Starting Chemo in Nov 2016

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  • BG46TN
    BG46TN Member Posts: 286
    edited May 2017

    Just checking in...its very quiet around here...I don't want anyone who didn't join the FB group to feel neglected, I try to pop in here every couple days...so please post if you have questions etc.

    I came back to work today after 4 weeks off....Im still uncomfortable, mostly from the expanders, which I'm guessing won't get much better huh? I can move my arms around much better each day...almost able to get over my head completely...

    What bothers me the most if having to sleep on my back, I am able to get on my right side if I place a bunch of pillows all over the place, but my left side still hurts too much to sleep that way (which is weird since the left was my non cancer side...) So I wake up a lot at night...which wasn't bad when I was on leave, since I could nap later on...now that I'm at work I can't do that lol

    How is everyone doing? Who is still doing chemo? radiation? I start my expander fills on Thursday, we are going to do 3 weeks of fills, then I have to stop to do radiation....and we will continue filling after that is done...it stinks but they don't want to put off the radiation for too long.. it will about about 11 weeks from the end of chemo to when I start radiation...Should finish in mid-end of July with radiation...there goes my summer ugh! I told my husband already I need to plan a vacation for August!!

    Check in, let me know how you are all doing!

  • Hopfull2
    Hopfull2 Member Posts: 418
    edited May 2017

    hi BG46TN, I'm 12 weeks PFC. My lashes are not completely back yet but starting to grow. I'm having surgery June 9th for prophylactic mastectomy on my left breast and reconstruction with expanders. I'm having skin grafting also so I'm not looking forward to this at all. I made scared. Had a mastectomy on my right breast back in August and I know I shouldn't feel as scared since I've gone through this already but I am. So the expanders hurt? Glad your recovering well. I just pray to not ever have to go through this again. It's like a huge black cloud hanging over me.

    Hope everyone is doing we

  • BG46TN
    BG46TN Member Posts: 286
    edited May 2017

    Hopful2 the expanders hurt the most the first 2 weeks after surgery, not they are just very uncomfortable, it feelsl like they are under your arm...at some points during the day I dont notice them, and at others they bug the crap out of me lol You are aware of them at all times...I can't sleep on my sides because they hurt...sorry to share bad news...but they suck LOL

    ASK for muscle relaxers after your surgery!! they were the best at making the expanders feel better, esp when I wanted to sleep..

    Good Luck! I start getting mine filled on Thursday

  • Hanging_in_there
    Hanging_in_there Member Posts: 226
    edited May 2017

    Hi Bg46tn,

    I am 3 weeks post surgery and I have to sleep on my back too. I cannot sleep on my back if I don't put a pillow under my knees. I'm not sure if you have tried it. I am worse off this week than last week because I drove at the end of last week. I had to give up exercises because it was so painful. And I'm back on narcotics, but I am NOT driving anymore.

    Today I will start exercises again. I still have lots of pain, but I had all my nodes removed in addition to my breast. No expanders, can't imagine the pain of that too. I think I joined the Dec Chemo group, but I'm in facebook group. My first chemo was 11/28/2016.

  • BellasMomToo
    BellasMomToo Member Posts: 305
    edited May 2017

    Just checking in...I'm 14 weeks PFC and 8 weeks post-UMX. I'm feeling pretty good. Still continuing with Herceptin every 3 weeks. The hair on my head is growing slowly, but at least it is growing. My eyelashes are still pretty bare. My eyebrows are half back. The hair on my legs seems to be growing the fastest.

    When I had my pre-surgery EKG in March, the EKG was abnormal. Just had another EKG and it is still abnormal. So I have to meet with a cardiologist. I never had an EKG (pre-BC) before so I don't know if I've always had this abnormality or if it is related to chemo. My echo-cardiograms (last one was early March) have all been normal. Before I started chemo, I used to run/jog 13 miles a week w/o any problems. I've started jogging/running again, but only about 4 miles a week. I guess I should take it easy until I meet with a cardiologist.

  • Chemist
    Chemist Member Posts: 33
    edited September 2017

    Just a small, weird, good thing to share. Ever since I started my regimen of treatments a year ago, I no longer experience headaches or problems with motion sickness. I used to have 1-2 headaches a week, and BIG problems with motion sickness in cars, planes, etc. My guess is that chemo is the most likely cause, though I can't rule out anesthesia or other drugs used in the surgeries. Anyway, I really hope that this particular side effect of breast cancer treatment lasts!

  • aterry
    aterry Member Posts: 290
    edited October 2017

    Hello to the group. I haven't posted for a long time. No one reason. I'm 7 months PFC. 3 months post radiation. In general I'm doing OK. My doctors are positive. Like many of you, I do have some continuing side effects. I still have very signifiant chemo brain. I had shingles. I've developed cataracts. I've developed a small heart murmur that my oncologist says is not worrisome. My hair is back. Most of my nails are back. The numbness in my fingers and toes is about 50% recovered.

    Chemist, I was amused to read that you had at least one positive change. Getting rid of motion sickness and headaches is a small but real compensation. In my case I've lost part of my sweet tooth. I still like moderately sweet things but if something is very sugary I can't eat it. Since sugar is very bad for those of us with a cancer history this is one helpful thing.

