my breast carcinoma and people tended to dismiss it. It was not as dramatic as yours, but it was there and I was aware of it most of the time. When I finally had a diagnosis and surgery to remove it, I woke up afterwards and thought, "what's different?" I realized my breast had stopped hurting--and this was right after a lumpectomy and a surgical biopsy of a second lesion that was only discovered the day before surgery. No one knows why my pain miraculously abated, but the radiologist speculated that my tumor may have impinged a nerve. This is doubtless a miserable experience for you--and most of us are told cancer doesn't hurt--but you will be seeing a specialist very soon and you have great resources where you live. As far as a second opinion, until they have the entire lesion, it is hard to make absolute plans. Your lesion might be upgraded depending upon what they learn post surgery. There is also the chance that your flu may have left you with some lingering malaise and even chest wall pain that is wholly unrelated to your tumor. If what you are experiencing is acute, think about an urgent care visit or consulting your PCP.

  • EuroAmerican
    EuroAmerican Member Posts: 27
    edited January 2018

    Sorry that you are here. I had stage 1 colon cancer at young age. I am also high risk for breast cancer so I go to Dr. Marilyn Leitch, Director of UT Southwestern's Center for Breast Care in Dallas. She is an amazing doc and very caring. She noticed a bad looking mole during my visit. And it ended up being stage 0 Melanoma. When I was diagnosed with colon cancer I had 2nd opinion at UT Southwestern Dallas. I have been very happy with their care. The next place I would go is MD. Anderson in Houston. Good luck

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