Has anyone gone to an A/small B cup size with DIEP?
Hi! Most of the DIEP pictures I've seen are a little bit larger, and I wanted to hear from anyone that has gone very small with a DIEP reconstruction. I'm planning to have a double mastectomy.
How close did it come to your looking like your old breasts? Were there any shape problems, like looking wide but still flat or anything? Did you have any trouble getting a surgeon to go really small?
I had a breast reduction several years ago, and have loved my tiny boobs ever since. I've gained a lot of weight recently, so I'd be trying to go for an A cup compared to my old rib cage size, which I'm worried would be harder to convince them to do. Otherwise,when I'm back at my normal weight, there's no way I'd be an A again. I'm going to try to lose weight before the surgery if I'm able, though.
I had a lot of trouble finding a surgeon that works go that small for a reduction (though reconstruction is a whole different ball game), and I'm really worried that'll be an issue again. I've tried to get me to have a Body Dysmorphic Disorder test, and questioned my gender identity. Really frustrating. I also adored the size, but found the shape a little boxy and wide, which I'm worried that works happen again. I like the look of implants for that, but keep reading over and over about how a lot of women have pain and complications for years afterwards. Plus, free tummy tuck. Might as well get something out of this whole cancer business
Thanks!
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Good morning! I am one who "went small" with my DIEP, much (I think) to my doctor's chagrin. 😉 I am a B cup and very happy with my size. I had UMX (left breast) and wanted to match my remaining right breast. Apparently I had enough belly fat I could have been a D, and my surgeon really encouraged me to consider going bigger but I declined and he supported me fully. For the most part my left breast looks strikingly similar to my right (and in clothes you can't tell the difference). I can go bras-less and except for the perky nipple on the right, there's not much difference. At first my left breast sat high and round on my chest and looked sort of like an implant; over the last year it's fallen and settled and looks much more normal. I do have a small "square-ish" area on the inside, towards my sternum, which is the lasting (but slowly resolving) result of an infection.
I really couldn't be happier with my results, especially my size. Good luck!
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there are a couple things to consider when going with natural tissue reconstruction when it comes to size:
1) they tend to go a little bigger with stage 1 then reduce if needed in stage 2. Why? The fat from the flap "takes" better than fat from grafting. Fat from grafting is susceptible to being reabsorbed. Additionally some of the flap tissue may become necrotic and that small section require removal if it can't be broken up in stage 2 which would result in loss of volume. So better success rate and patient satisfaction when all is said & done this way. 3 months minimum between the 2 stages.
2) the fat they use to make your new breast mounds has a memory. It will gain and lose volume at the same rate as it did in the old location. So if you've put on some weight and do the flap surgery then lose weight your breasts will lose accordingly. If going with DIEP and your tummy is where you normally gain/lose first, then your new breast mounds will gain/lose first. On the flip side, if you tended to gain/lose first in any area other than your tummy then your breasts would experience minimal impact. You need to plan for this if you're planning to lose/gain weight moving forward. A B or C cup after surgery could become an A or B cup after weight loss and be perfect for you. Where if you went with A or B cup to start you could end up pretty well flat or an A cup after weight loss.
When you meet with your flap surgeon be very upfront about what you want as your end result. Make sure you tell them if you're still losing weight/planning to lose weight after the surgery so they can plan accordingly.
On surgeon selection-finding one that listens is really important. Finding one that takes your future plans concerning your body into account from the start is really important. And making sure you've looked at their before/after pics and researched them thoroughly and would be very happy to look like those pics after and are satisfied with the research results are all very important. The group that I know does all this is The Center for Breast Restoration Surgery in New Orleans. If you don't live there it's no problem. Women from all over the world (literally) travel to them for their flap recon. They even correct botched recons from other docs. Their results are amazing, they listen, they plan ahead based on your plans, they have the lowest flap failure rate (1% vs 10% national average) and a super low infection rate (2%). They even help with travel discounts through various partnerships. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have about them - I'm headed back there for my stage 2 in Nov. Here's a link to their site. They have lots of before and after pics on their site too that include women of all shapes and sizes.
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not trying to scare you, but the tummy tuck leaves a brutal scar. Literally looks like someone took a dull chainsaw across my belly.
My surgeon told me I’d end up with bigger boobs than the expanders I was wearing... probably a C cup? And I ended up with A cup frankenboobs. Also, the tummy tuck raises your pubic hairline by a couple of inches. My physical therapist said she has clients that have hair from hip to hip as well. Yuck!
Also, it will take 3 -5 months for your wounds to heal completely.
I have faith that my surgeon will fix me up nicely after a few more surgeries. Still have to reconstruct my nipples.
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