Be proud!! Brag

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Mamatwoboys
Mamatwoboys Member Posts: 22

so I had the Why Bother post... after reading the comments it got me thinking. We don’t talk about our positives! Something we must learn as children “don’t brag”.

But why?? I had a terrible childhood, I survived. I’m proud of that.

Right now, I got up and made a Thanksgiving dinner, within 6 hours, Turkey and ham and all! I’m proud

One day I WILL say “I am a breast cancer survivor!!” And be proud.

What are you proud of?? Whether you were just able to get dressed today, or if you just finished building a house by hand, what are you proud of?

Doesn’t have to be cancer related.... we are more SO MUCH MORE than cancer.

SO WHAT ARE YOU PROUD OF? Brag!!

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  • josgirl
    josgirl Member Posts: 231
    edited November 2017

    I love this idea! I am proud to work full time (promoted too 6 months ago) and take my almost 6-year old daughter to over 6 weekly activities and not look sick. I feel it on the inside but to everyone else I just seem an overworked mom. And I am so thankful to be here a year after my brain surgery. I didn't do much in that year that I wouldn't have in a regular year but just doing 'normal' is braggable!!


  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited November 2017

    Wonderful idea! I am proud of the fact that I am always learning and moving forward. I have learned to knit (formerly a nålbinder), continue to grow and refine my professional practice (teacher) and spend very little time on nostalgia and the "good old days". Nothing happens in the past, so I welcome the now and the future. I hope to remain vibrant, vital and happy as long as I can.

    You can also check out this thread:

    https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/8/topics/...


  • Mamatwoboys
    Mamatwoboys Member Posts: 22
    edited November 2017

    josgirl ... yes I have to agree, even being “normal” is very braggable!!! Congrats on the promotion too!! Very cool!!

    exbrnxgrl ... being a teacher is braggable! I am actually trying to learn to knit. Not an easy task. Good for you!

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited November 2017

    I am proud to say I began a walking routine this summer which helped me lose 17 pounds.

    Arimidex causes all of my joints to ache as well as make my feet very, very sore. I have dealt with this pain since late 2011 when I started the meds. It made me not want to be as physically active as before bc. After losing weight during chemo and radiation in 2011, I steadily gained weight in the years since.

    A variety of factors came in to play this summer, including a gentle nudge from my nurse practitioner, and I began to walk 45 - 60 minutes at a time. I decided on walking 20 days every month. I put it first on my list and everything else I needed or wanted to do had to come after, house cleaning, grocery shopping, yard work, etc.

    I had no weight loss goal in mind other than a vague idea of a couple pounds and to make sure I stopped gaining. To my surprise, I have dropped two pants sizes.

    My body aches, and I have to live above that pain. My body on the other hand feels better because I do not feel bloated. I am tired, but because it is from physical exercise, it feels good. I allow all these different feelings to exist together.

    I'm almost back to the weight I was before bc. I still have pizza, chips or dessert if I want but cut back the amounts of food I eat. I ate lots of delicious food over Thanksgiving with no guilt. I may try to lose a few more lbs in the spring and for now I will be happy to maintain the weight loss thru winter and the holidays. And of course keep up the walking routine. I am on the treadmill as Iype on my ipad!

    The key for me was to put the exercse first.

  • minxie
    minxie Member Posts: 484
    edited November 2017

    I am proud of myself for dealing with this Stage 4 diagnosis as well as I have. When I was first diagnosed as Stage 2a, I was constantly worried, started having panic attacks, developed PTSD and was committed after a nervous breakdown. Now that my greatest fear has come true, I accept it and plan to live the best life I can.

  • Pei128
    Pei128 Member Posts: 31
    edited November 2017

    I'm proud that as a main full time caregiver, my mom has gotten better. Her latest tumour markers score is now 39.3 from 333 when it first started. She only had gone through 1 Herceptin treatment before taking the tumour marker test. I told myself that in the future, I could consider a second career in taking care of a cancer and diabetic patient.

  • Kandy
    Kandy Member Posts: 1,461
    edited November 2017

    I'm proud that I raised 2 kids to be very responsible, respectable adults that never got into drugs or trouble with the law. I'm most proud that I've raised my 3rd child who has Down syndrome to be very accepted in a normal world. She works at a hair salon and is most loved by our community. I must have done something right for all 3 kids to do so well, or maybe it was just luck or God that had his hand in it. Whatever the reason I'm most proud of all of them

  • 7of9
    7of9 Member Posts: 833
    edited December 2017

    I am proud to talk about this disease when all I really want to do is forget I ever had it. I'm proud to stand (mostly) naked in front of my husband even after 4 surgeries. I'm proud that my son has friends and is thriving in 3rd grade despite his sometimes neurotic mother. I'm proud I worked so hard in my 20s and 30s and now that my husband is doing well I can somewhat comfortably blow half my retirement on trips and remodeling (since I figured my odds of being here in my 60s are about that). I'm proud that I've stayed active and taken as much care of myself as I can so if I am here in my 60s I should hopefully be able to walk a dog or better yet ride a horse!

  • Iwillwinthisbattle
    Iwillwinthisbattle Member Posts: 1,076
    edited December 2017

    I love your outlook!! Cheers to you!!

  • Mamatwoboys
    Mamatwoboys Member Posts: 22
    edited December 2017

    y’all are awesome!! Love seeing the positive and happiness in the posts.

    That’s what we need to remember and what we live for! Hugs to all y’all

  • SusanR
    SusanR Member Posts: 598
    edited December 2017

    I love this topic!!  I am having a hard time actually writing about something and bragging.  It's difficult for me, but I'll get there and soon I'll post about something, but for now I absolutely love reading all of the positive posts!  You all rock!


  • Blueshine
    Blueshine Member Posts: 237
    edited December 2017

    All my life was full with new beginnings. My husband, me and my kids had to start 3 times from Ziro, three different countries and different language. We worked hard and we did it. I am proud of my self, but without my dear husband would be a lot harder. And of course without God we would be nowhere. Now , dealing with breast cancer I rely completely on Gods mercy and get all my strength from him.

    I am proud of you, girls. Even each of you going through hard times you find love to give !

  • pajim
    pajim Member Posts: 2,785
    edited December 2017

    If we're bragging. . .

    I'm proud that I managed 40 holes of golf today. I shot 98 and 93. Woo! It's the third day of our golf vacation. I've been wearing two gloves to handle the HFS from Xeloda (so far so good).

    Of course I'm totally tired now, but so is the rest of the group.

  • Mamatwoboys
    Mamatwoboys Member Posts: 22
    edited December 2017

    love that we can find the little things to be proud of. Sometimes it’s just getting out of bed. Other times it’s a round of golf!! Being a teacher! Being happy! (((Hugs)))

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