    I've caught up with many of your posts. You are all amazing.



  • aterry
    aterry Member Posts: 290
    edited November 2017

    I'm thinking of all the Nov 2016 ladies as we approach and pass our 1 year anniversaries. My anniversary of starting chemo was Nov 9th. I didn't celebrate but I reflected on all that has happened. I started the Tapimmune clinical trial 2 1/2 weeks ago. I'm in the cytoxan arm of the study so I did one infusion at 1/2 dose. I got a few of the old side effects from that but nothing compared to what we all went through. The injection for the trial was completely uneventful. Just a tiny sting, a tiny red dot and nothing else. I still have chemo brain and saw a neurologist for testing. My deficits are in attention and working memory. She gave me a list of games to do on the Lumosity site. We'll see if that helps. I developed cataracts and even with a new, very strong prescription my vision is not good. I'll be planning a surgery for that soon. Other side effects are gone or do not limit my life.

  • Hopfull2
    Hopfull2 Member Posts: 418
    edited November 2017

    I thought if my year as well. I believe I started in November 12th. I just can't believe it's been one year. Isoon in January I will finish up my reconstruction. Stay strong ladies. Hug

  • BellasMomToo
    BellasMomToo Member Posts: 305
    edited November 2017

    I started chemo on Nov. 2nd. At that time it felt as if treatment will never end. I finished Herceptin on Oct 20. and had my port removed one week ago. I had a UMX w/o recon back in March so I am basically done. But I have a bone scan scheduled for early-Dec so I don't feel done yet. (Hopefully nothing will be found with the bone scan. I've had occasional bone pain so my MO scheduled the scan. I put it off until after T-day in case I get bad news.)

    Glad to see some activity on this thread. I think most Nov 2016 chemo ladies went to FB.

  • aterry
    aterry Member Posts: 290
    edited January 2018

    I'm glad to see the updates and to know you are all making progress. You and the rest of the Nov '16 crew got me through the tough times. I know people going through other medical dramas and there don't seem to be support groups for them, at least not as good as these.

  • Pamela23
    Pamela23 Member Posts: 510
    edited November 2017

    Hi Lades,

    Yes BellasMom, most of us went to FB private page. I believe there are 50 of us on it and we have been posting about every other day, whether it's updates on treatments, questions, or just informative posts. It's really been my lifeline as has another forum on this sight. I encourage you to join if you're on FB. It's called Pink Sorelle.

    I had my 1 yr chemo anniversary on Nov 16. I still have not started tamoxifen which was prescribed in May but I spoke to my MO in May--at the time my estradiol count was 16 opposed to the 300s when I was menstruating. I felt I needed time to heal. I spoke to my surgeon this week and she said to get through the holidays and make sure I start in Jan which is my plan. I STILL don't have any taste, slight lymphedema in my arm is left but improves every month and I'm started producing my own vaginal moisture last month so I feel SOMETHING is happening beginning to get back to normal. I cold capped but through the months more hair mysteriously fell out and it's not until I look at pictures from the past 9 months that I see how much actually came out. I have about 30% of my old hair left mixed in with 70% of new 3" growth which looks crazy but I have a hat and a hairpiece so I go about my life without thinking of it unless I look in the mirror. It will come back and they say my taste should too-although it may take up to 2 yrs PFC. So all in all, I'm in such a better place energy wise and health wise than last year. Hopfull, I'm sorry you are still going procedures relating to this disease. I hope you are doing well. How is your hair after all of this?

  • aterry
    aterry Member Posts: 290
    edited January 2018

    Happy New Year to the Nov 16 crew. Thanks for the update, Pamela, and good luck when you start Tamoxifen. Please say hi to the ladies on FB. I avoid FB since I think Marc Zuckerberg is rich enough w/o me. LOL. I think my chemo brain may finally be improving. That's my good news. We'll see if that holds up or whether I'm just having a few good days of mental activity.

    A number of you have mentioned bone scans. That wasn't discussed at my treatment center, Dubin. (except the scans for bone density) What is the criteria for doing a scan?

    My hair is all back. Sort of normal, a tiny bit thicker. I'm keeping it very short because dh likes it better short.


  • aterry
    aterry Member Posts: 290
    edited June 2018

    This thread has been mostly quiet. I know lots of you moved to FB. I'm not comfortable with that service--I like it better here. As an update, I've had cataract surgery and the improvement in my vision seems to be helping my chemo brain issues. The chemo brain (or just plain brain damage) has been the most disruptive aspect of my side effects from chemo. Time will tell if my actual cognitive functioning improves but the physical manifestations have been reduced, maybe by 50%, and that is a relief. In a few days I'll try to drive. I haven't been able to drive since I started chemo.

  • aterry
    aterry Member Posts: 290
    edited November 2019

    Another year. I hope other November 2016 members are doing well and have had improvements and good news. I continue to have no evidence of disease and I'm in a clinical trial for an immunotherapy approach--the Marker trial. Thanks for all the wonderful posts and support during our difficult times.

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