My groove grew legs and ran...

DuubleTruuble · January 2018

I will keep it short and sweet. I am hung up on my new body from DM (12/12/17) and the pain doesn't help in this department either. Since I had problems with one of my scars healing right, I will have extensive scarring. Everything is still healing slowly, but I feel about as sexy as a...Meanwhile, my husband is as randy as always, which I still love. He is still as eager to play with, what I lovingly call my nublets, as he was before the surgery. How do I get past this "hump" and get my groove back?

Spookiesmom · January 2018

There is a thread called I Want My Mojo Back. They may have ideas to help there. Do a search for it.

beach2beach · January 2018

Focus on that he sees you the same, if not better than before. I know it may sound silly, but it means he loves you for you. Scars and all. I have a hard time looking at myself, scars, foobs that have ridges..i dont know how my bf finds me still attractive but he does, and loves them too. I try to focus on that and roll with it. Sometimes it gets the better of me but he's pretty good at knowing what to say.

Moderators · January 2018

Hi DuubleTruuble-

Most of our members can certainly relate! The thread Spookiesmom mentioned can be found here, you might find it helpful: https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/150/topic....

And welcome to the community!

The Mods

DuubleTruuble · January 2018

Thank you very much! I will check it out. I am new here, so I appreciate you pointing me in the right direction!

My groove grew legs and ran...

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